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I have been on one site or another for about 11 years, used to get quite a few meets with and without a temporary swing partner. But seems that all the women on here now, even the ones older than me, just want other women or young lads. A few cpls still meet men over 50, a lot say they do, but when it comes down to it they don't. That's not just my observations.
So are there any women or cpls who still genuinely want to meet men over 50? |
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over a year ago
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i prefer young men, although the last man i met was over 50 and i got on very well with him and had good fun. i have had lots of messages from men in their fifties and over who i didnt fancy but they had quite a few verifications from some nice looking women and couples, so maybe its just you. on the whole people arent that fussy on here. |
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over a year ago
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I've played with guys from 18 to 63 and all ages in between .... to me it's their outlook and attitude that matters most. Very pleased I didn't limit to 50 as I would have missed out on some lovely guys  |
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"I've played with guys from 18 to 63 and all ages in between .... to me it's their outlook and attitude that matters most. Very pleased I didn't limit to 50 as I would have missed out on some lovely guys "
Thanks for giving me some hope Suzy x |
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over a year ago
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"I usually play at a club - gets over that - ohhh your too old - ladies appreciate the care and experience - and I do not look my age either
we need to form the silver swingers section "
Hmmm, you're looking good for 61 ... I so would |
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"I have been on one site or another for about 11 years, used to get quite a few meets with and without a temporary swing partner. But seems that all the women on here now, even the ones older than me, just want other women or young lads. A few cpls still meet men over 50, a lot say they do, but when it comes down to it they don't. That's not just my observations.
So are there any women or cpls who still genuinely want to meet men over 50?"
Thing is it's fantasy. I prefer the over 50s, I've blocked anyone under 40 from contacting me but I've found the over 50s are looking for 18-25 year olds!
I wouldn't start a thread personally as personalborefetence is just that.
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"I have been on one site or another for about 11 years, used to get quite a few meets with and without a temporary swing partner. But seems that all the women on here now, even the ones older than me, just want other women or young lads. A few cpls still meet men over 50, a lot say they do, but when it comes down to it they don't. That's not just my observations.
So are there any women or cpls who still genuinely want to meet men over 50?"
At 55 my hubby is 12 years older than me hun, older everytime I say, sexier and more experienced  |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I have been on one site or another for about 11 years, used to get quite a few meets with and without a temporary swing partner. But seems that all the women on here now, even the ones older than me, just want other women or young lads. A few cpls still meet men over 50, a lot say they do, but when it comes down to it they don't. That's not just my observations.
So are there any women or cpls who still genuinely want to meet men over 50?"
Absolutely - age is only a number and personality, confidence and intelligence are such sexy attributes that can be found in people of any age.  |
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"I have been on one site or another for about 11 years, used to get quite a few meets with and without a temporary swing partner. But seems that all the women on here now, even the ones older than me, just want other women or young lads. A few cpls still meet men over 50, a lot say they do, but when it comes down to it they don't. That's not just my observations.
So are there any women or cpls who still genuinely want to meet men over 50?"
Read me profile....I actually state a pref for older..........  |
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Having turned 50 in March, I cannot say that that I have noticed any decrease in my need or ability to shag the arse off any fit (usually foreign) young lady that happens to distract my attention.  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"I have been on one site or another for about 11 years, used to get quite a few meets with and without a temporary swing partner. But seems that all the women on here now, even the ones older than me, just want other women or young lads. A few cpls still meet men over 50, a lot say they do, but when it comes down to it they don't. That's not just my observations.
So are there any women or cpls who still genuinely want to meet men over 50?"
I'll confront the "elephant in the room"...
you yourself have an age restriction.... so are you saying it is okay for you to have yours.... but not for others to have theirs? 
so since your age range goes up to 70... lets use a hypothetical...
if a 75 yr old had the same gripe, what would you tell them???? |
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over a year ago
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It's body shape that clinches the deal for me, but Kate has a plus 10yrs restriction on who she'll meet.
We rarely attract the "30 somethings" these days, so age isn't too much of a barrier for us |
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"on the whole people arent that fussy on here.
errr speak for yourself missus 
That''s what I thought  "
maybe some people are easily pleased. also you cant always get exactly what you would like, so you take the next best thing thats available at the time. as long as you enjoy yourself what does it matter. |
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"on the whole people arent that fussy on here.
errr speak for yourself missus
That''s what I thought
maybe some people are easily pleased. also you cant always get exactly what you would like, so you take the next best thing thats available at the time. as long as you enjoy yourself what does it matter."
I think you'll find you're speaking for yourself there (again)
We won't take the next best thing. We have no need to.
*Her* |
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"on the whole people arent that fussy on here.
errr speak for yourself missus
That''s what I thought
maybe some people are easily pleased. also you cant always get exactly what you would like, so you take the next best thing thats available at the time. as long as you enjoy yourself what does it matter.
I think you'll find you're speaking for yourself there (again)
We won't take the next best thing. We have no need to.
*Her*"
lucky you.  |
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"on the whole people arent that fussy on here.
errr speak for yourself missus
That''s what I thought
maybe some people are easily pleased. also you cant always get exactly what you would like, so you take the next best thing thats available at the time. as long as you enjoy yourself what does it matter."
Wow! Are you saying you have a anything is better than nothing approach?!!
You'll see from my profile the type of person I'm looking for and who's looking for me is very small.
I expect and get exactly what I'm looking for I can't imagine not being fussy. |
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"Having turned 50 in March, I cannot say that that I have noticed any decrease in my need or ability to shag the arse off any fit (usually foreign) young lady that happens to distract my attention. "
There are some cracking young foreign Birds who go past my house everyday.
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"on the whole people arent that fussy on here.
errr speak for yourself missus
That''s what I thought
maybe some people are easily pleased. also you cant always get exactly what you would like, so you take the next best thing thats available at the time. as long as you enjoy yourself what does it matter.
Wow! Are you saying you have a anything is better than nothing approach?!!
You'll see from my profile the type of person I'm looking for and who's looking for me is very small.
I expect and get exactly what I'm looking for I can't imagine not being fussy."
no i dont remember saying i have an anything is better than nothing approach, and i am not just talking about me, am talking about a lot of people on here in general. |
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"It's because the "young uns" do it best 
maybe they do, and they have harder cocks. more energy, and better looking. "
Sorry but don't agree with that they are better looking at all, there are some really good looking ones in my age group, just all boils down to preference doesn't it and my 50 yr old friend has just as much energy as they do if not more, and more experience too |
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"It's because the "young uns" do it best
I used to think that was true when I was younger Dan, its that the young uns just think they do it best."
Younger are more physically fit....but I think the more mature lady may be proping up thier self esteem by taking younger lovers...which is fine by me...not judgeing anyone. Older guys do it for me..... xxx |
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"It's because the "young uns" do it best
I used to think that was true when I was younger Dan, its that the young uns just think they do it best.
Younger are more physically fit....but I think the more mature lady may be proping up thier self esteem by taking younger lovers...which is fine by me...not judgeing anyone. Older guys do it for me..... xxx "
Definitely don't agree with that statement at all as there are lots of mature ladies that wouldn't consider a young lad to boost their self esteem, nor does that realistically help. And that includes this mature lady, did it all by myself, oh and some lovely gentleman similar age to myself  |
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"It's because the "young uns" do it best
I used to think that was true when I was younger Dan, its that the young uns just think they do it best.
Younger are more physically fit....but I think the more mature lady may be proping up thier self esteem by taking younger lovers...which is fine by me...not judgeing anyone. Older guys do it for me..... xxx
Definitely don't agree with that statement at all as there are lots of mature ladies that wouldn't consider a young lad to boost their self esteem, nor does that realistically help. And that includes this mature lady, did it all by myself, oh and some lovely gentleman similar age to myself "
well my hubby is 70, so it makes a nice change to have some young company. lots of men like young girls because of the way they look and because they remind them of when they were young, its the same reason why older women like fresh faced virile young men, with their nice soft skin, their eagerness and enthusiasm, there lovely slim bodies and their trendy clothes. |
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"It's because the "young uns" do it best
I used to think that was true when I was younger Dan, its that the young uns just think they do it best.
Younger are more physically fit....but I think the more mature lady may be proping up thier self esteem by taking younger lovers...which is fine by me...not judgeing anyone. Older guys do it for me..... xxx
Definitely don't agree with that statement at all as there are lots of mature ladies that wouldn't consider a young lad to boost their self esteem, nor does that realistically help. And that includes this mature lady, did it all by myself, oh and some lovely gentleman similar age to myself
well my hubby is 70, so it makes a nice change to have some young company. lots of men like young girls because of the way they look and because they remind them of when they were young, its the same reason why older women like fresh faced virile young men, with their nice soft skin, their eagerness and enthusiasm, there lovely slim bodies and their trendy clothes. "
oooer I hope he isnt on here then with the trendy clothes comment
I have to admit the young lads look nice; some gorgeous ones that come into the pub where I work but that's where it ends for me and I do fancy a couple, just realistically it wouldn't be a good idea; business with pleasure anyway |
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People do make judgements tho... im 24 and chris is 46 and weve been a cpl for 5 years now so we have a perspective on the age difference. Since commenting here ive discussed it with chris....he said.... men who have relations with much younger women are often the butt of unkind jokes and he has suffered this himself being with me.....he also has when in the company soley off men at clubs heard comments like....shes ok for an older un.... he does not share this view.....BUT sees it as insulting to the mature ladys they refer to... MYSELF I dont see the prob with age diffs but others do...I simply dont care what others think....but others do think in negative terms about mature women with younger men...and vice versa xxx all with no offence implied xxx |
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I have blocked under age fifty five from message me so I don't have to say sorry not interested all day lol I know not all younger just bang away like a robot and I know not all older know what a gal likes in bed but I have no interest in men who are not a lot older. That don't mean I will shag solely based on age as have had some men who fit the bill age wise be right tossers when they message me who I wouldn't if they paid me but it is a box that needs to be ticked before I consider meeting. |
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"I have blocked under age fifty five from message me so I don't have to say sorry not interested all day lol I know not all younger just bang away like a robot and I know not all older know what a gal likes in bed but I have no interest in men who are not a lot older. That don't mean I will shag solely based on age as have had some men who fit the bill age wise be right tossers when they message me who I wouldn't if they paid me but it is a box that needs to be ticked before I consider meeting. "
Lol agreed...we could be realted with the close distance and similar tastes xxx |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Prefer the silver fox - always have done
I'd prefer the urbane silver fox but usually end up with the domestic garden gnome.  "
I m just visualising the sexual abuse of a garden gnome ...... I need a life!! |
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"Prefer the silver fox - always have done
I'd prefer the urbane silver fox but usually end up with the domestic garden gnome.
I m just visualising the sexual abuse of a garden gnome ...... I need a life!! "
thats an unusual fantasy....seek therapy lol xxx |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Prefer the silver fox - always have done
I'd prefer the urbane silver fox but usually end up with the domestic garden gnome.
I m just visualising the sexual abuse of a garden gnome ...... I need a life!!
thats an unusual fantasy....seek therapy lol xxx"
I think I will need to - see you in 6 months |
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"Prefer the silver fox - always have done
I'd prefer the urbane silver fox but usually end up with the domestic garden gnome.
I m just visualising the sexual abuse of a garden gnome ...... I need a life!!
thats an unusual fantasy....seek therapy lol xxx
I think I will need to - see you in 6 months"
its a date x |
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By *xscotMan
over a year ago
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"Having turned 50 in March, I cannot say that that I have noticed any decrease in my need or ability to shag the arse off any fit (usually foreign) young lady that happens to distract my attention.
There are some cracking young foreign Birds who go past my house everyday.
Usually flying north in the spring and South in the autumn
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"I have been on one site or another for about 11 years, used to get quite a few meets with and without a temporary swing partner. But seems that all the women on here now, even the ones older than me, just want other women or young lads. A few cpls still meet men over 50, a lot say they do, but when it comes down to it they don't. That's not just my observations.
So are there any women or cpls who still genuinely want to meet men over 50?
I'll confront the "elephant in the room"...
you yourself have an age restriction.... so are you saying it is okay for you to have yours.... but not for others to have theirs?
so since your age range goes up to 70... lets use a hypothetical...
if a 75 yr old had the same gripe, what would you tell them???? "
By putting the age on that I do, its my way of saying I don't have a restriction. Are there any 75 year olds on here then? |
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