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Question for the bisexual people
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"Very. From full-on penetrative and mouth to mouth kissing with the male half of a couple to full-blown penetrative and mouth-to-mouth kissing with the woman of the couple. Plus the oral sex preliminary of course" As for relationships, I only see women platonically, outside of the swinging 'game'. | |||
"Balls. Far too easy to delete the text after posting with meaning too. On topic: Bisexual here, but so far in my life heteroromantic. I’d be open to pursuing a relationship with a man or someone between the two poles of the gender binary, but it hasn’t happened yet. " Pretty much the same here | |||
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"I dated women long before I dated men, so yes, I'd consider dating women again. I don't know how bisexual I am, not sure if it's easily quantifiable. Like right now I'm pretty cockcentric but with the right woman I'd be interested in women again. " Exactly this for me.  | |||
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"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. " Snap. I thought about it when younger, but then I realised women are mental 
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"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. Snap. I thought about it when younger, but then I realised women are mental
P"Men are differently mental to women, I think  | |||
"Interesting question - and not sure where I'd fall to be honest - I'm open to meeting guys one to one, but have yet to do so, would be open to seeing a guy in an NSA environment regularly BUT I can't ever see myself in a committed relationship with a guy. I'd also say my "attraction" to guys is very different from that I have with ladies, I don't, for example, look at guys in the street and think "he's hot" - but there still has to be an attraction there on some level. As for individual "acts" that would very much be down to me and the guy concerned and personally I don't see that it defines my "bi-ness" " I would be much the same don't want to set up home with a guy and if truthful it's only a oral thing with another cd which I like. Pretty much all the rest I am not interested in. This proves difficult when finding someone to play with as they always seam to be looking more bi things than myself. We are all different. | |||
"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. Snap. I thought about it when younger, but then I realised women are mental
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Men are differently mental to women, I think "Yep, almost predictably mental, whereas women are randomly fucking mental with bells on.... and I was in a relationship with a very dangerously evil "man" for a very long time! It was like living with a woman with permanent PMT. Fuck that shiz P | |||
"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. Snap. I thought about it when younger, but then I realised women are mental
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"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. Snap. I thought about it when younger, but then I realised women are mental
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Men are differently mental to women, I think
Yep, almost predictably mental, whereas women are randomly fucking mental with bells on.... and I was in a relationship with a very dangerously evil "man" for a very long time! It was like living with a woman with permanent PMT.
Fuck that shiz
P"I disagree. I get it, but I disagree. | |||
"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. Snap. I thought about it when younger, but then I realised women are mental
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Fuck you P. "Maybe one day beaut 
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"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. Snap. I thought about it when younger, but then I realised women are mental
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Men are differently mental to women, I think
Yep, almost predictably mental, whereas women are randomly fucking mental with bells on.... and I was in a relationship with a very dangerously evil "man" for a very long time! It was like living with a woman with permanent PMT.
Fuck that shiz
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I disagree. I get it, but I disagree."That's fair. I obviously only have my own experience of both sexes to go on. Maybe I should try more women. P | |||
"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. Snap. I thought about it when younger, but then I realised women are mental
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Men are differently mental to women, I think
Yep, almost predictably mental, whereas women are randomly fucking mental with bells on.... and I was in a relationship with a very dangerously evil "man" for a very long time! It was like living with a woman with permanent PMT.
Fuck that shiz
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I disagree. I get it, but I disagree.
That's fair. I obviously only have my own experience of both sexes to go on. Maybe I should try more women.
P"I increasingly think a lot of "women are crazy" is sexism in one form or another. Different standards/ expectations for men and women sort of thing. I can't prove it, but it bothers me that we get written off like this. | |||
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"I'm at least 75-80% straight. I adore women, always have and always will. " This  | |||
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"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. Snap. I thought about it when younger, but then I realised women are mental
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Men are differently mental to women, I think
Yep, almost predictably mental, whereas women are randomly fucking mental with bells on.... and I was in a relationship with a very dangerously evil "man" for a very long time! It was like living with a woman with permanent PMT.
Fuck that shiz
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I disagree. I get it, but I disagree.
That's fair. I obviously only have my own experience of both sexes to go on. Maybe I should try more women.
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I increasingly think a lot of "women are crazy" is sexism in one form or another. Different standards/ expectations for men and women sort of thing. I can't prove it, but it bothers me that we get written off like this."I can understand that, and of course everyone should be taken as an individual rather than their gender. I have throughout my time on the planet found those with vag's to be the most manipulative, spiteful, vengeful, petty, judgemental and unpredictable as a whole. Don't get me wrong I've met some messed up blokes, I really have, but they have been less in number and things tend to fizzle out (whether that be friendships, relationships etc. You know when people just kinda move on and do their own thing) whereas with the women it's normally been through a barny, jealousy, spreading lies etc and boom, it all blows up. P | |||
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"Good question, my bi side comes from my crossdressing so in the normal day to day world I have no interest in Men. However I do go into another mindset when dressed fully (wig, makeup etc..). There is always a fantasy of being the wife in a same sex relationship but I think it's just that a fantasy. " This in reverse. I'm attracted to femininity, whether the person is a woman, or a man dressed as a woman. Generally not interested in masculine men (though if he is part of a couple) | |||
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"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. Snap. I thought about it when younger, but then I realised women are mental
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Men are differently mental to women, I think
Yep, almost predictably mental, whereas women are randomly fucking mental with bells on.... and I was in a relationship with a very dangerously evil "man" for a very long time! It was like living with a woman with permanent PMT.
Fuck that shiz
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I disagree. I get it, but I disagree.
That's fair. I obviously only have my own experience of both sexes to go on. Maybe I should try more women.
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I increasingly think a lot of "women are crazy" is sexism in one form or another. Different standards/ expectations for men and women sort of thing. I can't prove it, but it bothers me that we get written off like this.
I can understand that, and of course everyone should be taken as an individual rather than their gender. I have throughout my time on the planet found those with vag's to be the most manipulative, spiteful, vengeful, petty, judgemental and unpredictable as a whole. Don't get me wrong I've met some messed up blokes, I really have, but they have been less in number and things tend to fizzle out (whether that be friendships, relationships etc. You know when people just kinda move on and do their own thing) whereas with the women it's normally been through a barny, jealousy, spreading lies etc and boom, it all blows up.
P"Totally agree. I find it difficult to understand women. I swear I should have been a man! The things I know and hear on here, even about me. It’s unbelievable. I just pop it in the back of my mind and carry on. Never had any issues like that with men. | |||
"How bisexual are you? Do you swing one way more than the other? Are you just bi-playful or would you consider relationship either way?" I’d say I’m 80% straight as I prefer sex with women but I’m easy about it really. Saying that, I’m an enthusiast 20%er. | |||
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"I increasingly think a lot of "women are crazy" is sexism in one form or another. Different standards/ expectations for men and women sort of thing. I can't prove it, but it bothers me that we get written off like this. I can understand that, and of course everyone should be taken as an individual rather than their gender. I have throughout my time on the planet found those with vag's to be the most manipulative, spiteful, vengeful, petty, judgemental and unpredictable as a whole. Don't get me wrong I've met some messed up blokes, I really have, but they have been less in number and things tend to fizzle out (whether that be friendships, relationships etc. You know when people just kinda move on and do their own thing) whereas with the women it's normally been through a barny, jealousy, spreading lies etc and boom, it all blows up. P Totally agree. I find it difficult to understand women. I swear I should have been a man! The things I know and hear on here, even about me. It’s unbelievable. I just pop it in the back of my mind and carry on. Never had any issues like that with men. " I'd agree with Inaswing on this subject. I think there's always a danger of falling into lazy, outdated, harmful clichéd tropes when it comes to discussing women. In the (far too many years) I've been on this site, I've heard many, many things from both sexes. Seen less than desirable behaviour from both. All of those far too oft commonly attributed feminine negative traits? Jealously? Manipulation? Judgemental? Petty? Yep, I've seen men display them. People are unique and individual and I'd rather take them as so and not believe the prevalence of dickishness is related to their genitalia. | |||
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"I increasingly think a lot of "women are crazy" is sexism in one form or another. Different standards/ expectations for men and women sort of thing. I can't prove it, but it bothers me that we get written off like this. I can understand that, and of course everyone should be taken as an individual rather than their gender. I have throughout my time on the planet found those with vag's to be the most manipulative, spiteful, vengeful, petty, judgemental and unpredictable as a whole. Don't get me wrong I've met some messed up blokes, I really have, but they have been less in number and things tend to fizzle out (whether that be friendships, relationships etc. You know when people just kinda move on and do their own thing) whereas with the women it's normally been through a barny, jealousy, spreading lies etc and boom, it all blows up. P Totally agree. I find it difficult to understand women. I swear I should have been a man! The things I know and hear on here, even about me. It’s unbelievable. I just pop it in the back of my mind and carry on. Never had any issues like that with men. I'd agree with Inaswing on this subject. I think there's always a danger of falling into lazy, outdated, harmful clichéd tropes when it comes to discussing women. In the (far too many years) I've been on this site, I've heard many, many things from both sexes. Seen less than desirable behaviour from both. All of those far too oft commonly attributed feminine negative traits? Jealously? Manipulation? Judgemental? Petty? Yep, I've seen men display them. People are unique and individual and I'd rather take them as so and not believe the prevalence of dickishness is related to their genitalia." Agreed. | |||
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"I increasingly think a lot of "women are crazy" is sexism in one form or another. Different standards/ expectations for men and women sort of thing. I can't prove it, but it bothers me that we get written off like this. I can understand that, and of course everyone should be taken as an individual rather than their gender. I have throughout my time on the planet found those with vag's to be the most manipulative, spiteful, vengeful, petty, judgemental and unpredictable as a whole. Don't get me wrong I've met some messed up blokes, I really have, but they have been less in number and things tend to fizzle out (whether that be friendships, relationships etc. You know when people just kinda move on and do their own thing) whereas with the women it's normally been through a barny, jealousy, spreading lies etc and boom, it all blows up. P Totally agree. I find it difficult to understand women. I swear I should have been a man! The things I know and hear on here, even about me. It’s unbelievable. I just pop it in the back of my mind and carry on. Never had any issues like that with men. I'd agree with Inaswing on this subject. I think there's always a danger of falling into lazy, outdated, harmful clichéd tropes when it comes to discussing women. In the (far too many years) I've been on this site, I've heard many, many things from both sexes. Seen less than desirable behaviour from both. All of those far too oft commonly attributed feminine negative traits? Jealously? Manipulation? Judgemental? Petty? Yep, I've seen men display them. People are unique and individual and I'd rather take them as so and not believe the prevalence of dickishness is related to their genitalia." There is an old joke and it is a joke, so please don't scold me for it. Never try and understand a woman. Women understand women and they fucking hate each other. But I agree, men can be just as paranoid, judgemental, jealous etc as women. We are all human, we are in no way perfect. It's too easy to put it all down to one thing or tar each others sex. Its daft. You are an idiot, or you ain't. You are nice, or you ain't . | |||
"I increasingly think a lot of "women are crazy" is sexism in one form or another. Different standards/ expectations for men and women sort of thing. I can't prove it, but it bothers me that we get written off like this. I can understand that, and of course everyone should be taken as an individual rather than their gender. I have throughout my time on the planet found those with vag's to be the most manipulative, spiteful, vengeful, petty, judgemental and unpredictable as a whole. Don't get me wrong I've met some messed up blokes, I really have, but they have been less in number and things tend to fizzle out (whether that be friendships, relationships etc. You know when people just kinda move on and do their own thing) whereas with the women it's normally been through a barny, jealousy, spreading lies etc and boom, it all blows up. P Totally agree. I find it difficult to understand women. I swear I should have been a man! The things I know and hear on here, even about me. It’s unbelievable. I just pop it in the back of my mind and carry on. Never had any issues like that with men. I'd agree with Inaswing on this subject. I think there's always a danger of falling into lazy, outdated, harmful clichéd tropes when it comes to discussing women. In the (far too many years) I've been on this site, I've heard many, many things from both sexes. Seen less than desirable behaviour from both. All of those far too oft commonly attributed feminine negative traits? Jealously? Manipulation? Judgemental? Petty? Yep, I've seen men display them. People are unique and individual and I'd rather take them as so and not believe the prevalence of dickishness is related to their genitalia." To be fair I think men get more bashing on here than women! | |||
"People are unique and individual and I'd rather take them as so and not believe the prevalence of dickishness is related to their genitalia. To be fair I think men get more bashing on here than women! " Yeah, to be fair... I didn't say they didn't anywhere. I was responding to the comments I quoted. 
But yes (seeing as you brought it up), men do get more of a bashing on here. And again, I'll take people as they are. Not fall into the all men are mindless dicks who just think with their penis and have no respect for women bs.
Anyway, sorry OP! This has gone off on a tangent.
I do find it interesting reading about how people view their sexuality and romance. | |||
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And having that secret about me is a huge turn on in itself | |||
"Difficult question for me. I love sucking guys off and taking anal from guys, I also love going down on ladies and fucking them so I guess that makes me Bi. However. I do not find men attractive in any way shape or form. I would never start a loving relationship with a guy. I love everything about the female form in all their shapes and sizes. I guess that may sound bizarre but it’s the way I am. "lots of bi men are like this. Me, for one. | |||
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"I increasingly think a lot of "women are crazy" is sexism in one form or another. Different standards/ expectations for men and women sort of thing. I can't prove it, but it bothers me that we get written off like this. I can understand that, and of course everyone should be taken as an individual rather than their gender. I have throughout my time on the planet found those with vag's to be the most manipulative, spiteful, vengeful, petty, judgemental and unpredictable as a whole. Don't get me wrong I've met some messed up blokes, I really have, but they have been less in number and things tend to fizzle out (whether that be friendships, relationships etc. You know when people just kinda move on and do their own thing) whereas with the women it's normally been through a barny, jealousy, spreading lies etc and boom, it all blows up. P Totally agree. I find it difficult to understand women. I swear I should have been a man! The things I know and hear on here, even about me. It’s unbelievable. I just pop it in the back of my mind and carry on. Never had any issues like that with men. I'd agree with Inaswing on this subject. I think there's always a danger of falling into lazy, outdated, harmful clichéd tropes when it comes to discussing women. In the (far too many years) I've been on this site, I've heard many, many things from both sexes. Seen less than desirable behaviour from both. All of those far too oft commonly attributed feminine negative traits? Jealously? Manipulation? Judgemental? Petty? Yep, I've seen men display them. People are unique and individual and I'd rather take them as so and not believe the prevalence of dickishness is related to their genitalia." I 100% agree with this. On fab and in the rest of my life I've known some wonderful people of both sex, and some absolutely awful too. | |||
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"Follow up question, who gives better oral?" it varies | |||
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"Follow up question, who gives better oral?" That depends on the person. The best I’ve had was a man though. | |||
"Follow up question, who gives better oral?" Erm... both the best and the worst I've had has been from men. Make of that what you will. | |||
"Follow up question, who gives better oral? Erm... both the best and the worst I've had has been from men. Make of that what you will." Ditto. | |||
"Follow up question, who gives better oral? Erm... both the best and the worst I've had has been from men. Make of that what you will." it makes them totally average | |||
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"I am only bisexual on every 29th feb" We still on for Saturday then? | |||
"Follow up question, who gives better oral?" The person I have a connection and chemistry with enough to want to get naked with them - their gender doesn't come into it | |||
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"Sounds like ladies need to step up their oral game "Mines excellent Just saying | |||
"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. " Exactly this. | |||
"Sounds like ladies need to step up their oral game
Mines excellent
Just saying "Mine is better lol x | |||
"How bisexual are you? Do you swing one way more than the other? Are you just bi-playful or would you consider relationship either way?" I'm fully bi (which feels like a weird way to describe it!). I would theoretically have a relationship with men or women, but would not be monogamous, so no need to choose. | |||
"Follow up question, who gives better oral? The person I have a connection and chemistry with enough to want to get naked with them - their gender doesn't come into it" Love this! | |||
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"Sounds like ladies need to step up their oral game "Nah. Men run the full gamut from diabolical to the best I've ever had. Women are generally well above average. | |||
"Sounds like ladies need to step up their oral game
Nah. Men run the full gamut from diabolical to the best I've ever had. Women are generally well above average."Nobody talks about 2nd, 3rd, and 4th place at the Olympics | |||
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"Sounds like ladies need to step up their oral game
Nah. Men run the full gamut from diabolical to the best I've ever had. Women are generally well above average.
Nobody talks about 2nd, 3rd, and 4th place at the Olympics "Fortunately this isn't the Olympics! | |||
"Sounds like ladies need to step up their oral game
Nah. Men run the full gamut from diabolical to the best I've ever had. Women are generally well above average.
Nobody talks about 2nd, 3rd, and 4th place at the Olympics
Fortunately this isn't the Olympics!"I know, I'm just playing the devil's advocate | |||
"I dated women long before I dated men, so yes, I'd consider dating women again. I don't know how bisexual I am, not sure if it's easily quantifiable. Like right now I'm pretty cockcentric but with the right woman I'd be interested in women again. " Ohhhh really!!! ( And so the pondering begins lol) xxx | |||
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"Bi-playful probably. Would never consider a relationship with a woman. It’s more a physical thing. Random, one offs, NSA is all I look for with women. It could never be anything else. Totally different with a man. " Another vote for bi-playful here, this describes me very well
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the female body is a beautiful thing | |||
 but ! Sex with women is much better, the female form is just so much sexier to look at, just my opinion of course | |||
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"Good question, my bi side comes from my crossdressing so in the normal day to day world I have no interest in Men. However I do go into another mindset when dressed fully (wig, makeup etc..). There is always a fantasy of being the wife in a same sex relationship but I think it's just that a fantasy. " Pretty much the same. As I get older the lines are blurring. In the end it's all about how much you are attracted to someone. | |||
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