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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman  over a year ago

glasgow

Why is there always a large number of friends requests from guys who have never messaged. Or who have but havent had a reply.

Do men think this approach works? Likewise chatting for 5 minutes and then asking when you have 1 pic total on your profile.... hmmm let me think about that.....

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By *uicy jonesMan  over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Because they are amazed by your beauty

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is there always a large number of friends requests from guys who have never messaged. Or who have but havent had a reply.

Do men think this approach works? Likewise chatting for 5 minutes and then asking when you have 1 pic total on your profile.... hmmm let me think about that..... "

Cos they want to spank off over your private pics!

.

Friend request sent btw

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By *hedevilKTWoman  over a year ago

milton keynes

Hallelujah I think why u sending friend request with no message

And similarly u have sent 20 msgs with no reply give it up

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

The site as more than its fair share of chancers, vultures and neanderthals.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I bulk delete friends requests

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I bulk delete friends requests "

I do the same.......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bulk delete friends requests "

I've just bulk deleted all 2 of mine

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bulk delete friends requests

I do the same....... "

Oh so that's what happened

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bulk delete friends requests

I do the same....... "

I don't even look at mine anymore.

Someone said if you leave them then they can't send another one?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bulk delete friends requests

I do the same.......

I don't even look at mine anymore.

Someone said if you leave them then they can't send another one? "

Lucky for me were already friends, so I can wank over you daily

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By * and M lookingCouple  over a year ago

Worcester

They just want to see your private pics.

Dont delete them then they cant send another request

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan  over a year ago

Northampton


"I bulk delete friends requests

I do the same.......

I don't even look at mine anymore.

Someone said if you leave them then they can't send another one? "

Yeah I think the same for winks too

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I bulk delete friends requests

I do the same.......

Oh so that's what happened "

I've sent you one. Delete or not. Lol

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I bulk delete friends requests

I do the same.......

I don't even look at mine anymore.

Someone said if you leave them then they can't send another one?

Yeah I think the same for winks too "

Winks last a month

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've taken to challenging the sender. My profile states not send a friend request unless we've met. So I ask when we met.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Whenever I’ve gone to add someone as a friend it never sends the request, just become friends straight away which means they’ve already sent me one!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bulk delete friends requests

I do the same.......

I don't even look at mine anymore.

Someone said if you leave them then they can't send another one?

Yeah I think the same for winks too "

Winks can't be repeated for 30 days

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan  over a year ago

Northampton


"I bulk delete friends requests

I do the same.......

I don't even look at mine anymore.

Someone said if you leave them then they can't send another one?

Yeah I think the same for winks too

Winks last a month "

Ohhhhhhhh. Thanks CG

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bulk delete friends requests

I've just bulk deleted all 2 of mine"

I'm currently sitting on 8. That was deleted last night

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman  over a year ago

glasgow

I actually respect a guy more when he comments on a nice pics and asks if I mind if he plays. At least hes being honest about it. Much better than just chancing it.

On I bulk delete too. Regularly

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan  over a year ago

Northampton


"I bulk delete friends requests

I do the same.......

I don't even look at mine anymore.

Someone said if you leave them then they can't send another one?

Yeah I think the same for winks too

Winks can't be repeated for 30 days"

Ohhhhhhhh. Thanks lovely. I can repeat lots of times in 30 days

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I bulk delete friends requests

I do the same.......

I don't even look at mine anymore.

Someone said if you leave them then they can't send another one?

Lucky for me were already friends, so I can wank over you daily "

Haha! You'd better be nice to me then

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By *idlander 54Man  over a year ago

City center. Manchester.

I cannot see the point in sending a friend request without chatting first.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think the embarrassment and cringe factor would prevent me from sending one.

Anyway, I never have. I feel it's the womans prerogative.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan  over a year ago

Northampton


"I bulk delete friends requests

I do the same.......

I don't even look at mine anymore.

Someone said if you leave them then they can't send another one?

Lucky for me were already friends, so I can wank over you daily "

Why aren't we friends?

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By *ark-loverMan  over a year ago

Cirencester

I definitely bulk delete friend requests and random messages. And I’ve absolutely not sent either for the reasons stated above

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By *ark-loverMan  over a year ago

Cirencester

I might be slightly ashamed and lying....

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By *ic_khan2341Man  over a year ago

Manchester


"Why is there always a large number of friends requests from guys who have never messaged. Or who have but havent had a reply.

Do men think this approach works? Likewise chatting for 5 minutes and then asking when you have 1 pic total on your profile.... hmmm let me think about that..... "

It's a numbers game. They will try the friends approach with a number of women and will look at some

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman  over a year ago

glasgow

Have any of you guys had a girl accept a random invite without a message. Genuinely curious here. I mean, let's see if it actually works

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By *hunky GentMan  over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Have any of you guys had a girl accept a random invite without a message. Genuinely curious here. I mean, let's see if it actually works "

I've sent some via the 'find a friend' threads, but I message first to ask.

Even then it's normally people I've seen in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I never ask for a friend's invite before I've chatted for a good bit. But I've had girls asking me to add them as friends the 1st message. It's not just all the guys who ask that.

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman  over a year ago

glasgow


"I never ask for a friend's invite before I've chatted for a good bit. But I've had girls asking me to add them as friends the 1st message. It's not just all the guys who ask that. "

Well some of us are greedy girls. I've never sent one before a message though lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If I'm unsure about someone but want to be nosey and see what they look like just in case, I wait until they're offline, accept request to nose at their pics and if I dont like what I see I unfriend without them knowing.

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I'm unsure about someone but want to be nosey and see what they look like just in case, I wait until they're offline, accept request to nose at their pics and if I dont like what I see I unfriend without them knowing.

P

"

Haha yes! I do that too!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"Why is there always a large number of friends requests from guys who have never messaged. Or who have but havent had a reply.

Do men think this approach works? Likewise chatting for 5 minutes and then asking when you have 1 pic total on your profile.... hmmm let me think about that..... "

Works for some. I've accepted friend requests from random guys if I've liked the profile. I've also met guys with Jo public pics and had awesome sex.

Why do find people think their rules are the only way to okay? Why oh why indeed.

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By *rghYeTimbersMan  over a year ago

Ipswich

I must be odd as my "friends" are people I have met or exchanged lots of messages with I just don't send out random friends requests that's what winks, forum posts and messages are for.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why is there always a large number of friends requests from guys who have never messaged. Or who have but havent had a reply.

Do men think this approach works? Likewise chatting for 5 minutes and then asking when you have 1 pic total on your profile.... hmmm let me think about that..... "

i never ask to be a friend always leave the woman to do that, otherwise they think you want to check the friends pics and assumption is the mother of invention

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By *essie.Woman  over a year ago

Serendipity


"If I'm unsure about someone but want to be nosey and see what they look like just in case, I wait until they're offline, accept request to nose at their pics and if I dont like what I see I unfriend without them knowing.

P

"

I’ve done this.

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