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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Wouldn't it be a good idea for the benefit of all genuine users to name and shame fakes or those who obtain pics by deception. All I can say it what goes around comes around.

Just been blocked by a couple.

Was asked for face pic which we sent they didn't send one in return as was agreed just blocked us which is cowardly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wouldn't it be a good idea for the benefit of all genuine users to name and shame fakes or those who obtain pics by deception. All I can say it what goes around comes around.

Just been blocked by a couple.

Was asked for face pic which we sent they didn't send one in return as was agreed just blocked us which is cowardly.

Maybe they knew you and felt embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wouldn't it be a good idea for the benefit of all genuine users to name and shame fakes or those who obtain pics by deception. All I can say it what goes around comes around.

Just been blocked by a couple.

Was asked for face pic which we sent they didn't send one in return as was agreed just blocked us which is cowardly.

I mean this in the nicest possible way but just maybe they didnt like your faces and rather than say thanks but no thanks, they took the easy way out?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It wouldn’t work. Open to abuse

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No I got awful abuse from a guy and was accused of been fake. If he had chance to name and shame me he would have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Wouldn't it be a good idea for the benefit of all genuine users to name and shame fakes or those who obtain pics by deception. All I can say it what goes around comes around.

Just been blocked by a couple.

Was asked for face pic which we sent they didn't send one in return as was agreed just blocked us which is cowardly.

They took an impolite and cowards way out. Can't do with that would rather be told to **** off

I mean this in the nicest possible way but just maybe they didnt like your faces and rather than say thanks but no thanks, they took the easy way out?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone."

Exactly. “ Iswinginadress, was a bitch and never turned up”. See what happens OP?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wouldn't it be a good idea for the benefit of all genuine users to name and shame fakes or those who obtain pics by deception. All I can say it what goes around comes around.

Just been blocked by a couple.

Was asked for face pic which we sent they didn't send one in return as was agreed just blocked us which is cowardly.

You want to name and shame someone for blocking you???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

None of those things necessarily say they are fake. Although you've chosen to name and shame them regardless. Just move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It wouldn’t work. Open to abuse "

That's the problem. Maybe fab should be a fully subscribed service. Charge all users.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wouldn't it be a good idea for the benefit of all genuine users to name and shame fakes or those who obtain pics by deception. All I can say it what goes around comes around.

Just been blocked by a couple.

Was asked for face pic which we sent they didn't send one in return as was agreed just blocked us which is cowardly.

Maybe they weren’t fake, just not attracted to you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If we're gonna be calling people out just for being a bit rude then the list will be endless!

Can you imagine the amount of guys naming all the woman who didn't reply!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It wouldn’t work. Open to abuse

That's the problem. Maybe fab should be a fully subscribed service. Charge all users. "

Eyyy!! So you think by doing this will make people more genuine?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It wouldn’t work. Open to abuse

That's the problem. Maybe fab should be a fully subscribed service. Charge all users. "

Because only genuine users have that spare fiver...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"None of those things necessarily say they are fake. Although you've chosen to name and shame them regardless. Just move on"

We do but if you ask for pics you at least keep your half of the bargain. How can you trust other fabbers because at the back of your mind you can't help but doubt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It wouldn’t work. Open to abuse

That's the problem. Maybe fab should be a fully subscribed service. Charge all users.

Because only genuine users have that spare fiver..."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None of those things necessarily say they are fake. Although you've chosen to name and shame them regardless. Just move on

We do but if you ask for pics you at least keep your half of the bargain. How can you trust other fabbers because at the back of your mind you can't help but doubt "

If I ask for a pic and I’m not attracted I won’t send one in return, what’s the point?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It wouldn’t work. Open to abuse

That's the problem. Maybe fab should be a fully subscribed service. Charge all users.

Eyyy!! So you think by doing this will make people more genuine?"

You would have to be an idiot to pay for the priveledge of being fake.

Charge £15 per month

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None of those things necessarily say they are fake. Although you've chosen to name and shame them regardless. Just move on

We do but if you ask for pics you at least keep your half of the bargain. How can you trust other fabbers because at the back of your mind you can't help but doubt "

But they're not attracted to you so what does it matter what they look like? It's not going to go any further anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"None of those things necessarily say they are fake. Although you've chosen to name and shame them regardless. Just move on

We do but if you ask for pics you at least keep your half of the bargain. How can you trust other fabbers because at the back of your mind you can't help but doubt

If I ask for a pic and I’m not attracted I won’t send one in return, what’s the point? "

So it's ok to ask to swap pics then go back on your word

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None of those things necessarily say they are fake. Although you've chosen to name and shame them regardless. Just move on

We do but if you ask for pics you at least keep your half of the bargain. How can you trust other fabbers because at the back of your mind you can't help but doubt "

But if they've decided you're not for them why would they send a face pic back? What would be the point?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It wouldn’t work. Open to abuse

That's the problem. Maybe fab should be a fully subscribed service. Charge all users.

Eyyy!! So you think by doing this will make people more genuine?

You would have to be an idiot to pay for the priveledge of being fake.

Charge £15 per month"

And genuine people like me would swerve £180 per year

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None of those things necessarily say they are fake. Although you've chosen to name and shame them regardless. Just move on

We do but if you ask for pics you at least keep your half of the bargain. How can you trust other fabbers because at the back of your mind you can't help but doubt

But if they've decided you're not for them why would they send a face pic back? What would be the point?"

Exactly.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

And relax.....

Shit happens, they say your photo and didn't like what they saw, it happens to all of us, what do you expect them to do?

"thanks for your pic, sorry not for us, but hey, here's a picture of our smiling mugs to put on your mantelpiece?"

That would be a bit daft would it not? To send your face pic to someone you are not attracted too? Why would you even do that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None of those things necessarily say they are fake. Although you've chosen to name and shame them regardless. Just move on

We do but if you ask for pics you at least keep your half of the bargain. How can you trust other fabbers because at the back of your mind you can't help but doubt

If I ask for a pic and I’m not attracted I won’t send one in return, what’s the point? "

I don’t most of the time either to be honest. Forum people I usually do but everyone else I don’t

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None of those things necessarily say they are fake. Although you've chosen to name and shame them regardless. Just move on

We do but if you ask for pics you at least keep your half of the bargain. How can you trust other fabbers because at the back of your mind you can't help but doubt

If I ask for a pic and I’m not attracted I won’t send one in return, what’s the point?

So it's ok to ask to swap pics then go back on your word "

If someone messaged me I will always expect a face pic. If I message them I will send one.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone.

Exactly. “ Iswinginadress, was a bitch and never turned up”. See what happens OP?"

"Pictureofpicasso actually has a penis."

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone.

Exactly. “ Iswinginadress, was a bitch and never turned up”. See what happens OP?

"Pictureofpicasso actually has a penis.""

She said "making stuff up"........

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone.

Exactly. “ Iswinginadress, was a bitch and never turned up”. See what happens OP?

"Pictureofpicasso actually has a penis."

She said "making stuff up"........"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone.

Exactly. “ Iswinginadress, was a bitch and never turned up”. See what happens OP?

"Pictureofpicasso actually has a penis.""

OMG that’s so true. Shush

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It wouldn’t work. Open to abuse

That's the problem. Maybe fab should be a fully subscribed service. Charge all users.

Eyyy!! So you think by doing this will make people more genuine?

You would have to be an idiot to pay for the priveledge of being fake.

Charge £15 per month"

If your not happy on here leave

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone.

Exactly. “ Iswinginadress, was a bitch and never turned up”. See what happens OP?

"Pictureofpicasso actually has a penis."

She said "making stuff up"........"

Err I have a very big proud plastic penis. So not a lie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No it's a very bad idea.

I can see it now, some gets rejected so decides to say said person is fake. Plus some people think a fake is someone that ignores and or deletes there message.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone.

Exactly. “ Iswinginadress, was a bitch and never turned up”. See what happens OP?

"Pictureofpicasso actually has a penis."

She said "making stuff up"........

Err I have a very big proud plastic penis. So not a lie

"plastic"........riiiiiiiight.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If we're gonna be calling people out just for being a bit rude then the list will be endless!

Can you imagine the amount of guys naming all the woman who didn't reply! "

Tempted you call you out tbh.

#letsitgo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just because someone blocks you doesn't mean they're fake.

Paying for being on this site will not put some people off - who are not genuine - but can lead to genuine ones not to bother anymore.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone.

Exactly. “ Iswinginadress, was a bitch and never turned up”. See what happens OP?

"Pictureofpicasso actually has a penis."

She said "making stuff up"........

Err I have a very big proud plastic penis. So not a lie

"plastic"........riiiiiiiight.......

Ahhhh ok so you think it’s real?

. I’m sure my veris, will confirm I don’t have a real life willy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just because someone blocks you doesn't mean they're fake.

Paying for being on this site will not put some people off - who are not genuine - but can lead to genuine ones not to bother anymore."

What she said.

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By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

"None of those things necessarily say they are fake. Although you've chosen to name and shame them regardless. Just move on

We do but if you ask for pics you at least keep your half of the bargain. How can you trust other fabbers because at the back of your mind you can't help but doubt

If I ask for a pic and I’m not attracted I won’t send one in return, what’s the point?

So it's ok to ask to swap pics then go back on your word "
they saw your photos and were intimidated because you are way above their league perhaps,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"None of those things necessarily say they are fake. Although you've chosen to name and shame them regardless. Just move on

We do but if you ask for pics you at least keep your half of the bargain. How can you trust other fabbers because at the back of your mind you can't help but doubt

If I ask for a pic and I’m not attracted I won’t send one in return, what’s the point?

So it's ok to ask to swap pics then go back on your word they saw your photos and were intimidated because you are way above their league perhaps, "

Serious?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone.

Exactly. “ Iswinginadress, was a bitch and never turned up”. See what happens OP?

"Pictureofpicasso actually has a penis."

She said "making stuff up"........

Err I have a very big proud plastic penis. So not a lie

"plastic"........riiiiiiiight.......

Ahhhh ok so you think it’s real?

. I’m sure my veris, will confirm I don’t have a real life willy

Specifically states "wobbly bits" on your profile. Look its okay PoP, I am not judgey, I think it's very brave of you, well done

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Bloody hell, we will be making and shaming people who reject us next

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You're missing the point we were invited to swap pics which we did they didn't send one back like they said.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"You're missing the point we were invited to swap pics which we did they didn't send one back like they said.

I think we all know what you mean, we just don't think it deserves naming and shaming.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It wouldn’t work. Open to abuse

That's the problem. Maybe fab should be a fully subscribed service. Charge all users.

Eyyy!! So you think by doing this will make people more genuine?

You would have to be an idiot to pay for the priveledge of being fake.

Charge £15 per month"

So poor people cannot use the site... Very diverse of you.

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’m surprised this thread has got as far as this without being deleted!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're missing the point we were invited to swap pics which we did they didn't send one back like they said.

This happens all the time though. They’re not breaking any rules.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You're missing the point we were invited to swap pics which we did they didn't send one back like they said.

Not missing the point at all. It's not as if it's a binding contract. No-one is obligated to do anything, that includes you OP. If you're not happy to send face pics, regardless of whether it's reciprocated, then don't send them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone.

Exactly. “ Iswinginadress, was a bitch and never turned up”. See what happens OP?

"Pictureofpicasso actually has a penis."

She said "making stuff up"........

Err I have a very big proud plastic penis. So not a lie

"plastic"........riiiiiiiight.......

Ahhhh ok so you think it’s real?

. I’m sure my veris, will confirm I don’t have a real life willy

Specifically states "wobbly bits" on your profile. Look its okay PoP, I am not judgey, I think it's very brave of you, well done"

I’m actually crying laughing here. My wobbly bits are my belly or boobs. I really don’t have bollocks! Well not real physical ones! Metaphorically I do! Big fooking ones !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Fuck the lit of ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

lot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fuck the lit of ya "

Why are you saying that?

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By *ENGUYMan over a year ago

Hull

"You're missing the point we were invited to swap pics which we did they didn't send one back like they said.

I've been on this site for over 10 years, plus in other periods over that time and prior to as well, I was on other sites.

OP, the issue you've encountered has happened since the midst of times, regardless of whether it's a Paid or Free site.

Yes, it's maddening, almost frustrating, but you'll never get rid of the issue. People have a choice to do what they say vs what they actually carry out.

Any, repeat, ANY type of Naming and Shaming serves no purpose; despite the inconvenience, put it down to experience and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fuck the lit of ya "

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By *ecadent_DevonMan over a year ago

Okehampton

"No. Because anyone could make any crap up about anyone.

Exactly. “ Iswinginadress, was a bitch and never turned up”. See what happens OP?

"Pictureofpicasso actually has a penis."

She said "making stuff up"........

Err I have a very big proud plastic penis. So not a lie

"plastic"........riiiiiiiight.......

Ahhhh ok so you think it’s real?

. I’m sure my veris, will confirm I don’t have a real life willy

Specifically states "wobbly bits" on your profile. Look its okay PoP, I am not judgey, I think it's very brave of you, well done

I’m actually crying laughing here. My wobbly bits are my belly or boobs. I really don’t have bollocks! Well not real physical ones! Metaphorically I do! Big fooking ones !! "

methinks the "lady" doth protest too much

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fuck the lit of ya "

bet if the couple are reading this, they are feeling like they made the right decision in not trusting someone with their face pics