Why can’t there be a filter “the idiots button”
So annoyed at some of these messages you get from guys who clearly have no respect for women.
Why do they feel that the have the right to send abuse just because you’re not interested.
It seriously puts me off this site sometimes 
Which is unfair as there are some decent guys on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because they were brought up with no respect, anyone like that really shouldn't be on this site because they just expect a meet from a message and get annoyed when it dont go their way x |
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"Revel in the knowledge that chances are they will do terrible on here with such a shitty attitude op"
They’ve got verified in 2 months twice, so clearly some women like it.
Just not my cup of tea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wished they’d stay away...my block list is forever growing.
Lol I’m having one of those overly emotional days today, excuse me 
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No need to be excused, you shouldn't have to keep blocking because someone cant get what they want with you. |
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"Just wished they’d stay away...my block list is forever growing.
Lol I’m having one of those overly emotional days today, excuse me
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It’s ok to be frustrated; that kind of shit is so needless.
Delete the messages, block the sender and don’t give them another thought is the best advice. The first two are easy, the third is tricky but can be done - the idiots don’t deserve any of your thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know everyone will tell you ‘it’s just words on a screen, just block and report them!’ But abuse is shitty. I’ve had some abuse I’ve received on fab reduce me to tears. And it was from well verified men that I had never spoken to before.
It’s it affecting you - take a wee break. These people (because I’m sure women, couples etc send abuse as well) are shitty. Put your filters up and make it so no one can message you for a wee bit.
Hope you’re okay! |
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"Revel in the knowledge that chances are they will do terrible on here with such a shitty attitude op
They’ve got verified in 2 months twice, so clearly some women like it.
Just not my cup of tea "
Well that is surprising. Well block them and if you feel it merits it, report the profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can’t there be a filter “the idiots button”
So annoyed at some of these messages you get from guys who clearly have no respect for women.
Why do they feel that the have the right to send abuse just because you’re not interested.
It seriously puts me off this site sometimes
Which is unfair as there are some decent guys on here.
Rant over ...thank you for taking time to reading me blabbering on "
thank you for sharing  |
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Ignore them. I appreciate that can be difficult especially when they’ve hit a nerve but they want you to react. You block them and delete the message so you’re a better person for it. Don’t descend to their level, you’re better than that. |
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"Revel in the knowledge that chances are they will do terrible on here with such a shitty attitude op
They’ve got verified in 2 months twice, so clearly some women like it.
Just not my cup of tea "
And I wouldn't trust the verifications they mean not a lot ? |
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"Just wished they’d stay away...my block list is forever growing.
Lol I’m having one of those overly emotional days today, excuse me
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No need to apologise. People should realise that they won't be everyone's cup of tea. Absolutely no need for abuse.
Hoping that other than the idiots you are well?  |
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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago
Paisley |
It’s funny how one minute they want to meet and as soon as you’ve turned them down the insults begin.
I know it’s nice to send a message declining their offer but sometimes it’s easier just to block. These people are strangers and you owe them nothing. They wouldn’t speak to you like that face to face so there’s no need to put up with it on here. |
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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago
huddersfield |
There are a Lot more no this site like this now sorry to say a no is a no that's people's choice just be respectful of that gays it not fair for the couple's and females on here to be nasty to them cos they have sed no don't take it personal |
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Big hugs for you if you need it.
No one should get abuse but unfortunately egos and rejections don't mix. Shitty people are just shitty people.
Keep positive keep the block list flowing until the right people come along
Dont let them win x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a real shame you have to deal with that type of behaviour. I don't think I could put up with it. Everyone I'm talking to right now is saying the same thing so it must be bad. Just remember that some of us are good guys! 
HAVE SOME RESPECT GUYS! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah there's always a minority that ruin things for the larger nicer, respectful majority..it's a sorry fact of life..there are a lot of great people on here. Hope you re ok..a rant is a good thing at times..clears the air and the feeling..have a wonderful day OP X  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can’t there be a filter “the idiots button”
So annoyed at some of these messages you get from guys who clearly have no respect for women.
Why do they feel that the have the right to send abuse just because you’re not interested.
It seriously puts me off this site sometimes
Which is unfair as there are some decent guys on here.
Rant over ...thank you for taking time to reading me blabbering on "
There will always be numpties in this world sweet dont let it get to you |
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Keyboard warriors. They systematically spoil the internet everywhere not just fab.
Sad-sacks who wouldn't do it to your face. I wouldn't let it bother you. Simply imagine them holed up in their yellowing, shit-stained underpants surrounded in their mire of pizza boxes and cans and you'll realise your glad they couldn't hide their true self and you had a lucky escape. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know what you mean, it’s really shitty to receive the abuse.
I had a different profile previously, which I deleted partly due to the abuse received from someone.
Some men turn into entitled arseholes if you have had few messages back and forth.
There is a difference between being pushy and just being rude and disrespectful. Everyone deserves respect whether Male or female.
I always wonder what these men would be like in person, just as pushy and rude? I’ll never find out
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can’t there be a filter “the idiots button”
So annoyed at some of these messages you get from guys who clearly have no respect for women.
Why do they feel that the have the right to send abuse just because you’re not interested.
It seriously puts me off this site sometimes
Which is unfair as there are some decent guys on here.
Rant over ...thank you for taking time to reading me blabbering on "
I respectfully like your towel picture. |
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"Why can’t there be a filter “the idiots button”
So annoyed at some of these messages you get from guys who clearly have no respect for women.
Why do they feel that the have the right to send abuse just because you’re not interested.
It seriously puts me off this site sometimes
Which is unfair as there are some decent guys on here.
Rant over ...thank you for taking time to reading me blabbering on
I respectfully like your towel picture. "
Thank you very much sam, I like that pic too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for your comforting words, it’s lovely how people you’ve never met can care to try and make you feel better 
Not dwelling on it anymore, I have blocked and let go
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I'm a white knight.......... youre gorgeous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why can’t there be a filter “the idiots button”
So annoyed at some of these messages you get from guys who clearly have no respect for women.
Why do they feel that the have the right to send abuse just because you’re not interested.
It seriously puts me off this site sometimes
Which is unfair as there are some decent guys on here.
Rant over ...thank you for taking time to reading me blabbering on "
All I can say is, sorry about that. As someone has mentioned, one possible solution is to block all incoming messages and reach out to people who you like. But I just read your profile. It is hard to find men who are looking for something as specific as that from their fab profiles. I understand your dilemma. So, rapid-fire blocking seems to be the best way out. |
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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago
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There is no excuse for someone being rude. If they're doing it because they've been rejected then it just shows how immature they really are.
Report, block, move on and try not to take it to heart. Easier said than done at times I know, but they're really not worth a second thought.
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Hope you're ok, OP. 
