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How many of you actually read the profile bio part???
I love it when someone actually takes the time to write what they’re after on here. Makes things so much easier to see if you’re after the same things. |
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When I am meeting I don't put what I am looking for as I've had too many say they can but actually physically can't, so I stick to looking for personalities and play the long chat game instead to find what I want |
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over a year ago
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Yup. It gives me a fair idea of what they might be like. Plus if their profile text is shorter than their Sydney Uni "warning" that's a pretty good indicator too |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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I love opening a profile and seeing a lot of text.
I waffle on in my own and it may well put some people off. However a meet will be 90% talk anyway, so if someone can’t take 5 minutes to write their profile, it’s not a good indication of whether they have much substance in person. |
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"When I am meeting I don't put what I am looking for as I've had too many say they can but actually physically can't, so I stick to looking for personalities and play the long chat game instead to find what I want "
I’m the same as you to a certain extent when it comes to playing the long chat game but I still like having a rough idea.
Far too many messages are received to chat to all |
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"Yup. It gives me a fair idea of what they might be like. Plus if their profile text is shorter than their Sydney Uni "warning" that's a pretty good indicator too "
Hahahah oh yes, it annoys me when I see profiles like that.
I’ve also seen profiles with just the Sydney uni warning text lol |
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"I love opening a profile and seeing a lot of text.
I waffle on in my own and it may well put some people off. However a meet will be 90% talk anyway, so if someone can’t take 5 minutes to write their profile, it’s not a good indication of whether they have much substance in person. "
I agree |
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I'll read them to an extent. If it looks like war and peace with massive lines listing off all the negative stuff I lose interest quickly.
Plus any profile with the idiotic "fab swingers is now a publically traded entity...." Spiel is an instant turn off |
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"I'm nosey bugger, so I tend to read them even before looking at their pics.
Lol aren’t we all but I look at pics first "
Ok have to admit, we skipped reading yours and went straight for the pics. Very hot!! |
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"I'm nosey bugger, so I tend to read them even before looking at their pics.
Lol aren’t we all but I look at pics first
Ok have to admit, we skipped reading yours and went straight for the pics. Very hot!! "
awww thank you. Glad you like them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just want to fuck
lol we’re all different and that probably works for you
It would if ppl would want to fuck me !
You’ve been verified so there are people who have and would "
Have I ? |
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"I just want to fuck
lol we’re all different and that probably works for you
It would if ppl would want to fuck me !
You’ve been verified so there are people who have and would
Have I ? "
Green tick in your profile means someone has left you a verification |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just want to fuck
lol we’re all different and that probably works for you
It would if ppl would want to fuck me !
You’ve been verified so there are people who have and would
Have I ?
Green tick in your profile means someone has left you a verification"
It must be by mistake. I do fuck ppl by mistake |
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Always,..it's the polite/right thing to do..
Can't say it's always reciprocated however, If someone has looked at me /winked(on rare occasions) my default is always that they've read my profile, more often than not it's not the case but hey ho. I've read theirs in the least part |
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I occasionally read them but less so only because I'm not really trying to meet or message anyone but I do think you should take the time to read them before messaging someone. Now what the hell does mine say..? |
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It's a three stage process for me, mostly: Pics are normally first, then if proceeding, a quick scan of the profile text to see what type it is (one word? ranty? incomplete? well formatted? light hearted? etc); if the profile text scan passes, the whole thing gets read, of course. |
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"I just want to fuck
lol we’re all different and that probably works for you
It would if ppl would want to fuck me !
You’ve been verified so there are people who have and would
Have I ?
Green tick in your profile means someone has left you a verification
It must be by mistake. I do fuck ppl by mistake "
Is that you using the “oh it just slipped in excuse”
A worthy mistake I’m sure |
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"I occasionally read them but less so only because I'm not really trying to meet or message anyone but I do think you should take the time to read them before messaging someone. Now what the hell does mine say..? "
That makes sense. No point if you aren’t looking to meet |
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"It's a three stage process for me, mostly: Pics are normally first, then if proceeding, a quick scan of the profile text to see what type it is (one word? ranty? incomplete? well formatted? light hearted? etc); if the profile text scan passes, the whole thing gets read, of course."
Are there many that get through your three stages? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just want to fuck
lol we’re all different and that probably works for you
It would if ppl would want to fuck me !
You’ve been verified so there are people who have and would
Have I ?
Green tick in your profile means someone has left you a verification
It must be by mistake. I do fuck ppl by mistake
Is that you using the “oh it just slipped in excuse”
A worthy mistake I’m sure"
It happened more than once ! Last time a woman felt out of her motorbike in a roundabout when trying to help her I ended up fucking her by mistake. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many of you actually read the profile bio part???
I love it when someone actually takes the time to write what they’re after on here. Makes things so much easier to see if you’re after the same things. "
I always read them, because I appreciate when other people do the same before they get in touch with me. |
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I always read the bio.
I'm more interested in who the person is and if we are sexually compatible to if they wanna fuck me or not.
But I guess when you have the privilege to choose then your more picky.
Most guys who don't get offers from multiple females wouldn't give a shit and will take anything coming |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many of you actually read the profile bio part???
I love it when someone actually takes the time to write what they’re after on here. Makes things so much easier to see if you’re after the same things. "
I always read a profile before even considering sending a message. It’s ever so disappointing when you see a profile that really captures the imagination, only to be foiled by age parameters. Lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a three stage process for me, mostly: Pics are normally first, then if proceeding, a quick scan of the profile text to see what type it is (one word? ranty? incomplete? well formatted? light hearted? etc); if the profile text scan passes, the whole thing gets read, of course.
Are there many that get through your three stages? Lol"
I'm just trying to not waste anyone's time!
On the other hand, it is fun to read car-crash profiles as well |
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"I just want to fuck
lol we’re all different and that probably works for you
It would if ppl would want to fuck me !
You’ve been verified so there are people who have and would
Have I ?
Green tick in your profile means someone has left you a verification
It must be by mistake. I do fuck ppl by mistake
Is that you using the “oh it just slipped in excuse”
A worthy mistake I’m sure
It happened more than once ! Last time a woman felt out of her motorbike in a roundabout when trying to help her I ended up fucking her by mistake. "
Such a knight in shining armour hey |
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"How many of you actually read the profile bio part???
I love it when someone actually takes the time to write what they’re after on here. Makes things so much easier to see if you’re after the same things.
I always read a profile before even considering sending a message. It’s ever so disappointing when you see a profile that really captures the imagination, only to be foiled by age parameters. Lol x "
I’m guessing that’s happened to you a few times. Lol
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I read the bio, I'm curious about the person and once you get past the rather generic, formulaic stuff it's interesting how people present themselves. I do think describing *too* much about what you're wanting can lead to people deliberately tailoring their messages to try and appeal to what you want - I prefer naturally finding out what someone likes and if I click with someone (or not as the case might be). |
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"It's a three stage process for me, mostly: Pics are normally first, then if proceeding, a quick scan of the profile text to see what type it is (one word? ranty? incomplete? well formatted? light hearted? etc); if the profile text scan passes, the whole thing gets read, of course.
Are there many that get through your three stages? Lol
I'm just trying to not waste anyone's time!
On the other hand, it is fun to read car-crash profiles as well "
Wise guy |
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"I read the bio, I'm curious about the person and once you get past the rather generic, formulaic stuff it's interesting how people present themselves. I do think describing *too* much about what you're wanting can lead to people deliberately tailoring their messages to try and appeal to what you want - I prefer naturally finding out what someone likes and if I click with someone (or not as the case might be)."
Yes I totally agree with you Hun, I just find it sometimes easier to just say “read my profile” to someone who asks me “what are you looking for” lol |
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I don't, because I'm not necessarily looking for one set thing, and what that thing is might vary from person to person - the first step for me is finding them physically attractive enough to want to get jiggy, so I look at pictures first. I'll then read their profile mainly to see if there's anything in there that puts me off. If all is good on that score I'll chat and see how things develop narurally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love opening a profile and seeing a lot of text.
I waffle on in my own and it may well put some people off. However a meet will be 90% talk anyway, so if someone can’t take 5 minutes to write their profile, it’s not a good indication of whether they have much substance in person. "
I would disagree, I'm very chatty in person, but my profile is sparse to day the least |
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"I read the profile first, then the verifications then might, and honestly only might, look at the pictures.
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Oh yes I check verifications too lol
If there’s far too many it does put me off if I’m honest. But that’s just my own personal preference |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I mostly enjoy reading them to be honest, there are a few on here that turn me on with just their words, that is a skill in itself.
Lol Like what??"
I guess an example would be this...” I’m looking for that physical, mental and emotional connection with someone. Hard to find though.”
This person obvs knows what they want and won’t settle for anything less, Instantly gets my intrigue. Just my preference though. |
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"I mostly enjoy reading them to be honest, there are a few on here that turn me on with just their words, that is a skill in itself.
Lol Like what??
I guess an example would be this...” I’m looking for that physical, mental and emotional connection with someone. Hard to find though.”
This person obvs knows what they want and won’t settle for anything less, Instantly gets my intrigue. Just my preference though. "
She most certainly does know what she wants lol
Being intrigued is a good thing |
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"How many of you actually read the profile bio part???
I love it when someone actually takes the time to write what they’re after on here. Makes things so much easier to see if you’re after the same things. so do i, i mean so many profiles delight in the negative and the punishment for not reading i read profiles as a matter of priority, you can tell much about a person's education and life experience by their bio "
Lol I do hope people aren’t looking too much into my education and life experience though my bio but then again I’ve got a good educational background and would like to think that I’ve been through enough to say I’ve experienced a lot lol |
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"If it's someone I think I may be interested in meeting then I read and digest them fully....
...someone I am just chatting with then not always "
Yeah I know what you mean. When you take interest you want to have a background on them a little |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yes I love reading them.
Unless they don’t understand paragraphs or use text speak... then I’m gone.
Judging by the messages I get, most don’t bother to read mine. |
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"I mostly enjoy reading them to be honest, there are a few on here that turn me on with just their words, that is a skill in itself.
Lol Like what??
I guess an example would be this...” I’m looking for that physical, mental and emotional connection with someone. Hard to find though.”
This person obvs knows what they want and won’t settle for anything less, Instantly gets my intrigue. Just my preference though.
She most certainly does know what she wants lol
Being intrigued is a good thing "
Shame I am too old Gobby x |
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"Yes I love reading them.
Unless they don’t understand paragraphs or use text speak... then I’m gone.
Judging by the messages I get, most don’t bother to read mine."
Had a peek into yours just out of curiosity. Totally agree with what you’re saying |
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"I mostly enjoy reading them to be honest, there are a few on here that turn me on with just their words, that is a skill in itself.
Lol Like what??
I guess an example would be this...” I’m looking for that physical, mental and emotional connection with someone. Hard to find though.”
This person obvs knows what they want and won’t settle for anything less, Instantly gets my intrigue. Just my preference though.
She most certainly does know what she wants lol
Being intrigued is a good thing
Shame I am too old Gobby x"
I did change my age bracket up a bit a while ago but took it back down lol |
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"How many of you actually read the profile bio part???
I love it when someone actually takes the time to write what they’re after on here. Makes things so much easier to see if you’re after the same things. so do i, i mean so many profiles delight in the negative and the punishment for not reading i read profiles as a matter of priority, you can tell much about a person's education and life experience by their bio
Lol I do hope people aren’t looking too much into my education and life experience though my bio but then again I’ve got a good educational background and would like to think that I’ve been through enough to say I’ve experienced a lot loloh you look well experienced "
Depends on what you mean when you say experienced haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I mostly enjoy reading them to be honest, there are a few on here that turn me on with just their words, that is a skill in itself.
Lol Like what??
I guess an example would be this...” I’m looking for that physical, mental and emotional connection with someone. Hard to find though.”
This person obvs knows what they want and won’t settle for anything less, Instantly gets my intrigue. Just my preference though.
She most certainly does know what she wants lol
Being intrigued is a good thing
Shame I am too old Gobby x
I did change my age bracket up a bit a while ago but took it back down lol" i just wanted to say after having read yours I'm phenomenal with lego |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"I don't, because I'm not necessarily looking for one set thing, and what that thing is might vary from person to person - the first step for me is finding them physically attractive enough to want to get jiggy, so I look at pictures first. I'll then read their profile mainly to see if there's anything in there that puts me off. If all is good on that score I'll chat and see how things develop narurally "
To be fair, yours simply needs to say ‘check out these cheekbones’
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"I don't, because I'm not necessarily looking for one set thing, and what that thing is might vary from person to person - the first step for me is finding them physically attractive enough to want to get jiggy, so I look at pictures first. I'll then read their profile mainly to see if there's anything in there that puts me off. If all is good on that score I'll chat and see how things develop narurally
To be fair, yours simply needs to say ‘check out these cheekbones’
" smooth i never got past her breasts i mean you're good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Always read the description, personality is important to me so it's good to always gauge whether you are compatible with someone mentally as well as physically. |
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By *am069Man
over a year ago
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"How many of you actually read the profile bio part???
I love it when someone actually takes the time to write what they’re after on here. Makes things so much easier to see if you’re after the same things. "
I do enjoy reading a good bio
But I won't lie, a short bio is great! The ones that turn into a novel, with the outlook of being turned into a film epic, can be a bit tooooo much saving something for the chat keeps it exciting |
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