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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
How worthy I am is not something for me to decide necessarily - I leave others to decide that about me for themselves
How worthy I feel varies - I know I'm a decent bloke who tries to be respectful and considerate to others, even if I sometimes fail, but generally my self-worth is intact |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or how worthy do you feel?
They can be two very different things.
My worth came from my job but being off sick for so long has changed that. "
I hope you find another source of worthiness boost asap.. and get well x
I feel I might just ramble if I attempt answering your questions now. Will give it a think when not tired.. bottom line for me is worth is an inner thing and I dont want it to be something reliant on others or being wobbled by absence of certain actions/words/things not in my control.. shit I'm rambling. I stop it there.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just accept I am and live my life the best way I can
Others decide my worth..."
Do they really? I mean they can decide how much they need you or find you useful or productive to the world to them specifically. Is it worthiness though.. and why would we hand its judgement to others who are as fragile and in some ways broken humans as we are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly have no idea, I'm not sure how to judge it either.
I know there are people in my life who love me for who I am so to them I'm worthy and that's all that matters.
In a societal sense I'm not so sure, I try to be a good person and do my bit but I'm nothing special, I don't bring anything extraordinary to those I'm not close to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to think I’m worthy and now don’t base my sense of self worth on the opinion of others to validate it. I know what I’m worth, and strive to do all I can not to allow myself to be made to feel worthless in any way again xx |
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