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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?
Or am I just boring  |
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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago
so near and yet so far.... |
"So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?
Or am I just boring "
No, we’ve all got them... you either chat elsewhere or they wanted to see your friends photos....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?
Or am I just boring
No, we’ve all got them... you either chat elsewhere or they wanted to see your friends photos.... "
Ye true, but there not rude just more face ones |
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Dont take it personally.
They're more than likely having chats elsewhere and not actively ignoring you.
Think how long it takes to type things out compared to a normal spoken conversation and also think of this place along the lines of a busy social venue, you speak to a local of people on and off so one on one chats can be few and far between.
It doesnt mean they've left you behind. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?
Or am I just boring a friend in need is a f&@#&2g nuisance   "
Oh I’m not one of them nuisances that message constantly just a “ hello how’s has your day been” kind of thing |
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By *ixen500Couple
over a year ago
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"So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?
Or am I just boring "
No youre not the only one ...i think im going to go through my friends list |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends
Awwwwwww, we've never chatted, does this mean we cant be friends  "
It definitely doesn’t mean that
What I meant was if I have people on my friends list but we never chat then I don’t really think they’re friends.
I always have room for new friends |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends
Awwwwwww, we've never chatted, does this mean we cant be friends
It definitely doesn’t mean that
What I meant was if I have people on my friends list but we never chat then I don’t really think they’re friends.
I always have room for new friends "
You don’t because you’ve hidden your profile  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends
Awwwwwww, we've never chatted, does this mean we cant be friends
It definitely doesn’t mean that
What I meant was if I have people on my friends list but we never chat then I don’t really think they’re friends.
I always have room for new friends
You don’t because you’ve hidden your profile "
That doesn't stop her from having new friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you ever added them or just random adds?
Maybe seen pictures and not taken there fancy "
Then they should unfriend surely... anyway it’s not the end of the world and I still have my health |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"If we don’t chat then we’re not friends
Awwwwwww, we've never chatted, does this mean we cant be friends
It definitely doesn’t mean that
What I meant was if I have people on my friends list but we never chat then I don’t really think they’re friends.
I always have room for new friends
You don’t because you’ve hidden your profile "
I’m just having a bit of quiet time, it doesn’t mean I won’t be friendly |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"To be fair the majority of the time I come on line I come in the forums and I don’t even look at messages or message anyone. "
But you're a lovely friend to have and generally you catch up..... Eventually.  |
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I have friends that I’ve not spoken to in ages because I’m just popping on and off and not feeling my best. Most know that I come and go so aren’t offended by the fact I don’t chat much at the mo. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have friends that I don't always talk to.
I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.
But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun. "
Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,
Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I have friends that I don't always talk to.
I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.
But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun.
Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,
Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like "
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Me too. I don't like feeling like I'm being a pest.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have friends that I don't always talk to.
I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.
But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun.
Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,
Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like "
If they want you let them do the chasing   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have friends that I don't always talk to.
I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.
But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun.
Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,
Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like
If they want you let them do the chasing "
Yes I’m learning that... at 40 I should already know this  |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"I have friends that I don't always talk to.
I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.
But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun.
Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,
Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like
If they want you let them do the chasing "
But there shouldn’t be any need for ‘chasing’ if you’re friends. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have friends that I don't always talk to.
I also don't like having to start a conversation first all the time.
But this is fab, so just enjoy what you have and have fun.
Yes I totally agree with the always starting the conversation bit,
Makes you seem desperate which I’m am not, just being nice like
If they want you let them do the chasing
But there shouldn’t be any need for ‘chasing’ if you’re friends. "
Also very true.. and definitely no ignoring |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I’ve only got a few on my list but they never talk even though they’ve been online, some proper ignoring going off.. anyone else have friends that don’t seem to chat?
Or am I just boring "
I have quite a few and in fact deleted many recently. Some people don't like chat unless a meet is involved. |
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"I've got loads of people on the list, it just got bigger over the years.
I hardly ever delete them.
They are all people I've had good interaction with but don't necessarily talk too.
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I'm finding mine is growing quicker than I can keep up with both it and the people on there.
It would be far easier in a pub or by spoken word instead of typing every damn letter out |
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