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Who will take me to the club ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I volunteered with no strings attached as you keep putting it on your profile! Never replied lol "
Not appropriate to talk about private messages in open forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I volunteered with no strings attached as you keep putting it on your profile! Never replied lol
Not appropriate to talk about private messages in open forums "
There was someone else who put something similar as well think is a regular occurance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well I volunteered with no strings attached as you keep putting it on your profile! Never replied lol
Not appropriate to talk about private messages in open forums
There was someone else who put something similar as well think is a regular occurance "
It was in this thread I just don't think it's appropriate to discuss people's personal choices in an open forum, if the lady didn't reply, I take it she didn't want to go with the poster and should be left there |
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"Could any of the people that have verified you previously at Jaydees go with you? "
Well they didn't want to the last time she asked so she had to ask again. I am assuming as the thread title says "the" club she has one in mind, Jaydees? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was being rather tongue in cheek
I'm not a free taxi
Seems to be a regular occurrence on here that ladies ask for people to take them, not saying the OP is not genuine, but without naming and shaming there are plenty of ladies on here with a reputation of getting a free taxi, free drinks etc when they have no interest in the person who has taken them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was being rather tongue in cheek
I'm not a free taxi
Seems to be a regular occurrence on here that ladies ask for people to take them, not saying the OP is not genuine, but without naming and shaming there are plenty of ladies on here with a reputation of getting a free taxi, free drinks etc when they have no interest in the person who has taken them"
Yeah but just because they asked for a lift doesn't mean they want a shag. What's the expectation of receiving a fuck just because you have her a lift about?
Could be just two mates dropping each other off and chilling in the club. No sexual interest whatsoever but just belping each other out. Not everything has to be sexual you know.
....or it could be just me. I view things differently.
Yeah, i may be a bit weird for some.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was being rather tongue in cheek
I'm not a free taxi
Seems to be a regular occurrence on here that ladies ask for people to take them, not saying the OP is not genuine, but without naming and shaming there are plenty of ladies on here with a reputation of getting a free taxi, free drinks etc when they have no interest in the person who has taken them"
So if they do put out the taxi is no longer free?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I was being rather tongue in cheek
I'm not a free taxi
Seems to be a regular occurrence on here that ladies ask for people to take them, not saying the OP is not genuine, but without naming and shaming there are plenty of ladies on here with a reputation of getting a free taxi, free drinks etc when they have no interest in the person who has taken them
Yeah but just because they asked for a lift doesn't mean they want a shag. What's the expectation of receiving a fuck just because you have her a lift about?
Could be just two mates dropping each other off and chilling in the club. No sexual interest whatsoever but just belping each other out. Not everything has to be sexual you know.
....or it could be just me. I view things differently.
Yeah, i may be a bit weird for some.
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No you are right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's not what I said or meant at all
I'm happy to take a genuine lady to a club and drive her there, Just so someone holds my hand nothing more, I expected to be jumped on but you misinterpret so I will tell you a true story
A lady sends me a message saying she would like to meet me Saturday night, I say okay I will see you there for a chat, she replies no if you want to meet me you have to pick me up! I explain I maybe actually not be driving so I may not be able to pick her up, she replays oh you don't want to make the effort then!
I explain this to a regular at Jaydees who I am friends with and she explains that the lady in question is known to use people for lifts then just leave them when they get to the club.
So the point I was making is that I would have liked someone to go with just to hold my hand that's all, I'm going for the social side to see what it's all about and I'm nervous, people who know me, know I'm not pushy at all
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's not what I said or meant at all
I'm happy to take a genuine lady to a club and drive her there, Just so someone holds my hand nothing more, I expected to be jumped on but you misinterpret so I will tell you a true story
A lady sends me a message saying she would like to meet me Saturday night, I say okay I will see you there for a chat, she replies no if you want to meet me you have to pick me up! I explain I maybe actually not be driving so I may not be able to pick her up, she replays oh you don't want to make the effort then!
I explain this to a regular at Jaydees who I am friends with and she explains that the lady in question is known to use people for lifts then just leave them when they get to the club.
So the point I was making is that I would have liked someone to go with just to hold my hand that's all, I'm going for the social side to see what it's all about and I'm nervous, people who know me, know I'm not pushy at all
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Wasn't me lol 
Btw I may be going now
P.s. Who was it I tell you if it's true |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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I offen ask for lifts to clubs if people are passing me anyway, I offer petrol and sometimes it helps them know someone to chat to in there, and it's nice to meet new people even if I'm not looking to play with them.
I often go to clubs and socialise, if I meet the right people in the right situation I may play but it's not essential to me enjoying the night.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I offen ask for lifts to clubs if people are passing me anyway, I offer petrol and sometimes it helps them know someone to chat to in there, and it's nice to meet new people even if I'm not looking to play with them.
I often go to clubs and socialise, if I meet the right people in the right situation I may play but it's not essential to me enjoying the night.
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And that's how it should be, but my experience so far of being asked for a lift differs somewhat! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys, come on. You have a car, she doesn't. You will use the same quantity of petrol if she is in the car with you, plus you will pay less for your club entry, plus you will have company on the way there. WHAT DO YOU LOSE?! OK, she walks off when you get there - will it stop you enjoying yourself? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, come on. You have a car, she doesn't. You will use the same quantity of petrol if she is in the car with you, plus you will pay less for your club entry, plus you will have company on the way there. WHAT DO YOU LOSE?! OK, she walks off when you get there - will it stop you enjoying yourself?"
When a lady says that picking her up driving her there and taking her home is a prerequisite of meeting her and if you can't do that then your obviously not interested coupled with the fact if I did pick her up it's an extra 90 miles lol xx
More than happy to give anyone I lift with no catches if it's not to far out if my way xx |
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hey im looking for somebody who can take me there its true but i want somebody with who i can have fun together .... so i dont walk away ....i stay all night with guy with who i come to the club ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" I explain this to a regular at Jaydees who I am friends with and she explains that the lady in question is known to use people for lifts then just leave them when they get to the club.
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So because this woman gets a lift to a club she's supposed to stay with the person? Sorry but doesn't work like that, if they had agreed to go to a club, as singles, then rightly, she can choose who to play with, she doesn't have to stay or play with the person she came with |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, come on. You have a car, she doesn't. You will use the same quantity of petrol if she is in the car with you, plus you will pay less for your club entry, plus you will have company on the way there. WHAT DO YOU LOSE?! OK, she walks off when you get there - will it stop you enjoying yourself?
When a lady says that picking her up driving her there and taking her home is a prerequisite of meeting her and if you can't do that then your obviously not interested coupled with the fact if I did pick her up it's an extra 90 miles lol xx
More than happy to give anyone I lift with no catches if it's not to far out if my way xx"
so what you're saying is that if it was a long drive there and back you'd expect a shag? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a member of a stamp collectors club - it would be a pleasure to take you - bring your own stamps though (and squash - biscuits are provide though) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, come on. You have a car, she doesn't. You will use the same quantity of petrol if she is in the car with you, plus you will pay less for your club entry, plus you will have company on the way there. WHAT DO YOU LOSE?! OK, she walks off when you get there - will it stop you enjoying yourself?
When a lady says that picking her up driving her there and taking her home is a prerequisite of meeting her and if you can't do that then your obviously not interested coupled with the fact if I did pick her up it's an extra 90 miles lol xx
More than happy to give anyone I lift with no catches if it's not to far out if my way xx
so what you're saying is that if it was a long drive there and back you'd expect a shag?"
Blimey you do make an attempt to twist my words don't you? And I'm not sure your getting the point, that being she says she wants to meet me but only if I pick her up and take her to the club, lost interest when I said I wouldn't, simple and the point was I wanted someone to go with me on my first time and look after me so I've kept looking and now found someone who has the maturity to see I needed looking after and because of that I'm happy to drive her, it's about give and take, I'm not looking to play there I'm going for the social aspect so why would I drive someone who is known not to look after the person they've gone with? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, come on. You have a car, she doesn't. You will use the same quantity of petrol if she is in the car with you, plus you will pay less for your club entry, plus you will have company on the way there. WHAT DO YOU LOSE?! OK, she walks off when you get there - will it stop you enjoying yourself?
When a lady says that picking her up driving her there and taking her home is a prerequisite of meeting her and if you can't do that then your obviously not interested coupled with the fact if I did pick her up it's an extra 90 miles lol xx
More than happy to give anyone I lift with no catches if it's not to far out if my way xx
so what you're saying is that if it was a long drive there and back you'd expect a shag?
Blimey you do make an attempt to twist my words don't you? And I'm not sure your getting the point, that being she says she wants to meet me but only if I pick her up and take her to the club, lost interest when I said I wouldn't, simple and the point was I wanted someone to go with me on my first time and look after me so I've kept looking and now found someone who has the maturity to see I needed looking after and because of that I'm happy to drive her, it's about give and take, I'm not looking to play there I'm going for the social aspect so why would I drive someone who is known not to look after the person they've gone with?"
you don't need looking after, you're a grown man, if you can walk into a pub on you're own then you can walk into a club on you're own. I did and no it's easier for the opposite sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, come on. You have a car, she doesn't. You will use the same quantity of petrol if she is in the car with you, plus you will pay less for your club entry, plus you will have company on the way there. WHAT DO YOU LOSE?! OK, she walks off when you get there - will it stop you enjoying yourself?
When a lady says that picking her up driving her there and taking her home is a prerequisite of meeting her and if you can't do that then your obviously not interested coupled with the fact if I did pick her up it's an extra 90 miles lol xx
More than happy to give anyone I lift with no catches if it's not to far out if my way xx
so what you're saying is that if it was a long drive there and back you'd expect a shag?
Blimey you do make an attempt to twist my words don't you? And I'm not sure your getting the point, that being she says she wants to meet me but only if I pick her up and take her to the club, lost interest when I said I wouldn't, simple and the point was I wanted someone to go with me on my first time and look after me so I've kept looking and now found someone who has the maturity to see I needed looking after and because of that I'm happy to drive her, it's about give and take, I'm not looking to play there I'm going for the social aspect so why would I drive someone who is known not to look after the person they've gone with?
you don't need looking after, you're a grown man, if you can walk into a pub on you're own then you can walk into a club on you're own. I did and no it's easier for the opposite sex"
Yes your right I'm a grown man after all yesterday I gave a speech at a conference in Jordan in front of dignitaries etc, so I should buck up perhaps! It's a new thing so of course I'm a little nervous, I guess you got my other points now? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys, come on. You have a car, she doesn't. You will use the same quantity of petrol if she is in the car with you, plus you will pay less for your club entry, plus you will have company on the way there. WHAT DO YOU LOSE?! OK, she walks off when you get there - will it stop you enjoying yourself?"
Well what happens if once they've buggered off on their own you meet somone who you want to spend more time with ie go back to theirs what do you do with the person who used you as a free taxi? Do you have to drive them all the way home or is it fine to ditch them like they ditched you.
Or even if you get bored and want to leave early? |
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"Guys, come on. You have a car, she doesn't. You will use the same quantity of petrol if she is in the car with you, plus you will pay less for your club entry, plus you will have company on the way there. WHAT DO YOU LOSE?! OK, she walks off when you get there - will it stop you enjoying yourself?
Well what happens if once they've buggered off on their own you meet somone who you want to spend more time with ie go back to theirs what do you do with the person who used you as a free taxi? Do you have to drive them all the way home or is it fine to ditch them like they ditched you.
Or even if you get bored and want to leave early?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Do all you ppl tell your kids never to accept a lift from a stranger?? Maybe take a leaf out your own book and don't take so many risks just for a free taxi!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do all you ppl tell your kids never to accept a lift from a stranger?? Maybe take a leaf out your own book and don't take so many risks just for a free taxi!! "
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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago
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Well what happens if once they've buggered off on their own you meet somone who you want to spend more time with ie go back to theirs what do you do with the person who used you as a free taxi? Do you have to drive them all the way home or is it fine to ditch them like they ditched you.
Or even if you get bored and want to leave early?"
I always try and say what time I expect to want to arrive and depart from the the club so there`s less chance for mis-understandings. But there is always the problem if, for example, one of you are ill of have a home emergency and need to leave the club early. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do all you ppl tell your kids never to accept a lift from a stranger?? Maybe take a leaf out your own book and don't take so many risks just for a free taxi!! "
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