We treat going to a club like a night out with possible bonuses. Sometimes we just use the hot tub, play with each other and go home, other times we have a meet set up or make friends there and play together.
Go with no expectations, don’t have too much to drink and enjoy the experience. Talk to people, without expecting sex and you will do just fine.
If you do go along and you don’t like it, you can always leave again.
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We do exactly the same.
We treat it as a fun date night, surrounded by similarly minded people, and wear something that’s just a little too hot for a vanilla bar.
If we find someone to play with it’s a bonus.
Otherwise we just enjoy our date night and have our own private fun.
Either way, it’s a wonderful thing to share with the person you love |
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