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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Intimacy....
Its one thing tearing each others clothes off...
But the warmth and safety you can feel by that person just holding your hand after a shit day |
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It would be nice to have someone to let the dog out in the morning but that's not a good enough reason to lose my much loved single status.
I have the number for borrow a bloke. I have a casual chap. I guess I don't really miss a thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Intimacy....
Its one thing tearing each others clothes off...
But the warmth and safety you can feel by that person just holding your hand after a shit day"
Very true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having someone to do your food shop with that can reach the high shelves.
Definitely having a cwtch on the sofa watching a film and in bed.
I miss different things about different ex’s like my longest one 9 years he had technics 1210 mk5 g’s and 100’d vinyls and he was an awesome dj I’ll give him that. So like Sunday’s I’d just lay on the bed or have a dance whilst he done a slamming set and he had awesome speakers as well so I miss his decks! Last two ex’s played rugby as well (got opposing teams as well so that was awkward) but I miss watching them okay and being all fucked afterwards.
Miss having a co driver and just driving random places and going got walks and all that bull shit.
Just miss affection and closeness and having someone that gets you that isn't one of your girl besties. |
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"Having someone to do your food shop with that can reach the high shelves.
Definitely having a cwtch on the sofa watching a film and in bed.
I miss different things about different ex’s like my longest one 9 years he had technics 1210 mk5 g’s and 100’d vinyls and he was an awesome dj I’ll give him that. So like Sunday’s I’d just lay on the bed or have a dance whilst he done a slamming set and he had awesome speakers as well so I miss his decks! Last two ex’s played rugby as well (got opposing teams as well so that was awkward) but I miss watching them okay and being all fucked afterwards.
Miss having a co driver and just driving random places and going got walks and all that bull shit.
Just miss affection and closeness and having someone that gets you that isn't one of your girl besties. "
Tecknics now we’re talking, mine my mk2 silver just a superb deck, nad power amps, B&W speakers. And house music |
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
So much I DON’T miss!!!
But things I do miss...other than the physical stuff...chatting about a film you’ve just seen, guessing plots in a series you’re both watching, ideas for meal planning (I hate thinking about that!), someone to chat to over dinner when the kids are watching shite, people watching, it being easy to find someone to do something with like a show or a gig without yet another Facebook post to all the marrieds saying ‘hey, who wants to do this awesome thing’, brainstorming life ideas, being able to pop out without thinking about it.
Ooo got a bit carried away there!! Some of these I miss but some I never had anyway. |
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I hate going to bed & waking up alone. I have what I call empty arms syndrome lol. They don't actually hurt but it feels like they do cos I've had no one to give a hug or cuddle to for so long. I miss just making a brew for someone other than myself & hate being on my own. I was married for half my life & I don't really suit being single.  |
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"Having someone to do your food shop with that can reach the high shelves.
Definitely having a cwtch on the sofa watching a film and in bed.
I miss different things about different ex’s like my longest one 9 years he had technics 1210 mk5 g’s and 100’d vinyls and he was an awesome dj I’ll give him that. So like Sunday’s I’d just lay on the bed or have a dance whilst he done a slamming set and he had awesome speakers as well so I miss his decks! Last two ex’s played rugby as well (got opposing teams as well so that was awkward) but I miss watching them okay and being all fucked afterwards.
Miss having a co driver and just driving random places and going got walks and all that bull shit.
Just miss affection and closeness and having someone that gets you that isn't one of your girl besties.
Tecknics now we’re talking, mine my mk2 silver just a superb deck, nad power amps, B&W speakers. And house music "
You can’t beat the sound quality that comes from vinyl a good setup |
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"5 years single and I get all of the above from my fwbs, I'm not built for full time relationships NSA part time is what's right for me  "
3yrs single and having more fun than ever. Fun with guys and girls. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having someone to do your food shop with that can reach the high shelves.
Definitely having a cwtch on the sofa watching a film and in bed.
I miss different things about different ex’s like my longest one 9 years he had technics 1210 mk5 g’s and 100’d vinyls and he was an awesome dj I’ll give him that. So like Sunday’s I’d just lay on the bed or have a dance whilst he done a slamming set and he had awesome speakers as well so I miss his decks! Last two ex’s played rugby as well (got opposing teams as well so that was awkward) but I miss watching them okay and being all fucked afterwards.
Miss having a co driver and just driving random places and going got walks and all that bull shit.
Just miss affection and closeness and having someone that gets you that isn't one of your girl besties.
Tecknics now we’re talking, mine my mk2 silver just a superb deck, nad power amps, B&W speakers. And house music
You can’t beat the sound quality that comes from vinyl a good setup"
I know. He’s got loads of 12 inch really good records I bought over the years as well. Never get them back now it’s over 10 years ago. All my renaissance stuff you know, gutted |
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
L’boro/Ashby & Cheltenham |
"And most of what Mabon said above too. And agree the kids watch some awful screechy shite on youtube!"
 Not just youtube, tho ...there’s only so many times I can watch big hero 6 or Teen Titans Go before I run back to the kitchen...and eat alone
We do have most of our meals together...but if I had intelligent, funny and attentive company, my family rules might slip a bit! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had to think really hard about this, and I've realised I don't miss anything. The thought of a relationship is horrifying to me. I've been officially single for 15 years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Intimacy....
Its one thing tearing each others clothes off...
But the warmth and safety you can feel by that person just holding your hand after a shit day"
Yip same here. Intimacy is what I miss most.
Also little things, like exchanging texts about nothing and having someone to chat with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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God this is getting a bit fucking soppy like.
The worst thing for me is maintenance though. I always look my best when I’m in a relationship and let myself go when I’m not. It should be the other way round. Like I won’t shave my fanny now unless I’m going in the steam room or jacuzzi and even then it will be a scissors job and bikini line only, fuck it I like to see how long my pubes will grow cos nobody will see them. Plus I eat way more takeaways when I’m single, even eat last nights bhajis that I find under my cushion  So I’m at my biggest when I’m single and don’t even bother going to the gym.
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
Feeling loved, adored, cared for, that glow you get when you think of someone and you get excited at the thought of seeing them ASAP, having someone that gets you, makes you laugh your tits off by doing silly things just for you that they wouldn’t even let their closest friends see. Sex on tap, cuddles on tap, kisses on tap. Hair stroking. Feet stroking. Boob stroking.
So many things.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Intimacy....
Its one thing tearing each others clothes off...
But the warmth and safety you can feel by that person just holding your hand after a shit day"
I'd love to have this as well as funn on swinging naughtyness!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you miss about being in a relationship?
I am happily single, but I miss cuddling up to some in the evenings and having a back tickle!"
Cuddles, and the comfortable silences. |
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"Definitely cuddles, but also everyday stuff like cooking together, going for a walk, having someone to tell silly little things that have made me smile. "
Cooking together? Hmmmmm...our relationship is lacking that. |
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175 posts in one thread could never be enough to list the things we all miss.
Being single can be brilliant fun and yes you can get some of the parts you crave in a few places but none of it all together in one place.
There is lots i dont miss about relationships too so you have to be ready to take the bad with the good and how many of us are truly ready for that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I miss intimacy but I don't miss all the drama!
I'm not good at relationships - they make me feel like I'm insane 
Being single is better for my mental health |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm sure at some point I'll start pining for a relationship but for the foreseeable future I'm quite happy getting everything above from different sources, and when it suits me, so I don't feeling like I'm missing out on anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you miss about being in a relationship?
I am happily single, but I miss cuddling up to some in the evenings and having a back tickle!"
Just someone to share the odd meal with hugs cuddles and random sex when it takes you lol |
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Knowing someone is there to chat to after a crap day at work.
Spontaneous nights out where you don't need to plan in advance. Someone to sit and cuddle with while watching tv with no expectations of sex. |
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Company at times, that good night time when I go to sleep and giving that sensual pleasure of relaxation... apart from that I’m fine to be single, so I suppose I’m looking for a sensual naughty feb |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
West Wales and Cardiff |
I miss the farting competitions in bed .
Always a sign of a strong relationship. It’s not obligatory in future relationships though.
Being serious though, it’s just having something daft like that - something ridiculous that bonds you (she started it!), makes you laugh like crazy and would seem ridiculous to the outside world.
I miss missing people too - that “I can’t wait to see her again” feeling. It’s a wonderful ache-like sensation.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t miss a thing tbh. I get to live the life I want without being accountable to anyone. I also have the time and space I need to pursue my hobbies and interests. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I honestly can't imagine being single. I've been married twice since early twenties and lived with my mum and dad before my first marriage. I've literally never been on my own and it terrifies me thinking that one day I most probably will be. I hate my own company. I don't think I would cope being single. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I miss a lot.
Random drives to god knows where, walks in the woods and on the beach. Cuddles, watching films together. Just having someone to chat with after a shit day in work.
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For me it could be something fantastic happening in my day equally something not so fantastic but at least having someone to share it with..... I've had fabulous holidays with a partner and I've had them without... But they're not quite the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I miss a lot.
Random drives to god knows where, walks in the woods and on the beach. Cuddles, watching films together. Just having someone to chat with after a shit day in work.
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What this gent said and add on: having someone to chat with after a good day at work; having a laugh at even the mundane things in life; waking up to someone; spending a day in bed with them. |
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"I honestly can't imagine being single. I've been married twice since early twenties and lived with my mum and dad before my first marriage. I've literally never been on my own and it terrifies me thinking that one day I most probably will be. I hate my own company. I don't think I would cope being single. "
Just the opposite for me,cant imagine what it would be like to be with someone,all sounds a bit odd to me,i think sometimes folk are with there other half just for the sake of being with someone.
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Too many to list.
Cooking at weekends as banned her from the kitchen.
we shared the cooking at events or xmas and barbeque partys.
Chatting in the bathroom while having a bath and a soak.
If she tormented us, She got pulled into the bath which happened often.
fully clothed or not made no difference.
Coming in from work, sex basically everywhere in the house.
Including over the kitchen sink
laid out on couch, lady between my thighs laid out watching tv.
Spooning in bed.
Morning sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you miss about being in a relationship?
I am happily single, but I miss cuddling up to some in the evenings and having a back tickle!"
i miss having my knees stroked   |
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"Tonight im glad im single.
Had a virus since Saturday and been on water and lucozade sport.
Had to take meds to get rid of trapped wind..
Tonight i am like a foghorn
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That makes no difference helps when someone takes care of you when you need it.
shopping for you and tucking you up in bed with drinks and food.
Though I would be telling you to go to bed even if you moan and groaned about it wouldnt make any difference.
But I know full well you would end up on settee watching tv while being laid out poorly.
As goes for bad wind better out than in  |
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Coming home and having someone to share your great day or bad days with.
Cuddling that turns into great sex,laughing at stupid jokes, kissing, chatting about anything and everything,
Maltesers and Netflix, a bottle of wine whilst enjoying each other's company.
And did I mention great sex.
I miss a few things.....
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