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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So in isolation and thinking about life. Lots of changes etc one of them being I would love to find a regular, hot , fun interesting kind intelligent sexy passionate woman to enjoy life ..in every way. If you want similar then post below . Hopefully while we are all locked up we will have someone to look forward to at the end of it all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"‘‘Tis the dream this, but is very elusive, only time will tell I guess "
Ahh but life is a dream. Always remain optimistic;) good luck I hope you find your dream |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"‘‘Tis the dream this, but is very elusive, only time will tell I guess
Ahh but life is a dream. Always remain optimistic;) good luck I hope you find your dream "
Life is a big beautiful dream indeed and I hope that I find that elusive and also you find yours OP |
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The things that dreams are made of! I'd love to meet a partner who was already into the lifestyle - every non-scene man I've dated has had problems with the fact I've had a 'lively' history (I'm open about fetish/swinging although not blow-by-blow accounts!). |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The things that dreams are made of! I'd love to meet a partner who was already into the lifestyle - every non-scene man I've dated has had problems with the fact I've had a 'lively' history (I'm open about fetish/swinging although not blow-by-blow accounts!). "
Im always open and have found most are naughty given the opportunity. I guess its just a bugger being a fussy bugger. I have to actually like the person too x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah if only it was that easy. Well I say that but I never try and make it happen. I'm so fussy and 2/3 days a WK is maximum.
Can't be doing a full time thing spent to long on my own and I like my space. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ah if only it was that easy. Well I say that but I never try and make it happen. I'm so fussy and 2/3 days a WK is maximum.
Can't be doing a full time thing spent to long on my own and I like my space."
Thats fine i am sure most would be happy with that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me! Says you live in the midlands, is that near West Midlands safari park cos I love the reptile enclosure there
Ha no i live in Leicestershire "
Oh well if you’re ever in South Wales, I do like a guy who can rock a polo neck and your penis looks awful strong |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"‘‘Tis the dream this, but is very elusive, only time will tell I guess
Most men seek nsa or "drama free". The latter is hilarious to imply women are all drama, I can safely say as a single I am totally drama free ... It's the men . "
Always is x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"‘‘Tis the dream this, but is very elusive, only time will tell I guess
Most men seek nsa or "drama free". The latter is hilarious to imply women are all drama, I can safely say as a single I am totally drama free ... It's the men . "
I fookin hate drama. One sniff and I’m gawn! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thought will pass once you get your freedom back. Its like the longing for a partner come winter when you want to snuggle and keep warm. It is all sweaty and slippery writhing together come summer dont forget |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The thought will pass once you get your freedom back. Its like the longing for a partner come winter when you want to snuggle and keep warm. It is all sweaty and slippery writhing together come summer dont forget"
Ah no I am far happier with someone x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Id love to find someone for more...proving elusive though.x
Ha you may need to not hide your profile x"
Its hidden for a reason,partly to stop the idiots and nutters that are on here.x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d like it but don’t look for it. Did try normal dating but as a very honest person found my fab history freaks guys out and quite frankly I like really good sex and if my sexual history is freaking you out then your probably not for me |
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Same, it took the end of the he works for me to realise that I wanted more than just non stop casual sex.
It's very lonely now all the women I have sex with are back with their husbands etc..
Just kidding. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d like it but don’t look for it. Did try normal dating but as a very honest person found my fab history freaks guys out and quite frankly I like really good sex and if my sexual history is freaking you out then your probably not for me "
Well being sexual and your likes etc is massively important in a relationship too. If you have intimacy and openess , and a great sex life then you can get through the tough times every relationship has. So I am always open about my deviant ways and find most women tend to like it. There are just very few women here looking for the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’d like it but don’t look for it. Did try normal dating but as a very honest person found my fab history freaks guys out and quite frankly I like really good sex and if my sexual history is freaking you out then your probably not for me
Well being sexual and your likes etc is massively important in a relationship too. If you have intimacy and openess , and a great sex life then you can get through the tough times every relationship has. So I am always open about my deviant ways and find most women tend to like it. There are just very few women here looking for the same. "
Well this thread is a good start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So in isolation and thinking about life. Lots of changes etc one of them being I would love to find a regular, hot , fun interesting kind intelligent sexy passionate woman to enjoy life ..in every way. If you want similar then post below . Hopefully while we are all locked up we will have someone to look forward to at the end of it all. "
Actually started debating rebooting the old dating apps for exactly that but would be perfect if it was a Fab Guy. X |
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"So in isolation and thinking about life. Lots of changes etc one of them being I would love to find a regular, hot , fun interesting kind intelligent sexy passionate woman to enjoy life ..in every way. If you want similar then post below . Hopefully while we are all locked up we will have someone to look forward to at the end of it all.
Actually started debating rebooting the old dating apps for exactly that but would be perfect if it was a Fab Guy. X"
This
Lol, I've been on one for a month or so but far too vanilla, jeez some of the guys are more prudish than the women!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So in isolation and thinking about life. Lots of changes etc one of them being I would love to find a regular, hot , fun interesting kind intelligent sexy passionate woman to enjoy life ..in every way. If you want similar then post below . Hopefully while we are all locked up we will have someone to look forward to at the end of it all.
Actually started debating rebooting the old dating apps for exactly that but would be perfect if it was a Fab Guy. X
This
Lol, I've been on one for a month or so but far too vanilla, jeez some of the guys are more prudish than the women!! "
That’s what puts me off! |
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Seems as there are as many women looking as there are men, judging by this and another similar thread recently.
A combination of location and not understanding the dynamics involved probably prevents meeting the partner we're searching for...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think half the problem is people don’t specify what they’re looking for or they’re worried it may put people off. My profile was so specific on what I wanted. I had plenty people say why are you here blah blah but I still found what I was looking for. Twice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There was no one on my horizon really before all of this.... very unlikely goin forward but it has made me think..... I prob wouldnt mind someone "
Don't do it. I'd lose my wing woman x |
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"So in isolation and thinking about life. Lots of changes etc one of them being I would love to find a regular, hot , fun interesting kind intelligent sexy passionate woman to enjoy life ..in every way. If you want similar then post below . Hopefully while we are all locked up we will have someone to look forward to at the end of it all.
Actually started debating rebooting the old dating apps for exactly that but would be perfect if it was a Fab Guy. X
This
Lol, I've been on one for a month or so but far too vanilla, jeez some of the guys are more prudish than the women!!
That’s what puts me off! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One of these days, I shall have a couples profile on fab.
I swear I'd get more tea & food offers "
Nah you don’t. We don’t get many messages. Although we don’t use it much that may be why |
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"One of these days, I shall have a couples profile on fab.
I swear I'd get more tea & food offers
Nah you don’t. We don’t get many messages. Although we don’t use it much that may be why "
Flippin heck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"‘‘Tis the dream this, but is very elusive, only time will tell I guess
Most men seek nsa or "drama free". The latter is hilarious to imply women are all drama, I can safely say as a single I am totally drama free ... It's the men .
Always is x"
Anything that does not suit them or you catch them out and it's drama, they have to justify being an idiot somehow |
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I have a partner but we are hoping to find some regular partners to join us .. it would be my preference rather than lots of random meets .. a couple of guys.. a couple of couples and of course that elusive single lady ..
Vixen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So in isolation and thinking about life. Lots of changes etc one of them being I would love to find a regular, hot , fun interesting kind intelligent sexy passionate woman to enjoy life ..in every way. If you want similar then post below . Hopefully while we are all locked up we will have someone to look forward to at the end of it all. "
To late I married her |
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"There was no one on my horizon really before all of this.... very unlikely goin forward but it has made me think..... I prob wouldnt mind someone
Don't do it. I'd lose my wing woman x"
Well we cant lose our wing women! Will just have to hide in the cave eating ferrero rocher x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The search continues ..good to see others after similar
Don't know why your single your hot"
Thank you thats very kind of you. I guess finding someone right shouldn't be easy as its rare x |
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"So your ready to give up swinging on your own?
Yes I prefer a naughty partner to play with anyway. Fast food sex does nothing for me xx"
Haha this.. and yeah your pics are lovely. Hope you find someone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So your ready to give up swinging on your own?
Yes I prefer a naughty partner to play with anyway. Fast food sex does nothing for me xx
Haha this.. and yeah your pics are lovely. Hope you find someone "
Thank you..yours too xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being in isolation kinda makes me have moments of thinking like this. I really enjoy my freedom leading a hedonistic lifestyle but maybe one day. Good luck in your search OP |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Being in isolation kinda makes me have moments of thinking like this. I really enjoy my freedom leading a hedonistic lifestyle but maybe one day. Good luck in your search OP "
Well I still want the hedonism..just with a partner x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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me and my hubs said in late 2018 that our couples accont and this accont was to look for regular meets rather than one off ...its not working as guys say they want regular but in fact they dont what they want is exclusive and thats not swinging or more poly and thats not swinging either ...we will continue to look and maybe it will happen just a few regulars for non clingy sexual horny fun ...
and not forgetting some guys are getting scared off because some couples / single women want more than what the single men are offering too ... its not as easy ase it all sounds so glad im married would hate to be a single woman wanting fun i get hassle enought as is god know what shit they put up with .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have exactly this.... we are 4 months in and loving it, we are both in relationships so this suits us to the ground... although there are rumblings of feelings
To the others that have managed long length fuck buddies.. how have you managed to leave feelings out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The things that dreams are made of! I'd love to meet a partner who was already into the lifestyle - every non-scene man I've dated has had problems with the fact I've had a 'lively' history (I'm open about fetish/swinging although not blow-by-blow accounts!). "
I totally agree. I tried some conventional dating last year and a lady I’d been seeing a few weeks was mortified to hear about my swinging history. Ended rather quickly ! I read that so wrong. Would be amazing to find a partner into the lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm also looking for that elusive combination of relationship and swinging partner, there has to be 'the one' out there surely.
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Possibly but we all have to share him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So in isolation and thinking about life. Lots of changes etc one of them being I would love to find a regular, hot , fun interesting kind intelligent sexy passionate woman to enjoy life ..in every way. If you want similar then post below . Hopefully while we are all locked up we will have someone to look forward to at the end of it all. "
your not the only one who wants that... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have exactly this.... we are 4 months in and loving it, we are both in relationships so this suits us to the ground... although there are rumblings of feelings
To the others that have managed long length fuck buddies.. how have you managed to leave feelings out? "
I haven’t. But feelings don’t bother me. I don’t think it’s possible to have a long term thing without some feelings. It isn’t possible for me anyway x |
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I can’t get on with LT relationships, doesn’t suit me at all. I had a fantastic FwB who I’m still in contact with, now as friends only. We respected each other, had our own lifestyle but enjoyed each other’s company when we could. We didn’t need to step over the boundary of nsa and there was never any drama. My new FB doesn’t do drama either. Nor does he throw bullshit at me
I Often see men here creating their own drama without realising it. If you chat with a few females, one of them is bound to mention it to another and there’s the match that lit the blue touch paper!! It would help if you keep your own council and don’t recite the same conversation to each of them - and lamppost pissing clearly gives your game away! just saying ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want a friend with benefits
Ok roughly £110 every 2 weeks
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Lol that's a great deal i thought a friend with benefits was someone who was on dla or pip lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want a friend with benefits
Ok roughly £110 every 2 weeks
I'll give ya a penny. need to be atleast gold
Only if your good." i'm a good boy. I ate all my dinner |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I want a friend with benefits
Ok roughly £110 every 2 weeks
I'll give ya a penny. need to be atleast gold
Only if your good.i'm a good boy. I ate all my dinner"
Good cause I don't cook. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want a friend with benefits
Ok roughly £110 every 2 weeks
I'll give ya a penny. need to be atleast gold
Only if your good.i'm a good boy. I ate all my dinner
Good cause I don't cook." |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"I want a friend with benefits
Ok roughly £110 every 2 weeks
I'll give ya a penny. need to be atleast gold
Only if your good.i'm a good boy. I ate all my dinner
Good cause I don't cook. "
I can though just don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm finding myself thinking there's something missing. Quite possibly because I've had a lot of time to think in Isolation. Ultimately i'd rather be on my own than just settle.
It would be nice to meet someone away from Fab and see what happens.
In the meantime, this site certainly serves a purpose for me |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"The things that dreams are made of! I'd love to meet a partner who was already into the lifestyle - every non-scene man I've dated has had problems with the fact I've had a 'lively' history (I'm open about fetish/swinging although not blow-by-blow accounts!). "
God I would have been intrigued and curious ..and attracted ...I only discovered this world relatively recently. |
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I consider myself very lucky to have met MrD on POF in late 2018. We talked about swinging early on. He wasnt on pof to find a swinging partner...he wanted a gf. I just wanted casual sex!
But things developed & he is my partner in life. Met him at the worst time in my life EVER. He has picked me up soooooo many times when I have hit rock bottom. He is the opposite of my ex. Good thing about looking for a guy after a marriage breakup is that you get to be more pickey....MrD is more my type.
We both like swinging. He loves lingerie, I love dressing up. He loves using my toys on me. Its a win win win!!!
MsD xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Criterion:
- Intelligent
- Confident
- Sexy
- a foodie
- open to road trips and weekends away
Meets once or twice a month will be perfect.
Applications in my inbox please.
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By *ee80Woman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"It’s definitely the dream. Vanilla dating always leaves something unfulfilled but endless casual sex isn’t for me either "
This is the page I'm on. Doesn't help when people tell you what they think you want to hear, but can't follow through when it comes down to it. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
Plymouth |
"That's the original reason I came onto fabs all those years ago.... unfortunately I never found it with somebody who could give me his all....so I will keep looking you never know "
Some people have commented it's easier to start with a vanilla relationship and then move into swinging...I wonder if that is true and whether fab is best place to look for something more serious... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So in isolation and thinking about life. Lots of changes etc one of them being I would love to find a regular, hot , fun interesting kind intelligent sexy passionate woman to enjoy life ..in every way. If you want similar then post below . Hopefully while we are all locked up we will have someone to look forward to at the end of it all. "
I love being single after being in an extremely unhappy marriage for years. But I must say this lockdown has made me slightly jealous of the happy couples out there that can be together x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love being single after being in an extremely unhappy marriage for years. But I must say this lockdown has made me slightly jealous of the happy couples out there that can be together x"
I feel the same way!
I have been in several unforfilling, dishonest relationships that made me feel mental - so being single is lovely.
But during times like these I feel envious of couples and families that get to be together too |
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