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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I have just been chatting to a friend and she was shocked when I told her despite only being single a year. I have not had a real date for about 3 years. I have not been out for a romantic meal with a man in years, I have never really experienced lots of affection in a romantic way. Am I the only one. Do men really “date” women anymore. The more I think about it the more I feel like I’m missing out!
Side note I have had an amazing year being single, great sex and made some nice friends. Fab has helped!! So this is not for sympathy. |
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Yeah they still date, especially if you put yourself out there as wanting to meet asap instead of wasting your time chatting.
I dated a few guys before my last relationship, and one during (we were on a break). Obv can't do it now but will be back on POF when able to.
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"So I have just been chatting to a friend and she was shocked when I told her despite only being single a year. I have not had a real date for about 3 years. I have not been out for a romantic meal with a man in years, I have never really experienced lots of affection in a romantic way. Am I the only one. Do men really “date” women anymore. The more I think about it the more I feel like I’m missing out!
Side note I have had an amazing year being single, great sex and made some nice friends. Fab has helped!! So this is not for sympathy. "
Live you life how you want to live it, I’ve chatted to people on fab and they have found love here or others who have left when found it, enjoy life as you only get one as look at what’s happening now xx |
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"So I have just been chatting to a friend and she was shocked when I told her despite only being single a year. I have not had a real date for about 3 years. I have not been out for a romantic meal with a man in years, I have never really experienced lots of affection in a romantic way. Am I the only one. Do men really “date” women anymore. The more I think about it the more I feel like I’m missing out!
Side note I have had an amazing year being single, great sex and made some nice friends. Fab has helped!! So this is not for sympathy.
Live you life how you want to live it, I’ve chatted to people on fab and they have found love here or others who have left when found it, enjoy life as you only get one as look at what’s happening now xx"
Love this and know you are right. I am a very possible person and always live for today!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most relationships I've been in have just kind of happened so I get what you mean.
I was seeing someone for a few months recently though and we did the dating thing, we planned our time together and actually went out and spent time together. It was really nice to have someone want to do that with me, it's just a shame there was no ooomph in our chemistry. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most relationships I've been in have just kind of happened so I get what you mean.
I was seeing someone for a few months recently though and we did the dating thing, we planned our time together and actually went out and spent time together. It was really nice to have someone want to do that with me, it's just a shame there was no ooomph in our chemistry. "
That’s a shame! I’m not convinced that you can have it all!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just been chatting to a friend and she was shocked when I told her despite only being single a year. I have not had a real date for about 3 years. I have not been out for a romantic meal with a man in years, I have never really experienced lots of affection in a romantic way. Am I the only one. Do men really “date” women anymore. The more I think about it the more I feel like I’m missing out!
Side note I have had an amazing year being single, great sex and made some nice friends. Fab has helped!! So this is not for sympathy. "
Me and my partner are together 6 months now. And think we went on 2 actual dates so far. We just dont have the time. So when we meet we just have kinky fun. Lol and I am ok with it and so is he |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most relationships I've been in have just kind of happened so I get what you mean.
I was seeing someone for a few months recently though and we did the dating thing, we planned our time together and actually went out and spent time together. It was really nice to have someone want to do that with me, it's just a shame there was no ooomph in our chemistry.
That’s a shame! I’m not convinced that you can have it all!!"
I'd settle for most of it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Most relationships I've been in have just kind of happened so I get what you mean.
I was seeing someone for a few months recently though and we did the dating thing, we planned our time together and actually went out and spent time together. It was really nice to have someone want to do that with me, it's just a shame there was no ooomph in our chemistry.
That’s a shame! I’m not convinced that you can have it all!!
I'd settle for most of it "
I think that is my problem is I won’t settle for anything less than I feel I deserve now! Got to bring positivity into my life! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I have just been chatting to a friend and she was shocked when I told her despite only being single a year. I have not had a real date for about 3 years. I have not been out for a romantic meal with a man in years, I have never really experienced lots of affection in a romantic way. Am I the only one. Do men really “date” women anymore. The more I think about it the more I feel like I’m missing out!
Side note I have had an amazing year being single, great sex and made some nice friends. Fab has helped!! So this is not for sympathy.
Me and my partner are together 6 months now. And think we went on 2 actual dates so far. We just dont have the time. So when we meet we just have kinky fun. Lol and I am ok with it and so is he "
Sounds pretty good to me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just been chatting to a friend and she was shocked when I told her despite only being single a year. I have not had a real date for about 3 years. I have not been out for a romantic meal with a man in years, I have never really experienced lots of affection in a romantic way. Am I the only one. Do men really “date” women anymore. The more I think about it the more I feel like I’m missing out!
Side note I have had an amazing year being single, great sex and made some nice friends. Fab has helped!! So this is not for sympathy. "
Dating still happening, when it’s become more than just sex... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just been chatting to a friend and she was shocked when I told her despite only being single a year. I have not had a real date for about 3 years. I have not been out for a romantic meal with a man in years, I have never really experienced lots of affection in a romantic way. Am I the only one. Do men really “date” women anymore. The more I think about it the more I feel like I’m missing out!
Side note I have had an amazing year being single, great sex and made some nice friends. Fab has helped!! So this is not for sympathy.
Dating still happening, when it’s become more than just sex..."
Can I just add, it’s not just down to the man, it’s takes 2 people to make it happen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe I'm old fashioned but definitely still date. Went for a meal with someone a few weeks ago on a first date. So yes definitely is (was) still happening. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So I have just been chatting to a friend and she was shocked when I told her despite only being single a year. I have not had a real date for about 3 years. I have not been out for a romantic meal with a man in years, I have never really experienced lots of affection in a romantic way. Am I the only one. Do men really “date” women anymore. The more I think about it the more I feel like I’m missing out!
Side note I have had an amazing year being single, great sex and made some nice friends. Fab has helped!! So this is not for sympathy.
Dating still happening, when it’s become more than just sex...
Can I just add, it’s not just down to the man, it’s takes 2 people to make it happen "
I agree. But nice to be treated on occasion!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe I'm old fashioned but definitely still date. Went for a meal with someone a few weeks ago on a first date. So yes definitely is (was) still happening. "
I like old fashioned values. Lucky lady  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just been chatting to a friend and she was shocked when I told her despite only being single a year. I have not had a real date for about 3 years. I have not been out for a romantic meal with a man in years, I have never really experienced lots of affection in a romantic way. Am I the only one. Do men really “date” women anymore. The more I think about it the more I feel like I’m missing out!
Side note I have had an amazing year being single, great sex and made some nice friends. Fab has helped!! So this is not for sympathy.
Dating still happening, when it’s become more than just sex...
Can I just add, it’s not just down to the man, it’s takes 2 people to make it happen
I agree. But nice to be treated on occasion!!"
Oh yea, and as people mentioned on the previous comments, that many people found the one who wanna go on a date with on this site, and happy ever after I guess |
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I think it's good to go on regular dates with someone no matter how long you have been together. My ex and I used to have a date night atleast once a fortnite . An evening meal movie bowling or something like that.
And even more dates when you getting to know someone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's good to go on regular dates with someone no matter how long you have been together. My ex and I used to have a date night atleast once a fortnite . An evening meal movie bowling or something like that.
And even more dates when you getting to know someone."
Sounds great xx |
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"I think it's good to go on regular dates with someone no matter how long you have been together. My ex and I used to have a date night atleast once a fortnite . An evening meal movie bowling or something like that.
And even more dates when you getting to know someone.
Sounds great xx "
you should find out after all this  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's good to go on regular dates with someone no matter how long you have been together. My ex and I used to have a date night atleast once a fortnite . An evening meal movie bowling or something like that.
And even more dates when you getting to know someone.
Sounds great xx you should find out after all this "
You have been warned!!!  |
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Town and I go on numerous dates..
Dancing , cinema days out , holidays ..And some swinging...
And she asked me to spend the rest of our lives together...
On the 29th
I wont have to buy her gloves...
Living the dream ..... |
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"I think it's good to go on regular dates with someone no matter how long you have been together. My ex and I used to have a date night atleast once a fortnite . An evening meal movie bowling or something like that.
And even more dates when you getting to know someone.
Sounds great xx you should find out after all this
You have been warned!!! "
warning taken...noted... probably ignored and carried on without |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Town and I go on numerous dates..
Dancing , cinema days out , holidays ..And some swinging...
And she asked me to spend the rest of our lives together...
On the 29th
I wont have to buy her gloves...
Living the dream ....."
That is beautiful xxx so happy for you both, maybe a little envious too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe I'm old fashioned but definitely still date. Went for a meal with someone a few weeks ago on a first date. So yes definitely is (was) still happening.
I like old fashioned values. Lucky lady "
Well we had a 2nd date, a walk up Malvern hills but I decided not to take it any further so still single. Hopefully next time fingers crossed x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Maybe I'm old fashioned but definitely still date. Went for a meal with someone a few weeks ago on a first date. So yes definitely is (was) still happening.
I like old fashioned values. Lucky lady
Well we had a 2nd date, a walk up Malvern hills but I decided not to take it any further so still single. Hopefully next time fingers crossed x"
My fingers are crossed for you. What a gentleman xx |
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"Town and I go on numerous dates..
Dancing , cinema days out , holidays ..And some swinging...
And she asked me to spend the rest of our lives together...
On the 29th
I wont have to buy her gloves...
Living the dream .....
That is beautiful xxx so happy for you both, maybe a little envious too "
But who buys the ring? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Town and I go on numerous dates..
Dancing , cinema days out , holidays ..And some swinging...
And she asked me to spend the rest of our lives together...
On the 29th
I wont have to buy her gloves...
Living the dream .....
That is beautiful xxx so happy for you both, maybe a little envious too
But who buys the ring? "
Depends on if you think this is a mans role or if you think you are equal!? |
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My FWB and I have been seeing each other two and a half years. We don’t get to see each other that often but when we do we always make it an “event”. We’ve done all sorts of lovely things in out time together.
Far more to life than just sex lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We ensure we have date nights. Definitely date still, but it's not the preserve of the man to make the date, equality and all that "
That’s good. Yeah I agree as in comments further up. But I do also like the idea of old fashioned approach to dating. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My FWB and I have been seeing each other two and a half years. We don’t get to see each other that often but when we do we always make it an “event”. We’ve done all sorts of lovely things in out time together.
Far more to life than just sex lol. "
I’d love my fwb to take notes from this!! But we literally just meet and have sex! |
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"We ensure we have date nights. Definitely date still, but it's not the preserve of the man to make the date, equality and all that
That’s good. Yeah I agree as in comments further up. But I do also like the idea of old fashioned approach to dating. "
Yep. Definitely. The men also like to be wined and dined.
We love the whole date scenario!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know I tend to date the people I fuck.
Before or after?! "
Both.
Ok I was seeing someone for the last 7 months so that's a little different as we would go on a date then have sex and full days out etc.
But prior to him the majority of the people I met we would social together as well as fuck.
I like regular meets and friendship though not just a quick fuck and go |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I quite like the idea of doing some datey stuff
I’m not normally one for women, but you are stunning. I will date you!!! 
where shall we go "
You chose!!! I will pay xx |
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Woman ( and men) can have the best of both worlds if they want a relationship and to swing at the same time . A faithful loyal cuckold is ideal for this type of woman .
Problem is on here ( with like any other site too)
Men and women take one look at a face and think no thanks he or she not for me.
But if one actually takes time to get to no somebody then that’s where the attraction kicks in .
Similar to how people meet people they work with
Or socially connect with. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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It doesn't matter what site you are on, men no longer have the ability to engage a women's mind or have the ability to engage normal conversation! No idea why and no idea how to change it, is it the age of the internet, or have they just been born stupid? You tell me  |
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"Sadly dating seems to be a thing of the past. And i dont count going for coffee as a date
Shame as there's something so special and exciting about it, the build up and the occasion itself "
there is indeed. One of the reasons why i personally wouldnt let dating lapse in a relationship and it's a good way of getting closer to someone. And agreed coffee isnt a date |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter what site you are on, men no longer have the ability to engage a women's mind or have the ability to engage normal conversation! No idea why and no idea how to change it, is it the age of the internet, or have they just been born stupid? You tell me "
I suspect you may find us more mature gents are more likely to have good conversation ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It doesn't matter what site you are on, men no longer have the ability to engage a women's mind or have the ability to engage normal conversation! No idea why and no idea how to change it, is it the age of the internet, or have they just been born stupid? You tell me
I suspect you may find us more mature gents are more likely to have good conversation ..."
Unfortunately age just doesn't equate to good conversation, especially via the internet ...  |
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"It doesn't matter what site you are on, men no longer have the ability to engage a women's mind or have the ability to engage normal conversation! No idea why and no idea how to change it, is it the age of the internet, or have they just been born stupid? You tell me
I suspect you may find us more mature gents are more likely to have good conversation ...
Unfortunately age just doesn't equate to good conversation, especially via the internet ... "
Very true |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
london |
"It doesn't matter what site you are on, men no longer have the ability to engage a women's mind or have the ability to engage normal conversation! No idea why and no idea how to change it, is it the age of the internet, or have they just been born stupid? You tell me
I suspect you may find us more mature gents are more likely to have good conversation ...
Unfortunately age just doesn't equate to good conversation, especially via the internet ...
Very true "
Social media is a cumbersome tool to communicate with and of course age is no guarantee of a good chat but those of us that grew up before it was invented at least remember the fun of "chatting up" someone... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It doesn't matter what site you are on, men no longer have the ability to engage a women's mind or have the ability to engage normal conversation! No idea why and no idea how to change it, is it the age of the internet, or have they just been born stupid? You tell me
I suspect you may find us more mature gents are more likely to have good conversation ...
Unfortunately age just doesn't equate to good conversation, especially via the internet ...
Very true
Social media is a cumbersome tool to communicate with and of course age is no guarantee of a good chat but those of us that grew up before it was invented at least remember the fun of "chatting up" someone..."
Lol I'm the same age ish as you and can categorically say this ^^ has no relation to conversation anymore and, most, guys right the way through the ages might remember it but unfortunately this still doesn't equate to good conversation - then or now! 
But the age/conversation correlation just isn't there neither on here or dating sites and quite often in person too, which can be incredibly disappointing |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter what site you are on, men no longer have the ability to engage a women's mind or have the ability to engage normal conversation! No idea why and no idea how to change it, is it the age of the internet, or have they just been born stupid? You tell me
I suspect you may find us more mature gents are more likely to have good conversation ...
Unfortunately age just doesn't equate to good conversation, especially via the internet ...
Very true
Social media is a cumbersome tool to communicate with and of course age is no guarantee of a good chat but those of us that grew up before it was invented at least remember the fun of "chatting up" someone..."
Agreed.
To me, Social Media and the Internet as a whole have made Dating more easily accessible but with many more pitfalls to negotiate.
Dating "sites" lure people in with dubious profiles, images, all trying to convince people they'll succeed!
In most cases, the thrill of meeting someone face to face for that first time, stumbling over conversations and trying to develop anything beyond that first time out together has been replaced by an impersonal click of a mouse or touch screen!
Dating in its truest sense of the word and me stopped in 1992 after my engagement and wedding plans fell through.
Maybe one day, I'll be swept off my feet by Miss Right; well, swept off my feet could be an issue as at my age I don't want to risk breaking something in my bones! |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter what site you are on, men no longer have the ability to engage a women's mind or have the ability to engage normal conversation! No idea why and no idea how to change it, is it the age of the internet, or have they just been born stupid? You tell me
I suspect you may find us more mature gents are more likely to have good conversation ...
Unfortunately age just doesn't equate to good conversation, especially via the internet ...
Very true
Social media is a cumbersome tool to communicate with and of course age is no guarantee of a good chat but those of us that grew up before it was invented at least remember the fun of "chatting up" someone...
Lol I'm the same age ish as you and can categorically say this ^^ has no relation to conversation anymore and, most, guys right the way through the ages might remember it but unfortunately this still doesn't equate to good conversation - then or now!
But the age/conversation correlation just isn't there neither on here or dating sites and quite often in person too, which can be incredibly disappointing "
Well it does sound disappointing...I on the whole find people as chatty as ever in real life and whilst every situation is not going to lead to a scintillating conversation I do enjoy talking to folk and occasionally have some great conversations... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It doesn't matter what site you are on, men no longer have the ability to engage a women's mind or have the ability to engage normal conversation! No idea why and no idea how to change it, is it the age of the internet, or have they just been born stupid? You tell me
I suspect you may find us more mature gents are more likely to have good conversation ...
Unfortunately age just doesn't equate to good conversation, especially via the internet ...
Very true
Social media is a cumbersome tool to communicate with and of course age is no guarantee of a good chat but those of us that grew up before it was invented at least remember the fun of "chatting up" someone...
Lol I'm the same age ish as you and can categorically say this ^^ has no relation to conversation anymore and, most, guys right the way through the ages might remember it but unfortunately this still doesn't equate to good conversation - then or now!
But the age/conversation correlation just isn't there neither on here or dating sites and quite often in person too, which can be incredibly disappointing
Well it does sound disappointing...I on the whole find people as chatty as ever in real life and whilst every situation is not going to lead to a scintillating conversation I do enjoy talking to folk and occasionally have some great conversations..."
Luciky "in life" is totally different to online ... |
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I date, even when in a relationship I make a point of going on date nights because why not?
No woman has ever asked me out on a date though.
I guess I'm a romantic sod at heart.
I once told a girl in the local supermarket that I liked her and asked her out, she was physically shocked and taken aback as she'd never been asked out on a date before. She thought it was just a social and brought her sister along. They both got too pissed and fell down the stairs. |
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"My FWB and I have been seeing each other two and a half years. We don’t get to see each other that often but when we do we always make it an “event”. We’ve done all sorts of lovely things in out time together.
Far more to life than just sex lol.
I’d love my fwb to take notes from this!! But we literally just meet and have sex! "
That’s not a FWB then. That’s a FB. Massive difference. |
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"My FWB and I have been seeing each other two and a half years. We don’t get to see each other that often but when we do we always make it an “event”. We’ve done all sorts of lovely things in out time together.
Far more to life than just sex lol.
I’d love my fwb to take notes from this!! But we literally just meet and have sex!
That’s not a FWB then. That’s a FB. Massive difference. "
Yes big difference
not all on here realise what the benefits part means |
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Although it might seem that most men on here are just here for the sex that's probably only true of those who are attached
I think most single guts on here would jump at the chance of a romantic evening out.
After all it's the best part of the chase the excitement of will she won't she at the end of the night |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My FWB and I have been seeing each other two and a half years. We don’t get to see each other that often but when we do we always make it an “event”. We’ve done all sorts of lovely things in out time together.
Far more to life than just sex lol.
I’d love my fwb to take notes from this!! But we literally just meet and have sex!
That’s not a FWB then. That’s a FB. Massive difference. "
Clearly I’m getting only one type of benefit!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I have just been chatting to a friend and she was shocked when I told her despite only being single a year. I have not had a real date for about 3 years. I have not been out for a romantic meal with a man in years, I have never really experienced lots of affection in a romantic way. Am I the only one. Do men really “date” women anymore. The more I think about it the more I feel like I’m missing out!
Side note I have had an amazing year being single, great sex and made some nice friends. Fab has helped!! So this is not for sympathy. "
With very few exceptions (an odd single, but a few couples too) even my Fab meets are more like romantic dates with lots of affection, hopefully great sex, and maybe even more the morning after. Then repeat if desired.
I wholeheartedly think building a connection and sexual tension through the date bit is crucial to a more fulfilling experience. Turning up for sex was fine in my 20’s, but I need more now I’m 40. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes men do and if that’s what your looking for you need to look in the right places, not on here. Your an attractive woman so that’s not the issue just where your looking |
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I’ve probably had more luck dating from fab than anywhere else actually! Only because we’re more on a similar wavelength and a lot of guys on ‘normal’ dating sites only want sex as well!
Had agreed to take an old fab friend up on an offer of a proper dinner date recently, but lockdown got in the way  |
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"I’ve probably had more luck dating from fab than anywhere else actually! Only because we’re more on a similar wavelength and a lot of guys on ‘normal’ dating sites only want sex as well!
Had agreed to take an old fab friend up on an offer of a proper dinner date recently, but lockdown got in the way "
See I think you are right, I have had better conversations on here with men than I have on dating sites. Maybe because as much as we are all on here for swinging and having amazing sex we all have that in common so it takes the pressure off?! |
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"I’ve probably had more luck dating from fab than anywhere else actually! Only because we’re more on a similar wavelength and a lot of guys on ‘normal’ dating sites only want sex as well!
Had agreed to take an old fab friend up on an offer of a proper dinner date recently, but lockdown got in the way
See I think you are right, I have had better conversations on here with men than I have on dating sites. Maybe because as much as we are all on here for swinging and having amazing sex we all have that in common so it takes the pressure off?! "
Definitely, think it’s almost an ice breaker in itself! And I’m a little less worried about shocking them with my nympho side haha!
I like going into it as NSA and if it feels like it could become more, be open about it and suggest non-sexual dates if they feel the same way but no pressure if they don’t! |
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"It sounds like it could be rather delightful....
*shrugs and wanders off to find my usual corner in an undateables thread"
I am queen of the undateable’s |
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"Although it might seem that most men on here are just here for the sex that's probably only true of those who are attached
I think most single guts on here would jump at the chance of a romantic evening out.
After all it's the best part of the chase the excitement of will she won't she at the end of the night "
^^ Sums it up nicely for me ^^
I honestly think the married guys who want a quickie or to satisfy desires their partner won’t do, don’t particularly help the situation for we single guys, as we tend to get tarred with the same brush and approached with the same caution!
Many truly single guys on here would love to find a sexual match that turns into something more.
Sex as a single guy is very short term unless you can find a regular and willing opposite number!
Ideally someone in my case to enjoy a relaxed lifestyle swinging together and with others at home and abroad!
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I love to date and meet and do the whole romantic part. It really excites me and makes me giddy and happy.
Sadly, having just come out of another relationship (hence why I'm back on fab) I think I'm destined for SingleVille forever . |
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