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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Now slap me with a wet haddock if i offend anyone but.........
I cant quite get me head round "voyeurism" ???
Whats the point in just looking ??? 
Had a cpl at one of my parties yrs ago and he did just that........looked and nowt else.
While she tried to shag everything that moved.
I had to hide the tortoise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to enjoy the seeing..... now enjoy the doing far far more. Mrs Notts still gets a buzz from seeing certain things... and I do enjoy coping a look as such, especially at certain moments lol... but to just sit, watch and knock one off I think its safe to say i'm well past that lol...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Peaches you promised not to tell anyone!!!  
Hubby only watches me he doesnt take active part in meets we have.
I have asked him many many times why he only wants to watch and his answer has always been - I like watching you have fun and nothing compares to seeing the woman you love enjoying herself with other people.
Still confused myself as to what he gets from it but OMG I love the good hard fuck I get when Im finished with the other person!!
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would it be like ... Live Porn n better than Celluloid Porn ? Maybe he was whatsit and couldn't get it hard ?? Thingy..... what's the word? im tired. Oh yeah ..... impotent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you ever consider that maybe he and she liked it  "
Thats what works for us and thats why he watches and I play.
I have a much higher sex drive than hubby and he enjoys watching so why fix something if it aint broke??
I have to admit tho the guys I have met seem to like hubby watching but not taking part so its a win win situation for us.
Shona
x x x |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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"Did you ever consider that maybe he and she liked it
Thats what works for us and thats why he watches and I play.
I have a much higher sex drive than hubby and he enjoys watching so why fix something if it aint broke??
I have to admit tho the guys I have met seem to like hubby watching but not taking part so its a win win situation for us.
Shona
x x x "
Needs a hubby like Shona's, has he got a twin? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did you ever consider that maybe he and she liked it
Thats what works for us and thats why he watches and I play.
I have a much higher sex drive than hubby and he enjoys watching so why fix something if it aint broke??
I have to admit tho the guys I have met seem to like hubby watching but not taking part so its a win win situation for us.
Shona
x x x "
It's why we go to Chams on a Friday plenty of single guys for Mrs Two2 to have fun with and plenty of couples for us both to have fun with.
I love to watch and I also love to play so fully understand why guys watch their wives enjoying themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's why we go to Chams on a Friday plenty of single guys for Mrs Two2 to have fun with and plenty of couples for us both to have fun with.
I love to watch and I also love to play so fully understand why guys watch their wives enjoying themselves "
I wonder if you can tell me hun - what is it that makes you want to watch??
I have asked hubby loads but he says he cant describe what it is he loves about it.
Mind you if Im honest I dont much mind why he watches I enjoy playing so I get the best of both!!
Shona
x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now slap me with a wet haddock if i offend anyone but.........
I cant quite get me head round "voyeurism" ???
Whats the point in just looking ???
Had a cpl at one of my parties yrs ago and he did just that........looked and nowt else.
While she tried to shag everything that moved.
I had to hide the tortoise "
LOL
I to am just a voyeur, it must just be the way i'm wired ... or a fuse missing? 
When we first got into swinging nearly 7 years ago, i thought it would be great, us being able to swap now and then..
When it came to us meeting a couple for full swap, Shaz was getting it on fine with the other guy, but me, i had a great looking lass sat in front of me stark bollock naked and i was just sat there like a plonker trembling from head to foot
Anyway, i have found, i get more enjoyment watching Shaz, then us doing our own thing after the meet then actually joining in
Sharon even had a g/f for quite a while but i would just sit and watch or leave them to it... Much better than watching any porno! i have a great imagination..
and nope, I don't wack one off when watching shaz, i wait till its just us
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's why we go to Chams on a Friday plenty of single guys for Mrs Two2 to have fun with and plenty of couples for us both to have fun with.
I love to watch and I also love to play so fully understand why guys watch their wives enjoying themselves
I wonder if you can tell me hun - what is it that makes you want to watch??
I have asked hubby loads but he says he cant describe what it is he loves about it.
Mind you if Im honest I dont much mind why he watches I enjoy playing so I get the best of both!!
Shona
x x x "
I just get a certain buzz out of watching K pick the guy she would like to have fun with and then all the pre amble which leads to her and him enjoying some enjoyable and uncomplicated fun.
It's not a personal porno thing, or a lacking in libido or even inadequacy issues it's simply that I love to watch her enjoying herself.
If it's any consolation she asks me the same question and rather lamely all I can say is as the above |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I suppose , on reflection...
Swinging (sex) is all things to all people .
I meant no offence by asking, its always intrigued me.
nosey cow i am   "
No offence taken |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Peaches hun you never offended me at all.
I am as curious as you about what men like my hubby get from just watching.
Tony a huge thank you for explaining to me (and everyone else) what you get from watching. When I read your post out to hubby he said he agrees with you and will still watch at every opportunity that he can!!
Shona
x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr 2bonk a huge thank you to you as well hun.
I didnt think it was anything to do with not being able to preform cos I know my hubby has no problem with that so maybe its just his thing - I like to suck he likes to watch if that makes sense??
I have asked hubby again and he still says he cannot explain why he likes it so much and even under threat of me deleting our profile cant explain why he finds it so horny!!
I used to wonder if we were a cuckold couple but I could never humiliate him and I understand that to be part of the whole cuckolding thing - maybe Im wrong tho!!
So I will continue to play with sexy guys and he will continue to watch then fuck me senseless for the remainder of the night!!
Shona
x x x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gosh I get very turned on by watching (straight) porn, and would love to watch real people getting down to it!
I may get so hot and bothered that I may even join in!!!
That's one of the reasons why I would like to attend a party, to find out what it is to watch others perform for real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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two2bonkwith wrote:
"I suppose , on reflection...
Swinging (sex) is all things to all people .
I meant no offence by asking, its always intrigued me.
nosey cow i am
No offence taken "
sexyshona wrote:
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Peaches hun you never offended me at all.
I am as curious as you about what men like my hubby get from just watching.
Tony a huge thank you for explaining to me (and everyone else) what you get from watching. When I read your post out to hubby he said he agrees with you and will still watch at every opportunity that he can!!
Shona
x x x
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Welcome
I thought i was the only person on fabs that prefers to just watch than join in
Its really funny because before we was in the scene the thought of Shaz even looking at a guy made me see red! now, I would be happy meeting someone for her to play with every day.. no matter if its a guy or gal!
I am 100% straight and don't get nothing from seeing a guy nude with her, but its many other factors that does it for me, the naughtiness of it, seeing shaz have fun and the pleasure on her face, the glow she radiates after sex and so on..., maybe i am just a perve haha
I also should say.. if the guy is better hung than me then omg! my mind runs overtime.. and Shaz don't complain lol
As odd as it sounds, sometimes i would rather see Shaz playing with someone else than actually playing with her myself
I find it helps with self control to! lol I can last a lot longer these days than i could 5 years ago .. although that might be because i am going to be 40 next year 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr 2bonks I got first dibs lol
Tony I have seen many single female profiles saying their husband/boyfriend will watch so you and my hubby are deff not alone in watching and enjoying us ladies playing!!
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mr 2bonks I got first dibs lol
Tony I have seen many single female profiles saying their husband/boyfriend will watch so you and my hubby are deff not alone in watching and enjoying us ladies playing!!
Shona
x x x "
Only problem so far is Mrs Bonks will only meet guys in clubs, trying hard to get her to meet a guy outside a club for a one on one. Had an impromptu session with a guy in cap D'Agde last year but would like to do it here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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PMSL!
Hopefully I'll get to meet some of you on here soon!
I shall indulge in some mutual pleasuring with my hot date this coming weekend first!
Gosh, I can't get him out of my mind, can't stop thinking about all the wicked things I want to do to this hot gentleman!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Only problem so far is Mrs Bonks will only meet guys in clubs, trying hard to get her to meet a guy outside a club for a one on one. Had an impromptu session with a guy in cap D'Agde last year but would like to do it here "
I have only once been to a club (and didnt play with anyone but my hubby lol) so all our meets have been thru sites like this one, and so far I have found loads of lovely sexy guys!!
But I really cant blame Mrs 2bonks being happier to meet in a club cos you dont have to worry about how you will get on for the whole time you are meeting, you only have to meet up and play. Sounds perfect to me!!
Shona
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Mr 2bonk a huge thank you to you as well hun.
I didnt think it was anything to do with not being able to preform cos I know my hubby has no problem with that so maybe its just his thing - I like to suck he likes to watch if that makes sense??
I have asked hubby again and he still says he cannot explain why he likes it so much and even under threat of me deleting our profile cant explain why he finds it so horny!!
I used to wonder if we were a cuckold couple but I could never humiliate him and I understand that to be part of the whole cuckolding thing - maybe Im wrong tho!!
So I will continue to play with sexy guys and he will continue to watch then fuck me senseless for the remainder of the night!!
Shona
x x x "
The other half is a voyeur, and says the same as your hubby and 2bonk.
He can't explain why he loves to see me with another man, but just knows he loves it.
We are not into cuckold either and he doesnt knock one off watching but we have a great session after the meet is over.
The next step is me with two men so I still get the threesome and he watches , takes pics and does me when they have gone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mr 2bonk a huge thank you to you as well hun.
I didnt think it was anything to do with not being able to preform cos I know my hubby has no problem with that so maybe its just his thing - I like to suck he likes to watch if that makes sense??
I have asked hubby again and he still says he cannot explain why he likes it so much and even under threat of me deleting our profile cant explain why he finds it so horny!!
I used to wonder if we were a cuckold couple but I could never humiliate him and I understand that to be part of the whole cuckolding thing - maybe Im wrong tho!!
So I will continue to play with sexy guys and he will continue to watch then fuck me senseless for the remainder of the night!!
Shona
x x x
The other half is a voyeur, and says the same as your hubby and 2bonk.
He can't explain why he loves to see me with another man, but just knows he loves it.
We are not into cuckold either and he doesnt knock one off watching but we have a great session after the meet is over.
The next step is me with two men so I still get the threesome and he watches , takes pics and does me when they have gone "
That is so what I would love, cant really explain why but would really really love that |
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I can understand the appeal in being watched like that Teasing your partner, letting them stand apart from the sex you're having and see what it looks like when you're not involved. I bet it's great fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can truly admire the lack of selflessness involved in watching.. and to a degree think the thought of just watching Mrs Notts get taken quite horny.. but I have the attention span of a two year old sadly and need something to occupy me or i'd probably ruin the mood..
Admire you guys I really do.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The other half is a voyeur, and says the same as your hubby and 2bonk.
He can't explain why he loves to see me with another man, but just knows he loves it.
We are not into cuckold either and he doesnt knock one off watching but we have a great session after the meet is over.
The next step is me with two men so I still get the threesome and he watches , takes pics and does me when they have gone
That is so what I would love, cant really explain why but would really really love that "
Just woke up my hubby and told him your ideal and he says "woohoo see I am normal"
Mind you now he wants to video me and I really dont think thats a good idea!!
Shona
x x x |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Mr 2bonk a huge thank you to you as well hun.
I didnt think it was anything to do with not being able to preform cos I know my hubby has no problem with that so maybe its just his thing - I like to suck he likes to watch if that makes sense??
I have asked hubby again and he still says he cannot explain why he likes it so much and even under threat of me deleting our profile cant explain why he finds it so horny!!
I used to wonder if we were a cuckold couple but I could never humiliate him and I understand that to be part of the whole cuckolding thing - maybe Im wrong tho!!
So I will continue to play with sexy guys and he will continue to watch then fuck me senseless for the remainder of the night!!
Shona
x x x
The other half is a voyeur, and says the same as your hubby and 2bonk.
He can't explain why he loves to see me with another man, but just knows he loves it.
We are not into cuckold either and he doesnt knock one off watching but we have a great session after the meet is over.
The next step is me with two men so I still get the threesome and he watches , takes pics and does me when they have gone
That is so what I would love, cant really explain why but would really really love that "
The other half is nodding his head at your post with a knowing look on his face 2bonk.
The funny thing is, because I know how much he loves to watch, it makes me enjoy myself even more knowing he is loving what he is watching, if that makes sense. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
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"The other half is a voyeur, and says the same as your hubby and 2bonk.
He can't explain why he loves to see me with another man, but just knows he loves it.
We are not into cuckold either and he doesnt knock one off watching but we have a great session after the meet is over.
The next step is me with two men so I still get the threesome and he watches , takes pics and does me when they have gone
That is so what I would love, cant really explain why but would really really love that
Just woke up my hubby and told him your ideal and he says "woohoo see I am normal"
Mind you now he wants to video me and I really dont think thats a good idea!!
Shona
x x x "
lol @ hubby
Ah home movies, they can be really horny watching them back |
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By (user no longer on site)
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LOL home movies
Not with me in them I can assure you hun!!!
We decided (before we started swinging) that it would be a really good idea to video ourselves OMG never again hubby looked great I looked like something out of the black lagoon
He still watches it sometimes I have only ever watched it once picked loads of faults with myself and decided never to watch it again!!!
I think I will stick to him taking pics cos I prefer them
Shona
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By (user no longer on site)
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"LOL home movies
Not with me in them I can assure you hun!!!
We decided (before we started swinging) that it would be a really good idea to video ourselves OMG never again hubby looked great I looked like something out of the black lagoon
He still watches it sometimes I have only ever watched it once picked loads of faults with myself and decided never to watch it again!!!
I think I will stick to him taking pics cos I prefer them
Shona
x x x "
awww am sure you it wasn't bad!
Shaz does the same though, if we take pic of meets, she has to look at them and get me to delete all the ones she thinks makes her look lumpy or fat before i can give the other party a copy
Done a few video's to, i love them but shaz says she wobbles in them to much ffs
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We always give the other party a copy and allow them to be used as long as my face is covered up cos I think its only fair!!
But I have done the same and made hubby delete loads before finding one I like.
But trust me hun me in widescreen HD is sooo not a good look!!!
Way to many lumps bumps and such like
Shona
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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lol what a funny lot we are.
We have sex with strangers who see you in all your glory, wobbly bits and all.
They see you in all positions ( hopefully)they go home, and then we edit the photos so they don't get to see the bits we don't like that they have already seen anyway |
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By *im53Man
over a year ago
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"We always give the other party a copy and allow them to be used as long as my face is covered up cos I think its only fair!!
But I have done the same and made hubby delete loads before finding one I like.
But trust me hun me in widescreen HD is sooo not a good look!!!
Way to many lumps bumps and such like
Shona
x x x "
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"Now slap me with a wet haddock if i offend anyone but.........
I cant quite get me head round "voyeurism" ???
Whats the point in just looking ???
Had a cpl at one of my parties yrs ago and he did just that........looked and nowt else.
While she tried to shag everything that moved.
I had to hide the tortoise "
Voyeurism is another kink/perversion/interest for many. Some like the seedy side and some relish the thought of being caught watching. Others like the idea of striping away an individuals privacy.
As long as it is done in a consensual fashion I figure it is acceptable. What isn’t is when someone does it without permission. Big paddling for those naughty individuals is due.
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Voyeurism is another kink/perversion/interest for many. Some like the seedy side and some relish the thought of being caught watching. Others like the idea of striping away an individuals privacy.
As long as it is done in a consensual fashion I figure it is acceptable. What isn’t is when someone does it without permission. Big paddling for those naughty individuals is due.
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Now this, I can agree with. Well said. |
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