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over a year ago
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Over the next few months I’m gonna road test this approach to see if it makes me harder and more immune to getting puppy eyes.
In my meet bag I’ll have tic taks, rubber johnnys, a bottle of lucazade, pack of wet wipes and a wispa.
I’ll arrange meets with very little communication leading up to it and on the evening will fuck, WITH a condom, wetwipe myself off after and leave straight away. No cwtching, no spooning, nothing.
I think that if I can get a few more fucks under my belt I could do the whole NSA thing a bit easier.
I have had a pretty sheltered life I suppose and for my age I think to have fucked 21 guys is quite a low number considering 7 of those were guys I was either in a full blown relationship with or exclusively dating and apart from 6 the rest were all in my late teens and twenties.
So I’m gonna roll out a trial similar to when I did only blow job and bum lick meets, only this will include protected sex as well.
Good idea? |
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"Over the next few months I’m gonna road test this approach to see if it makes me harder and more immune to getting puppy eyes.
In my meet bag I’ll have tic taks, rubber johnnys, a bottle of lucazade, pack of wet wipes and a wispa.
I’ll arrange meets with very little communication leading up to it and on the evening will fuck, WITH a condom, wetwipe myself off after and leave straight away. No cwtching, no spooning, nothing.
I think that if I can get a few more fucks under my belt I could do the whole NSA thing a bit easier.
I have had a pretty sheltered life I suppose and for my age I think to have fucked 21 guys is quite a low number considering 7 of those were guys I was either in a full blown relationship with or exclusively dating and apart from 6 the rest were all in my late teens and twenties.
So I’m gonna roll out a trial similar to when I did only blow job and bum lick meets, only this will include protected sex as well.
Good idea? "
It's a good idea if it works for you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the next few months I’m gonna road test this approach to see if it makes me harder and more immune to getting puppy eyes.
In my meet bag I’ll have tic taks, rubber johnnys, a bottle of lucazade, pack of wet wipes and a wispa.
I’ll arrange meets with very little communication leading up to it and on the evening will fuck, WITH a condom, wetwipe myself off after and leave straight away. No cwtching, no spooning, nothing.
I think that if I can get a few more fucks under my belt I could do the whole NSA thing a bit easier.
I have had a pretty sheltered life I suppose and for my age I think to have fucked 21 guys is quite a low number considering 7 of those were guys I was either in a full blown relationship with or exclusively dating and apart from 6 the rest were all in my late teens and twenties.
So I’m gonna roll out a trial similar to when I did only blow job and bum lick meets, only this will include protected sex as well.
Good idea? "
Don't forget the chewing gum in your bag  Otherwise awesome  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the next few months I’m gonna road test this approach to see if it makes me harder and more immune to getting puppy eyes.
In my meet bag I’ll have tic taks, rubber johnnys, a bottle of lucazade, pack of wet wipes and a wispa.
I’ll arrange meets with very little communication leading up to it and on the evening will fuck, WITH a condom, wetwipe myself off after and leave straight away. No cwtching, no spooning, nothing.
I think that if I can get a few more fucks under my belt I could do the whole NSA thing a bit easier.
I have had a pretty sheltered life I suppose and for my age I think to have fucked 21 guys is quite a low number considering 7 of those were guys I was either in a full blown relationship with or exclusively dating and apart from 6 the rest were all in my late teens and twenties.
So I’m gonna roll out a trial similar to when I did only blow job and bum lick meets, only this will include protected sex as well.
Good idea? "
Will the chocolate be involved during sexual acts? A careless wispa? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the next few months I’m gonna road test this approach to see if it makes me harder and more immune to getting puppy eyes.
In my meet bag I’ll have tic taks, rubber johnnys, a bottle of lucazade, pack of wet wipes and a wispa.
I’ll arrange meets with very little communication leading up to it and on the evening will fuck, WITH a condom, wetwipe myself off after and leave straight away. No cwtching, no spooning, nothing.
I think that if I can get a few more fucks under my belt I could do the whole NSA thing a bit easier.
I have had a pretty sheltered life I suppose and for my age I think to have fucked 21 guys is quite a low number considering 7 of those were guys I was either in a full blown relationship with or exclusively dating and apart from 6 the rest were all in my late teens and twenties.
So I’m gonna roll out a trial similar to when I did only blow job and bum lick meets, only this will include protected sex as well.
Good idea? "
..it can leave you feeling pretty empty at times .... btw you have the look of a cherokee princess ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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By all means explore what you like and test your boundries...
But I wouldnt be treating it as an exercise to desensitize yourself to NSA...
Its not for everyone and there are plenty degrees if no strings...
Why force yourself into situations your not comfortable with.
Of course I could have completely missed the tone of the post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the next few months I’m gonna road test this approach to see if it makes me harder and more immune to getting puppy eyes.
In my meet bag I’ll have tic taks, rubber johnnys, a bottle of lucazade, pack of wet wipes and a wispa.
I’ll arrange meets with very little communication leading up to it and on the evening will fuck, WITH a condom, wetwipe myself off after and leave straight away. No cwtching, no spooning, nothing.
I think that if I can get a few more fucks under my belt I could do the whole NSA thing a bit easier.
I have had a pretty sheltered life I suppose and for my age I think to have fucked 21 guys is quite a low number considering 7 of those were guys I was either in a full blown relationship with or exclusively dating and apart from 6 the rest were all in my late teens and twenties.
So I’m gonna roll out a trial similar to when I did only blow job and bum lick meets, only this will include protected sex as well.
Good idea? "
21  (hangs head in shame)
I've had a fair few "Cum & go" experiences in my time. Pretty much all they was worth, wouldn't see them again. I much prefer a connection with someone now. I need chemistry, it allows me to have the best sex ever.  I find it very boring otherwise.
I do understand the "down time" afterwards though. I'm known to have meltdowns after but it's to be expected. The higher you go the harder you may fall x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the next few months I’m gonna road test this approach to see if it makes me harder and more immune to getting puppy eyes.
In my meet bag I’ll have tic taks, rubber johnnys, a bottle of lucazade, pack of wet wipes and a wispa.
I’ll arrange meets with very little communication leading up to it and on the evening will fuck, WITH a condom, wetwipe myself off after and leave straight away. No cwtching, no spooning, nothing.
I think that if I can get a few more fucks under my belt I could do the whole NSA thing a bit easier.
I have had a pretty sheltered life I suppose and for my age I think to have fucked 21 guys is quite a low number considering 7 of those were guys I was either in a full blown relationship with or exclusively dating and apart from 6 the rest were all in my late teens and twenties.
So I’m gonna roll out a trial similar to when I did only blow job and bum lick meets, only this will include protected sex as well.
Good idea? "
Pack paracetamol too incase he has a"headache"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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21 (hangs head in shame)
I've had a fair few "Cum & go" experiences in my time. Pretty much all they was worth, wouldn't see them again. I much prefer a connection with someone now. I need chemistry, it allows me to have the best sex ever. I find it very boring otherwise.
I do understand the "down time" afterwards though. I'm known to have meltdowns after but it's to be expected. The higher you go the harder you may fall x"
I don’t want to have meltdowns afterwards though, I ate 9 double chocolate magnums last week from Monday to yesterday. Had 4 chineses, 2 Indians, a take away Frankie and bennies and 12 cans of full fat c*ke.
I can’t be consuming those kind of calories all the time I’ll be fucking massive.
Why is it the higher you go the harder you come back down and why don’t boys get it? Oh or they do get it when they feel like they’ve had an equally as good time.
Guy number 4 for me was a shocker, hardly spoke to him leading up to it, was on my period as well so like a dog with two dicks, he came round had quite wicked sex for a one off and I was fine after that. Same as number 5 although 4 was a better shag.
I think that if you hold back on the intimate shit you can just have some enjoyable sex and see it for what it is. |
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21 (hangs head in shame)
I've had a fair few "Cum & go" experiences in my time. Pretty much all they was worth, wouldn't see them again. I much prefer a connection with someone now. I need chemistry, it allows me to have the best sex ever. I find it very boring otherwise.
I do understand the "down time" afterwards though. I'm known to have meltdowns after but it's to be expected. The higher you go the harder you may fall x
I don’t want to have meltdowns afterwards though, I ate 9 double chocolate magnums last week from Monday to yesterday. Had 4 chineses, 2 Indians, a take away Frankie and bennies and 12 cans of full fat c*ke.
I can’t be consuming those kind of calories all the time I’ll be fucking massive.
Why is it the higher you go the harder you come back down and why don’t boys get it? Oh or they do get it when they feel like they’ve had an equally as good time.
Guy number 4 for me was a shocker, hardly spoke to him leading up to it, was on my period as well so like a dog with two dicks, he came round had quite wicked sex for a one off and I was fine after that. Same as number 5 although 4 was a better shag.
I think that if you hold back on the intimate shit you can just have some enjoyable sex and see it for what it is. "
Johnny number 5 is now sobbing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"so your going to give up all your kinks for meaningless sex"
I’m gonna have to. When I’m able to do ALL of my kinks it bonds me to people, like with unprotected sex, when they shoot spunk inside me it’s as if they’re injecting me with bonding chemicals. If I can do the sleep stuff thats my Mecca and I worship at a sleeping mans arse hole for hours. I’ll be chewing his sphincter, rubbing my nose in his hole, holding his balls in my hand to feel them moving and adjusting to the temperature, teabagging myself. I have so much fun and then the guys gone like a fart in the wind and I’m all like aww.
Maybe if I have more sex (protected) and don’t do all the things I love doing it will stop me putting cock on a pedestal. |
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"so your going to give up all your kinks for meaningless sex
I’m gonna have to. When I’m able to do ALL of my kinks it bonds me to people, like with unprotected sex, when they shoot spunk inside me it’s as if they’re injecting me with bonding chemicals. If I can do the sleep stuff thats my Mecca and I worship at a sleeping mans arse hole for hours. I’ll be chewing his sphincter, rubbing my nose in his hole, holding his balls in my hand to feel them moving and adjusting to the temperature, teabagging myself. I have so much fun and then the guys gone like a fart in the wind and I’m all like aww.
Maybe if I have more sex (protected) and don’t do all the things I love doing it will stop me putting cock on a pedestal. "
*several men leave the forum for some “me time” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so your going to give up all your kinks for meaningless sex
I’m gonna have to. When I’m able to do ALL of my kinks it bonds me to people, like with unprotected sex, when they shoot spunk inside me it’s as if they’re injecting me with bonding chemicals. If I can do the sleep stuff thats my Mecca and I worship at a sleeping mans arse hole for hours. I’ll be chewing his sphincter, rubbing my nose in his hole, holding his balls in my hand to feel them moving and adjusting to the temperature, teabagging myself. I have so much fun and then the guys gone like a fart in the wind and I’m all like aww.
Maybe if I have more sex (protected) and don’t do all the things I love doing it will stop me putting cock on a pedestal. "
Haha, you have a way with words |
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"so your going to give up all your kinks for meaningless sex
I’m gonna have to. When I’m able to do ALL of my kinks it bonds me to people, like with unprotected sex, when they shoot spunk inside me it’s as if they’re injecting me with bonding chemicals. If I can do the sleep stuff thats my Mecca and I worship at a sleeping mans arse hole for hours. I’ll be chewing his sphincter, rubbing my nose in his hole, holding his balls in my hand to feel them moving and adjusting to the temperature, teabagging myself. I have so much fun and then the guys gone like a fart in the wind and I’m all like aww.
Maybe if I have more sex (protected) and don’t do all the things I love doing it will stop me putting cock on a pedestal. "
I think your going to do yourself more harm than good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"so your going to give up all your kinks for meaningless sex
I’m gonna have to. When I’m able to do ALL of my kinks it bonds me to people, like with unprotected sex, when they shoot spunk inside me it’s as if they’re injecting me with bonding chemicals. If I can do the sleep stuff thats my Mecca and I worship at a sleeping mans arse hole for hours. I’ll be chewing his sphincter, rubbing my nose in his hole, holding his balls in my hand to feel them moving and adjusting to the temperature, teabagging myself. I have so much fun and then the guys gone like a fart in the wind and I’m all like aww.
Maybe if I have more sex (protected) and don’t do all the things I love doing it will stop me putting cock on a pedestal.
I think your going to do yourself more harm than good. "
More than when I meet someone once every blue moon and do all my favourite shit with them and then feel deflected? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can appreciate you wanting a softer tail to your meetings but really not sure that trying to become a harder, unfeeling person with regard to meets is going to make you a better person in any way. Sounds like you are actually quite nice and these guys are just giving you the opportunity to find someone better. |
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Doesn’t sound like something you want, maybe it’s the Monday “blues” with some other feelings interspersed.
But only you can decide what is best for you, may be worth seeing what advice comes out of this post.
Personally for what my opinion is worth, I would avoid the one time fuck and go. I have yet to find a decent one night thing that added any fulfilment - would rather have a wank - but then I have a penis which is what you worship so it’s easy for me to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the next few months I’m gonna road test this approach to see if it makes me harder and more immune to getting puppy eyes.
In my meet bag I’ll have tic taks, rubber johnnys, a bottle of lucazade, pack of wet wipes and a wispa.
I’ll arrange meets with very little communication leading up to it and on the evening will fuck, WITH a condom, wetwipe myself off after and leave straight away. No cwtching, no spooning, nothing.
I think that if I can get a few more fucks under my belt I could do the whole NSA thing a bit easier.
I have had a pretty sheltered life I suppose and for my age I think to have fucked 21 guys is quite a low number considering 7 of those were guys I was either in a full blown relationship with or exclusively dating and apart from 6 the rest were all in my late teens and twenties.
So I’m gonna roll out a trial similar to when I did only blow job and bum lick meets, only this will include protected sex as well.
Good idea? "
You sound like you need to find someone who isn’t just in it for the short term, so maybe find someone that wants to date a lot before taking it to the physical level etc. Just saying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so your going to give up all your kinks for meaningless sex
I’m gonna have to. When I’m able to do ALL of my kinks it bonds me to people, like with unprotected sex, when they shoot spunk inside me it’s as if they’re injecting me with bonding chemicals. If I can do the sleep stuff thats my Mecca and I worship at a sleeping mans arse hole for hours. I’ll be chewing his sphincter, rubbing my nose in his hole, holding his balls in my hand to feel them moving and adjusting to the temperature, teabagging myself. I have so much fun and then the guys gone like a fart in the wind and I’m all like aww.
Maybe if I have more sex (protected) and don’t do all the things I love doing it will stop me putting cock on a pedestal.
I think your going to do yourself more harm than good.
More than when I meet someone once every blue moon and do all my favourite shit with them and then feel deflated? "
That really isn’t unusual to feel quite a drop after the highs of a high intensity, very enjoyable erotic escapade. The neuro-transmitters have been in overdrive flooding your body with feel good endorphins only to suddenly be shut down. It took me a few days to recover from my last such escapade and the previous one too.
Caring for yourself afterwards is really important.
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"so your going to give up all your kinks for meaningless sex
I’m gonna have to. When I’m able to do ALL of my kinks it bonds me to people, like with unprotected sex, when they shoot spunk inside me it’s as if they’re injecting me with bonding chemicals. If I can do the sleep stuff thats my Mecca and I worship at a sleeping mans arse hole for hours. I’ll be chewing his sphincter, rubbing my nose in his hole, holding his balls in my hand to feel them moving and adjusting to the temperature, teabagging myself. I have so much fun and then the guys gone like a fart in the wind and I’m all like aww.
Maybe if I have more sex (protected) and don’t do all the things I love doing it will stop me putting cock on a pedestal.
I think your going to do yourself more harm than good.
More than when I meet someone once every blue moon and do all my favourite shit with them and then feel deflected? "
yes. I dont really think your cut out for it. You need a regular guy to do all your stuff with |
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"so your going to give up all your kinks for meaningless sex
I’m gonna have to. When I’m able to do ALL of my kinks it bonds me to people, like with unprotected sex, when they shoot spunk inside me it’s as if they’re injecting me with bonding chemicals. If I can do the sleep stuff thats my Mecca and I worship at a sleeping mans arse hole for hours. I’ll be chewing his sphincter, rubbing my nose in his hole, holding his balls in my hand to feel them moving and adjusting to the temperature, teabagging myself. I have so much fun and then the guys gone like a fart in the wind and I’m all like aww.
Maybe if I have more sex (protected) and don’t do all the things I love doing it will stop me putting cock on a pedestal.
I think your going to do yourself more harm than good.
More than when I meet someone once every blue moon and do all my favourite shit with them and then feel deflected? yes. I dont really think your cut out for it. You need a regular guy to do all your stuff with"
I agree with DS and the others that have said similar things. You should hold out for what you really want. |
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"so your going to give up all your kinks for meaningless sex
I’m gonna have to. When I’m able to do ALL of my kinks it bonds me to people, like with unprotected sex, when they shoot spunk inside me it’s as if they’re injecting me with bonding chemicals. If I can do the sleep stuff thats my Mecca and I worship at a sleeping mans arse hole for hours. I’ll be chewing his sphincter, rubbing my nose in his hole, holding his balls in my hand to feel them moving and adjusting to the temperature, teabagging myself. I have so much fun and then the guys gone like a fart in the wind and I’m all like aww.
Maybe if I have more sex (protected) and don’t do all the things I love doing it will stop me putting cock on a pedestal. "
I went vanilla for some time on here. It did work for a while but eventually i got frustrated with not being able to find many regulars into kink.
I do think having many partners works well though when it comes to feelings, like you can get excited about seeing someone and really like them but know you have that feeling about many people and so don't feel a need to generate anything special with someone either. |
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op i think you need to talk to other people then you will realize that what your experiencing is perfectly normal after an intense session. The key is to find ways to deal with it. I also think you could be putting yourself in a vulnerable position. Your an attractive woman and guys who see an attractive woman putting herself out there just for cold sex will think they dont have to put any effort in. Can you really see yourself having lots of cold meaningless sex |
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"op i think you need to talk to other people then you will realize that what your experiencing is perfectly normal after an intense session. The key is to find ways to deal with it. I also think you could be putting yourself in a vulnerable position. Your an attractive woman and guys who see an attractive woman putting herself out there just for cold sex will think they dont have to put any effort in. Can you really see yourself having lots of cold meaningless sex"
what she said ^^^ except I’m hot.
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I can't help feeling that this won't work for you... but hey I only know you from your profile and your posts.
We've all felt stupid because we liked someone who didn't feel the same about us.... or because we shared a secret intimate part of ourselves and that person couldn't live up to what we wanted them to be.
Good luck but take care. |
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Having been there done that (meaningless cold just fuck and fuck off) can honestly say you'll be even more deflated than you are now, youll hate yourself AND men.
Not a good idea op, wish i could offer you advice or the receipe for the magical tincture that cures post meet blues but alas it evades us all x |
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