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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before? 
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before?
Discuss."
Wouldn't know, still waiting to arrange the meet |
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Your match will be different with different people.
I've yet to meet anyone who fulfills all of the things I like and want as it changes all the time anyway.
I've got close but that's all it will ever be, close.
Nobody can be everything you will ever desire sexually in my eyes but there may be one that is enough to stop you wanting those last little things. |
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"Yes 
... for now. But who knows what's round the corner. And what I'm attracted to changes as I move through life. What I have is pretty good right now.
X "
Definitely. I find myself happy with various bits of satisfying in different areas. Attempting to optimise is a trap, I think. |
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before?
Discuss."
Yes.
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"Yes but it comes in the form of a group of men. I am multi facited and dont believe one man could fulfil all my needs but between them they all fulfil a part of me. Its perfect"
Now this, this I can go for. |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I think the idea is overrated.
Oh it definitely isn’t
Agree to disagree
I'll agree to disagree with the previous comment.
To each their own. Giving up on the notion has made me a lot happier."
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
"Yes
... for now. But who knows what's round the corner. And what I'm attracted to changes as I move through life. What I have is pretty good right now.
X
Definitely. I find myself happy with various bits of satisfying in different areas. Attempting to optimise is a trap, I think."
Yes..every connection I have is unique and brings a different aspect of me and requires something different. It's not linear or definitive. I'm constantly in awe of what is possible.
Ultimately, I'm my own fucking perfect sexual match..I just happen to collide with other awesome sexual beings every now and then for a starburst of pleasure and adventure. Woo hoo! |
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No. because I'm ever evolving sexually and I've not met the one man who wants to try and do all the stuff that I want to, my relationships cover a lot of bases shared between many but I have new stuff to try with different people |
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"No. because I'm ever evolving sexually and I've not met the one man who wants to try and do all the stuff that I want to, my relationships cover a lot of bases shared between many but I have new stuff to try with different people "
Yes. I'm different things with different people, and I evolve. It's a wonderful thing. Idealising any one thing means I neglect parts of myself, plus risk ignoring other things I shouldn't. |
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"Yes
... for now. But who knows what's round the corner. And what I'm attracted to changes as I move through life. What I have is pretty good right now.
X
Definitely. I find myself happy with various bits of satisfying in different areas. Attempting to optimise is a trap, I think.
Yes..every connection I have is unique and brings a different aspect of me and requires something different. It's not linear or definitive. I'm constantly in awe of what is possible.
Ultimately, I'm my own fucking perfect sexual match..I just happen to collide with other awesome sexual beings every now and then for a starburst of pleasure and adventure. Woo hoo! "
Oh god, I love this. Food for thought. |
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"Yes. I'm different things with different people, and I evolve. It's a wonderful thing. Idealising any one thing means I neglect parts of myself, plus risk ignoring other things I shouldn't."
I don't see it as idealising anything. It took me completely by surprise. Perhaps it's just a case of the right person, at the right time, in the right circumstances - things might have been very different had it been at a different point in my life. |
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"Yes. I'm different things with different people, and I evolve. It's a wonderful thing. Idealising any one thing means I neglect parts of myself, plus risk ignoring other things I shouldn't.
I don't see it as idealising anything. It took me completely by surprise. Perhaps it's just a case of the right person, at the right time, in the right circumstances - things might have been very different had it been at a different point in my life. "
I get that. I could be wrong. I suspect for me it was the wrong person at the wrong time, in the wrong circumstances, playing out in ways that harmed me. I'm not putting up with that shit for an ideal, and in the aftermath find it best to destroy the ideal. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
Not yet I'm afraid - a part of me remains hopefull though, in spite of current trends.
Meanwhile...
"Not moist though .. that’s a horrid word  "
Really?.. you've got to be kidding!!.. all the nicest things in life are moist. 
Surely you are too when you feel nicest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not yet I'm afraid - a part of me remains hopefull though, in spite of current trends.
Meanwhile...
Not moist though .. that’s a horrid word
Really?.. you've got to be kidding!!.. all the nicest things in life are moist.
Surely you are too when you feel nicest. "
Makes me squirm that word!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah but I’m ruled by mercury and although people say stuff like that is bollocks it’s no coincidence that mercury is the planet of mind and intellect and it’s my mind first that needs to be turned on.
Had a few people in the last 19 years that have matched me sexually, the father of my child who I was with nearly 10 years, 2 guys from here and a guy from a fitness forum I used to be on. So not many people sadly. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I'm taking the 5th to save further undercurrents being needlessly and pointlessly played out in-thread...
...but what I will say is I've been lucky enough at various points in my life to find people who are on my wavelength and have enjoyed the experience with each of them in their own way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It is unlikely I’d ever find a way of satisfying all my needs in one person. I have had extremely satisfying relationships and encounters with people where the mutual chemistry was excellent, but it is unlikely any of them could have been the perfect match for all of those needs over time, and to think I could be that for someone else is hubris.
For one I’m bisexual so by its very nature that means for me, one person couldn’t be the perfect match Secondly my sexuality has developed and expanded over time as I became more confident as a sexual being. To expect another to develop and expand in a synchronised way with me would have been foolhardy and unreasonable.
I think different needs can be met at different times by different people. Imperfect maybe but I think realistic. |
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"It is unlikely I’d ever find a way of satisfying all my needs in one person. I have had extremely satisfying relationships and encounters with people where the mutual chemistry was excellent, but it is unlikely any of them could have been the perfect match for all of those needs over time, and to think I could be that for someone else is hubris.
For one I’m bisexual so by its very nature that means for me, one person couldn’t be the perfect match Secondly my sexuality has developed and expanded over time as I became more confident as a sexual being. To expect another to develop and expand in a synchronised way with me would have been foolhardy and unreasonable.
I think different needs can be met at different times by different people. Imperfect maybe but I think realistic."
Well said.
I also think I'm not really wired for one person. I tried earlier in my life, it made me fucking miserable, I'm done with it. I'm some sort of poly promiscuous something or other. It also helps me embrace people as flawed rather than putting them on pedestals. |
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before?
Discuss."
I (Luke) have found three in my life. Fortunately I am now living with one of them. |
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"It is unlikely I’d ever find a way of satisfying all my needs in one person. I have had extremely satisfying relationships and encounters with people where the mutual chemistry was excellent, but it is unlikely any of them could have been the perfect match for all of those needs over time, and to think I could be that for someone else is hubris.
For one I’m bisexual so by its very nature that means for me, one person couldn’t be the perfect match Secondly my sexuality has developed and expanded over time as I became more confident as a sexual being. To expect another to develop and expand in a synchronised way with me would have been foolhardy and unreasonable.
I think different needs can be met at different times by different people. Imperfect maybe but I think realistic.
Well said.
I also think I'm not really wired for one person. I tried earlier in my life, it made me fucking miserable, I'm done with it. I'm some sort of poly promiscuous something or other. It also helps me embrace people as flawed rather than putting them on pedestals."
I relate to this. I also relish the differences and individuality in the different people I meet and often enjoy different things with different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is unlikely I’d ever find a way of satisfying all my needs in one person. I have had extremely satisfying relationships and encounters with people where the mutual chemistry was excellent, but it is unlikely any of them could have been the perfect match for all of those needs over time, and to think I could be that for someone else is hubris.
For one I’m bisexual so by its very nature that means for me, one person couldn’t be the perfect match Secondly my sexuality has developed and expanded over time as I became more confident as a sexual being. To expect another to develop and expand in a synchronised way with me would have been foolhardy and unreasonable.
I think different needs can be met at different times by different people. Imperfect maybe but I think realistic.
Well said.
I also think I'm not really wired for one person. I tried earlier in my life, it made me fucking miserable, I'm done with it. I'm some sort of poly promiscuous something or other. It also helps me embrace people as flawed rather than putting them on pedestals."
Yes but was that not the person that made you miserable? |
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"It is unlikely I’d ever find a way of satisfying all my needs in one person. I have had extremely satisfying relationships and encounters with people where the mutual chemistry was excellent, but it is unlikely any of them could have been the perfect match for all of those needs over time, and to think I could be that for someone else is hubris.
For one I’m bisexual so by its very nature that means for me, one person couldn’t be the perfect match Secondly my sexuality has developed and expanded over time as I became more confident as a sexual being. To expect another to develop and expand in a synchronised way with me would have been foolhardy and unreasonable.
I think different needs can be met at different times by different people. Imperfect maybe but I think realistic.
Well said.
I also think I'm not really wired for one person. I tried earlier in my life, it made me fucking miserable, I'm done with it. I'm some sort of poly promiscuous something or other. It also helps me embrace people as flawed rather than putting them on pedestals.
Yes but was that not the person that made you miserable? "
I don't think so. Obviously you're getting the heavily abridged version of a lot of processing. |
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before?
Discuss."
Yes thats why I’m marrying him
Met on here
Sex is off the chart
And he’s a kinky bugger that introduced me to mfm haha |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before?
Discuss.
Yes thats why I’m marrying him
Met on here
Sex is off the chart
And he’s a kinky bugger that introduced me to mfm haha "
Congratulations! A fab happy ending |
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
So far just the one that ticked every box and matched me in the bedroom. We used to meet regularly but not anymore. Although we did have 1 night of utter filth last summer it's one of those things that is best left to very occasionally for both of our sakes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It is unlikely I’d ever find a way of satisfying all my needs in one person. I have had extremely satisfying relationships and encounters with people where the mutual chemistry was excellent, but it is unlikely any of them could have been the perfect match for all of those needs over time, and to think I could be that for someone else is hubris.
For one I’m bisexual so by its very nature that means for me, one person couldn’t be the perfect match Secondly my sexuality has developed and expanded over time as I became more confident as a sexual being. To expect another to develop and expand in a synchronised way with me would have been foolhardy and unreasonable.
I think different needs can be met at different times by different people. Imperfect maybe but I think realistic.
Well said.
I also think I'm not really wired for one person. I tried earlier in my life, it made me fucking miserable, I'm done with it. I'm some sort of poly promiscuous something or other. It also helps me embrace people as flawed rather than putting them on pedestals.
I relate to this. I also relish the differences and individuality in the different people I meet and often enjoy different things with different people."
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"So far just the one that ticked every box and matched me in the bedroom. We used to meet regularly but not anymore. Although we did have 1 night of utter filth last summer it's one of those things that is best left to very occasionally for both of our sakes "
So long as you can experience it on occasion |
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before?
Discuss."
No.. I love to meet him one day though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve met her a few weeks ago on here and she lives local.....such a lucky boy I feel I’ve won the lottery.....here’s hoping for much more super hot fun to come |
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before?
Discuss."
I’ve been lucky enough to meet quite a few who match that description. I’m a ver lucky lady!
How about you op? Have you found quite a few? Or just the one? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She's "the one that got away" I was stubborn and adamant that I didn't want a relationship at the time even though I was madly in love with her (and still am to a degree) we were really good friends for years and somehow ended up spending the last 12 months of it in bed together a lot, shes an amazing person with an insatiable sexual drive to match, we briefly reconnected (as friends) while we were both with other people and it turned out we both felt exactly the same for eachother but were both far too stubborn to give in to it.
Shame really... oh well onwards and upwards, maybe our paths will cross once again someday when the time is right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m not sure 
I thought I was perfect!
You are
FAF  
Hell yes! Can I bring a friend
How about your twin
This just gets better and better!
Should know I’d be in "
You’d never miss out on anything! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before?
Discuss."
I thought I had but it was just a lie. And you Chill? Have you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before?
Discuss."
No. I genuinely believe they don't exist. |
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before?
Discuss."
Ohhhhhh YES! |
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Yes.
First time I had sex with Mr TMN, it was great. We were very experimental from quite early on in ways neither of us had been with other people. We just connected so well.
Here we are, 16 years down the line, and I can honestly say the sex is better than ever We love exploring and experimenting with other people, but if we only had sex with each other for the rest of our lives, I'd be perfectly happy 
Mrs TMN x |
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Once.
Had that chemistry thing were we couldnt keep our hands of each other.
Sexually completely matched in every way..both said it was the best sex we had ever.
Used to get her to cum about 15 times a night.
Didnt last however.gutted doesn't even come close. |
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"Once, once upon a time. He got scared of the intensity of the weekend. There was naked chess and everything.
Naked chess is awesome! So is naked Uno "
Don't think I've ever played Uno, never mind naked Uno. Fancy teaching me? |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Once, once upon a time. He got scared of the intensity of the weekend. There was naked chess and everything.
Naked chess is awesome! So is naked Uno
Don't think I've ever played Uno, never mind naked Uno. Fancy teaching me?"
Loads of fun! The naked version opens up possibilities for the winner / loser |
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By *hillout OP Man
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Yes.
First time I had sex with Mr TMN, it was great. We were very experimental from quite early on in ways neither of us had been with other people. We just connected so well.
Here we are, 16 years down the line, and I can honestly say the sex is better than ever We love exploring and experimenting with other people, but if we only had sex with each other for the rest of our lives, I'd be perfectly happy
Mrs TMN x"
That is so lovely to hear . That's something many a person wish they'd have I reckon. |
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