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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
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"What's up OP?
If FAB isn't fun maybe shelve it for a bit.
Hope you are ok."
Just ‘experiences’. People doing and saying things and you think ‘wtf’....things that kind of blow your mind not in a nice way!
A total mind f**k....
I’m fine just need to let off steam here...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel the same a lot of the time.
I find selfishness and seeming lack of care plays a huge part in fucking with my head.
I do understand that those we meet have their own desires etc, but I'm one of these people who prefers to learn about people first. I want to know of bad experiences they've had, boundaries etc. I want to know that stuff so I can ensure I don't add to the list of bad experiences, I want the person/people we meet to feel cared for mentally moreso than physically even.
But that's me, coz that's how I'd like people to handle me. Not with kid gloves, but with consideration, thought and the knowledge that when we've parted company and everyone feels heard, content and comfortable.
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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago
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If Fab currently makes you feel down, take a break. It can be a negative place if you let it get to you. I’ve learnt you need a thick skin as people turn into keyboard warriors with no regard for the recipient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's up OP?
If FAB isn't fun maybe shelve it for a bit.
Hope you are ok.
Just ‘experiences’. People doing and saying things and you think ‘wtf’....things that kind of blow your mind not in a nice way!
A total mind f**k....
I’m fine just need to let off steam here...
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Take a break. That’s what I’ve always done when I’ve let things get to me. |
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"I feel the same a lot of the time.
I find selfishness and seeming lack of care plays a huge part in fucking with my head.
I do understand that those we meet have their own desires etc, but I'm one of these people who prefers to learn about people first. I want to know of bad experiences they've had, boundaries etc. I want to know that stuff so I can ensure I don't add to the list of bad experiences, I want the person/people we meet to feel cared for mentally moreso than physically even.
But that's me, coz that's how I'd like people to handle me. Not with kid gloves, but with consideration, thought and the knowledge that when we've parted company and everyone feels heard, content and comfortable.
P"
Absolutely. I couldn't agree more. |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"If Fab currently makes you feel down, take a break. It can be a negative place if you let it get to you. I’ve learnt you need a thick skin as people turn into keyboard warriors with no regard for the recipient. "
I can usually deal with Fab! It’s people on meets and being absolute arrogant disrespectful so and so’s even if you have met them before and you think they are ok. People who think it’s ok to disrespect and then its like ‘wtf’.....
Cryptic I know but I need to be careful how much information I give in here.
Just letting of steam folks...
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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago
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"If Fab currently makes you feel down, take a break. It can be a negative place if you let it get to you. I’ve learnt you need a thick skin as people turn into keyboard warriors with no regard for the recipient.
I can usually deal with Fab! It’s people on meets and being absolute arrogant disrespectful so and so’s even if you have met them before and you think they are ok. People who think it’s ok to disrespect and then its like ‘wtf’.....
Cryptic I know but I need to be careful how much information I give in here.
Just letting of steam folks...
xx "
Sounds like you’ve had a crappy experience. I hope you are ok. x |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"If Fab currently makes you feel down, take a break. It can be a negative place if you let it get to you. I’ve learnt you need a thick skin as people turn into keyboard warriors with no regard for the recipient.
I can usually deal with Fab! It’s people on meets and being absolute arrogant disrespectful so and so’s even if you have met them before and you think they are ok. People who think it’s ok to disrespect and then its like ‘wtf’.....
Cryptic I know but I need to be careful how much information I give in here.
Just letting of steam folks...
xx
Sounds like you’ve had a crappy experience. I hope you are ok. x "
I’m fine thank you for asking.
It’s just sometimes in this lifestyle things amaze me for all the wrong reasons.
Time for a sneaky gin I think.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We class ourselves as proper swingers, we attend clubs most weekends but not always to play, we enjoy the social life of swinging just as much and have met some brilliant people along the way, and have some great friends now too. |
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Bhubaysi xx 
But I don’t really know what you mean either op. Have you had a bad experience?
