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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very fast. Sometimes you just know someone is right for you.
And that can be without meeting. I know. It's happened to me  "
Well whoever it is, she must be fucking amazing   |
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over a year ago
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Hmmm. Within the first hour of meeting my current meet for a social. He showed me the most awesome historic bar in Leeds and he also offered to take care of my purse and phone for me so we wouldn't get mugged. The latter in particular made me realise that this was a really good guy. After seeing him around on the forum and only briefly PMing on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very fast. Sometimes you just know someone is right for you.
And that can be without meeting. I know. It's happened to me
Well whoever it is, she must be fucking amazing "
Looking that way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hmmm. Within the first hour of meeting my current meet for a social. He showed me the most awesome historic bar in Leeds and he also offered to take care of my purse and phone for me so we wouldn't get mugged. The latter in particular made me realise that this was a really good guy. After seeing him around on the forum and only briefly PMing on here."
He sounds lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm. Within the first hour of meeting my current meet for a social. He showed me the most awesome historic bar in Leeds and he also offered to take care of my purse and phone for me so we wouldn't get mugged. The latter in particular made me realise that this was a really good guy. After seeing him around on the forum and only briefly PMing on here."
Why would you have been mugged ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very very quickly!
We messaged and video called for a month before we met in person. Meeting in person confirmed what I thought I knew.
Over a year later and yes, I'm learning quibbles of his and him mine. But I'm still just as excited and utterly in love as I was that first time we met in the flesh, well, more in love now.... that's a whole lotta love!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Very very quickly!
We messaged and video called for a month before we met in person. Meeting in person confirmed what I thought I knew.
Over a year later and yes, I'm learning quibbles of his and him mine. But I'm still just as excited and utterly in love as I was that first time we met in the flesh, well, more in love now.... that's a whole lotta love!
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That gives me such hope I bet when you first met and touched it was like electric after waiting a month |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm usually quite gaurded but this time i feel this person can see straight into me. Not felt this easy or comfy in a long time. "
Wow! That must be a great feeling. Especially meeting them through fab |
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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago
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"Hmmm. Within the first hour of meeting my current meet for a social. He showed me the most awesome historic bar in Leeds and he also offered to take care of my purse and phone for me so we wouldn't get mugged. The latter in particular made me realise that this was a really good guy. After seeing him around on the forum and only briefly PMing on here.
Why would you have been mugged ?
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Yorkshire. Rough round there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very very quickly!
We messaged and video called for a month before we met in person. Meeting in person confirmed what I thought I knew.
Over a year later and yes, I'm learning quibbles of his and him mine. But I'm still just as excited and utterly in love as I was that first time we met in the flesh, well, more in love now.... that's a whole lotta love!
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Ahhh this is lovely |
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When you've clicked...you just know.
Doesn't matter how or when, could be immediate or gradual.
It's what you both choose to do with it that makes the difference, if you act upon it or let it fizzle out for whatever reason- be it lifes limitations, fear of the unknown, convenience or confidence. Many reasons I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm. Within the first hour of meeting my current meet for a social. He showed me the most awesome historic bar in Leeds and he also offered to take care of my purse and phone for me so we wouldn't get mugged. The latter in particular made me realise that this was a really good guy. After seeing him around on the forum and only briefly PMing on here.
Why would you have been mugged ?
Yorkshire. Rough round there... "
Rough? Gods own country!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hmmm. Within the first hour of meeting my current meet for a social. He showed me the most awesome historic bar in Leeds and he also offered to take care of my purse and phone for me so we wouldn't get mugged. The latter in particular made me realise that this was a really good guy. After seeing him around on the forum and only briefly PMing on here.
Why would you have been mugged ?
Yorkshire. Rough round there... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hmmm. Within the first hour of meeting my current meet for a social. He showed me the most awesome historic bar in Leeds and he also offered to take care of my purse and phone for me so we wouldn't get mugged. The latter in particular made me realise that this was a really good guy. After seeing him around on the forum and only briefly PMing on here.
Why would you have been mugged ?
Yorkshire. Rough round there... "
I was going to say that but being from Lincolnshire it might have been seen as rivalry haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very very quickly!
We messaged and video called for a month before we met in person. Meeting in person confirmed what I thought I knew.
Over a year later and yes, I'm learning quibbles of his and him mine. But I'm still just as excited and utterly in love as I was that first time we met in the flesh, well, more in love now.... that's a whole lotta love!
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That gives me such hope I bet when you first met and touched it was like electric after waiting a month "
Oh it really was. He surprised me at a party, when I realised what the fuck was going on I threw my bloody phone and just ran and leapt at him.
We held each other for a good few minutes.
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"In real life very quickly. Online it takes me a bit longer to get a real feel for someone."
Exactly the same with me but after messaging numerous times, I generally get a feel for someone an if we would 'click'..... I had one guy message me and said he "wasnt interested in any messages, just wanted to fuck"....and said "we are on a swing site noones interested in talking shite if u want that... go on a dating app" not for me at all..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people you have that instant click. The chat is just right and they enjoy the same or similar things.
Same way as one message can be enough for you to think, nope not a chance"
It really can. One second of reading a message can shut down any chance. Harsh I know! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hmmm. Within the first hour of meeting my current meet for a social. He showed me the most awesome historic bar in Leeds and he also offered to take care of my purse and phone for me so we wouldn't get mugged. The latter in particular made me realise that this was a really good guy. After seeing him around on the forum and only briefly PMing on here.
Why would you have been mugged ?
Yorkshire. Rough round there...
I was going to say that but being from Lincolnshire it might have been seen as rivalry haha "
Aww that's giving me the feels and jealousy haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very quickly in real life and on here. The Problem is, the disconnect happens just as quickly on Fab sometimes."
Very true. Just got to try and be thick skinned with the wronguns. And enjoy the right ones as long as you can. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"In real life very quickly. Online it takes me a bit longer to get a real feel for someone.
Exactly the same with me but after messaging numerous times, I generally get a feel for someone an if we would 'click'..... I had one guy message me and said he "wasnt interested in any messages, just wanted to fuck"....and said "we are on a swing site noones interested in talking shite if u want that... go on a dating app" not for me at all....."
He also sounds like a keeper  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very quickly in real life and on here. The Problem is, the disconnect happens just as quickly on Fab sometimes.
Very true. Just got to try and be thick skinned with the wronguns. And enjoy the right ones as long as you can. "
Many thanks for those words of wisdom |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Just pondering....
How fast have you clicked with someone in real life or fab? And have you connected with someone without physically meeting?"
a look..lasted 8 years
1 hour chat..5 years
dreaming for 6 months together, before he spoke to me in the physical..i get that a lot..a beautiful 18 months
usually happens really quick, or not at all.. friends or lovers or ltr's. however, its best not to question which one its going to be and let that magic show you..imo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very quickly in real life and on here. The Problem is, the disconnect happens just as quickly on Fab sometimes.
Very true. Just got to try and be thick skinned with the wronguns. And enjoy the right ones as long as you can.
Many thanks for those words of wisdom "
Hmmm. Detecting sarcasm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very quickly in real life and on here. The Problem is, the disconnect happens just as quickly on Fab sometimes.
Very true. Just got to try and be thick skinned with the wronguns. And enjoy the right ones as long as you can.
Many thanks for those words of wisdom
Hmmm. Detecting sarcasm "
Me? Sarcastic? Never. Ask Angel... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Very quickly in real life and on here. The Problem is, the disconnect happens just as quickly on Fab sometimes.
Very true. Just got to try and be thick skinned with the wronguns. And enjoy the right ones as long as you can.
Many thanks for those words of wisdom
Hmmm. Detecting sarcasm
Me? Sarcastic? Never. Ask Angel..."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A wink online led to a meet a month later....six years on, my best friend, my partner, my lover"
That's exactly what I would like...and you are proof it can start with a wink  |
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"I can click with people online very quickly sometimes and love them as humans.. I can’t fancy someone until I’ve met them in the flesh though.. so kinda mixed bag. "
Sometimes making friends can be more rewarding long term though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can click with people online very quickly sometimes and love them as humans.. I can’t fancy someone until I’ve met them in the flesh though.. so kinda mixed bag. "
You need both levels of click before you can enter into coitus
..that seems reasonable. |
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"I can click with people online very quickly sometimes and love them as humans.. I can’t fancy someone until I’ve met them in the flesh though.. so kinda mixed bag.
You need both levels of click before you can enter into coitus
..that seems reasonable. "
Totally but I fancy random people and have no physical type so it’s pretty tricky! Much easier to work out in the flesh! |
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"Very very quickly!
We messaged and video called for a month before we met in person. Meeting in person confirmed what I thought I knew.
Over a year later and yes, I'm learning quibbles of his and him mine. But I'm still just as excited and utterly in love as I was that first time we met in the flesh, well, more in love now.... that's a whole lotta love!
P
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Heartwarming  |
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"I can click with people online very quickly sometimes and love them as humans.. I can’t fancy someone until I’ve met them in the flesh though.. so kinda mixed bag.
This "
Prime example. Loved you straight away  |
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"I can click with people online very quickly sometimes and love them as humans.. I can’t fancy someone until I’ve met them in the flesh though.. so kinda mixed bag.
This
Prime example. Loved you straight away "
Aww likewise poppet |
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"Very quickly in real life and on here. The Problem is, the disconnect happens just as quickly on Fab sometimes."
For me the disconnect can be fast with some on fab.
But others are like those mates you may only see once and a while but when you do connect it's good.
This works true for me on fab, in messages or if I'm lucky a social or meet.
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I have felt like I have clicked quite quickly with some when messaging but you never can tell till you meet. Others I have met at socials and just got a great vibe off them and instantly clicked."
You've always been friendly towards me. You're a lovely lady. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's some people on here that I've connected with straight away who have become great friends. I haven't met them all yet but they are amazing people. Other times though more so in real life my judgement has been terrible. Really depends on the person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hmmm. Within the first hour of meeting my current meet for a social. He showed me the most awesome historic bar in Leeds and he also offered to take care of my purse and phone for me so we wouldn't get mugged. The latter in particular made me realise that this was a really good guy. After seeing him around on the forum and only briefly PMing on here.
Why would you have been mugged ?
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Oh. Back story.
When we were sat outside the bar we watched someone get robbed. |
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"I have felt like I have clicked quite quickly with some when messaging but you never can tell till you meet. Others I have met at socials and just got a great vibe off them and instantly clicked.
You've always been friendly towards me. You're a lovely lady. X"
That's because you make it easy to be lovely. And if I catch you at social and I really hope to, first drinks on me xx |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Normally it takes me a while to warm to someone, to trust them to a certain degree, I'm really quite a guarded person and compartmentalise the fuck out of my life. Recently I discovered I can click with someone really quickly; we met in person first before much online interaction but I found myself opening up so easily and that click was undeniably there - I can be me and it's accepted. Even now it's effortlessly enjoyable.
I get along with people a lot and quite easily but that click is rare for me. I need that physical meeting for it to all fall in place for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Normally it takes me a while to warm to someone, to trust them to a certain degree, I'm really quite a guarded person and compartmentalise the fuck out of my life. Recently I discovered I can click with someone really quickly; we met in person first before much online interaction but I found myself opening up so easily and that click was undeniably there - I can be me and it's accepted. Even now it's effortlessly enjoyable.
I get along with people a lot and quite easily but that click is rare for me. I need that physical meeting for it to all fall in place for me."
I think I just came over your use of compartmentalise. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I have felt like I have clicked quite quickly with some when messaging but you never can tell till you meet. Others I have met at socials and just got a great vibe off them and instantly clicked.
You've always been friendly towards me. You're a lovely lady. X
That's because you make it easy to be lovely. And if I catch you at social and I really hope to, first drinks on me xx"
That would be lovely, but I imagine you'll haxe a lot of admirers and I'll have to join the queue. Xx |
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"I have felt like I have clicked quite quickly with some when messaging but you never can tell till you meet. Others I have met at socials and just got a great vibe off them and instantly clicked.
You've always been friendly towards me. You're a lovely lady. X
That's because you make it easy to be lovely. And if I catch you at social and I really hope to, first drinks on me xx
That would be lovely, but I imagine you'll haxe a lot of admirers and I'll have to join the queue. Xx"
That just wouldn't happen xx |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I have felt like I have clicked quite quickly with some when messaging but you never can tell till you meet. Others I have met at socials and just got a great vibe off them and instantly clicked.
You've always been friendly towards me. You're a lovely lady. X
That's because you make it easy to be lovely. And if I catch you at social and I really hope to, first drinks on me xx
That would be lovely, but I imagine you'll haxe a lot of admirers and I'll have to join the queue. Xx
That just wouldn't happen xx"
Our eyes catch each other across a crowded room...... |
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"I have felt like I have clicked quite quickly with some when messaging but you never can tell till you meet. Others I have met at socials and just got a great vibe off them and instantly clicked.
You've always been friendly towards me. You're a lovely lady. X
That's because you make it easy to be lovely. And if I catch you at social and I really hope to, first drinks on me xx
That would be lovely, but I imagine you'll haxe a lot of admirers and I'll have to join the queue. Xx
That just wouldn't happen xx
Our eyes catch each other across a crowded room...... "
Pretty much..yours will catch me at the bar |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"I have felt like I have clicked quite quickly with some when messaging but you never can tell till you meet. Others I have met at socials and just got a great vibe off them and instantly clicked.
You've always been friendly towards me. You're a lovely lady. X
That's because you make it easy to be lovely. And if I catch you at social and I really hope to, first drinks on me xx
That would be lovely, but I imagine you'll haxe a lot of admirers and I'll have to join the queue. Xx
That just wouldn't happen xx
Our eyes catch each other across a crowded room......
Pretty much..yours will catch me at the bar "
My favourite place.
You may need your beer goggles though. Lol X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very quickly in real life and on here. The Problem is, the disconnect happens just as quickly on Fab sometimes."
In regards to the disconnect, yep definitely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Normally it takes me a while to warm to someone, to trust them to a certain degree, I'm really quite a guarded person and compartmentalise the fuck out of my life. Recently I discovered I can click with someone really quickly; we met in person first before much online interaction but I found myself opening up so easily and that click was undeniably there - I can be me and it's accepted. Even now it's effortlessly enjoyable.
I get along with people a lot and quite easily but that click is rare for me. I need that physical meeting for it to all fall in place for me."
It's weird _eli, when you find that right person things like compartmentalizing don't feel like such an issue any more. I think that when it clicks on just the right level, you can go through all the stages of friendship,lust and passion in seconds. Like it doesn't feel forced at all,it just sort of works without trying.at least that's how I find it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Normally it takes me a while to warm to someone, to trust them to a certain degree, I'm really quite a guarded person and compartmentalise the fuck out of my life. Recently I discovered I can click with someone really quickly; we met in person first before much online interaction but I found myself opening up so easily and that click was undeniably there - I can be me and it's accepted. Even now it's effortlessly enjoyable.
I get along with people a lot and quite easily but that click is rare for me. I need that physical meeting for it to all fall in place for me.
It's weird _eli, when you find that right person things like compartmentalizing don't feel like such an issue any more. I think that when it clicks on just the right level, you can go through all the stages of friendship,lust and passion in seconds. Like it doesn't feel forced at all,it just sort of works without trying.at least that's how I find it "
I have a friend who laughs at how I can go through every stage of a relationship in weeks... but I cant help it. Just need to work on the divorce stage |
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"I clicked with someone so fast that it terrified me and I ended up crying 
He's quite lovely though, I can't get enough of him
I often make people cry when we meet "
I hope they're tears of utter joy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are two or 3 people on this site that I feel I have clicked with immensely and have never physically met and live miles away from each other we seemed to.click almost instantly from talking on the forums to PMS and have been chatting almost every day since.
These people probably know who they are and I'd be happy to call them my friends with it ever even meeting them in person |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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With another couple it’s often within the first few minutes or not at all, when you sit down together for a drink or dinner and find you can’t keep your eyes (or hands!) off each other. Online is difficult |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are two or 3 people on this site that I feel I have clicked with immensely and have never physically met and live miles away from each other we seemed to.click almost instantly from talking on the forums to PMS and have been chatting almost every day since.
These people probably know who they are and I'd be happy to call them my friends with it ever even meeting them in person "
One of those people has posted on this thread I wont call them out incase they dont feel the same as me but I'm hoping they k ow who they are x |
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"I clicked with someone so fast that it terrified me and I ended up crying
He's quite lovely though, I can't get enough of him
I often make people cry when we meet
I hope they're tears of utter joy "
It’s bitter regret, but at least I now know to take a handkerchief |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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My best friend and I clicked in minutes. We met at work and were best friends straight away. It’s the only time it’s happened in my life. She has since passed away and it is like I have lost part of me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Online not at all though can talk to people get on with well etc but the "clicking" for me is so much more that can't be determined without meeting ... in life quite a few times |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There are different levels of clicking for me. Some it is just as an amicable acquaintance, some as a mate, some it is as a closer friend, occasionally it as a much deeper level of friendship with real emotional intimacy, mutual trust and disclosure. The same goes for clicking sexually which ranges from not at all to a intuitive understanding of each other’s body with the kind of exothermic and ecstatic chemistry that leaves you breathless, dazed and glowing for days.
How long it takes is different dependent on the two of us and the starting conditions for both of us. Some connections are almost instantaneous, others have grown over time. Some were tiny flames easily snuffed out by a gust of misunderstanding, and on occasion the flames are fanned to create a roaring fire.
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"I clicked with someone so fast that it terrified me and I ended up crying
He's quite lovely though, I can't get enough of him
I often make people cry when we meet "
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"There are different levels of clicking for me. Some it is just as an amicable acquaintance, some as a mate, some it is as a closer friend, occasionally it as a much deeper level of friendship with real emotional intimacy, mutual trust and disclosure. The same goes for clicking sexually which ranges from not at all to a intuitive understanding of each other’s body with the kind of exothermic and ecstatic chemistry that leaves you breathless, dazed and glowing for days.
How long it takes is different dependent on the two of us and the starting conditions for both of us. Some connections are almost instantaneous, others have grown over time. Some were tiny flames easily snuffed out by a gust of misunderstanding, and on occasion the flames are fanned to create a roaring fire.
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Doc..always so beautifully put x |
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"My best friend and I clicked in minutes. We met at work and were best friends straight away. It’s the only time it’s happened in my life. She has since passed away and it is like I have lost part of me. "
Sorry to hear that Babs x |
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"I clicked with someone so fast that it terrified me and I ended up crying
He's quite lovely though, I can't get enough of him
I often make people cry when we meet
I hope they're tears of utter joy
It’s bitter regret, but at least I now know to take a handkerchief "
Condoms, check...handkerchief, check |
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"My best friend and I clicked in minutes. We met at work and were best friends straight away. It’s the only time it’s happened in my life. She has since passed away and it is like I have lost part of me. "
 Sorry to hear that Babs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There are different levels of clicking for me. Some it is just as an amicable acquaintance, some as a mate, some it is as a closer friend, occasionally it as a much deeper level of friendship with real emotional intimacy, mutual trust and disclosure. The same goes for clicking sexually which ranges from not at all to a intuitive understanding of each other’s body with the kind of exothermic and ecstatic chemistry that leaves you breathless, dazed and glowing for days.
How long it takes is different dependent on the two of us and the starting conditions for both of us. Some connections are almost instantaneous, others have grown over time. Some were tiny flames easily snuffed out by a gust of misunderstanding, and on occasion the flames are fanned to create a roaring fire.
Doc..always so beautifully put x"
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It is sometimes difficult to see the true person on line and once the euphoria of the initial conversations disappears some fade into the distance ... some stay longer and turn into meets.... but have learnt to be relaxed about either situation. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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I can click with people fairly quickly. As mentioned already, "when you know, you know"
One person in particular I clicked with online very quickly. We arranged to meet over a weekend and as soon I saw her I knew my instincts were right. She could see my grin a mile away |
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"Just pondering....
How fast have you clicked with someone in real life or fab? And have you connected with someone without physically meeting?"
Yes...massively.
Met someone on here a few months back. They didnt hang around very long but we still chat regular. Over the phone too and I'm hoping our paths will cross one day. I'd say I've possibly fallen for her without ever meeting her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just pondering....
How fast have you clicked with someone in real life or fab? And have you connected with someone without physically meeting?
Yes...massively.
Met someone on here a few months back. They didnt hang around very long but we still chat regular. Over the phone too and I'm hoping our paths will cross one day. I'd say I've possibly fallen for her without ever meeting her."
Good luck to you my fine chested friend |
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"Just pondering....
How fast have you clicked with someone in real life or fab? And have you connected with someone without physically meeting?"
Immediately, and yes. Sometimes there’s just something about a person that makes a done drink undeniable, regardless of any circumstances. |
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"Very fast. Sometimes you just know someone is right for you.
And that can be without meeting. I know. It's happened to me "
Me too. Wouldn't have believed it otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It is sometimes difficult to see the true person on line and once the euphoria of the initial conversations disappears some fade into the distance ... some stay longer and turn into meets.... but have learnt to be relaxed about either situation. "
This is very true. The initial excitement of a conversation can hide any warning signs and yes, its better to be relaxed about it all |
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"Just pondering....
How fast have you clicked with someone in real life or fab? And have you connected with someone without physically meeting?"
Sometimes all the planets align themselves and it just feels right. I've been very fortunate it's happened to me on several significant occasions. |
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"Just pondering....
How fast have you clicked with someone in real life or fab? And have you connected with someone without physically meeting?
Yes...massively.
Met someone on here a few months back. They didnt hang around very long but we still chat regular. Over the phone too and I'm hoping our paths will cross one day. I'd say I've possibly fallen for her without ever meeting her.
Good luck to you my fine chested friend "
Haha...thank you! |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
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"Very fast. Sometimes you just know someone is right for you.
And that can be without meeting. I know. It's happened to me
Me too. Wouldn't have believed it otherwise."
Same here and now can’t imagine him not being in my life |
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I'm usually very guarded with new people, but occasionally someone comes along and I just know. It has happened on here - we met after a relatively short time messaging, and it was there the instant we saw each other in person |
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"Just pondering....
How fast have you clicked with someone in real life or fab? And have you connected with someone without physically meeting?"
We fell in love months before meeting. We met once for about three days and by the end of the year we were planning our lives together. Those three days were the only days we were physically together during that year.
On Fab yes we have very much clicked with somebody we haven't had the opportunity to meet yet. We're planning to meet in a couple of weeks but there's definitely a lot of chemistry there now IMO. Luke |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Just pondering....
How fast have you clicked with someone in real life or fab? And have you connected with someone without physically meeting?
We fell in love months before meeting. We met once for about three days and by the end of the year we were planning our lives together. Those three days were the only days we were physically together during that year.
On Fab yes we have very much clicked with somebody we haven't had the opportunity to meet yet. We're planning to meet in a couple of weeks but there's definitely a lot of chemistry there now IMO. Luke "
That is really amazing. I'm just not sure even if I was to meet someone that I attached to that quickly (and mostly not in person) if I could actually trust my own emotions.
So very happy for you and it sounds wonderfully romantic |
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By *litterbabeWoman
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"There are different levels of clicking for me. Some it is just as an amicable acquaintance, some as a mate, some it is as a closer friend, occasionally it as a much deeper level of friendship with real emotional intimacy, mutual trust and disclosure. The same goes for clicking sexually which ranges from not at all to a intuitive understanding of each other’s body with the kind of exothermic and ecstatic chemistry that leaves you breathless, dazed and glowing for days.
How long it takes is different dependent on the two of us and the starting conditions for both of us. Some connections are almost instantaneous, others have grown over time. Some were tiny flames easily snuffed out by a gust of misunderstanding, and on occasion the flames are fanned to create a roaring fire.
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"Just pondering....
How fast have you clicked with someone in real life or fab? And have you connected with someone without physically meeting?"
Yes to both.
2 mins of chat in a club the other day.
Also I fell in love with somebody in Portsmouth while I was in India.
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