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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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difficult to say.
my experience is that I fucked it up.
I had it made. everything was in place and I just didn't have the guts to seal the deal.
I still regret it, not for myself. but the damage my decisions did to her.
they say you don't know what you have till its gone.
its so true. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"difficult to say.
my experience is that I fucked it up.
I had it made. everything was in place and I just didn't have the guts to seal the deal.
I still regret it, not for myself. but the damage my decisions did to her.
they say you don't know what you have till its gone.
its so true."
What happened bud? |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"difficult to say.
my experience is that I fucked it up.
I had it made. everything was in place and I just didn't have the guts to seal the deal.
I still regret it, not for myself. but the damage my decisions did to her.
they say you don't know what you have till its gone.
its so true."
But then maybe it wasnt right for u x |
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Think I was with my ex about 7 years before we married. It lasted about 8 years after we married. Best thing that ever happened to me but by fuck I couldn't see that at the time. God only knows how miserable my life would be now if we stayed together. Lifes a funny old thing.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think that there is a specific timescale. However, I do think that you should live together before committing to marriage. You never truly know a person until you live with them. "
I'd agree with this. It's different for everyone in terms of time.
My husband proposed after 2 years, then we were engaged another 3 years before we married. |
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"I don't think that there is a specific timescale. However, I do think that you should live together before committing to marriage. You never truly know a person until you live with them.
I'd agree with this. It's different for everyone in terms of time.
My husband proposed after 2 years, then we were engaged another 3 years before we married."
People make a big deal about living together - did you live together before marriage? |
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