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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why do you think woman control sex guys??? Whenever we want sex it’s always if they’re in the mood lol, but if they want some cock, they won’t take no for an answer, not that I would say no right enough. Just something to think about lads lol. We are controlled.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not really, if anyone I was with said no, I'd take it as a no.

I may put on some saucy clothing and see if I could entice them, but that would be part of the chase, part of the "wooing"

If I knew they really meant no, I'd not peruse it at all, that would make me a manipulative bitch

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'm not controlled

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not really, if anyone I was with said no, I'd take it as a no.

I may put on some saucy clothing and see if I could entice them, but that would be part of the chase, part of the "wooing"

If I knew they really meant no, I'd not peruse it at all, that would make me a manipulative bitch

P"
interesting, maybe all woman ain’t the same then. I’ve had a number of girlfriends which if they are in the mood we have sex and if they ain’t and I am we don’t... I’m sure a lot of woman are like that, I’ve heard stories from friends also.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not controlled

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bet you have been at some point in your life! Your kidding yourself on it you haven’t lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

More fool the man

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

More fool the man"
lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How about just not presuming all women are the same???

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? "
unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

More fool the man lol

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seriously though if a guy is happy to be in a contolling malipulative relationship its up to him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

In your opinion or experience of course. We are all different

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

More fool the man lol

seriously though if a guy is happy to be in a contolling malipulative relationship its up to him "

Been there and it wasn’t a happy experience

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By *uxomBoobs195Woman over a year ago

Rotherham

Dont you have to be in the mood for your manhood to be of any use for the lady??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

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I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex...

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By *oneyBear100Couple over a year ago

Gatwick area

"Dont you have to be in the mood for your manhood to be of any use for the lady??

Not when guys are 30

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... "

And there's the important words 'in some cases' don't tar everyone with the same brush

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like you need to find nicer women to be honest OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why do you think woman control sex guys??? Whenever we want sex it’s always if they’re in the mood lol, but if they want some cock, they won’t take no for an answer, not that I would say no right enough. Just something to think about lads lol. We are controlled. "

We are and I love it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex...

And there's the important words 'in some cases' don't tar everyone with the same brush"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We are and I love it lol "
hahahaa

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sounds like you need to find nicer women to be honest OP"
I’m single, I’m on about past experiences

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Dont you have to be in the mood for your manhood to be of any use for the lady??

Not when guys are 30

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lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds like you need to find nicer women to be honest OP I’m single, I’m on about past experiences "

Well lucky they are in the past then...

Probably best to be more selective in future

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sounds like you need to find nicer women to be honest OP I’m single, I’m on about past experiences

Well lucky they are in the past then...

Probably best to be more selective in future

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yep, I’ve had a few woman like that unfortunately, heard many a story from friends as well from they’re relationships..

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sounds like you need to take control when they won't take no for an answer. Not that women control men.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Thing is OP it's not a men vs women thing but a compatability thing and a relationship thing - if you are in a loving stable relationship where both partners are content and compatible, and able to talk openly and honestly, then what you suggest doesn't even come into it.

I'd suggest that in the situations you describe you either weren't compatible or the relationship wasn't that open and honest or on stable ground.

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By *ebjonnsonMan over a year ago

Maldon

"Dont you have to be in the mood for your manhood to be of any use for the lady??

Oh come on, you know we have no control over that whatsoever.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Sounds like you need to find nicer women to be honest OP I’m single, I’m on about past experiences

Well lucky they are in the past then...

Probably best to be more selective in future

yep, I’ve had a few woman like that unfortunately, heard many a story from friends as well from they’re relationships.. "

People like to complain about their partners wouldnt always take it as the whole story..also there are many reasons people have different sex drives doesnt mean someone is controlling sex

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Thing is OP it's not a men vs women thing but a compatability thing and a relationship thing - if you are in a loving stable relationship where both partners are content and compatible, and able to talk openly and honestly, then what you suggest doesn't even come into it.

I'd suggest that in the situations you describe you either weren't compatible or the relationship wasn't that open and honest or on stable ground."

Beat me to it GM! It's not a man/woman thing, it's a respecting your partner thing, and also a speaking up for yourself thing. All comes down to the relationship, i think.

Mrs TMN x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sounds like you need to take control when they won't take no for an answer. Not that women control men."
it’s not really me directly as such, I’m a much stronger man mentally now and in control of myself it’s just what it use to be like, and also a lot of men are still in the situation where they’re woman controls sex. It happens for sure, it’s one of the tricks woman have up they’re sleeves lol. Maybe the topic should have been worded better and should have said do SOME woman control sex.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I'd suggest that in the situations you describe you either weren't compatible or the relationship wasn't that open and honest or on stable ground.

Beat me to it GM! It's not a man/woman thing, it's a respecting your partner thing, and also a speaking up for yourself thing. All comes down to the relationship, i think.

Mrs TMN x"

I could never beat you Mrs TMN I'm too submissive for that

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By *rumguy1980Man over a year ago

stechford

"Not really, if anyone I was with said no, I'd take it as a no.

I may put on some saucy clothing and see if I could entice them, but that would be part of the chase, part of the "wooing"

If I knew they really meant no, I'd not peruse it at all, that would make me a manipulative bitch

Saucy clothing hehehe you mean naked legs open lol

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By *wist my nipplesCouple over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I'd suggest that in the situations you describe you either weren't compatible or the relationship wasn't that open and honest or on stable ground.

Beat me to it GM! It's not a man/woman thing, it's a respecting your partner thing, and also a speaking up for yourself thing. All comes down to the relationship, i think.

Mrs TMN x

I could never beat you Mrs TMN I'm too submissive for that

Ha!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't know about that but trying to prise the tv remote from their iron grip is bad enough.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Sounds like you need to take control when they won't take no for an answer. Not that women control men. it’s not really me directly as such, I’m a much stronger man mentally now and in control of myself it’s just what it use to be like, and also a lot of men are still in the situation where they’re woman controls sex. It happens for sure, it’s one of the tricks woman have up they’re sleeves lol. Maybe the topic should have been worded better and should have said do SOME woman control sex. "

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'd suggest that in the situations you describe you either weren't compatible or the relationship wasn't that open and honest or on stable ground."
wise words. I’ll take that on board

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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pmsl hahaa

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple over a year ago

Hartlepool

Erm. If I wasn't in the mood, Brat would accept the no. Much like it she isn't, I would accept the no.

What you're describing isn't right.

Although you even said yourself "you'd never say no".

The thing with consent is.. sex is controlled by all participants.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Don't know about that but trying to prise the tv remote from their iron grip is bad enough.

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hahahaha

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman over a year ago

London

Some women probably do, in the same way that some men do. It's generally called an imbalanced/controlling relationship.

"One of the tricks they have up their sleeves"?

Oh please.

You think most of us have the time or energy to play games lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some women probably do, in the same way that some men do. It's generally called an imbalanced/controlling relationship.

"One of the tricks they have up their sleeves"?

Oh please.

You think most of us have the time or energy to play games lol"
you dont have energy.......... really

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Some women probably do, in the same way that some men do. It's generally called an imbalanced/controlling relationship.

"One of the tricks they have up their sleeves"?

Oh please.

You think most of us have the time or energy to play games lol"
Woman have many tricks up they’re sleeve and you know it hahaa

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Erm. If I wasn't in the mood, Brat would accept the no. Much like it she isn't, I would accept the no.

What you're describing isn't right.

Although you even said yourself "you'd never say no".

The thing with consent is.. sex is controlled by all participants. "
sounds like a good relationship, I’ve just had shit ones with controlling woman. I should have worded it better and said do SOME woman control sex. I Seem to have hit a few nerves lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Some women probably do, in the same way that some men do. It's generally called an imbalanced/controlling relationship.

"One of the tricks they have up their sleeves"?

Oh please.

You think most of us have the time or energy to play games lolyou dont have energy.......... really

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yeah that comment made me chuckle as well lol

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work."

But it is empirically true that on the whole and talking globally men want sexual stimulation more often than women. Hence the massive sex industry primarily aimed at men. It follows from that that women can use sex as currency and sometimes do.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant .

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Really? Let me get this straight, she doesn't want sex so you don't have sex. She wants sex, you want sex so you have sex, and you're complaining?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant . "

Perhaps. But men can and do control themselves, and if they think they're being played they should use their big head, not their little one.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Yet another man blaming women for his own weaknesses

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

We've been taught to control sex, like all of it is our responsibility. From contraception to being assaulted ...all of it is our fault.

So it does make sense that we would care to be in control more because we get the blame when something 'goes wrong'.

Kinda weird we also get told to be passive during sex and that a lot of men think we should be also.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant .

Perhaps. But men can and do control themselves, and if they think they're being played they should use their big head, not their little one."

Indeed they should, but isn't that rather like telling a woman in an abusive relationship that she should use her brain and just leave?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really? Let me get this straight, she doesn't want sex so you don't have sex. She wants sex, you want sex so you have sex, and you're complaining?

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I wanted sex and it was always when she was in the mood. Not when I was! If I wasn’t in the mood which is rare and only if I’ve had a 15 hour shift and was fucked and basically couldn’t open my eyes she would go all moody and want sex lol... not saying it’s a bad thing completely just saying us guys can be controlled by SOME woman regarding sex and maybe she was just a controlling person which others have pointed out

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Erm. If I wasn't in the mood, Brat would accept the no. Much like it she isn't, I would accept the no.

What you're describing isn't right.

Although you even said yourself "you'd never say no".

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

See as far as I'm aware, if a rather horny P is in the same room as myself, then the only thought on my mind is to get that fair lady of mine thoroughly mated?

Which means there's no one-sided decisions made whatsoever...

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Really? Let me get this straight, she doesn't want sex so you don't have sex. She wants sex, you want sex so you have sex, and you're complaining?

I wanted sex and it was always when she was in the mood. Not when I was! If I wasn’t in the mood which is rare and only if I’ve had a 15 hour shift and was fucked and basically couldn’t open my eyes she would go all moody and want sex lol... not saying it’s a bad thing completely just saying us guys can be controlled by SOME woman regarding sex and maybe she was just a controlling person which others have pointed out

Do you think she should have had sex with you when she didn't want to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant . "
sex as currency hahahaa I like that one! So true

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant .

Perhaps. But men can and do control themselves, and if they think they're being played they should use their big head, not their little one."
that is quite offensive actually to people who find themselves in contolling, abusive and violent relationships. Maybe now the op knows not all women are like that he will make better decisions before embarking on such relationships

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really? Let me get this straight, she doesn't want sex so you don't have sex. She wants sex, you want sex so you have sex, and you're complaining?

Do you think she should have had sex with you when she didn't want to? "
No, I never said I would have wanted her to have sex if she’s didn’t want to. For a start I’m a nice guy and I’m not #controlling

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant .

Perhaps. But men can and do control themselves, and if they think they're being played they should use their big head, not their little one.that is quite offensive actually to people who find themselves in contolling, abusive and violent relationships. Maybe now the op knows not all women are like that he will make better decisions before embarking on such relationships"

That wasn't said about abusive and violent relationships though.

OP has said he basically always wanted sex but his ex didn't and he thinks that's her controlling him. That is an insult to true controlling relationships.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Really? Let me get this straight, she doesn't want sex so you don't have sex. She wants sex, you want sex so you have sex, and you're complaining?

Do you think she should have had sex with you when she didn't want to? No, I never said I would have wanted her to have sex if she’s didn’t want to. For a start I’m a nice guy and I’m not #controlling "

So what is the problem then? You almost always wanted sex but she didn't, how does that make her controlling?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Erm. If I wasn't in the mood, Brat would accept the no. Much like it she isn't, I would accept the no.

What you're describing isn't right.

Although you even said yourself "you'd never say no".

The thing with consent is.. sex is controlled by all participants. sounds like a good relationship, I’ve just had shit ones with controlling woman. I should have worded it better and said do SOME woman control sex. I Seem to have hit a few nerves lol because you lumped all women in the same catogry"
unfortunately there’s such a high percentage in that category. Take a chill pill... a bet your a lovely woman and not like that lol

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant .

Perhaps. But men can and do control themselves, and if they think they're being played they should use their big head, not their little one.

Indeed they should, but isn't that rather like telling a woman in an abusive relationship that she should use her brain and just leave? "

No, because there are empirical risks when the abused leave, which is very different to expecting civilised adults to behave like civilised adults.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Really? Let me get this straight, she doesn't want sex so you don't have sex. She wants sex, you want sex so you have sex, and you're complaining?

So what is the problem then? You almost always wanted sex but she didn't, how does that make her controlling? "
your really not grasping my point, it’s a control thing! Some men are controlled by SOME woman when it comes to sex. Maybe men do it but woman certainly do

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant .

That wasn't said about abusive and violent relationships though.

OP has said he basically always wanted sex but his ex didn't and he thinks that's her controlling him. That is an insult to true controlling relationships. "
are you stupid? I never said that at all. Read the topic! Pmsl

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant .

Perhaps. But men can and do control themselves, and if they think they're being played they should use their big head, not their little one.

Indeed they should, but isn't that rather like telling a woman in an abusive relationship that she should use her brain and just leave?

No, because there are empirical risks when the abused leave, which is very different to expecting civilised adults to behave like civilised adults."

True, but I think there's a tendency when men are being manipulated emotionally to just tell them to man up and not let it happen. Women in such situations tend to be viewed much more sympathetically.

That's the patriarchy for you I suppose: men must behave rationally and logically whilst women are permitted emotional nuance.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant .

That wasn't said about abusive and violent relationships though.

OP has said he basically always wanted sex but his ex didn't and he thinks that's her controlling him. That is an insult to true controlling relationships. are you stupid? I never said that at all. Read the topic! Pmsl "

Can you not resort to name calling please?

You have said that you very rarely didn't want sex, when your ex said she wanted sex you had sex, when she didn't want sex you didn't have sex. That's what you said, correct?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My ex used to tell me she’s not having sex with me when she couldn’t get what she wanted. The day I told her that’s fine I’ll have a wank like usual was pretty much the end... she didn’t like that. I’m Better off without her

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant .

That wasn't said about abusive and violent relationships though.

Can you not resort to name calling please?

You have said that you very rarely didn't want sex, when your ex said she wanted sex you had sex, when she didn't want sex you didn't have sex. That's what you said, correct? "
I have said, when I’m in the mood sex is only on if she’s in the mood. Which is ok! If she’s in the mood and I have maybe had a long hard day, basically can’t open my eyes! She would moan and be pissed off and want sex! I Think the words mmm, eh, controlling!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My ex used to tell me she’s not having sex with me when she couldn’t get what she wanted. The day I told her that’s fine I’ll have a wank like usual was pretty much the end... she didn’t like that. I’m Better off without her"
wow man glad to hear your out of that relationship!

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

"Not really, if anyone I was with said no, I'd take it as a no.

I may put on some saucy clothing and see if I could entice them, but that would be part of the chase, part of the "wooing"

If I knew they really meant no, I'd not peruse it at all, that would make me a manipulative bitch

P interesting, maybe all woman ain’t the same then. I’ve had a number of girlfriends which if they are in the mood we have sex and if they ain’t and I am we don’t... I’m sure a lot of woman are like that, I’ve heard stories from friends also. "

Well a) we aren't all the same and b) what you're impinging there is that you have ex gfs that forced you to have sex...which is illegal. However if you want to have sex 24/7 and never say no then obviously it will be determined by them.

Did you think this through?

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

"Not really, if anyone I was with said no, I'd take it as a no.

I may put on some saucy clothing and see if I could entice them, but that would be part of the chase, part of the "wooing"

If I knew they really meant no, I'd not peruse it at all, that would make me a manipulative bitch

Did you think this through?"

Impinging? Implying!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant .

Perhaps. But men can and do control themselves, and if they think they're being played they should use their big head, not their little one.

Indeed they should, but isn't that rather like telling a woman in an abusive relationship that she should use her brain and just leave?

No, because there are empirical risks when the abused leave, which is very different to expecting civilised adults to behave like civilised adults.

That's the patriarchy for you I suppose: men must behave rationally and logically whilst women are permitted emotional nuance. "
there’s definitely a tendency for men just to man up and get on with it! Lots of guys have mental health issues to and are scared to talk about it because they think it’s not manly and they’re weak! It’s sad, guys have to open up more!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not really, if anyone I was with said no, I'd take it as a no.

I may put on some saucy clothing and see if I could entice them, but that would be part of the chase, part of the "wooing"

If I knew they really meant no, I'd not peruse it at all, that would make me a manipulative bitch

Did you think this through?"
wtf! Forced sex??? Some People really don’t read correctly

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wouldn't insult men by saying that they're so feeble minded, in general, that this kind of crap would work.

Whether stating that obvious fact is insulting to men, may or may not be true. But it's not really relevant .

Perhaps. But men can and do control themselves, and if they think they're being played they should use their big head, not their little one.

Indeed they should, but isn't that rather like telling a woman in an abusive relationship that she should use her brain and just leave?

No, because there are empirical risks when the abused leave, which is very different to expecting civilised adults to behave like civilised adults.

That's the patriarchy for you I suppose: men must behave rationally and logically whilst women are permitted emotional nuance. "

Perhaps. But I think in these kinds of instances men can use their supposed more primal nature to excuse a lack of self control.

I'm all for men expressing themselves emotionally, etc, but in these kinds of instances my suspicion is often that they're using a stereotype to not behave appropriately.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Not read any of the other comments because frankly there is nothing else thaar can be said...

If a woman (or anyone) controls sex over you (as a person) then it's because you are allowing it to happen. If you are weak enough to say yes when they want it, it's all on you either way.

Just to point out I don't include any form of assault, manipulation, or force included in this. That's a very different thing all together

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some women probably do, in the same way that some men do. It's generally called an imbalanced/controlling relationship.

"One of the tricks they have up their sleeves"?

Oh please.

You think most of us have the time or energy to play games lolyou dont have energy.......... really

yeah that comment made me chuckle as well lol "
bet she's got loads of energy

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? "

Are any the same....I mean, I dont even have a vagina

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same???

Are any the same....I mean, I dont even have a vagina

"
you're too tall to have a vagina

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By *mberWoman over a year ago

Preston

"Not really, if anyone I was with said no, I'd take it as a no.

I may put on some saucy clothing and see if I could entice them, but that would be part of the chase, part of the "wooing"

If I knew they really meant no, I'd not peruse it at all, that would make me a manipulative bitch

Did you think this through? wtf! Forced sex??? Some People really don’t read correctly

I quote "if they want sex, they won't take no for an answer"

There is nothing wrong with my reading. Maybe it's your style of writing that's the issue here.

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By *uke OzadeMan over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

I disagree OP. If the rugby is on the best she will get is giving me a nosh whilst I’m watching it #priorities

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By *elshsunsWoman over a year ago

Flintshire

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Errrrrrr no we not

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

Agree with you . Women are Defo the ones in control when it comes to sex - myself included. When it comes to sex females have the upper hand. Look how it is on fab... enough said.

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Agree with you . Women are Defo the ones in control when it comes to sex - myself included. When it comes to sex females have the upper hand. Look how it is on fab... enough said."

That's fine if you do but don't speak for me, I don't control people using sex.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS over a year ago

Derby

"How about just not presuming all women are the same???

Are any the same....I mean, I dont even have a vagina

you're too tall to have a vagina

I've met taller than me with a vagina.....and very nice it was too

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Agree with you . Women are Defo the ones in control when it comes to sex - myself included. When it comes to sex females have the upper hand. Look how it is on fab... enough said."
guess it depe depends on the guy your meeting. I prefer guys to be equal and have enough about them not to be ruled by a vagina

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Agree with you . Women are Defo the ones in control when it comes to sex - myself included. When it comes to sex females have the upper hand. Look how it is on fab... enough said."

Congratulatuons on your ability to control the weak willed and weak minded. A trait everyone (even the weak willed and weak minded) posses. Being in high demand grants options, not control.

For everyone else, if you try to control sex you will likely get told to fuck off and keep on fucking off until you reach a gate that says "you can't fuck off past here", so then climb over that gate, dream the impossible dream, and keep fucking off forever.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

And again it's down to stereotypes that women don't want sex as much as men, leaving the men deprived. There are plenty of women on here to want gangbangs and mfm etc. So how does that fit into your logic?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's no control but natural cycles mostly. When you'll start bleeding every month you'll understand.

Mrs

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

Hope you have the old tin hat on OP! They're coming for us cause we disagree with the fab masses

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Agree with you . Women are Defo the ones in control when it comes to sex - myself included. When it comes to sex females have the upper hand. Look how it is on fab... enough said."
hahaha thank you very much! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Errrrrrr no we not

"
lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hope you have the old tin hat on OP! They're coming for us cause we disagree with the fab masses

"
yeah I’ve had to get the tin hat out... some people hate the truth lol... it’s a shame

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Hope you have the old tin hat on OP! They're coming for us cause we disagree with the fab masses

yeah I’ve had to get the tin hat out... some people hate the truth lol... it’s a shame "

Oh bless ya

This is not my experience

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

so choosing not to have sex when we don't want it is now controlling it? God forbid should we be allowed to choose.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

so choosing not to have sex when we don't want it is now controlling it? God forbid should we be allowed to choose."

Clearly we should just drop our knickers on command

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

so choosing not to have sex when we don't want it is now controlling it? God forbid should we be allowed to choose."
again, Your not grasping what I’m meaning lol

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By *aveed74Man over a year ago

a round and a bout Midlands

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? "

Perfect answer to an inexperienced first post!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

But they don't. The very fact that there are men that will have no problem turning them down or saying no proves they don't have control, what does exist is that some men will allow women to have control because they are too weak to say no just because it was offered."
most guys are not weak cause they don’t say no! Your another one who’s in denial if you’ve never had a woman control you with sex lol

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

so choosing not to have sex when we don't want it is now controlling it? God forbid should we be allowed to choose. again, Your not grasping what I’m meaning lol "

Maybe that's because what you're implying is nonsense

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

so choosing not to have sex when we don't want it is now controlling it? God forbid should we be allowed to choose.

Clearly we should just drop our knickers on command

"
it’s hard for Some people to understand my point I suppose lol

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Women don’t ‘control’ sex but if she isn’t in the mood why should she do it. Also same for the man if he isn’t in the mood why should he do it. I think OP is having a pop at us ladies!

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

Women don’t ‘control’ sex but if she isn’t in the mood why should she do it. Also same for the man if he isn’t in the mood why should he do it. I think OP is having a pop at us ladies! "

Yep, we are obviously all crazy witches, corrupting all the innocent men. BURN THEM!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Women don’t ‘control’ sex but if she isn’t in the mood why should she do it. Also same for the man if he isn’t in the mood why should he do it. I think OP is having a pop at us ladies! "
I should have put the topic as do SOME woman control sex! I’m not having a dig at woman at all but if you feel like that I’ll say sorry lol... I’ll stand by it SOME woman definitely control guys with sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Women don’t ‘control’ sex but if she isn’t in the mood why should she do it. Also same for the man if he isn’t in the mood why should he do it. I think OP is having a pop at us ladies!

Yep, we are obviously all crazy witches, corrupting all the innocent men. BURN THEM!"
lol. some woman are goddesses... unfortunately it’s only some

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I understand your point OP.

It's like when women want sex they have it but a man could wank himself blind waiting for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

so choosing not to have sex when we don't want it is now controlling it? God forbid should we be allowed to choose. again, Your not grasping what I’m meaning lol

Maybe that's because what you're implying is nonsense "
nonsense? Don’t kid yourself on...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory"

Those women can only do that if the men allow them to though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think I understand your point OP.

It's like when women want sex they have it but a man could wank himself blind waiting for it. "
hahaahahaaa

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"I think I understand your point OP.

It's like when women want sex they have it but a man could wank himself blind waiting for it. "

Why is that the woman controlling him though?

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Women don’t ‘control’ sex but if she isn’t in the mood why should she do it. Also same for the man if he isn’t in the mood why should he do it. I think OP is having a pop at us ladies!

Yep, we are obviously all crazy witches, corrupting all the innocent men. BURN THEM! lol. some woman are goddesses... unfortunately it’s only some "

I'd stop digging if I were you

I can see how anyone could control you not just women

It seems a more you thing than a them thing

I think your thread meant to be

"Why am I so weak willed and malleable "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My topic sure has rattled a few cages! Lol

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory"

No some humans are

Men women non specifics

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Women don’t ‘control’ sex but if she isn’t in the mood why should she do it. Also same for the man if he isn’t in the mood why should he do it. I think OP is having a pop at us ladies!

Yep, we are obviously all crazy witches, corrupting all the innocent men. BURN THEM!"

Or everyone can be responsible for themselves.

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By *emorefridaCouple over a year ago

La la land

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory"

Just like "some" men sexually assault women doesn't mean that all men do.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Those women can only do that if the men allow them to though. "
but thats like saying someone in a violent relationship only gets hit because they allow it to happen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I understand your point OP.

It's like when women want sex they have it but a man could wank himself blind waiting for it.

Why is that the woman controlling him though? "

I didn't say that.. But yeah some women got men by the balls.

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

so choosing not to have sex when we don't want it is now controlling it? God forbid should we be allowed to choose. again, Your not grasping what I’m meaning lol

Maybe that's because what you're implying is nonsense nonsense? Don’t kid yourself on... "

Erm show me my thread where I have issues?

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Just like "some" men sexually assault women doesn't mean that all men do. "

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

But they don't. The very fact that there are men that will have no problem turning them down or saying no proves they don't have control, what does exist is that some men will allow women to have control because they are too weak to say no just because it was offered. most guys are not weak cause they don’t say no! Your another one who’s in denial if you’ve never had a woman control you with sex lol"

I never have, I never will. I don't let sex control my choices. It's called willpower. Every sexual encounter and interaction has been on equal terms, I'll gladly decline sex if its not what I'm willing to do at any given time. Hell, I'm stubborn enough to turn the tables and go without if I'm given the ultimatum.

Allowing yourself to be controlled over such a small thing is weakness. You have every ability to say no just as she does. If you say no she has no more control than you do. Therfore your inability allows her to have control.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Women don’t ‘control’ sex but if she isn’t in the mood why should she do it. Also same for the man if he isn’t in the mood why should he do it. I think OP is having a pop at us ladies!

Yep, we are obviously all crazy witches, corrupting all the innocent men. BURN THEM! lol. some woman are goddesses... unfortunately it’s only some

I'd stop digging if I were you

I can see how anyone could control you not just women

It seems a more you thing than a them thing

I think your thread meant to be

"Why am I so weak willed and malleable ""
stop digging? Anyone can control me? Wtf are you on about? Some lip on you!

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Those women can only do that if the men allow them to though. but thats like saying someone in a violent relationship only gets hit because they allow it to happen"

It's not really the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Those women can only do that if the men allow them to though. but thats like saying someone in a violent relationship only gets hit because they allow it to happen"

No it’s not. That wasn’t my train of thought at all

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Just like "some" men sexually assault women doesn't mean that all men do. "
exactly you cant tar everyone with the same brush

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

But they don't. The very fact that there are men that will have no problem turning them down or saying no proves they don't have control, what does exist is that some men will allow women to have control because they are too weak to say no just because it was offered. most guys are not weak cause they don’t say no! Your another one who’s in denial if you’ve never had a woman control you with sex lol

Get into bed ya bastard, I want orgasms!

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Those women can only do that if the men allow them to though. "

Exactly. These women have the ability to control with sex, the same men have the ability to deny that control but saying no and just walking off.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Disagree in relationship it's about compromise and finding how things work for each other. Nobody should control one another.

But they don't. The very fact that there are men that will have no problem turning them down or saying no proves they don't have control, what does exist is that some men will allow women to have control because they are too weak to say no just because it was offered. most guys are not weak cause they don’t say no! Your another one who’s in denial if you’ve never had a woman control you with sex lol

Exactly! This is what I meant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Women who take control is amazing, ive noticed older women mostly do, and they shown me some amazing things, one older lady played with my gooch and placed her fingers in all the right places lol x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Those women can only do that if the men allow them to though. but thats like saying someone in a violent relationship only gets hit because they allow it to happen

No it’s not. That wasn’t my train of thought at all "
how is it different maybe a man allows it to happen because he doesnt know how to stop it or get out of the relationship its just the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Those women can only do that if the men allow them to though. but thats like saying someone in a violent relationship only gets hit because they allow it to happen

No it’s not. That wasn’t my train of thought at all how is it different maybe a man allows it to happen because he doesnt know how to stop it or get out of the relationship its just the same"

No I disagree. I don’t think it is the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

If only I could edit this topic

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Those women can only do that if the men allow them to though. but thats like saying someone in a violent relationship only gets hit because they allow it to happen

No it’s not. That wasn’t my train of thought at all how is it different maybe a man allows it to happen because he doesnt know how to stop it or get out of the relationship its just the same"

Not the same at all.

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By *ensualtouch15Man over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Those women can only do that if the men allow them to though.

Exactly. These women have the ability to control with sex, the same men have the ability to deny that control but saying no and just walking off. "

Indeed but the weak willed and malleable start threads whining about their lack of control

In my book where ladies are concerned control would not be in my vocabulary from either perspective

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Those women can only do that if the men allow them to though. but thats like saying someone in a violent relationship only gets hit because they allow it to happen

No it’s not. That wasn’t my train of thought at all how is it different maybe a man allows it to happen because he doesnt know how to stop it or get out of the relationship its just the same

No I disagree. I don’t think it is the same "
we will have to differ on that

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

Jeez, some folk need to simmer down! No need to get so worked up over a very trivial subject. Glad you lot are not in charge of the country

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If only I could edit this topic

I know what you mean man. You have to be very specific with what you say here because some of the forumers take things litterally and will always try to shoot you down.

Choose your words Wisley because once you are in their bad books, you are then blocked and never forgiven.

People who go far in this buisness are the ones who kiss arse and fly low.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If only I could edit this topic

I know what you mean man. You have to be very specific with what you say here because some of the forumers take things litterally and will always try to shoot you down.

Choose your words Wisley because once you are in their bad books, you are then blocked and never forgiven.

People who go far in this buisness are the ones who kiss arse and fly low. "

Haha. I don’t often agree with you but you’re not wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I agree with the op that "some" women are controlling manipulate fuckers that will use sex as a weapon. My arguement was the op lumping "all" women in the same catagory

Those women can only do that if the men allow them to though.

Exactly. These women have the ability to control with sex, the same men have the ability to deny that control but saying no and just walking off.

Indeed but the weak willed and malleable start threads whining about their lack of control

In my book where ladies are concerned control would not be in my vocabulary from either perspective "
hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not read the thread, but I disagree fundamentally with the whole premise of your arguement. If women you have been with dont take no for an answer, you are free to get up and leave!

And if they dont want sex as often as you, you imply they should, just because you want it? How does that work?

What about communication and understanding? Many people have mismatched sex drives but arent slaves of, or victims of it.

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If the men in this instance are being abused, then that's one thing. But wanting sex at different times, and having your partner trying to persuade you to come around, that's not abuse per se. Ultimately if you don't want to have sex, don't have sex. Don't fall for manipulation. We need to kill the idea that men are so led by their penises that they lose control. It's not true, and it hurts both men and women.

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By *ex HolesMan over a year ago

Up North

It’s vagina wizardry OP.

The power of the fangine

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the men in this instance are being abused, then that's one thing. But wanting sex at different times, and having your partner trying to persuade you to come around, that's not abuse per se. Ultimately if you don't want to have sex, don't have sex. Don't fall for manipulation. We need to kill the idea that men are so led by their penises that they lose control. It's not true, and it hurts both men and women."

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If only I could edit this topic

I know what you mean man. You have to be very specific with what you say here because some of the forumers take things litterally and will always try to shoot you down.

Choose your words Wisley because once you are in their bad books, you are then blocked and never forgiven.

People who go far in this buisness are the ones who kiss arse and fly low. "
your right man you certainly do. I’m not the kiss arse and fly low type lol but who cares! Everyone has an opinion people can say what they like lol, some people are very sensitive though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If only I could edit this topic

I know what you mean man. You have to be very specific with what you say here because some of the forumers take things litterally and will always try to shoot you down.

Choose your words Wisley because once you are in their bad books, you are then blocked and never forgiven.

People who go far in this buisness are the ones who kiss arse and fly low. your right man you certainly do. I’m not the kiss arse and fly low type lol but who cares! Everyone has an opinion people can say what they like lol, some people are very sensitive though

. Welcome to fab

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Is it a full moon, Nora?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it a full moon, Nora?

I know!!! Haha

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By *rad110Man over a year ago

rayliegh

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... "
i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

"If only I could edit this topic

I know what you mean man. You have to be very specific with what you say here because some of the forumers take things litterally and will always try to shoot you down.

Choose your words Wisley because once you are in their bad books, you are then blocked and never forgiven.

People who go far in this buisness are the ones who kiss arse and fly low. "

You are correct on wording things wisely and correctly. But you are greatly wrong with the kissing arse and flying low part.

I've done well and certainly don't kiss arse or fly low.

The ability to word what you are saying and be willing to discuss with well thought arguments is what makes a difference. Along with not being controversial just for the sake of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men "

Oh dear

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men "

Oh really? Are you sure about that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If only I could edit this topic

I know what you mean man. You have to be very specific with what you say here because some of the forumers take things litterally and will always try to shoot you down.

Choose your words Wisley because once you are in their bad books, you are then blocked and never forgiven.

Well I like kissing P's arse and she'll never be anything but low to the ground, so this bodes well for our Fab adventures!

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By *yx_InannaWoman over a year ago

Burslem

I've found men to be controlled by their urges. The types of men who get a sudden urge to masturbate and do it is lack self control. Always feeling horny yet don't consider a time and place for it, always on a whim.

Either gender in a relationship is controlling when it comes to denying sex and sex on their terms would be seen this way but them engaging in their sexual pleasures but refuse to engage in them with the other person basically denying sex as a form of manipulation.

Blaming women for "controlling sex" when they choose not to engage on a whim, picking appropriate times and not having sex because they aren't in the mood isn't controlling. When someone wants sex all the time and you never say no when you have an opportunity to have sex the only thing that's controlling is your own sex drive.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Would you really want a woman to have sex with you, even if she didn't want to?

I had to endure that in my early 20's and trust me it is not a nice feeling!

And I wouldn't put up with that again, that is for sure

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men

Oh really? Are you sure about that? "

I've been socialised to stfu about my sex drive, or be ashamed about it, or suppress it. Doesn't mean it's not out of control. I just hide it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If only I could edit this topic

I know what you mean man. You have to be very specific with what you say here because some of the forumers take things litterally and will always try to shoot you down.

Choose your words Wisley because once you are in their bad books, you are then blocked and never forgiven.

People who go far in this buisness are the ones who kiss arse and fly low.

You are correct on wording things wisely and correctly. But you are greatly wrong with the kissing arse and flying low part.

I've done well and certainly don't kiss arse or fly low.

The ability to word what you are saying and be willing to discuss with well thought arguments is what makes a difference. Along with not being controversial just for the sake of it. "
is that what you think I’m being?controversial just for the sake of it? Well I’m not, I put up a topic that’s not to far wrong and people kicked off lol... some people in the uk are just so sensitive and love to cry for nothing...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Would you really want a woman to have sex with you, even if she didn't want to?

I had to endure that in my early 20's and trust me it is not a nice feeling!

And I wouldn't put up with that again, that is for sure

"
that’s not my point! Read!

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By *erdyWoman over a year ago

wiltshire

"If only I could edit this topic

I know what you mean man. You have to be very specific with what you say here because some of the forumers take things litterally and will always try to shoot you down.

Choose your words Wisley because once you are in their bad books, you are then blocked and never forgiven.

Well I like kissing P's arse and she'll never be anything but low to the ground, so this bodes well for our Fab adventures!

Fuck to being a sheep OP! Never follow the crowd cause it's popular and comfortable! Being true to ones self doesn't make you popular but at least you can look at yourself in the mirror. This girl doesn't lick anyone's arse! X

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Would you really want a woman to have sex with you, even if she didn't want to?

I had to endure that in my early 20's and trust me it is not a nice feeling!

And I wouldn't put up with that again, that is for sure

that’s not my point! Read! "

I have read and it was your point, I was in a relationship where something was expected every night and saying No was never respected!

That is how I read your comments, that you now have to accept that if a woman says no, then you have to live with it, boo hoo

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If only I could edit this topic

I know what you mean man. You have to be very specific with what you say here because some of the forumers take things litterally and will always try to shoot you down.

Choose your words Wisley because once you are in their bad books, you are then blocked and never forgiven.

. Welcome to fab

Yeah welcome to Fab land.

I'm not an arse kisser either and I don't keep a low profile, which is part of the reason why I haven't actually slipped it in yet... But hay il live.

I havent read all of this forum but il say this because I don't care how the sensitive souls judge me.

Women do rule sex because they're the gate keepers and let's talk reality.. Ffs men can't control their own cocks! So how do anyone expect men to be in control of sex.

Tits and pussy rule.. if I had a boob job and I was that way unlined I'd be getting fucked to death.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Would you really want a woman to have sex with you, even if she didn't want to?

I had to endure that in my early 20's and trust me it is not a nice feeling!

And I wouldn't put up with that again, that is for sure

that’s not my point! Read!

I have read and it was your point, I was in a relationship where something was expected every night and saying No was never respected!

That is how I read your comments, that you now have to accept that if a woman says no, then you have to live with it, boo hoo

"
your another one who just isn’t grasping what I’m saying or meaning lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If only I could edit this topic

I know what you mean man. You have to be very specific with what you say here because some of the forumers take things litterally and will always try to shoot you down.

Choose your words Wisley because once you are in their bad books, you are then blocked and never forgiven.

. Welcome to fab

Yeah welcome to Fab land.

I'm not an arse kisser either and I don't keep a low profile, which is part of the reason why I haven't actually slipped it in yet... But hay il live.

I havent read all of this forum but il say this because I don't care how the sensitive souls judge me.

Women do rule sex because they're the gate keepers and let's talk reality.. Ffs men can't control their own cocks! So how do anyone expect men to be in control of sex.

Tits and pussy rule.. if I had a boob job and I was that way unlined I'd be getting fucked to death."
your soooooo righr man! Woman rule sex with tits and pussy! And ladies! That’s a FACT!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How often did you "woo" the women you wanted to have sex with, your partners?

Was it a case of "fancy a shag?"

Did you stop flirting? Stop appreciating them? Stop the chase you had at the start?

Just because you're in a relationship with someone doesn't mean that stuff should get forgotten.

With me, and I suspect a lot of women, don't expect to grab for my minge or kiss my neck and then suddenly I'm legs akimbo. I need the "mating dance" so to speak, the lust, the desire. I need to know I'm fancied, appreciated, lusted after and not just a hole to empty a load in coz the penis wants it.

I want to be dated, mated and sated. Make me feel all woman and believe me, I'll make you feel all man.

Well, not you, but ....

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By *rad110Man over a year ago

rayliegh

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men

Oh really? Are you sure about that? "
really its a fact 8 out 10 men i know moan they have to ask for sex men would fuck anywhere anytime

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men

Oh really? Are you sure about that? really its a fact 8 out 10 men i know moan they have to ask for sex men would fuck anywhere anytime "

Are the 8 married and the other 2 single?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men

Oh really? Are you sure about that? really its a fact 8 out 10 men i know moan they have to ask for sex men would fuck anywhere anytime "
woman are in control in so many ways and half them don’t even realise it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men

Oh really? Are you sure about that? really its a fact 8 out 10 men i know moan they have to ask for sex men would fuck anywhere anytime

Are the 8 married and the other 2 single?

"
hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men

Oh really? Are you sure about that? really its a fact 8 out 10 men i know moan they have to ask for sex men would fuck anywhere anytime woman are in control in so many ways and half them don’t even realise it

Realise it? It wouldn’t even cross my mind to use sex as a weapon or manipulate someone into sex. I don’t think I’d be attracted to any man who allowed himself to be controlled in that way either.

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By *yx_InannaWoman over a year ago

Burslem

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men

Oh really? Are you sure about that? really its a fact 8 out 10 men i know moan they have to ask for sex men would fuck anywhere anytime "

Women feel like too but they prioritize and balance their sex drive. Women have a lot more self control.

I'm at the point I feel like grabbing the postman because my sexual urges screaming in my head telling me to just fuck lots of it don't stop. But I don't. I'd happily fuck 24/7 but there's priorities. As much as I want to fuck every person I fancy it don't doesn't mean I don't want sex I do very much so. I've killed enough toys trying to deal with it. So now I don't masturbate because the frustration is too much. I don't jump at the 1st offer of a fuck because 99% of the time it's pathetic or unsatisfying.

My self control is pushed to its limits, but I also want to find a damn good fuck and not be some sex toy for a guy who has no interest in my pleasure.

So get over yourself and learn self control.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How often did you "woo" the women you wanted to have sex with, your partners?

Was it a case of "fancy a shag?"

Did you stop flirting? Stop appreciating them? Stop the chase you had at the start?

Just because you're in a relationship with someone doesn't mean that stuff should get forgotten.

I want to be dated, mated and sated. Make me feel all woman and believe me, I'll make you feel all man.

Well, not you, but ....

P"
you don’t know me at all, I’m a very romantic caring kinda guy who flirts and appreciates them so much! See the problem is as well SOME woman expect to much from guys! Far to much! Basically turn up with a rose in your mouth everyday type shit lol... about time woman woooed us guys more

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men

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By *eeleyWoman over a year ago

Dudley

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Have you have sex with that many women or is that just your opinion?

I’ve slept with enough woman to have an opinion on it, maybe all woman ain’t like that but in some cases woman control sex... i agree 100% dont think women have as much sex drive as men

You just don't get it at all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How about just not presuming all women are the same??? unfortunately when it comes to sex a lot of yous are the same

Would you want something putting into your body that you did'nt want?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How often did you "woo" the women you wanted to have sex with, your partners?

Was it a case of "fancy a shag?"

Did you stop flirting? Stop appreciating them? Stop the chase you had at the start?

Just because you're in a relationship with someone doesn't mean that stuff should get forgotten.

I want to be dated, mated and sated. Make me feel all woman and believe me, I'll make you feel all man.

Well, not you, but ....

P you don’t know me at all, I’m a very romantic caring kinda guy who flirts and appreciates them so much! See the problem is as well SOME woman expect to much from guys! Far to much! Basically turn up with a rose in your mouth everyday type shit lol... about time woman woooed us guys more

Oh I do woo my guy, that's partly why we have a great sex life.

But see, I wouldn't expect anyone to turn up with a rose in their mouth every day, however if that IS what someone needed for them to feel turned on, sexy, appreciated and wanting to get down n dirty, and you're saying it's shit, then you're not considering what they need.

What you may deem insignificant and pathetic may mean the world to someone else and you're belittling it.

People are different and need different things, that's where communication comes into play, and listening to HEAR, not to reply.

Some women are manipulative cuntwaffles, and some are sensitive souls who need more care, attention and reassurance than others. It's about finding the right balance for you.

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