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Because I'm not falling over myself to touch someone else's genitalia, I find it funny when people (especially women and couples) use the threat of either refusing sex or ostracising me from their clique when criticising me in the forums, rather than attacking my argument.
If I meet someone in here it's because they've made the effort too, not because they've made me fawn over their every word.
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over a year ago
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Everyone should have the freedom to say no, or only meet those they're compatible with.
Sounds like you're voicing opinions etc that they don't find are compatible with their own. That's ok, not everyone will have the same views and at times someones views are enough to put people off.
Still no fucking clue about cliques tho. Stumped there.
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Everyone should have the freedom to say no, or only meet those they're compatible with.
Sounds like you're voicing opinions etc that they don't find are compatible with their own. That's ok, not everyone will have the same views and at times someones views are enough to put people off.
Still no fucking clue about cliques tho. Stumped there.
P"
There is definitely a clique in the forums |
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over a year ago
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100% with you. I had somone this week throwing a wobbly because i didnt want to meet...all because i replied to a forum game 'would you the person above' they inboxed me and asumed because i took part in the thread it was a given meet. blocked!  |
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Everyone should have the freedom to say no, or only meet those they're compatible with.
Sounds like you're voicing opinions etc that they don't find are compatible with their own. That's ok, not everyone will have the same views and at times someones views are enough to put people off.
Still no fucking clue about cliques tho. Stumped there.
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There is definitely a clique in the forums"
I have people I can't fucking stand and those I like.
I think there are gobshites and trouble makers but I'm unsure about cliques.
Groups of friends yes, that's always gonna happen. I wouldn't call them a clique tho, more of a witches coven.
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"100% with you. I had somone this week throwing a wobbly because i didnt want to meet...all because i replied to a forum game 'would you the person above' they inboxed me and asumed because i took part in the thread it was a given meet. blocked! "
Are you saying that in the thread you said you would yet when they contacted you wouldn't?
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Everyone should have the freedom to say no, or only meet those they're compatible with.
Sounds like you're voicing opinions etc that they don't find are compatible with their own. That's ok, not everyone will have the same views and at times someones views are enough to put people off.
Still no fucking clue about cliques tho. Stumped there.
P
There is definitely a clique in the forums
I have people I can't fucking stand and those I like.
I think there are gobshites and trouble makers but I'm unsure about cliques.
Groups of friends yes, that's always gonna happen. I wouldn't call them a clique tho, more of a witches coven.
P"
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"100% with you. I had somone this week throwing a wobbly because i didnt want to meet...all because i replied to a forum game 'would you the person above' they inboxed me and asumed because i took part in the thread it was a given meet. blocked!
Are you saying that in the thread you said you would yet when they contacted you wouldn't?
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No it was a 'kiss the person above thread' i replied yes. They contacted me via pm and said 'does that mean bothe of us' , i dint reply then a week later messaged me again and said about a meet... i said 'no im not meeting couples or one offs im looking for a 1 on 1 fwb meets' then i got called a liar and what knot.
They automatically thought that meant id meet her and her nipple clamp clad boyfriend. |
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TALK TO THEM BRO!!! Tell em!
I seen the cliques too, using the forum to chat to each other instead of just messaging...ruining peoples threads with their own agendas! Disgusting behaviour  
As for the couples & single females, all sitting high up there on their pedestals, looking down at us mere mortals with disdain...well, I’d prob do the same if i was them because lets face it, most men are a bit shit |
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"100% with you. I had somone this week throwing a wobbly because i didnt want to meet...all because i replied to a forum game 'would you the person above' they inboxed me and asumed because i took part in the thread it was a given meet. blocked!
Are you saying that in the thread you said you would yet when they contacted you wouldn't?
No it was a 'kiss the person above thread' i replied yes. They contacted me via pm and said 'does that mean bothe of us' , i dint reply then a week later messaged me again and said about a meet... i said 'no im not meeting couples or one offs im looking for a 1 on 1 fwb meets' then i got called a liar and what knot.
They automatically thought that meant id meet her and her nipple clamp clad boyfriend."
Ahh that makes more sense lol. I was prolly being thick but I just couldn't get my head round what you meant.
Definitely 'odd' |
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"I came on here for a bit of light relief on hump day... So far I've seen threads on corona virus, terrorism, conspiracy theories... What has happened to the Lounge!? "
ARRGGH you said the C word! My office now  |
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I've always just done my own thing and never cared or wanted to be in any kind of clique on Fab. I'm also not going to phrase what I say or form opinions in the hope that women in the thread will want to fuck me. Too many times when a woman starts a thread the men just mindlessly agree and whenever someone says anything contradictory, they have to attack like they fighting for dominance. |
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"I've always just done my own thing and never cared or wanted to be in any kind of clique on Fab. I'm also not going to phrase what I say or form opinions in the hope that women in the thread will want to fuck me. Too many times when a woman starts a thread the men just mindlessly agree and whenever someone says anything contradictory, they have to attack like they fighting for dominance."
I feel this, or you get the ‘crew’ who like to misconstrue & ‘back their mate up’ like its some type of playground.
It’s fun to watch though |
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"I've always just done my own thing and never cared or wanted to be in any kind of clique on Fab. I'm also not going to phrase what I say or form opinions in the hope that women in the thread will want to fuck me. Too many times when a woman starts a thread the men just mindlessly agree and whenever someone says anything contradictory, they have to attack like they fighting for dominance.
I feel this, or you get the ‘crew’ who like to misconstrue & ‘back their mate up’ like its some type of playground.
It’s fun to watch though "
This is why I like the people I like, if I'm being a prick they'll tell me, not blow smoke up my ringpiece for the sake of it.
They know I'll take it in the spirit it's meant, from a good place not a cunty place.
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"Because I'm not falling over myself to touch someone else's genitalia, I find it funny when people (especially women and couples) use the threat of either refusing sex or ostracising me from their clique when criticising me in the forums, rather than attacking my argument.
If I meet someone in here it's because they've made the effort too, not because they've made me fawn over their every word.
Anyone else enjoy this freedom to express themselves fully too?"
Yes, arguments are my kink. |
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"TALK TO THEM BRO!!! Tell em!
I seen the cliques too, using the forum to chat to each other instead of just messaging...ruining peoples threads with their own agendas! Disgusting behaviour
As for the couples & single females, all sitting high up there on their pedestals, looking down at us mere mortals with disdain...well, I’d prob do the same if i was them because lets face it, most men are a bit shit "
Have you thought about fab guys if you dislike couples and women so much  |
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"I've always just done my own thing and never cared or wanted to be in any kind of clique on Fab. I'm also not going to phrase what I say or form opinions in the hope that women in the thread will want to fuck me. Too many times when a woman starts a thread the men just mindlessly agree and whenever someone says anything contradictory, they have to attack like they fighting for dominance."
Lol! Am I doing being a woman wrong? The first thread I ever started descended into chaos as people didn't like the subject and lots of men on here try to pick fights with me  . Maybe I need to woman better. Level up the ladyness. Grow bigger tits? Show my fanny as evidence of my womanhood? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've always just done my own thing and never cared or wanted to be in any kind of clique on Fab. I'm also not going to phrase what I say or form opinions in the hope that women in the thread will want to fuck me. Too many times when a woman starts a thread the men just mindlessly agree and whenever someone says anything contradictory, they have to attack like they fighting for dominance.
Lol! Am I doing being a woman wrong? The first thread I ever started descended into chaos as people didn't like the subject and lots of men on here try to pick fights with me . Maybe I need to woman better. Level up the ladyness. Grow bigger tits? Show my fanny as evidence of my womanhood?"
I think the main issue is that you aren’t fawning over all the men and agreeing with them, maybe.
Or there’s just not enough cake to go around.
I suppose I could always bake one. |
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"I've always just done my own thing and never cared or wanted to be in any kind of clique on Fab. I'm also not going to phrase what I say or form opinions in the hope that women in the thread will want to fuck me. Too many times when a woman starts a thread the men just mindlessly agree and whenever someone says anything contradictory, they have to attack like they fighting for dominance.
Lol! Am I doing being a woman wrong? The first thread I ever started descended into chaos as people didn't like the subject and lots of men on here try to pick fights with me . Maybe I need to woman better. Level up the ladyness. Grow bigger tits? Show my fanny as evidence of my womanhood?
I think the main issue is that you aren’t fawning over all the men and agreeing with them, maybe.
Or there’s just not enough cake to go around.
I suppose I could always bake one. "
That sounds boring.
More cake is always good!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Lol! Am I doing being a woman wrong? The first thread I ever started descended into chaos as people didn't like the subject and lots of men on here try to pick fights with me . Maybe I need to woman better. Level up the ladyness. Grow bigger tits? Show my fanny as evidence of my womanhood?
I think the main issue is that you aren’t fawning over all the men and agreeing with them, maybe.
Or there’s just not enough cake to go around.
I suppose I could always bake one.
That sounds boring.
More cake is always good! "
Incredibly boring!
I’ll just get my apron on
Any preference on cake variety? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I'm not falling over myself to touch someone else's genitalia, I find it funny when people (especially women and couples) use the threat of either refusing sex or ostracising me from their clique when criticising me in the forums, rather than attacking my argument.
If I meet someone in here it's because they've made the effort too, not because they've made me fawn over their every word.
Anyone else enjoy this freedom to express themselves fully too?"
Oh yes and I often express via 'status' which annoys plenty!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"TALK TO THEM BRO!!! Tell em!
I seen the cliques too, using the forum to chat to each other instead of just messaging...ruining peoples threads with their own agendas! Disgusting behaviour
As for the couples & single females, all sitting high up there on their pedestals, looking down at us mere mortals with disdain...well, I’d prob do the same if i was them because lets face it, most men are a bit shit
Have you thought about fab guys if you dislike couples and women so much "
Why would he join fab guys though, as going by that logic almost everyone on that site would then be "a bit shit".
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By (user no longer on site)
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"100% with you. I had somone this week throwing a wobbly because i didnt want to meet...all because i replied to a forum game 'would you the person above' they inboxed me and asumed because i took part in the thread it was a given meet. blocked!
Are you saying that in the thread you said you would yet when they contacted you wouldn't?
No it was a 'kiss the person above thread' i replied yes. They contacted me via pm and said 'does that mean bothe of us' , i dint reply then a week later messaged me again and said about a meet... i said 'no im not meeting couples or one offs im looking for a 1 on 1 fwb meets' then i got called a liar and what knot.
They automatically thought that meant id meet her and her nipple clamp clad boyfriend."
Oh that's funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"TALK TO THEM BRO!!! Tell em!
I seen the cliques too, using the forum to chat to each other instead of just messaging...ruining peoples threads with their own agendas! Disgusting behaviour
As for the couples & single females, all sitting high up there on their pedestals, looking down at us mere mortals with disdain...well, I’d prob do the same if i was them because lets face it, most men are a bit shit
Have you thought about fab guys if you dislike couples and women so much "
 did I say I disliked anyone? |
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"Lol! Am I doing being a woman wrong? The first thread I ever started descended into chaos as people didn't like the subject and lots of men on here try to pick fights with me . Maybe I need to woman better. Level up the ladyness. Grow bigger tits? Show my fanny as evidence of my womanhood?
I think the main issue is that you aren’t fawning over all the men and agreeing with them, maybe.
Or there’s just not enough cake to go around.
I suppose I could always bake one.
That sounds boring.
More cake is always good!
Incredibly boring!
I’ll just get my apron on
Any preference on cake variety?"
Is it one of those sexy aprons?
Ooo lemon drizzle or red velvet please! |
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"TALK TO THEM BRO!!! Tell em!
I seen the cliques too, using the forum to chat to each other instead of just messaging...ruining peoples threads with their own agendas! Disgusting behaviour
As for the couples & single females, all sitting high up there on their pedestals, looking down at us mere mortals with disdain...well, I’d prob do the same if i was them because lets face it, most men are a bit shit
Have you thought about fab guys if you dislike couples and women so much
Why would he join fab guys though, as going by that logic almost everyone on that site would then be "a bit shit".
B"
Good point. Perhaps solitary confinement is more suited. |
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"TALK TO THEM BRO!!! Tell em!
I seen the cliques too, using the forum to chat to each other instead of just messaging...ruining peoples threads with their own agendas! Disgusting behaviour
As for the couples & single females, all sitting high up there on their pedestals, looking down at us mere mortals with disdain...well, I’d prob do the same if i was them because lets face it, most men are a bit shit
Have you thought about fab guys if you dislike couples and women so much
did I say I disliked anyone? "
I'm kidding |
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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago
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"I came on here for a bit of light relief on hump day... So far I've seen threads on corona virus, terrorism, conspiracy theories... What has happened to the Lounge!?
ARRGGH you said the C word! My office now "
Sorry, Sir! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've always just done my own thing and never cared or wanted to be in any kind of clique on Fab. I'm also not going to phrase what I say or form opinions in the hope that women in the thread will want to fuck me. Too many times when a woman starts a thread the men just mindlessly agree and whenever someone says anything contradictory, they have to attack like they fighting for dominance.
I feel this, or you get the ‘crew’ who like to misconstrue & ‘back their mate up’ like its some type of playground.
It’s fun to watch though "
This!!
It's the ones that jump down your throat for anything slightly out of their remit that get me, then you have their clique crew that jump on you too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone should have the freedom to say no, or only meet those they're compatible with.
Sounds like you're voicing opinions etc that they don't find are compatible with their own. That's ok, not everyone will have the same views and at times someones views are enough to put people off.
Still no fucking clue about cliques tho. Stumped there.
P
There is definitely a clique in the forums
I have people I can't fucking stand and those I like.
I think there are gobshites and trouble makers but I'm unsure about cliques.
Groups of friends yes, that's always gonna happen. I wouldn't call them a clique tho, more of a witches coven.
P"
This |
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Same with status updates.
I update my status and people presume it's because I want them stalking me around the gym whilst wanking into a sock!
No I put it as my status so prospective gentlemen can see that I look after myself. |
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"Lol! Am I doing being a woman wrong? The first thread I ever started descended into chaos as people didn't like the subject and lots of men on here try to pick fights with me . Maybe I need to woman better. Level up the ladyness. Grow bigger tits? Show my fanny as evidence of my womanhood?
I think the main issue is that you aren’t fawning over all the men and agreeing with them, maybe.
Or there’s just not enough cake to go around.
I suppose I could always bake one.
That sounds boring.
More cake is always good!
Incredibly boring!
I’ll just get my apron on
Any preference on cake variety?
Is it one of those sexy aprons?
Ooo lemon drizzle or red velvet please!"
You tell me haha. Cuts off at mid thigh, probably shows a bit of bum, (it’s a big bum) lacy french maid type
Lemon drizzle may be coming up. |
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"Lol! Am I doing being a woman wrong? The first thread I ever started descended into chaos as people didn't like the subject and lots of men on here try to pick fights with me ."
Shut your face, you!  |
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"Lol! Am I doing being a woman wrong? The first thread I ever started descended into chaos as people didn't like the subject and lots of men on here try to pick fights with me . Maybe I need to woman better. Level up the ladyness. Grow bigger tits? Show my fanny as evidence of my womanhood?
I think the main issue is that you aren’t fawning over all the men and agreeing with them, maybe.
Or there’s just not enough cake to go around.
I suppose I could always bake one.
That sounds boring.
More cake is always good!
Incredibly boring!
I’ll just get my apron on
Any preference on cake variety?
Is it one of those sexy aprons?
Ooo lemon drizzle or red velvet please!
You tell me haha. Cuts off at mid thigh, probably shows a bit of bum, (it’s a big bum) lacy french maid type
Lemon drizzle may be coming up. "
Ooh la la!
Yum yum! |
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"Lol! Am I doing being a woman wrong? The first thread I ever started descended into chaos as people didn't like the subject and lots of men on here try to pick fights with me .
Shut your face, you! "
See! Arguementative gits! |
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"Lol! Am I doing being a woman wrong? The first thread I ever started descended into chaos as people didn't like the subject and lots of men on here try to pick fights with me .
Shut your face, you!
See! Arguementative gits! "
Just for balance: *argumentative*
(Can’t have people thinking I’ve got a soft spot for you ) |
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"Lol! Am I doing being a woman wrong? The first thread I ever started descended into chaos as people didn't like the subject and lots of men on here try to pick fights with me . Maybe I need to woman better. Level up the ladyness. Grow bigger tits? Show my fanny as evidence of my womanhood?
I think the main issue is that you aren’t fawning over all the men and agreeing with them, maybe.
Or there’s just not enough cake to go around.
I suppose I could always bake one.
That sounds boring.
More cake is always good!
Incredibly boring!
I’ll just get my apron on
Any preference on cake variety?
Is it one of those sexy aprons?
Ooo lemon drizzle or red velvet please!
You tell me haha. Cuts off at mid thigh, probably shows a bit of bum, (it’s a big bum) lacy french maid type
Lemon drizzle may be coming up.
Ooh la la!
Yum yum!"
Lemon drizzle everywhere. Lemon iced glazing on my boob, is not a good look. |
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