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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you have kins and what are they? I've been interested in BDSM for a long while now and have begun making efforts to peruse this, so I am looking for a Mistress to take me on (I know it's unusual for a guy to be sub) anyone know the best way to find a mistress?
Would be very interested in your kinks, as I am new and would love to learn more and try them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you have kins and what are they? I've been interested in BDSM for a long while now and have begun making efforts to peruse this, so I am looking for a Mistress to take me on (I know it's unusual for a guy to be sub) anyone know the best way to find a mistress?
Would be very interested in your kinks, as I am new and would love to learn more and try them!"
No it isnt unusual for a guy to be sub, don't know why you think that's true. Join some of the bdsm websites there are loads of male subs, not nearly as many Mistresses or female subs 
Angel aka Mistress Angel  |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
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Good luck. A good friend of mine actually suggests that sub males are more commonplace than dom ones on the site he uses. The sub fems tell him regularly. He's very dom so he does well out of the lack of competition.
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"Do you have kins and what are they? I've been interested in BDSM for a long while now and have begun making efforts to peruse this, so I am looking for a Mistress to take me on (I know it's unusual for a guy to be sub) anyone know the best way to find a mistress?
Would be very interested in your kinks, as I am new and would love to learn more and try them!"
Not at all unusual for a guy to be sub, however there are so many and far fewer Dommes about that if you think its hard getting meets, its nothing compared to getting to meet a Mistress.
My advice would be to go to munches and get to know people on the fet scene, but realize that it is a competitive market. If you want a Mistress they will have to get to know and trust you and you them. Take your time, be honest about being new and build up friendships and relationships.
i am assuming you are on the two better know fet sites...
As for my kinks, i dont have any |
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"Good luck. A good friend of mine actually suggests that sub males are more commonplace than dom ones on the site he uses. The sub fems tell him regularly. He's very dom so he does well out of the lack of competition.
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Dom males are rare as hens teeth...only slightly rarer are Dommes, subs outnumber both massively on every site...although the number of men who call themselves Dom is of course a different thing all together.
Brief anecdotal evidence? Sir's profile on here breaks the rules some insist on , no pics, cant accom, brief profile, he still gets "cold called " by female subs. |
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