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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And I’m not talking about cock size, that’s a whole other subject.
I’m talking about do you have a preference when it comes to body fat?
Do you go for athletic, slim, Average, chubby etc. And does it matter to you?
Obviously personality is much more important, I’m talking from a physical attraction point of view.
By the way, this is not a body shaming thread. So if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like people
I’m attracted to people
I care not about their size
If someone wouldn’t want me larger, then I likely wouldn’t meet them at the size I am now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like people
I’m attracted to people
I care not about their size
If someone wouldn’t want me larger, then I likely wouldn’t meet them at the size I am now.
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Don’t you have to be physically attracted to someone though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think I have a preference, beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, personality and how a person holds themselves has a lot to do with how attracted I am to someone. |
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I am currently going to the gym to lose weight and tone up, my goal is 6 pack and V line.. currently I have lost nearly 23 pounds and still going strong..
Why am I doing this?
I believe the single most important thing is how YOU feel about YOURSELF... if someone doesn’t like you for who you are then they aren’t worth having in your life... wether slim, toned, large, curvy, big booty, small boobs, small dick etc etc
I have always wanted to be toned and fit but due to a major trauma in my life and medical reasons I wasn’t able/didn’t have the passion or drive to get it done... now my head is in the right place for ME and no one else... if they don’t like me, my mind, my look then I say bollocks to them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am currently going to the gym to lose weight and tone up, my goal is 6 pack and V line.. currently I have lost nearly 23 pounds and still going strong..
Why am I doing this?
I believe the single most important thing is how YOU feel about YOURSELF... if someone doesn’t like you for who you are then they aren’t worth having in your life... wether slim, toned, large, curvy, big booty, small boobs, small dick etc etc
I have always wanted to be toned and fit but due to a major trauma in my life and medical reasons I wasn’t able/didn’t have the passion or drive to get it done... now my head is in the right place for ME and no one else... if they don’t like me, my mind, my look then I say bollocks to them "
Couldn’t agree more. Doesn’t matter what anyone says about me if I’m not happy with myself it will make no difference whatsoever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think I have a preference, beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, personality and how a person holds themselves has a lot to do with how attracted I am to someone. "
This |
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"I am currently going to the gym to lose weight and tone up, my goal is 6 pack and V line.. currently I have lost nearly 23 pounds and still going strong..
Why am I doing this?
I believe the single most important thing is how YOU feel about YOURSELF... if someone doesn’t like you for who you are then they aren’t worth having in your life... wether slim, toned, large, curvy, big booty, small boobs, small dick etc etc
I have always wanted to be toned and fit but due to a major trauma in my life and medical reasons I wasn’t able/didn’t have the passion or drive to get it done... now my head is in the right place for ME and no one else... if they don’t like me, my mind, my look then I say bollocks to them
Couldn’t agree more. Doesn’t matter what anyone says about me if I’m not happy with myself it will make no difference whatsoever. "
Exactly, I am aiming to start joining clubs to meet new people but right at this moment I am not comfortable in my own body, what other people think is secondary at the minute, however nice and complimentary they or however welcoming they are I will always have that voice in my head telling me I’m not comfortable |
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By *B69Woman
over a year ago
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I do tend to go for the more solid man, I like a man to be able to grip me hard and throw me around, not being of the petite range he would have to be bigger than me to accomplish this so I guess I do have a type  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm usually attracted to personality more than anything, obviously there has to be some kind of visual attraction, but an "attractive" person could have an horrible personality and that would make them visually unattractive to me and vice versa, size doesn't matter one bit but having said that apparently according to friends, I do have "a type". Its been pointed out on more than one occasion by some of my more narrow minded "friends" that I like a bigger woman. |
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Me & T are complete opposites body wise. He is tall & slender whereas I am short & have put on a lot of weight. I worry about what people think of my body & why they would want to meet us. I have always had serious negative body issues even when slimmer.
I need a spark, a sense of humour & good conversation. If they have a nice body too then it’s a bonus
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind."
Not for me. I need both. Plus a whole lot more. Hence hardly meeting anyone as it’s hard to find. Just the way I am though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly dont care about there body size, if i like the person i like them there nothing else that matter, i don't care what others think of my choices because at the end of the day its about what makes me happy so long as that is all you focus upon what does it matter to anyone else |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a larger than life personality.
If that comes in a slim package or a large package then I don't mind either way.
Being very large myself I understand I would not be everyone's cup of tea. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Nope, i’ve had all different shapes and heights as lovers.
I tend to go on their aura. Some people exude sexiness and that and a good sense of humour/good personality is what attracts me.
Although facially i tend to favour men who look like they’re rugged/outdoorsy/weathered. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Either extreme I've tended to not be attracted to. Generally though I'm more about that spark I have in someone and the passion I see in their eyes. Don't get me wrong, a nice low slung pair of boxers with a V on show and I'll be thinking about how quickly to remove them but overall it isn't so much about the body, more the person inside it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not attracted to any extreme. I like someone who obviously cares about their appearance. Personality doesn't come into it unless I find them attractive physically. I'm not looking for a soul mate. A good fucking is all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind."
Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind.
Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape?"
I was talking from my perspective, everyone is different |
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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm not attracted to any extreme. I like someone who obviously cares about their appearance. Personality doesn't come into it unless I find them attractive physically. I'm not looking for a soul mate. A good fucking is all. "
Pretty much the same for me, shallow as it sounds.
If I was looking for a ltr it might be different....but not much! |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind.
Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape?
I was talking from my perspective, everyone is different "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind.
Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape?
I was talking from my perspective, everyone is different "
That's not what you said though. So forgive me if I read what you actually wrote. |
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"Either extreme I've tended to not be attracted to. Generally though I'm more about that spark I have in someone and the passion I see in their eyes. Don't get me wrong, a nice low slung pair of boxers with a V on show and I'll be thinking about how quickly to remove them but overall it isn't so much about the body, more the person inside it."
Does V stand for Vagina? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it’s a good fuck you are looking for how do you know the larger person isn’t going to give the best orgasm you have ever had?? "
Because I don't find them physically attractive so I wouldn't be into it at all. That's how. |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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I definitely do.
Tall, slim (not skinny) toned (not overly) strong jaw line and good hands.
But.....I've met people who are nothing like that and been attracted to them and I've met people who are exactly that and not been attracted to them.
It's about chemistry, and intelligence and personality.
But for initial attraction then that's what I look for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attraction is a fickle thing. You think you know what you like and then boof! Along comes someone who doesn’t meet any of your criteria but is as hot as hell.
The only thing I’m sure of now if that the guy cannot be shorter than me...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Either extreme I've tended to not be attracted to. Generally though I'm more about that spark I have in someone and the passion I see in their eyes. Don't get me wrong, a nice low slung pair of boxers with a V on show and I'll be thinking about how quickly to remove them but overall it isn't so much about the body, more the person inside it.
Does V stand for Vagina?"
Yeah, I'm going back to women now. Far easier. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
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"And I’m not talking about cock size, that’s a whole other subject.
I’m talking about do you have a preference when it comes to body fat?
Do you go for athletic, slim, Average, chubby etc. And does it matter to you?
Obviously personality is much more important, I’m talking from a physical attraction point of view.
By the way, this is not a body shaming thread. So if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say it. "
Oops I thought you meant cock Prince has a big one |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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Tend to be attracted to bigger than average when looking at pics , curvy, solid, voluptuous. In real life body size doesn’t make the slightest bit of difference to chemistry, it’s eyes, smile, personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?"
A bit of both, I meant I find them attractive sexually. But personality also comes into play, especially since a lot of conventionally attractive people are known to not have much of a personality anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?
A bit of both, I meant I find them attractive sexually. But personality also comes into play, especially since a lot of conventionally attractive people are known to not have much of a personality anyway. "
Yes both. That’s what I said. I find it difficult to believe that physical and/or facial attraction doesn’t come into it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?
A bit of both, I meant I find them attractive sexually. But personality also comes into play, especially since a lot of conventionally attractive people are known to not have much of a personality anyway. "
Have you been turned down by a lot of conventionally attractive people??? |
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"Attraction is a fickle thing. You think you know what you like and then boof! Along comes someone who doesn’t meet any of your criteria but is as hot as hell.
The only thing I’m sure of now if that the guy cannot be shorter than me... "
I’m shorter than you if I’m on my knees in front of your naked body, if that’s any help |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a guy had a really handsome face and was loved all the same things as me and wanted to be exclusive to me yet he was carrying a few extra lbs and slightly overweight, I’d snap him up...and then get him in shape. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?
A bit of both, I meant I find them attractive sexually. But personality also comes into play, especially since a lot of conventionally attractive people are known to not have much of a personality anyway.
Have you been turned down by a lot of conventionally attractive people??? "
Not really, I do pretty well. I meant conversationally for instance. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?"
Depends. My idea of good looking is not necessarily conventionally good looking.
I find Paul Kaye attractive and i found John Candy attractive. It’s that “something” that gives them that fwoar factor. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?
Depends. My idea of good looking is not necessarily conventionally good looking.
I find Paul Kaye attractive and i found John Candy attractive. It’s that “something” that gives them that fwoar factor. "
I agree. Neither is mine. I don’t see anything good looking about George clooney for example. That’s not what i mean though. Surely the person had to be facially and physically attractive to you is what I mean, not just have a great personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a type but that doesn't mean that's the only type im attracted to. A person can look great but have no depth to them and whether it's just one-off sex or not im turned off by that. Arrogance is also a massive turn off even if it comes in a pretty box. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not really.
It doesn't really feature on my list of requirements as such.
Facial attraction first, without that then it's a no.
Personality overall is the biggest part of it, I dont fuck just based on looks. I also wont fuck based on just a personality, if I dont fancy the face then no amount of personality can make me want to take it further.
If I fancy your face and personality then bodyshape/size is largely irrelevant.
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