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over a year ago
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Scars aren’t sexy in themselves. But on someone I find attractive, they form part of what makes that person sexy. So to that extent, I can aesthetically appreciate a scar on someone I‘m already into. |
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"Scars aren’t sexy in themselves. But on someone I find attractive, they form part of what makes that person sexy. So to that extent, I can aesthetically appreciate a scar on someone I‘m already into. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Huge one on my stomach. Have some on my head and have some covered up with tattoos. Nobody has ever said they found then sexy though.
I think the "chicks dig scars" thing is just a myth buddy! |
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"Scars aren’t sexy in themselves. But on someone I find attractive, they form part of what makes that person sexy. So to that extent, I can aesthetically appreciate a scar on someone I‘m already into. "
This.
What makes a person sexy is about so much more than their looks & physical features. Scars are just a part of the person's story.
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I had an ex boyfriend who had a disfigured face. He had been in a car crash and gone through the window screen and had had over a 150 stitches to his face. It was the left side of his face and under his chin they where the old raised jagged scars. They didnt attract or distract me from him. The longer i was with him the less i noticed them |
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I find scars sexy, more so with the story that goes with them.
I met a guy who fell through a window gouged his chest out. Looked like hed battled a bear and survived he was incredibly embarrassed by it but it was sexy to me. Sadly he was an arsehole though otherwise I'd love to have kept seeing him
Scars are part of who you are a path on which you've walked. They make you more unique. I don't think anyone should be embarrassed by their scars, I have one scar that I am embarrassed with myself though I try to not pay attention to it and I know it's not a scar I should be embarrassed about but it disgusts me. |
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I really like scars, a lot more than I should.
We all know Cersei Lannister (Lena Heady) in Game of Thrones is gorgeous but I found her excruciatingly sexy in Dredd when she played Mamaa.
Yes I'm can be a bit twisted with what I find attractive.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Scars indicate that you’ve lived so if you have them, don’t be embarrassed. I have a lot from a car accident. I also have stretch marks on my arms and legs from when I was stupid and put muscle on way too quickly.
If someone can’t accept them, it means they can’t accept me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Scars are all part of that person and their story, what makes them them. I work with kids that quite often have scars and I'm privileged to be able to make them be at ease with them. We make up epic stories about their scars! A scar just means you are alive when otherwise you might not have been ... |
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"Huge one on my stomach. Have some on my head and have some covered up with tattoos. Nobody has ever said they found then sexy though.
I think the "chicks dig scars" thing is just a myth buddy! "
I have scars on my stomach/abdomen from surgery. I could give a monkeys about scars on a guy and would expect a guy to have zero interest in mine. They are just part of bodies like belly buttons to me! I agree that chicks don't dig scars  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have wounds from the many battles I have faced in this life, taking on the Persians was no walk in the park let me tell you! 
Yet you wouldn't entertain that joke the other day "
Fake news! I quoted the whole scene before kicking you down that hole! How did you get out of there?!  |
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"I have wounds from the many battles I have faced in this life, taking on the Persians was no walk in the park let me tell you!
Yet you wouldn't entertain that joke the other day
Fake news! I quoted the whole scene before kicking you down that hole! How did you get out of there?! "
Clung onto your leather skirt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive a few scars from various activities mostly motorcycle accidents .However my proudest scar runs right round my ball sack , cause i ripped them out when i was a teenager .. Do you know your testicles hang down to nearly your knees and are grey in colour .. not much blood but a whole world of pain ...and anxiety |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone who would be offended if a stigmatophiliac like myself was aroused by your scars?
Would it make you uncomfortable, would it be awkward, or do you consider it too weird?
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I've had people been aroused by my scar. It's adorable and sexy |
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"Huge one on my stomach. Have some on my head and have some covered up with tattoos. Nobody has ever said they found then sexy though.
I think the "chicks dig scars" thing is just a myth buddy!
I have scars on my stomach/abdomen from surgery. I could give a monkeys about scars on a guy and would expect a guy to have zero interest in mine. They are just part of bodies like belly buttons to me! I agree that chicks don't dig scars "
This is how I feel about mine. I forget they're even there. I'm.not sure why but it's never even crossed my mind that they may bother someone but then the biggest one I've had since 2 months old so I don't even rem_mber not having it. I have one about 10cm long just under my ribs and small ones in my groin, on my brow and on my ankle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have an epic scar from my recent tummy tuck.. Hidden in bikini line.. But I did it for me after huge weight loss and I embrace it as the new me.. Would do it again in a heartbeat  |
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"My recent accident means I have a big scar that I don’t like on show "
Try not to let it stop you showing yourself off. Some more visible issues can't be hidden and don't cause problems, so I don't imagine a scar will. Anyone shallow enough to reject on the basis of a scar isn't worth your time of day anyway. Chin up, my friend. |
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"Huge one on my stomach. Have some on my head and have some covered up with tattoos. Nobody has ever said they found then sexy though.
I think the "chicks dig scars" thing is just a myth buddy!
I have scars on my stomach/abdomen from surgery. I could give a monkeys about scars on a guy and would expect a guy to have zero interest in mine. They are just part of bodies like belly buttons to me! I agree that chicks don't dig scars
This is how I feel about mine. I forget they're even there. I'm.not sure why but it's never even crossed my mind that they may bother someone but then the biggest one I've had since 2 months old so I don't even rem_mber not having it. I have one about 10cm long just under my ribs and small ones in my groin, on my brow and on my ankle. "
ARGH, mine should have said I DON'T give a monkeys!! Flipping auto correct! I agree, I forget I have mine. They are all abdominal from appendicetomy and multiple ones from keyhole on my stomach and a laparoscopy. The rest of me is permanently covered in bruises but that's from sport |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
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Got a two big ones on my right leg, appendix scar, one under the chin from a boating accident, two scars on the palms of my hands from a broken glass and an idiot...and then there is the sexual scar that needed thirteen stitches. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve only got a couple of small ones.
My face is a different shape after reconstructive surgery. No one has ever pointed it out, but it’s all I see in the mirror. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Scars tell a story. I think one of the sexiest men in Hollywood is Tommy Flanagan and he has scars. Love hockey players faces and they have unreal scars. I have scars that I am extremely proud of.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My recent accident means I have a big scar that I don’t like on show
Try not to let it stop you showing yourself off. Some more visible issues can't be hidden and don't cause problems, so I don't imagine a scar will. Anyone shallow enough to reject on the basis of a scar isn't worth your time of day anyway. Chin up, my friend. "
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
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I've got two on my arm.
I thought at the time I'd hate them but I actually really love them. They tell a story of who I am.
I don't think anyone would find them attractive though. People never ask about them but sometimes they touch then without warning. I'm not digging this, it gives me an electric shock. |
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"I’ve only got a couple of small ones.
My face is a different shape after reconstructive surgery. No one has ever pointed it out, but it’s all I see in the mirror. "
My face is lopsided after my cheek was fractured and my jaw was damaged in my 20s. One eye drooped slightly and it changed the entire shape of my face.
Nobody says anything but when I mention it they immediately know which side was damaged so it must be noticeable.
I don't really give a shite - it's right there, not like I'm hiding it or it comes as a surprise! |
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"I’ve only got a couple of small ones.
My face is a different shape after reconstructive surgery. No one has ever pointed it out, but it’s all I see in the mirror.
My face is lopsided after my cheek was fractured and my jaw was damaged in my 20s. One eye drooped slightly and it changed the entire shape of my face.
Nobody says anything but when I mention it they immediately know which side was damaged so it must be noticeable.
I don't really give a shite - it's right there, not like I'm hiding it or it comes as a surprise!"
That sounds similar to me.
My cheekbone, eye socket and skull were all fractured.
Maybe one day I’ll get over it
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"I’ve only got a couple of small ones.
My face is a different shape after reconstructive surgery. No one has ever pointed it out, but it’s all I see in the mirror.
My face is lopsided after my cheek was fractured and my jaw was damaged in my 20s. One eye drooped slightly and it changed the entire shape of my face.
Nobody says anything but when I mention it they immediately know which side was damaged so it must be noticeable.
I don't really give a shite - it's right there, not like I'm hiding it or it comes as a surprise!
That sounds similar to me.
My cheekbone, eye socket and skull were all fractured.
Maybe one day I’ll get over it
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It was 20 years ago for me so I've had plenty of time to adjust! Now it's just my face - I don't think about it much unless I'm looking at old, pre-damage photos. |
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I've got loads, burns, motorbike accidents, surgery, injuries from work back in my farming days, some from doing stupid things as a kid, most are faded to the point they're only noticeable when I'm tanned but the scars stay white though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have scars. 2 c section ones across(was 3 altogether), the 4th one is down my stomach, appendix scar too.
I hated my body for a long time and have only just learnt that they are me and i cant change them.
If someone is repulsed by them they arent worth the time.
I would never find a scar repulsive, its part of a story of someones life. |
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