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By *wist my nipples OP Couple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

International Women's Day has got me navel gazing.

I'm a woman in a "traditional" nuclear family, and I'm a feminist.

I work part-time and have shaped my career around my children, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I like to dress up, wear make-up, get my nails and hair done, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I enjoy casual sex with strangers, and being treated as a sex object by men, and I'm a feminist.

Discuss...

Mrs TMN x

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Feminism is about empowering us all to be who we want to be, our best authentic selves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing to discuss

You’re living your life the way you want and it makes you happy.

Regardless of the gender - we should all do this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing to discuss

You’re living your life the way you want and it makes you happy.

Regardless of the gender - we should all do this

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By *elshkinkyMan over a year ago

south wales

Good luck... doing what you are comfortable with doesn’t make you a feminist... makes you a confident person

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"Nothing to discuss

You’re living your life the way you want and it makes you happy.

Regardless of the gender - we should all do this

Love this. It's so true, at times I've struggled with how I identify myself and the actions I take. I'm learning that being true to me (while being a good person!) is the best way to be. If that means I enjoy getting my foof waxed and my new found enjoyment of basic makeup, so be it. My core values and beliefs aren't changed from that enjoyment.

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By *acey_RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

Feminism isn't about saying that traditional gender roles are wrong, more that they are AN option rather than THE option. Its about choice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"International Women's Day has got me navel gazing.

I'm a woman in a "traditional" nuclear family, and I'm a feminist.

I work part-time and have shaped my career around my children, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I like to dress up, wear make-up, get my nails and hair done, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I enjoy casual sex with strangers, and being treated as a sex object by men, and I'm a feminist.

Discuss...

Mrs TMN x"
its a bit like being gay as long as you don't shove it down my throat I'm ok with it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nothing to discuss

You’re living your life the way you want and it makes you happy.

Regardless of the gender - we should all do this

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Good luck... doing what you are comfortable with doesn’t make you a feminist... makes you a confident person

Ah, but as a woman, it does. We are still very much judged on our career, childcare and sexual choices.

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"International Women's Day has got me navel gazing.

I'm a woman in a "traditional" nuclear family, and I'm a feminist.

I work part-time and have shaped my career around my children, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I like to dress up, wear make-up, get my nails and hair done, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I enjoy casual sex with strangers, and being treated as a sex object by men, and I'm a feminist.

Discuss...

Mrs TMN xits a bit like being gay as long as you don't shove it down my throat I'm ok with it

What would constitute "shoving it down your throat?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"International Women's Day has got me navel gazing.

I'm a woman in a "traditional" nuclear family, and I'm a feminist.

I work part-time and have shaped my career around my children, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I like to dress up, wear make-up, get my nails and hair done, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I enjoy casual sex with strangers, and being treated as a sex object by men, and I'm a feminist.

Discuss...

Mrs TMN x"

What does a feminist mean to you? X

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Feminism to me is about having the options and opportunity to be whoever I want to be.

To me it's been about learning my own worth isn't based only on my looks and being a "good wife" whatever the hell that's supposed to mean.

I am myriad of things depending on the situation, don't just define on my gender alone

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Good luck... doing what you are comfortable with doesn’t make you a feminist... makes you a confident person

Ah, but as a woman, it does. We are still very much judged on our career, childcare and sexual choices. "

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

It’s a mans world

But he would be nothing without a woman or a girl

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Feminism isn't about saying that traditional gender roles are wrong, more that they are AN option rather than THE option. Its about choice

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Be true to your self.

Im an independant woman. I work. I wear make up when i want even wear a bra when i want. Ladies we dont need a label.just be happy with yourself.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think we still need feminism. And I will continue to identify as such.

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"International Women's Day has got me navel gazing.

I'm a woman in a "traditional" nuclear family, and I'm a feminist.

I work part-time and have shaped my career around my children, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I like to dress up, wear make-up, get my nails and hair done, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I enjoy casual sex with strangers, and being treated as a sex object by men, and I'm a feminist.

Discuss...

Mrs TMN x

What does a feminist mean to you? X"

It means making choices because they are right for me and my family, not because I "should". It means not being ashamed of my sexuality. It means showing my children that you can choose your own path in life. What about you?

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Some powerful responses

Thanks everyone! x

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By *hilloutMan over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"International Women's Day has got me navel gazing.

I'm a woman in a "traditional" nuclear family, and I'm a feminist.

I work part-time and have shaped my career around my children, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I like to dress up, wear make-up, get my nails and hair done, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I enjoy casual sex with strangers, and being treated as a sex object by men, and I'm a feminist.

Discuss...

Mrs TMN x"

Nothing to discuss really. You're enjoying your life and having the freedom and opportunity to make your own choices in a free society. More power to you

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

"Good luck... doing what you are comfortable with doesn’t make you a feminist... makes you a confident person

Ah, but as a woman, it does. We are still very much judged on our career, childcare and sexual choices. "

You’re all over this stuff, be proud

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"International Women's Day has got me navel gazing.

I'm a woman in a "traditional" nuclear family, and I'm a feminist.

I work part-time and have shaped my career around my children, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I like to dress up, wear make-up, get my nails and hair done, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I enjoy casual sex with strangers, and being treated as a sex object by men, and I'm a feminist.

Discuss...

Mrs TMN xits a bit like being gay as long as you don't shove it down my throat I'm ok with it

What would constitute "shoving it down your throat?" "
making it overly obvious in my company, I'm a gent I'm never rude always thoughtful about the other person, i don’t have a need to constantly talk about sex or how horny i am or to make a woman feel she isn't my equal or indeed my superior, i enjoy life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"International Women's Day has got me navel gazing.

I'm a woman in a "traditional" nuclear family, and I'm a feminist.

I work part-time and have shaped my career around my children, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I like to dress up, wear make-up, get my nails and hair done, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I enjoy casual sex with strangers, and being treated as a sex object by men, and I'm a feminist.

Discuss...

Mrs TMN x

What does a feminist mean to you? X

It means nothing to me but I like your answer as it is forward-thinking. It also paradoxically, shows individual thought too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"International Women's Day has got me navel gazing.

I'm a woman in a "traditional" nuclear family, and I'm a feminist.

I work part-time and have shaped my career around my children, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I like to dress up, wear make-up, get my nails and hair done, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I enjoy casual sex with strangers, and being treated as a sex object by men, and I'm a feminist.

Discuss...

Mrs TMN x"

Me too. X

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By *enn68Man over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Do what you like

Be what you want

Have what you need

And dont let the Bstards grind you down

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"International Women's Day has got me navel gazing.

I'm a woman in a "traditional" nuclear family, and I'm a feminist.

I work part-time and have shaped my career around my children, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I like to dress up, wear make-up, get my nails and hair done, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I enjoy casual sex with strangers, and being treated as a sex object by men, and I'm a feminist.

Discuss...

Mrs TMN x

What does a feminist mean to you? X

It means nothing to me but I like your answer as it is forward-thinking. It also paradoxically, shows individual thought too

Thank you. How is showing individual thought a paradox?

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By *wist my nipples OP Couple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"International Women's Day has got me navel gazing.

I'm a woman in a "traditional" nuclear family, and I'm a feminist.

I work part-time and have shaped my career around my children, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I like to dress up, wear make-up, get my nails and hair done, and I'm a feminist.

Sometimes I enjoy casual sex with strangers, and being treated as a sex object by men, and I'm a feminist.

Discuss...

Mrs TMN xits a bit like being gay as long as you don't shove it down my throat I'm ok with it

What would constitute "shoving it down your throat?" making it overly obvious in my company, I'm a gent I'm never rude always thoughtful about the other person, i don’t have a need to constantly talk about sex or how horny i am or to make a woman feel she isn't my equal or indeed my superior, i enjoy life

OK. Can you give an example of making it "overly obvious?" I honestly don't know what you mean by that.

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