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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I'm wandering the best replies given by women when they try to say no to a meet politely..
I'll start off these are genuine ones I've had :
"Sorry I'm a hair puller"
"Your too hot for me I'd feel inferior"
"My mouth can't handle you "
I mean just a polite No would suffice hehe
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I’ve learned there is no way that you can politely decline some men without them initiating a bargaining process- when you’ve got this going on with a hundred people a day it’s easier just to not reply in the end and come across as a heartless bitch  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve learned there is no way that you can politely decline some men without them initiating a bargaining process- when you’ve got this going on with a hundred people a day it’s easier just to not reply in the end and come across as a heartless bitch "
Yeah for you popular ladies I can understand |
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"COVID 19 response is no joke defo no meets..just curious of different replies when a simple no would do"
Phew! I thought for a moment you had been asking for meets and these were the responses you were getting, hence the sarcasm from me. Sorry op |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"COVID 19 response is no joke defo no meets..just curious of different replies when a simple no would do
Phew! I thought for a moment you had been asking for meets and these were the responses you were getting, hence the sarcasm from me. Sorry op "
No worries thought so lol X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive been saying;
I think we should wait until this is over. And also I think it would make it more exciting if we build up some anticipation."
Defo agree best reply with some subtle feel |
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Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:
Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text 
I am only looking to meet ladies...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:
Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text
I am only looking to meet ladies... "
Hehe brilliant x |
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"Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:
Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text
I am only looking to meet ladies... "
I only reply to say no when people are persistent. |
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"Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:
Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text
I am only looking to meet ladies...
Hehe brilliant x"
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"Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:
Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text
I am only looking to meet ladies...
I only reply to say no when people are persistent."
I don't get many messages so really to them all, unless they're rude or getting pushy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have been told its mostly down to my hairy body.
I dont mind though it's not for everyone 
You probably get that response as standard no doubt"
Some like it some dont I'm not sure sorry the hairy body isnt for me answer isnt a standard message to send anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve learned there is no way that you can politely decline some men without them initiating a bargaining process- when you’ve got this going on with a hundred people a day it’s easier just to not reply in the end and come across as a heartless bitch "
Totally agree! I can’t keep up with my inbox sometimes.
(That never happened. Ever) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not really what you were wanting but, my go to response to men asking to meet, is along the lines of:
Thanks for your message. Unfortunately, you appear to have been so distracted by my photos you forgot to read the text
I am only looking to meet ladies...
I only reply to say no when people are persistent.
I don't get many messages so really to them all, unless they're rude or getting pushy."
You hadn’t said “no” to mine yet. #liveinhope |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been told its mostly down to my hairy body.
I dont mind though it's not for everyone
You probably get that response as standard no doubt
Some like it some dont I'm not sure sorry the hairy body isnt for me answer isnt a standard message to send anyone "
Agree totally |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd welcome some advice on how to respond to countless messages I receive from ladies wanting to meet ..."
See the covid 19 post at the beginning might help. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If I do reply/tell someone I am not interested I always try and be nice - sometimes self deprecating. In all my years on here I've had less than a handful of abusive messages. Anyway OP, I hope if you do continue to receive no thanks messages, they make you smile at least x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I do reply/tell someone I am not interested I always try and be nice - sometimes self deprecating. In all my years on here I've had less than a handful of abusive messages. Anyway OP, I hope if you do continue to receive no thanks messages, they make you smile at least x"
They always make me smile as I take time to type my messages so a nice reply is always good even if it's a polite no.. |
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Anything that could exacerbate me disappointment is not needed, so it's better to keep it clear and simple. The clarity is important, so they don't think there's any tiny chance at all.
No thanks, I'm not feeling the vibe
Or something similar. You can express the gratitude for their efforts, as I'd hate to think of someone giving up, feeling they aren't worthwhile. I think it's best to block, to conclude the interaction for good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""  1. I am self isolating. 2. We are in lockdown"
Then calling them a psychopath
Oh right now my reply to physical meet requests is block report."
I block and report as well but people need to know when they're being psychopaths |
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"If I do reply/tell someone I am not interested I always try and be nice - sometimes self deprecating. In all my years on here I've had less than a handful of abusive messages. Anyway OP, I hope if you do continue to receive no thanks messages, they make you smile at least x
They always make me smile as I take time to type my messages so a nice reply is always good even if it's a polite no.."
Sadly I stopped because of the abuse I got in return. I was never rude to them. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I do reply/tell someone I am not interested I always try and be nice - sometimes self deprecating. In all my years on here I've had less than a handful of abusive messages. Anyway OP, I hope if you do continue to receive no thanks messages, they make you smile at least x
They always make me smile as I take time to type my messages so a nice reply is always good even if it's a polite no..
Sadly I stopped because of the abuse I got in return. I was never rude to them."
Yeah a few fabsters have said that after a polite no they get more abuse..proper weirdos |
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"If I do reply/tell someone I am not interested I always try and be nice - sometimes self deprecating. In all my years on here I've had less than a handful of abusive messages. Anyway OP, I hope if you do continue to receive no thanks messages, they make you smile at least x
They always make me smile as I take time to type my messages so a nice reply is always good even if it's a polite no..
Sadly I stopped because of the abuse I got in return. I was never rude to them."
Same here. One guy yesterday said I bet you’re not as popular in real life as you are here you fat slag. Charmed I’m sure  |
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