FabSwingers.com > Forums > The Lounge > Sense of humour
Sense of humour
Jump to: Newest in thread
 |
By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
|
How important is a sense of humour to you when meeting someone from here?
Lets say for example. You've met someone, they match your preferences across the board. They're attractive, your kinks and needs match up perfectly, they're a really nice person etc etc, but you humours don't match at all. How big of an issue is that for you?
Lets scale it 1 - 10
1 being not important at all, 10 is absolutely vital |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
It's a tough one. I value humour and shared craic very highly, but if she fits the bill in every other way then I would forgo my efforts to amuse her and just stick to pleasant conversation and hot sex 
I'll still rate a sense of humour as 8 out of 10 for importance
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Humour is very important, sex can be embarrassing and it’s good to be able to laugh stuff off like fanny farts and squelching and gagging burps.
I also like guys to get my references and have the same knowledge as me. So I’d say humour is about 8 or 9, very important.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Roughly an 8. You have a great sense of humour on the forums OP (and no I’m not trying to chat you up!) 
You're not?
Fuck sake  "
Oh go on then.....fancy a fuck!?   |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Hmm well for just straight sex & nothing else - I need at least a 5 in humour or a may offend you when you don’t get my jokes..
But, FWB & anything that involves meeting more than once & communicating i need a solid 8/9 on that scale!
Sex is sex, looks is looks. But a personality adds a lot more enjoyment for myself |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I'd say a 10. I'd struggle to even be attracted to someone I couldn't have a good laugh with. Plus people who don't get my sense of humour tend to just think I'm a right freak anyway .
Examples include a meet who went and got pizza after coming to mine and saying the pizza cushion on my bed must have made him crave it. I convinced him I work for the pizza place he went to and that's how I get us extra business. Poor sod believed me.
Last date I went on involved a poorly worded conversation about how he loved dogs which resulted in me embarrassing him by suggesting he did inappropriate acts with dogs and saying it in a voice that just bordered on being loud enough to be overheard.
A regular meet has jokingly told me I only get away with the weird shit I say because I'm hot  .
My boyfriend regularly refers to me as adequate or satisfactory . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"Knowing how my sense of humour is ... has to be the higher side of 5 ... but not quite the full 10 
Lol this, but I’d say 7-8.... got to be able to laugh me into bed! 
Ooo challenge? "
Give me your best line!! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"Knowing how my sense of humour is ... has to be the higher side of 5 ... but not quite the full 10
Lol this, but I’d say 7-8.... got to be able to laugh me into bed!
Ooo challenge?
Give me your best line!! "
Hmmm pressure ... oh the pressure ... erm....
You'll do |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
I've met quite a few trannies with absolutely no sense of humour whatsoever.. which I fail to grasp..I mean if you're a bloke dressing up in women's clothes I think a sense of humour is essential... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
You may think your the next
......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then 
But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"You may think your the next
......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then
But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?"
You'd have to ask those that have met me |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You may think your the next
......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then
But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?
You'd have to ask those that have met me "
What about people you have met...thought they were funny on here and... in real life ?
As people keep saying humour is subjective.... |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You may think your the next
......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then
But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?"
This is true. I find it much easier to be funny online than I do face-to-face. My brain doesn’t work quickly enough to find witty responses to stuff. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You may think your the next
......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then
But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?
This is true. I find it much easier to be funny online than I do face-to-face. My brain doesn’t work quickly enough to find witty responses to stuff."
See we would make a great team. I struggle on here as im dyslexic and it takes me ages to write posts that people can half understand. Where's in the real world I talk/think fast ....plus if we met the right lady...we would both have our own doors.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You may think your the next
......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then
But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?
This is true. I find it much easier to be funny online than I do face-to-face. My brain doesn’t work quickly enough to find witty responses to stuff.
See we would make a great team. I struggle on here as im dyslexic and it takes me ages to write posts that people can half understand. Where's in the real world I talk/think fast ....plus if we met the right lady...we would both have our own doors.. "
You take front door and I’ll take the back, we should be able to find our way in that way. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"You may think your the next
......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then
But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?
This is true. I find it much easier to be funny online than I do face-to-face. My brain doesn’t work quickly enough to find witty responses to stuff.
See we would make a great team. I struggle on here as im dyslexic and it takes me ages to write posts that people can half understand. Where's in the real world I talk/think fast ....plus if we met the right lady...we would both have our own doors..
You take front door and I’ll take the back, we should be able to find our way in that way. "
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I was going to say a definite 10 but then I thought about it and there's one person I barely even chat to about anything other than when we're free, let alone joke around and yet it still works when we meet up. That's the exception though, generally it's really important to me that we can have a good laugh. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
9.
If they don't get my humour and I don't find them funny (funny haha not funny weird) then it's gonna be a struggle to make convo and I'll be bored shitless.
I'd feel like I was at a Nazi interview
P
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"9.
If they don't get my humour and I don't find them funny (funny haha not funny weird) then it's gonna be a struggle to make convo and I'll be bored shitless.
I'd feel like I was at a Nazi interview
P
"
We have ways of making you talk |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Surprisingly interesting question I think.
For a first meet, especially in a club then it's probably not that important. As long as they are nice people, by my standards. "No, I won't have this quick play because you think Mrs Browns Boys is good."?? Nah, can't see that being a blocker there
But comedy and humour is an amazingly large part of my life, so it would definitely kick in at some point. I'm much more likely to want to build a long term thing with others if we can swap Brass Eye or Doug Stanhope quotes... I think it's a huge sign of who someone is in the first place, a great window into them as a person. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
It's at least an 8 for me...I can have a weird sense of humour at times and once I get to know you it can be pretty dark too.
If we cant laugh at the same sort of things its going to be pretty awkward |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I'd say a 7 at a minimum. I enjoy having a laugh at the best of times. Sex doesnt need to be any different. If you can have a laugh during playtime (not at anyone's expense), it helps make you feel relaxed. I dont mind being a dafty or cracking jokes when I'm pumping if the moment is right! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"9.
If they don't get my humour and I don't find them funny (funny haha not funny weird) then it's gonna be a struggle to make convo and I'll be bored shitless.
I'd feel like I was at a Nazi interview
P
We have ways of making you talk "
See, if it involves pulling faces, funny walking, farting etc then I will hold out for all eternity.
Straight faced robot types or those above their station talking down to people, I'd be right the fuck outta there
P |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"9.
If they don't get my humour and I don't find them funny (funny haha not funny weird) then it's gonna be a struggle to make convo and I'll be bored shitless.
I'd feel like I was at a Nazi interview
P
We have ways of making you talk
See, if it involves pulling faces, funny walking, farting etc then I will hold out for all eternity.
Straight faced robot types or those above their station talking down to people, I'd be right the fuck outta there
P"
Ministry of funny walks it is then |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"9.
If they don't get my humour and I don't find them funny (funny haha not funny weird) then it's gonna be a struggle to make convo and I'll be bored shitless.
I'd feel like I was at a Nazi interview
P
We have ways of making you talk
See, if it involves pulling faces, funny walking, farting etc then I will hold out for all eternity.
Straight faced robot types or those above their station talking down to people, I'd be right the fuck outta there
P
Ministry of funny walks it is then "
Yaaaaay
P |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"How important is a sense of humour to you when meeting someone from here?
Lets say for example. You've met someone, they match your preferences across the board. They're attractive, your kinks and needs match up perfectly, they're a really nice person etc etc, but you humours don't match at all. How big of an issue is that for you?
Lets scale it 1 - 10
1 being not important at all, 10 is absolutely vital "
If you can't make me laugh you can't get in my pants |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
Travelling |
Extremely important, if we can't have a laugh together we aren't do anything else together.
That said sense of humour is extremely subjective, compatible sense of humour is even more of a requirement!
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
look on their face. 
