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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Until you unfriend someone.
Classic
I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.
They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:
Hey how are you
Have I upset you
Why are we not friends anymore
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Until you unfriend someone.
Classic
I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.
They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:
Hey how are you
Have I upset you
Why are we not friends anymore
"
Wank over your friend pics babe most likely haha |
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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago
Essex |
"Until you unfriend someone.
Classic
I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.
They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:
Hey how are you
Have I upset you
Why are we not friends anymore
"
Yes I get this too.. Only notice your not friends anymore when they can't wank over your pics  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again 
Oh well #fablife
Billy no mates
Definitely... although they only want me for one thing then discard me after like a used condom "
It's all you're good for  |
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"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again
Oh well #fablife
Billy no mates
Definitely... although they only want me for one thing then discard me after like a used condom
It's all you're good for "
Ok ok - out your claws away.... just because I turned you down, you don’t have to get all upperty sonny Jim  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again
Oh well #fablife
Billy no mates
Definitely... although they only want me for one thing then discard me after like a used condom
It's all you're good for
Ok ok - out your claws away.... just because I turned you down, you don’t have to get all upperty sonny Jim "
Turned me down eh? So you're not coming for a visit soon? |
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"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again
Oh well #fablife
Billy no mates
Definitely... although they only want me for one thing then discard me after like a used condom
It's all you're good for
Ok ok - out your claws away.... just because I turned you down, you don’t have to get all upperty sonny Jim
Turned me down eh? So you're not coming for a visit soon?"
Hahah.... well maybe - or maybe  |
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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago
Dudley |
"Anyone I’ve ever removed has never contacted me again
Oh well #fablife
Billy no mates
Definitely... although they only want me for one thing then discard me after like a used condom
It's all you're good for
Ok ok - out your claws away.... just because I turned you down, you don’t have to get all upperty sonny Jim
Turned me down eh? So you're not coming for a visit soon?
Hahah.... well maybe - or maybe "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Until you unfriend someone.
Classic
I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.
They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:
Hey how are you
Have I upset you
Why are we not friends anymore
"
i find its a two way street if the other person is messaging others and maybe more keen on the others they are messaging then they have less time for you, if i sense that i move away if they put status up bragging about upcoming excitement i move away to its great that youre excited but why brag about it its not a great feeling for the other person keep what you do to yourself, we all get to chat to a few and some with a view to meeting but even though we know that and look forward to it we don't want to hear about your conquests or see the pics involved, well not all of us do, i think a lot of women will agree with this   |
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"Most my friends do not come on the forum so I am safe.
I have dropped 10 friends in 2 days, and a few have messaged lol"
I did this and not one have messaged me to ask, but then they didn't message me In the 2 weeks leading up to the drop so I'm not surprised tbh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Until you unfriend someone.
Classic
I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.
They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:
Hey how are you
Have I upset you
Why are we not friends anymore
i find its a two way street if the other person is messaging others and maybe more keen on the others they are messaging then they have less time for you, if i sense that i move away if they put status up bragging about upcoming excitement i move away to its great that youre excited but why brag about it its not a great feeling for the other person keep what you do to yourself, we all get to chat to a few and some with a view to meeting but even though we know that and look forward to it we don't want to hear about your conquests or see the pics involved, well not all of us do, i think a lot of women will agree with this "
Agree. That’s the only downside to this place, the seeing what goes on. I’d rather not know! |
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If we don't speak then we're not friends.
I'm not arsed if my friends are sleeping with the entire site, good on them and I hope they are smiling!
I give a lot of leeway before unfriending, but if I've not spoken to someone in a month on here or elsewhere then I assume there is no longer any interest there and I delete them.
As with the OP, in spite of them not responding to a message for a month that's normally when I get a "hey, you unfriended me" message. It's not that they can't see my friends only pictures because I don't have any - I was hoping removing them would decrease the volume of random friend requests but it hasn't.
I value my friends and have few of them, but the few I have I keep in touch with. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Until you unfriend someone.
Classic
I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.
They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:
Hey how are you
Have I upset you
Why are we not friends anymore
i find its a two way street if the other person is messaging others and maybe more keen on the others they are messaging then they have less time for you, if i sense that i move away if they put status up bragging about upcoming excitement i move away to its great that youre excited but why brag about it its not a great feeling for the other person keep what you do to yourself, we all get to chat to a few and some with a view to meeting but even though we know that and look forward to it we don't want to hear about your conquests or see the pics involved, well not all of us do, i think a lot of women will agree with this "
Well I guess you are not a swinger then and not someone I would have on my friends list.
Each to their own but I am a swinger and do not put up with jealousy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just dont add people as friends unless I actually see them as friends. Solves the issues
Checked I'm still on the op friends list "
Of course you are, you actually message |
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By *undayTarkaMan
over a year ago
North Devon, Manchester Middleton |
"Until you unfriend someone.
Classic
I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.
They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:
Hey how are you
Have I upset you
Why are we not friends anymore
"
In that case i best get messaging my friends on here then |
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It’s a balance tbh. I get that women on here get inundated so I’d imagine any suggestion that they are keen can often get pounced upon and men can get really intense ... and pouty... I need to take some off my friends list as clearly after the initial exuberant messaging its gone really quiet between us... but knowing most are there to message and say hi to without pressure is what it’s all about. I also think that only talking about sex is off putting for a large number of women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Until you unfriend someone.
Classic
I seem to get chatting to someone, then, as I get quite busy I have them as a friend until something can be arranged.
They go quiet, dont message or respond, then I unfriend and get messages like:
Hey how are you
Have I upset you
Why are we not friends anymore
"
Its the feeling of rejection and abandonment, people cant deal with it.
Ps. Your pics are great x |
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You look stunning in your pics, damn being 48 lol 