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Profiles that say "No nutters"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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When you see a profile that only says "No nutters" do you just avoid them or think "Aren't we all a bit nuts in our own way?
I personally think that they've probably got a few nuts knocking about if they say that.
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"I doubt that many people self-identity as nutters so it's probably a bit of a redundant thing to say. "
You would be surprised. I know lots of people with mental health issues that refere to themselves as a nutter. Its reclaiming the word back. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to add "no nutters" to my profile(s). I was stalked for 4 weeks by a woman who used her 28yr old daughters pictures in her profile.... when I politely declined her invitation to chat (basically because I went to Starbucks under false pretenses and saw her!) - she flipped.
She must have been in her mid to late 60s.
She apparently followed me home and found out where I lived.... I came off dating sites for years when that happened.
The police only got involved when she started emailing me photos she had taken through my house windows.
even my kids asked on two occasions "who's that dad?"
Anyway - so... I sometime ask for "No Nutters" based on this... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to add "no nutters" to my profile(s). I was stalked for 4 weeks by a woman who used her 28yr old daughters pictures in her profile.... when I politely declined her invitation to chat (basically because I went to Starbucks under false pretenses and saw her!) - she flipped.
She must have been in her mid to late 60s.
She apparently followed me home and found out where I lived.... I came off dating sites for years when that happened.
The police only got involved when she started emailing me photos she had taken through my house windows.
even my kids asked on two occasions "who's that dad?"
Anyway - so... I sometime ask for "No Nutters" based on this..."
Wow. Sorry you had to experience that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh the 'no nutters/dickheads/mingers' line.
As if anybody would stop ato think "well, I AM an actual nutter/dickhead/minger, so I'd better not message this one!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you see a profile that only says "No nutters" do you just avoid them or think "Aren't we all a bit nuts in our own way?
I personally think that they've probably got a few nuts knocking about if they say that.
" it takes a nut to know a nut |
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If people say things like no nutters, weirdos etc then we find it totally off putting. We find those derogatory names for people, hence we wouldn't want to be associated with anyone who uses such phrases. |
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"When you see a profile that only says "No nutters" do you just avoid them or think "Aren't we all a bit nuts in our own way?
I personally think that they've probably got a few nuts knocking about if they say that.
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Do we really think that will deter a nutter? I mean isnt the definition of a nutter, someone who will do thier own crazy things? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mine mentions it tongue in cheek (as per the rest of my profile). And if nobody understands that or gets that then meh. One less person to correspond with." i love castanuts |
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"I used to add "no nutters" to my profile(s). I was stalked for 4 weeks by a woman who used her 28yr old daughters pictures in her profile.... when I politely declined her invitation to chat (basically because I went to Starbucks under false pretenses and saw her!) - she flipped.
She must have been in her mid to late 60s.
She apparently followed me home and found out where I lived.... I came off dating sites for years when that happened.
The police only got involved when she started emailing me photos she had taken through my house windows.
even my kids asked on two occasions "who's that dad?"
Anyway - so... I sometime ask for "No Nutters" based on this..."
On the upside, you do now have a really interesting story to tell so you know, every cloud? |
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