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31 year old male seeking genuine advice please
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I'm a 31 year old male that's always fantasized over older women an couples. Since joking Fab I've been lucky enough to meet some of these people.. but I'd like some help having more luck as I feel that I'm not getting enough chances to at least chat with older people to at least explain myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a 31 year old male that's always fantasized over older women an couples. Since joking Fab I've been lucky enough to meet some of these people.. but I'd like some help having more luck as I feel that I'm not getting enough chances to at least chat with older people to at least explain myself "
well no joking apart try and be serious for once and leave the joking to someone else    |
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Why do people think they should be given a chance? When did entitlement creep into personal "relationships?"
Put forward the best you, contact those looking for you and tailor your message to them.
Expect nothing and don't see Fab as the be all and end all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your username isn't quite right as you've been on here for over 3 years.
Those people you have met on fab - could they give you a veri to say what time they had with you? As at the moment it doesn't seem like you've had meets. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Thing is OP it's not about "luck" or being able to sign in and dial-a-meet, it's not even about sending the right kind of message necessarily either, although it helps.
It *is* about finding the right approach, attitude and expectations, and coupling it with a decent profile and pics and accepting that you won't be for everyone.
Get those things right and it won't guarantee a thing, but it will improve your experience of the site.
As others have said saying you've met people yet have no veris to show for it won't help - it either suggests you're fibbing, or that you weren't worth verifying - not saying either is the case but it's how someone may view things. I'd also do away with the status which is borderline desperate. |
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"Why do people think they should be given a chance? When did entitlement creep into personal "relationships?"
Put forward the best you, contact those looking for you and tailor your message to them.
Expect nothing and don't see Fab as the be all and end all."
This. All day long.
It's a site. Not a guarantee.
Go out, talk to women face to face. |
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Many people don't want to be a token representative to fulfil a fantasy etc, so that could limit options if it's perceived by them.
For some the username including elements they may be wary of, could be a deterrent.
Meeting people in the flesh is probably ideal for men who are struggling against huge levels of competition online.
Letting people see your physique, can make it easier for those who want to see the goods to assess beforehand too. |
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