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over a year ago
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"I’m new to all this and want to experience being a male submissive to a female dominant. Any ideas where to start. "
Start with Incandescent she will help you |
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It's important in fab for single men to invest lots of time and effort in becoming established, full stop. You need to search well and communicate even better. It's worth reading the pists here from men who struggle, finding the great advice and tips, then putting them to good use.
Getting these foundations right will help you to make the effort to narrow down your search and make it more productive, as you go ahead it. Some clubs and specialist environments could also be helpful |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"I’m new to all this and want to experience being a male submissive to a female dominant. Any ideas where to start. "
Firstly, if you've not done so already, it will help both you and any prospective dominants you may talk to if you have a clear idea of what being a submissive means to you - what your expectations as a submissive are, what your limits and boundaries are, what kind of dynamic you'd be looking for etc.
Once you have got that, give consideration to reflecting it in your profile if you've not done so already.
Finding a female dominant is the D/s equivalent of finding a unicorn, so set your expectations accordingly - they can be found here, but it's not quite as simple as just sending a message and falling to your knees, more a case of building a connection and finding someone who is on your wavelength and it developing naturally.
You could always get along to local munches (socials for the kink world) or even fetish nights at clubs and talk to people.
If you really are new to this you could do a lot worse than reading as much as you can on the subject (books like SM101 and Screw The Roses Bring Me The Thorns are good starting points) which will help focus your mind on your wants and desires.
Be careful though, there are many who will try and take advantage of submissives, so keep your guard up, and your wits about you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’m new to all this and want to experience being a male submissive to a female dominant. Any ideas where to start.
Firstly, if you've not done so already, it will help both you and any prospective dominants you may talk to if you have a clear idea of what being a submissive means to you - what your expectations as a submissive are, what your limits and boundaries are, what kind of dynamic you'd be looking for etc.
Once you have got that, give consideration to reflecting it in your profile if you've not done so already.
Finding a female dominant is the D/s equivalent of finding a unicorn, so set your expectations accordingly - they can be found here, but it's not quite as simple as just sending a message and falling to your knees, more a case of building a connection and finding someone who is on your wavelength and it developing naturally.
You could always get along to local munches (socials for the kink world) or even fetish nights at clubs and talk to people.
If you really are new to this you could do a lot worse than reading as much as you can on the subject (books like SM101 and Screw The Roses Bring Me The Thorns are good starting points) which will help focus your mind on your wants and desires.
Be careful though, there are many who will try and take advantage of submissives, so keep your guard up, and your wits about you."
Cheers I will have a read. |
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