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over a year ago
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........ "
Sometimes crying is good do you know why you are ctying? Hope you feel better soon xx |
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........ "
Aweeee do you feel any better for it now ? Hope you’ll feel better soon , massive hugs or man hugs if the male xxx |
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By *ustme1820 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........
Sometimes crying is good do you know why you are ctying? Hope you feel better soon xx"
it’s my Dads anniversary today, 19 years and I’m not in a good place with my partner  |
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By *ustme1820 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........
Aweeee do you feel any better for it now ? Hope you’ll feel better soon , massive hugs or man hugs if the male xxx"
it’s the female half, and still can’t stop the tears |
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........
Sometimes crying is good do you know why you are ctying? Hope you feel better soon xx it’s my Dads anniversary today, 19 years and I’m not in a good place with my partner "
Maybe try and think of some happy memories with your dad, good times you shared xx |
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........
Sometimes crying is good do you know why you are ctying? Hope you feel better soon xx it’s my Dads anniversary today, 19 years and I’m not in a good place with my partner "
It's ok to say things aren't good. Be kind to yourself today. Have you got someone close to you that you can go and have a big cuddle with? Sending a big virtual cuddle your way and if you want to chat/message then I'm (mrs) always around. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........
Sometimes crying is good do you know why you are ctying? Hope you feel better soon xx it’s my Dads anniversary today, 19 years and I’m not in a good place with my partner "
I'm really sorry your having a tough time with your partner as for your dad I can't imagine what it is like however I'm sure he would want you to be happy trying thinking of happy times you spent with him maybe go to his favourite place and talk to him sending you a massive hug xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........
Aweeee do you feel any better for it now ? Hope you’ll feel better soon , massive hugs or man hugs if the male xxx it’s the female half, and still can’t stop the tears "
your crying cause of your partner?a men should never make a woman cry pm if you nee a friendly chat..im might be ugly or a troll as women call me here but i have a good heart and im a good listener |
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........
Aweeee do you feel any better for it now ? Hope you’ll feel better soon , massive hugs or man hugs if the male xxx it’s the female half, and still can’t stop the tears your crying cause of your partner?a men should never make a woman cry pm if you nee a friendly chat..im might be ugly or a troll as women call me here but i have a good heart and im a good listener"
Good man.. pounce  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP sorrh to hear yout having a crappy day.
Maybe try to chat to your partner and remember if you feeling a bit down cause of your dads anniversary small problems in your relationship might seem alot bigger than they really are |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........
Aweeee do you feel any better for it now ? Hope you’ll feel better soon , massive hugs or man hugs if the male xxx it’s the female half, and still can’t stop the tears "
Have you tried counselling to help yourself? |
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By *ustme1820 OP Woman
over a year ago
Southcoast Gosport |
You’re all so very thoughtful, thank you.
It’s been a tough few months as I’m de facto carer for my Mum, Sister, and Uncle. I’ve had to get my mum’s home downsized, decorate throughout, sort out all the social services for her. My sister has renal failure and cancer, she’s just, two weeks ago, undergone a kidney removal, and my uncle I deal with all his palliative care arrangements, bills etcetera. On Saturday I found out the training organization I work for is winding down and no one has been paid for the month, and today is my Dad’s anniversary, and breathe.
I’m always a tough person on the whole, always happy and smiling and the last few days have just taken its toll and the flood gates of tears opened. So tomorrow it’s back on with the smile, tits out and onwards  |
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You've got a lot on your plate OP and sometimes it's bloody hard keeping all the balls in the air AND plastering on a smile for the rest of the world.
It's ok to crack sometimes. It's ok to cry.
Be kind to yourself.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You’re all so very thoughtful, thank you.
It’s been a tough few months as I’m de facto carer for my Mum, Sister, and Uncle. I’ve had to get my mum’s home downsized, decorate throughout, sort out all the social services for her. My sister has renal failure and cancer, she’s just, two weeks ago, undergone a kidney removal, and my uncle I deal with all his palliative care arrangements, bills etcetera. On Saturday I found out the training organization I work for is winding down and no one has been paid for the month, and today is my Dad’s anniversary, and breathe.
I’m always a tough person on the whole, always happy and smiling and the last few days have just taken its toll and the flood gates of tears opened. So tomorrow it’s back on with the smile, tits out and onwards "
That's a bloody lots to cope with especially if you are having issues with your partner is there no one else who can help? Hopefully now you've had a good cry you feel a little better if you ever need to chat feel free to pm xx |
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"I hate to utter the word but.... monopause?
It’s worth getting checked. It really buggers up your hormones 
Sending hugs OP x no, I’ve gone through it already, got mine done early  "
Then I Hope tomorrow will be a better day after a good nights sleep x |
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By *ustme1820 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Good morning op how are you feeling today xx"
I’m better than yesterday. I ran for 6 miles in the gym and did weights which helped a lot with focus. Just need to see my partner and I’ll be even better |
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"Good morning op how are you feeling today xx I’m better than yesterday. I ran for 6 miles in the gym and did weights which helped a lot with focus. Just need to see my partner and I’ll be even better "
Good for you x
It's ok not to be ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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That is a lot to contend with OP
You sound extremely resilient and you'll find your way, but in the meantine sometimes we all need a good sob (i like to do my sobbing in the shower)
Hope you are feeling better / stronger soon
Sending virtual love, hugs and positivity.. Inbox if you want to chat/have a distraction
Look after yourself xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........ "
Let it all out. Hopefully afterwards you’ll be exhausted and will fall into a healing sleep  |
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"Good morning op how are you feeling today xx I’m better than yesterday. I ran for 6 miles in the gym and did weights which helped a lot with focus. Just need to see my partner and I’ll be even better "
I'm pleased you are feeling a bit better and focused hopefully you will sort things with your partner just take each day as it comes xx |
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By *ustme1820 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........
Let it all out. Hopefully afterwards you’ll be exhausted and will fall into a healing sleep "
I sleep very little, mostly on about 3/4 hours a night last night was no different which can be frustrating |
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By *ustme1820 OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Good morning op how are you feeling today xx I’m better than yesterday. I ran for 6 miles in the gym and did weights which helped a lot with focus. Just need to see my partner and I’ll be even better
I'm pleased you are feeling a bit better and focused hopefully you will sort things with your partner just take each day as it comes xx"
Thank you. I do hope it can be sorted out with him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good morning op how are you feeling today xx I’m better than yesterday. I ran for 6 miles in the gym and did weights which helped a lot with focus. Just need to see my partner and I’ll be even better
I'm pleased you are feeling a bit better and focused hopefully you will sort things with your partner just take each day as it comes xx Thank you. I do hope it can be sorted out with him "
Fingers crossed xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve not shouted, not screamed, I don’t feel any anger but I’ve spent the best part of the day crying and I can’t seem to stop........
Let it all out. Hopefully afterwards you’ll be exhausted and will fall into a healing sleep I sleep very little, mostly on about 3/4 hours a night last night was no different which can be frustrating "
I usually average 3-4 hours a night too. It’s not the length but the quality.. |
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I have sleep issues too sometimes I can't cope very well with them, the last two years have made look at depression in a different light i thought i was a stong person how things can change very quickly |
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