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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If sexually, you’re dominant, are you dominant in your day to day life?
If sexually, you’re submissive, are you submissive in your day to say life?
If you’re a switch, the fuck? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Someone very wise once said to me:
"I don't think a person's sexuality has any bearing on their character or behaviour"
And it's true, submissives aren't all cowering wrecks, and dominants aren't all strutting chest beaters - it's something inner that defines a dominant or a submissive  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone very wise once said to me:
"I don't think a person's sexuality has any bearing on their character or behaviour"
And it's true, submissives aren't all cowering wrecks, and dominants aren't all strutting chest beaters - it's something inner that defines a dominant or a submissive "
Who said that |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Someone very wise once said to me:
"I don't think a person's sexuality has any bearing on their character or behaviour"
And it's true, submissives aren't all cowering wrecks, and dominants aren't all strutting chest beaters - it's something inner that defines a dominant or a submissive
Who said that "
Someone very wise..I told you  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Someone very wise once said to me:
"I don't think a person's sexuality has any bearing on their character or behaviour"
And it's true, submissives aren't all cowering wrecks, and dominants aren't all strutting chest beaters - it's something inner that defines a dominant or a submissive
Who said that
Someone very wise..I told you "
I don’t know any wise people except you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very submissive in the bedroom, but not at all in every day life.
I think one of the reasons I am submissive is because it's a release from the every day control you have to have in life. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Someone very wise once said to me:
"I don't think a person's sexuality has any bearing on their character or behaviour"
And it's true, submissives aren't all cowering wrecks, and dominants aren't all strutting chest beaters - it's something inner that defines a dominant or a submissive
Who said that
Someone very wise..I told you
I don’t know any wise people except you "
And he just said it!  omg it was him! |
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By *ne4meMan
over a year ago
London |
Personally I know I’m a switch in both, I have a dominant position at work but can appear submissive at times until the wrong button is pushed.
I’m tall and have presence so in the bedroom I naturally take a dominant role, but when my kinky mind button is pushed I become very very submissive and would literally do anything in the hands of a strong mistress that likes to take control. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"I'm very submissive in the bedroom, but not at all in every day life.
I think one of the reasons I am submissive is because it's a release from the every day control you have to have in life. "
That’s been my experience. I can understand sexual submissives who lead very demanding life’s, as a form of release I get that, but I can’t understand the switch mindset or a male Dom who is a beta in real life just doesn’t seem authentic.
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Some, but by no means all of the women who identify as submissive, or have strong submissive tendencies who I have played with have tended to have pretty high-powered, managerial, or senior positions. Whether that means that they’re ‘dominant’ IRL, I’m not so sure, but there’s often a sense of stress-relief at play where they can hand over their day-to-day responsibilities to someone else. As someone who floats up and down the D/s spectrum as it appeals to me, with fun and laughter being top of my priorities, that pretty much matches my day-to-day inclinations, so go figure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a very Dominant character in life. I'm a boss. A bitch. But for the right man I'm an extreme submissive. It's a massive release from day to day life. There's nothing more satisfying than the release if ones mind, body and soul. To think nothing just to feel. I need it and crave it.
Many just think oh she's a slut...yes but not just any cunt can tell me what to do  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm submissive but in day to day I'm the opposite. I love being in submissive zone as it's the time that I can totally switch off and let someone else do the worrying |
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Very strong in everyday life. But i like to let go of that in the bedroom (or dungeon) I think that's part of the appeal to me tho I'm not a classic sub type. Too god damn stubborn to call any one master.  |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Some, but by no means all of the women who identify as submissive, or have strong submissive tendencies who I have played with have tended to have pretty high-powered, managerial, or senior positions. Whether that means that they’re ‘dominant’ IRL, I’m not so sure, but there’s often a sense of stress-relief at play where they can hand over their day-to-day responsibilities to someone else. "
I see that too. If Mrs has had a demanding , challenging day, she loves me to male all the decisions, choose her outfit , makeup , order the wine and choose her meal and give orders of kink that must be obeyed.
But there’s no way after a tough day I’d enjoy someone doing anything that ! I get even more alpha, hit the 24hr gym for release come back and want to tie her up and do unspeakable acts !!!!!! |
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I'm very strong in normal life ( my colleagues call me Ice Queen). I wouldn't actually call myself submissive, but in the hands of the right person I'm masochistic ...as others have said, it's a release from the pressures of work and everyday life, a time when I can switch off completely and focus only on the physical sensations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am submissive sexually. In normal life, I am neither normal nor submissive. I don't go hard on anyone. At the same time, I don't let anyone go hard on me without valid reason. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im submissive in the bedroom and If ive a Dom im 24/7 in sub mode around him. In my vanilla life I run a home. Id happily live a submissive lifestyle permanently if I could x |
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"I'm very strong in normal life ( my colleagues call me Ice Queen). I wouldn't actually call myself submissive, but in the hands of the right person I'm masochistic ...as others have said, it's a release from the pressures of work and everyday life, a time when I can switch off completely and focus only on the physical sensations."
That’s a great description |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I think the research is 60-70% of women fantasise about being submissive , dominated and even taken w/o consent by a stranger. How much translates into reality no idea as it takes the right partner. Pretty sure it’s biological. I would think much fewer men have those fantasies |
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I'm a Dominant sexual but I'm empathetic, emotionally intelligent and a good communicator. Not the first thing that springs to mind when you think of a Dom but I would say this qualities are essential.
Most of the women I've subbed have very important, busy and powerful professional lives. Giving yourself over to a Dom takes all the decisions and responsibilities away from you - which many find very attractive |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After having D/s sexual relationships I believe the reasons for a a woman or man to choose to be submissive are both to behave the opposite of normal life but also to take ownership of some previous experiences in life.
To choose a position that was once forced on them for some it does seem to empower them.As for the reasons to be A Dom they are equally various some even abusive but for me it's not about being Alpha it's about a relationship based on trust and connection to have the emotional intelligence to read the responses of your actions and act accordingly.Primarily D/s interaction is about open communication and acceptance of kink
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