FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Pegging, strap ons
Pegging, strap ons
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"I would like to hear from the ladies if they enjoy pegging, either each other or their man.
Does it change the dynamic between patners ?
Is it empowering?
"
its mind blowing experience...  very sensual...obviously has to be connection between both partners. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Yeah for me it changed our relationship massively.
He loved it, couldn’t get enough to the point I started resenting him for not wanting to fuck me as much.
At first it felt empowering but after a while it changed and he had the power because he was getting more sex than me.
It got to a point that every time we had sex he suggested it.
When I’ve done it on fab meets they have become obsessed with that and nothing else.
So yeah it affected my relationships both loving ones and nsa ones |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rian4u OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Yeah for me it changed our relationship massively.
He loved it, couldn’t get enough to the point I started resenting him for not wanting to fuck me as much.
At first it felt empowering but after a while it changed and he had the power because he was getting more sex than me.
It got to a point that every time we had sex he suggested it.
When I’ve done it on fab meets they have become obsessed with that and nothing else.
So yeah it affected my relationships both loving ones and nsa ones "
Interesting point. I have come across this where the man wants it and takes it but does not take into consideration the lady's needs. Consequently she is less inclined to do it and he becomes frustrated. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Everything is a balance.
We do it when we both feel like it.
There’s a huge transfer of power and B tells me she feels in control.
There is still some stimulation, not just mental and B has come before while using a strap on.
B&J |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Yeah for me it changed our relationship massively.
He loved it, couldn’t get enough to the point I started resenting him for not wanting to fuck me as much.
At first it felt empowering but after a while it changed and he had the power because he was getting more sex than me.
It got to a point that every time we had sex he suggested it.
When I’ve done it on fab meets they have become obsessed with that and nothing else.
So yeah it affected my relationships both loving ones and nsa ones "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rian4u OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Yeah for me it changed our relationship massively.
He loved it, couldn’t get enough to the point I started resenting him for not wanting to fuck me as much.
At first it felt empowering but after a while it changed and he had the power because he was getting more sex than me.
It got to a point that every time we had sex he suggested it.
When I’ve done it on fab meets they have become obsessed with that and nothing else.
So yeah it affected my relationships both loving ones and nsa ones
"
You must have been very good at it to have your husband and nsa wanting it over anything else.
All you have to do is tell him , I want this then if you do it well I will fuck you if not no play. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ladies, thank you for replying. You cant get much stimulation from the strap on, so is it really the psychological trip you enjoy? "
M has reached orgasm from pegging me quite a few times even without vibration!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rian4u OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"The only penetration sex we have is with a strap on. Me fucking him."
So are you always in charge in your relationship? I see in your profile you encourage him to have sissy/ sub sex. How does that affect your relationship? Do you like to see him humiliated? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rian4u OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Ladies, thank you for replying. You cant get much stimulation from the strap on, so is it really the psychological trip you enjoy?
M has reached orgasm from pegging me quite a few times even without vibration! "
Good for M a fulfilled lady! Does she use a Feeldoe or a usual strap on? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ladies, thank you for replying. You cant get much stimulation from the strap on, so is it really the psychological trip you enjoy?
M has reached orgasm from pegging me quite a few times even without vibration!
Good for M a fulfilled lady! Does she use a Feeldoe or a usual strap on? "
Has a strapless and harness type |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rian4u OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Ladies, thank you for replying. You cant get much stimulation from the strap on, so is it really the psychological trip you enjoy?
M has reached orgasm from pegging me quite a few times even without vibration!
Good for M a fulfilled lady! Does she use a Feeldoe or a usual strap on?
Has a strapless and harness type"
Which one is preferred to give her the orgasm??. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Ladies, thank you for replying. You cant get much stimulation from the strap on, so is it really the psychological trip you enjoy?
M has reached orgasm from pegging me quite a few times even without vibration!
Good for M a fulfilled lady! Does she use a Feeldoe or a usual strap on?
Has a strapless and harness type
Which one is preferred to give her the orgasm??."
She has had successful finishes with both but the vibration from the strapless is a sure thing |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Our relationship started out as Dominatrix/ submissive and it was stated quite clearly from the beginning that i would be fucked , so it never changed the dynamic it kinda reinforces it ..
I never fuck her ever , and never do i suggest it and i am happy with that .
And yes she does get off on it , she does enjoy it very much its very much part of her sexuality , she is a sadist . Thats not to say she is a horror , in fact she is caring , its just that hearing me scream turns her on . Thats the way it is ..
The way we are is set in stone and should it ever arise that i was to penetrate her ( which i dont think will ever happen ) Then yes it would change our dynamic completely i would suspect
It works for us .. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rian4u OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"One of the most amazing experiences ever, giving everything to a woman and having her in control. Strapless strapons help her experience too "
I am sure you are right a tantalising thought and a brave man to give up control for the moment and thereafter as the dynamic of the relationship gets reset. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
