I had a meet on friday. The naughty fun kind. All went well. Got on well etc. I had a bit of a meltdown - I have "issues" - which I explained beforehand. Now it feels awkward / hopeless to the chances of meeting again which is fine. I know its fab but just a bit  |
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"Wasnt an intentional thing to do... I had explained my situation. Surely a message to me saying something along the lines of "breathe I'll get back to you" would have helped"
It would of yes but not everybody thinks the same unfortunately. You will get there I'm sure of it  |
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Sex is hard to do right and what I mean by that is it’s hard for some women to separate sex from feelings of attachment, it’s to do with the oxytocin in the brain and all shit like that. It can make you bond to that person.
Also if you can sense them slipping away it can make you try and hold on to them, you could start messaging too much you could say some crazy ass shit or kick off.
All those things is just going to make a guy want to get further away from you.
As always the best thing to do is take a step back, it’s hard but that’s what you have to do.
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"That's basically what I wanted to avoid happening! ( attachment )
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Avoid eye contact and having your breasts fondled and you should be okay. Both stimulate the release of dopamine which increase pair bonding in such situations. |
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I had the same thing when I done a two full night meet with sex and spooning, cuddles, kissing, washing his hair in the bath and all the side bits that you shouldn’t do with what is essentially a one night stand. Think the key is to fuck and then get out of dodge. Don’t spend the full night with them, treat them like an interactive sex doll or a walking talking big rubber dildo and that should stop feelings of closeness. Sounds harsh but it’s basically the same as those type of guys see us. |
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"I had the same thing when I done a two full night meet with sex and spooning, cuddles, kissing, washing his hair in the bath and all the side bits that you shouldn’t do with what is essentially a one night stand. Think the key is to fuck and then get out of dodge. Don’t spend the full night with them, treat them like an interactive sex doll or a walking talking big rubber dildo and that should stop feelings of closeness. Sounds harsh but it’s basically the same as those type of guys see us. "
You sound a real catch ffs  |
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"I had the same thing when I done a two full night meet with sex and spooning, cuddles, kissing, washing his hair in the bath and all the side bits that you shouldn’t do with what is essentially a one night stand. Think the key is to fuck and then get out of dodge. Don’t spend the full night with them, treat them like an interactive sex doll or a walking talking big rubber dildo and that should stop feelings of closeness. Sounds harsh but it’s basically the same as those type of guys see us.
You sound a real catch ffs "
I actually am just gotta harden up cos I’m too soft. Guys can go around like bees putting their dick pollen in 100’s of flowers and then be out there living their best life.
I want to be the coldest cunt there is. |
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