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over a year ago
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Not what makes you attracted to someone but one of the seven universal laws.
Do you know of it? Utilise the ideology? Has it changed your life or outlook?
Energy is everything imo ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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Difficult question to answer. Sometimes I have met someone and we get on so well, being attracted follows almost straight away. On the other hand, I've started becoming attracted to someone after a few days or weeks without making a conscious effort to do so. It just happens. |
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
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I know friends who swear it has brought incredible changes and opportunities into their life. I’ve always been interested but only started really following my heart (after a long toxic marriage) for the last couple of years so have had sooo many books I wanted to read. Finally started one on this topic and loving it so far. Might have welcomed a few things in already!!
And YES!! Energy IS everything!!! |
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"I know friends who swear it has brought incredible changes and opportunities into their life. I’ve always been interested but only started really following my heart (after a long toxic marriage) for the last couple of years so have had sooo many books I wanted to read. Finally started one on this topic and loving it so far. Might have welcomed a few things in already!!
And YES!! Energy IS everything!!! "
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Its an ideology that i reckon a lot on here could do with...basically...think positive & positive things will happen, stay in s negative space & thats where you’ll remain. |
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I’m becoming this more and more at the moment.
I never really put myself first as didn’t think I deserved it but after giving myself a good long shake and really appreciating what I have, the mind is more strong and positive!
Although I did get told recently at work to tone it down a little!
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"I’m becoming this more and more at the moment.
I never really put myself first as didn’t think I deserved it but after giving myself a good long shake and really appreciating what I have, the mind is more strong and positive!
Although I did get told recently at work to tone it down a little!
Apparently being too nice causes offense "
Nice! You can never be too nice.
Have you noticed a change in what you get back out of life since having a more positive approach? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Its an ideology that i reckon a lot on here could do with...basically...think positive & positive things will happen, stay in s negative space & thats where you’ll remain. "
I definitely believe this to be true. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"It must be about honesty aswell. It's nice to be nice but not at all costs ?
The choices we make define the paths we take brother "
This is a great subject.. do you not think our destiny is cast and we are just following those paths ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It must be about honesty aswell. It's nice to be nice but not at all costs ?
The choices we make define the paths we take brother
This is a great subject.. do you not think our destiny is cast and we are just following those paths ?"
I prefer to feel like i’m in control of my destiny after my own personal experiences but i can see why someone might believe their life is already laid out for them...either way you can still maintain a positive approach imo ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It must be about honesty aswell. It's nice to be nice but not at all costs ?
The choices we make define the paths we take brother
This is a great subject.. do you not think our destiny is cast and we are just following those paths ?
I prefer to feel like i’m in control of my destiny after my own personal experiences but i can see why someone might believe their life is already laid out for them...either way you can still maintain a positive approach imo "
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
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As far as my knowledge goes, it isn’t simply about positive thinking...it’s about your energy vibrating at the level you are trying to attract. One example I liked was supposing you’re looking for a partner. All your friends are coupled, getting married etc. Easy to feel bitter and sad, or throw your energy at trying to be positive about your single life. This theory says you lean into their relationship energy...you are happy for them, take pleasure in their joy, enjoy being shown what that energy feels like until you can feel it yourself. By matching the energy level, you’re more open to attracting it. Obviously applies to everything, not just a relationship. I liked that a lot...being at peace with where you are but seeking out and absorbing the energy of where you want to be with joy. |
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