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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have been chatting with a lady on and off since Christmas and we have met a few times.
It's always just been a friendship and nothing sexual. I enjoy her company and I don't know what she sees in boring me but we get on well.
Tonight she text and it turned a bit sexual. Now she is asking me if I would like to visit her at her house to "chill and watch a movie" I think this is code for sex.
I don't want to go down that road because when we first started chatting she told me that she was disappointed with her exs because they were not big enough.
She then told me that she was "very particular about size" and that her next partner "better be big"
I fancy her a lot but I'm not vwe so I would only be another disappointment for her and I don't want to do that.
What can I say?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Find out if its definitely only a movie shes after, if she says theres a possibility of more tell her that her previous comments about vwe men have you a little worried and you dont want to disappoint. X
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
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"Find out if its definitely only a movie shes after, if she says theres a possibility of more tell her that her previous comments about vwe men have you a little worried and you dont want to disappoint. X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck her anyway
Its not your cock thats small, its her fanny thats big
Remember that "
Are you still hung up on that? Look we talked about it, I thought you were OK, you said you'd gone to the clinic and booked an appointment for surgery, and was going to change your username to BigBoy, or Trunkasorus or something like that
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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago
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"I have been chatting with a lady on and off since Christmas and we have met a few times.
It's always just been a friendship and nothing sexual. I enjoy her company and I don't know what she sees in boring me but we get on well. Well fella stay friends.if you go forth and the Lady rejects you because your cock ain't big enough I mean come on if that is what lady seek your better of being in that situation..be friends will mean more too the lady specially a shoulder too cry on when man big cock cheats...friends ...on the flip side let her find a guy big cock lady wont like it can be unpleasant for her....
Tonight she text and it turned a bit sexual. Now she is asking me if I would like to visit her at her house to "chill and watch a movie" I think this is code for sex.
I don't want to go down that road because when we first started chatting she told me that she was disappointed with her exs because they were not big enough.
She then told me that she was "very particular about size" and that her next partner "better be big"
I fancy her a lot but I'm not vwe so I would only be another disappointment for her and I don't want to do that.
What can I say?
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"If she is so particular about size then i am surprised she has not asked for a cock pic.
We've hardly talked about sex before "
But she has talked about her ex partners cock size. Does not sound good to me. |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"If she is so particular about size then i am surprised she has not asked for a cock pic.
We've hardly talked about sex before "
So, it seems to me that she must like you regardless of what you're packing..if she was THAT concerned, I'd have thought she would have asked you about your size by now!
Maybe just go with the flow..it does sound like she's after some action..if you think she'll be disappointed, just make sure your tongue is ready for action!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If she is so particular about size then i am surprised she has not asked for a cock pic.
We've hardly talked about sex before
So, it seems to me that she must like you regardless of what you're packing..if she was THAT concerned, I'd have thought she would have asked you about your size by now!
Maybe just go with the flow..it does sound like she's after some action..if you think she'll be disappointed, just make sure your tongue is ready for action!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP, it seems from your lead post here that your self-confidence is at a low ebb. The power balance in this new friendship seems very weighted in this lady's favor. The facts seem to be :-
* She's had you in the 'friends zone' up until now.
* You're not her type sexually.
* There's a pandemic and most on here are not meeting.
* Regardless if it's for sex or platonic company, she shows little respect for you or regard for your health or that of others by asking you to her's at this time.
Under such circumstances you still go around to her's just for a potential shag, with someone you seem to regard as out of your league...then there's a high chance this lifestyle is not going to be a good fit for you and could in all likelihood chew you up and spit you out with much less self worth than you convey now.
I wish you all the best OP and hope you start giving yourself the credit you deserve. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Caught in a landslide no escape from reality
Open your eeeeyyyes.. Look up to the skies and seeeeeeeeee.
"Keep yourself alive, yeah, keep yourself alive..""
Not sure that's how this one goes haha |
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"Caught in a landslide no escape from reality
Open your eeeeyyyes.. Look up to the skies and seeeeeeeeee.
"Keep yourself alive, yeah, keep yourself alive.."
Not sure that's how this one goes haha "
All you people keep yourself alive....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You only live once... go for it!
And if she thinks you aren’t big enough make sure you use your fingers, tongue and cock to make her cum more times than she ever imagined
That will make her think twice about importance of size
And if she still doesn’t like it, at least you had a great fuck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been chatting with a lady on and off since Christmas and we have met a few times.
It's always just been a friendship and nothing sexual. I enjoy her company and I don't know what she sees in boring me but we get on well.
Tonight she text and it turned a bit sexual. Now she is asking me if I would like to visit her at her house to "chill and watch a movie" I think this is code for sex.
I don't want to go down that road because when we first started chatting she told me that she was disappointed with her exs because they were not big enough.
She then told me that she was "very particular about size" and that her next partner "better be big"
I fancy her a lot but I'm not vwe so I would only be another disappointment for her and I don't want to do that.
What can I say?
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you can only work with what you've got, she likes you and you her thats what counts if your small one isn't good enough and its not the size and how you use it then I'm sure you'll be out the door as quick as a rancid kipper    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuck her anyway
Its not your cock thats small, its her fanny thats big
Remember that "
After this epic statement there won't be any threads "Does size really matter" for a while.
On topic..Go for it. See what happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, the meet wasn't through FAB as you've only been on 2 weeks.
Be careful you don't mix up swinging with online dating.
Nice shoes on your profile picks.
I do like men who have nice shoes. "
i have nice shoes but never lace ups |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, it seems from your lead post here that your self-confidence is at a low ebb. The power balance in this new friendship seems very weighted in this lady's favor. The facts seem to be :-
* She's had you in the 'friends zone' up until now.
* You're not her type sexually.
* There's a pandemic and most on here are not meeting.
* Regardless if it's for sex or platonic company, she shows little respect for you or regard for your health or that of others by asking you to her's at this time.
Under such circumstances you still go around to her's just for a potential shag, with someone you seem to regard as out of your league...then there's a high chance this lifestyle is not going to be a good fit for you and could in all likelihood chew you up and spit you out with much less self worth than you convey now.
I wish you all the best OP and hope you start giving yourself the credit you deserve."
Yeah some good points there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you not told her you cant go round her house to watch a movie because of social distancing and pulled her up on the fact she's not adhering to it?"
I didn't think about that. I won't be going anywhere until this is over though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Coffee is the code word for sex. Watch the movie, bring a massive dildo . You could please her and she could suck your tiny cock
Sorry just for fun. Your enjoy her company. It is what it is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fuck her anyway
Its not your cock thats small, its her fanny thats big
Remember that
After this epic statement there won't be any threads "Does size really matter" for a while.
On topic..Go for it. See what happens "
Size obviously does matter. I've noticed this a lot more since reading ladies profiles on here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So, the meet wasn't through FAB as you've only been on 2 weeks.
Be careful you don't mix up swinging with online dating.
Nice shoes on your profile picks.
I do like men who have nice shoes. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Coffee is the code word for sex. Watch the movie, bring a massive dildo . You could please her and she could suck your tiny cock
Sorry just for fun. Your enjoy her company. It is what it is. "
Hmm I guess I'm just not confident enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not told her you cant go round her house to watch a movie because of social distancing and pulled her up on the fact she's not adhering to it?"
I was thinking this too! |
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