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What gets you to reply to a message?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to take quite a bit of time write a tailored message to everyone I decided to try and get in touch with.
But after most of the messages were deleted without even being read, I thought “fuck that”, blocked them (just so that I don’t embrace myself by trying to message them again in a few months) and now I just send cock pics.
Since then I’ve never looked back.
#madeupstory
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to take quite a bit of time write a tailored message to everyone I decided to try and get in touch with.
But after most of the messages were deleted without even being read, I thought “fuck that”, blocked them (just so that I don’t embrace myself by trying to message them again in a few months) and now I just send cock pics.
Since then I’ve never looked back.
#madeupstory
Will
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Embarrass. Not embrace.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to take quite a bit of time write a tailored message to everyone I decided to try and get in touch with.
But after most of the messages were deleted without even being read, I thought “fuck that”, blocked them (just so that I don’t embrace myself by trying to message them again in a few months) and now I just send cock pics.
Since then I’ve never looked back.
#madeupstory
Will
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I tend to reply to most at some point if they are a bit more than *wuu2* because that's just how I am. I like ones that show they've considered me as a person, that make me laugh. Even a couple of sentences do it. I lose interest quickly though.  |
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People who’ve clearly read my profile and messaged something about it, doesn’t have to be a lot just something that shows we’ve similar interests. Or even just a how are you message if they’ve attached pictures and there profile has abit about it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always read a profile and only send a message if its appropriate as no point hoping if your not ticking the interests. I sometimes write nice comments on photos uploaded or if they have viewed me. I then go from there but I never pester  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to take quite a bit of time write a tailored message to everyone I decided to try and get in touch with.
But after most of the messages were deleted without even being read, I thought “fuck that”, blocked them (just so that I don’t embrace myself by trying to message them again in a few months) and now I just send cock pics.
Since then I’ve never looked back.
#madeupstory
Will
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I never got your cock "
Sorry. Failed!
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"People who’ve clearly read my profile and messaged something about it, doesn’t have to be a lot just something that shows we’ve similar interests. Or even just a how are you message if they’ve attached pictures and there profile has abit about it. "
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"I chat to a few here, can’t recall how our conversation started. We must have gained each other’s attention somehow.
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You won't chat to me because regardless of always being civil, respectful and polite I'm blocked |
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If it’s a straight forward - no thought given, I reply politely with ‘ no thank you’
If it’s sent with a degree of thought - I may chat
If it’s well composed, articulate and intelligent - I will definitely engage
Next step is the dreaded FP exchange which often kills it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they have read my profile and write properly I will be polite.
Sometimes a message just jumps out at me and engages me more than others.
If they send a dick pic then regardless of how nice the message is, it gets deleted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends for me.
If I have lot of messages, which is some times the case, I often don't see a message before FB removes it.
Often ill have a message asking me why I haven't read the first message which I haven't seen.
A message with a dick pic will be deleted straight off
If a profile is full of dick pics and nothing to tell me anything about the person I'll delete the message.
If the message makes me smile ill engage.
If its blatant 'wanna fuck' message. I'll delete.
If the person has things in their profile that I am clearly not into I don't reply..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whenever I get a message from a woman on any app it gets my attention because to get a message out of the blue is rare for me.
Usually I have to write a long well writen message in the hope of getting a reply and it usually leads to nothing.
Last night I had my first proper conversation on here and I thought it went well. At the end of the conversation I wished her good night and she wished me a good time on fab.
Today I looked at her profile again and she blocked me  I can't work out why she would do that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I chat to a few here, can’t recall how our conversation started. We must have gained each other’s attention somehow.
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A lovely pair of eyes and a smile
Oh and no fancy a fuck :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s the pictures that determine whether I reply or not, message could be anything as long as I find them attractive. "
As above but we do appreciate a well written message that does not sound like its been written by a chimp! |
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I would take the time to read and understand a profile and what the person/people were looking for and then if I felt myself a match I would write a message just for them.
I've always remained polite etc. but It never seems to work. ignored just never read at all.
makes you wonder why/what/how people even met.
I don't have clubs etc near to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s the pictures that determine whether I reply or not, message could be anything as long as I find them attractive.
As above but we do appreciate a well written message that does not sound like its been written by a chimp!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When it looks like an original message and not copy and pasted.
Key words, confidence without thinking or stating they are BDSM Masters lol
Face pics with first message and polite.
When they have read my profile and quoted bits really gets my attention x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"People who’ve clearly read my profile and messaged something about it, doesn’t have to be a lot just something that shows we’ve similar interests. Or even just a how are you message if they’ve attached pictures and there profile has abit about it. "
How are you with pic doesn't work at most of the times |
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My first step is if I think they're attractive - I won't generally engage if I don't want to get jiggy with them (forum conversations are the main exception to this)
Next step is to read their profile - any red flags in that and it's straight to the delete pile.
Lastly it's the message itself - again, any red flags and I press the delete button.
All the above is on the rare occasions that I actually look at the messages I've received - when I'm looking for someone new to meet (which hasn't happened for quite some time) I tend to go on the hunt myself |
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