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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been asked by a nice submissive female to be her dom
i have never done this before.
i would like genuine ideas and suggestions on how being a dom works,
again, only genuine answers please |
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Talk to your friend and asks what she expects from a Dom.
Many new Dom/mes make the mistake of thinking all that it takes is shouting, calling others names and dishing out a beating. It is a far reality from that.
You need to talk, talk and talk some more. It takes a lot to be someones Dominant, and also to submit to someone. Just because she likes being told what to do in bed does not make her a submissive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree with redangel. To be honest you won't really find the answers you want on here. Either you are Dominant or your not, it really is that simple. I would suggest you ask yourself that question because if you get it wrong then you could be heading into a world of issues. As redangel said, ask her what she wants from it, just a bit of play or something more serious? Good luck and dont read that god awful 50 shades book looking for tips. Lol |
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