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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Are you curious how other people live?

What their tastes are, how clean and tidy they are etc ..

Do you like to invite friends into your home or do you like to keep your space your own?

I'm nosey

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By *wisted999Man  over a year ago

North Bucks

I don’t like workmates coming into my space for some strange reason. But friends and family mostly have an open door policy they can stay whenever they want or just come round. I also host fab wise. I just don’t like work people knowing my business.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

I'm curious or nosey, so I'm interested.

There have been sites that collect profile pics from sites like this, with detailed critiques of decor, tastes etc.

Imagine if your home got done - and they'd not ignore your splayed arse, or whatever, whilst going for it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love having partys i restyle my house every 3 years'ish its quite a passion. My house when you walk in its 1930s but modern/contemporary inside but none descript in terms of who lives there.. i dont have any givaways in the house who lives there no personal giveaways i live there i like the showhome feel. My garage is very personal to me and like a aladins cave

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

I've come from a background that was very open and live this way still. You can always move people on, when their time is not wanted. I tend to pop in to people that I know on the spur of the moment too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My house is my safe haven

No one comes

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I don’t like workmates coming into my space for some strange reason. But friends and family mostly have an open door policy they can stay whenever they want or just come round. I also host fab wise. I just don’t like work people knowing my business. "

I know what you mean.

I dont like to be involved socially with people at work either - to be honest I don't like most of them so I wouldn't invite them over anyway

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central


"I love having partys i restyle my house every 3 years'ish its quite a passion. My house when you walk in its 1930s but modern/contemporary inside but none descript in terms of who lives there.. i dont have any givaways in the house who lives there no personal giveaways i live there i like the showhome feel. My garage is very personal to me and like a aladins cave "

Is that an Art Deco with modern twist? I do love Deco a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I'm curious or nosey, so I'm interested.

There have been sites that collect profile pics from sites like this, with detailed critiques of decor, tastes etc.

Imagine if your home got done - and they'd not ignore your splayed arse, or whatever, whilst going for it "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have plaque that reads, "friends welcome, family by appointment only" it seems to do the trick

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By *he Mac LassWoman  over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I love a house full of friends. I like that they can just tip up anytime and help themselves to wine or wash the dishes if the mood takes them. I'm not one for fancy decor or matching furniture. It is what it is and it's homely. I obviously would adore a minimal showhome that doesn't need much attention but I have a dog and a teenager so that's never going to happen.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No. I'm never too curious about other people's houses.

If I like someone I like them. Have to say that if their home was dirty i'd probably not want to visit but untidy is okay.

My nightmare is when you visit someone's house and they want to show you around.

Or others that want to show you their stuff and tell you where they got it....... like ...... oh tony and i got this bull in Barcelona .... cost a fortune to ship. etc etc etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"My house is my safe haven

No one comes "

I'm starting to feel this way too.

I used to have everyone over friends, neighbor's etc ..

Now I only have very close friends and family over.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes that is my friend with lots of 'stuff' .... fucking 'stuff'......

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My OCD means my place is always looking like a showroom, i'm usually late for work due to straightening shit & making everything look neat

Funny thing is I do it all purely for me only, don't really care what anyone else thinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I have plaque that reads, "friends welcome, family by appointment only" it seems to do the trick "

I need one of those!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My OCD means my place is always looking like a showroom, i'm usually late for work due to straightening shit & making everything look neat

Funny thing is I do it all purely for me only, don't really care what anyone else thinks "

Same here I was dusting at 5am friday morning even though I'd already done it on thursday.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

My friends just let themselves in and put the kettle on

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"My OCD means my place is always looking like a showroom, i'm usually late for work due to straightening shit & making everything look neat

Funny thing is I do it all purely for me only, don't really care what anyone else thinks "

I need to get me an OCD type.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I love having partys i restyle my house every 3 years'ish its quite a passion. My house when you walk in its 1930s but modern/contemporary inside but none descript in terms of who lives there.. i dont have any givaways in the house who lives there no personal giveaways i live there i like the showhome feel. My garage is very personal to me and like a aladins cave

Is that an Art Deco with modern twist? I do love Deco a lot"

Sort of, ive kept some original features but also added things modern like theres alot of natural concrete finish and a ultra modern almost clinical kitchen, very tall Victorian skirting boards which are traditional, ive rebuilt the house so and raised the whole ceiling from 2.5m to almost 3meter, exterior is white with grey windows grey roof, warm maple wood details. My mum said it feels like walking into a nuclear bunker. My neighbours hate it because its not 'fitting' with the traditional village feel... i love it thats all that matters

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man  over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"I have plaque that reads, "friends welcome, family by appointment only" it seems to do the trick "

I have one over the door so people know what to expect if they are brave enough to venture further. It says ‘A tidy house is the sign of a wasted life’.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don’t like workmates coming into my space for some strange reason. But friends and family mostly have an open door policy they can stay whenever they want or just come round. I also host fab wise. I just don’t like work people knowing my business.

I know what you mean.

I dont like to be involved socially with people at work either - to be honest I don't like most of them so I wouldn't invite them over anyway

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have plaque that reads, "friends welcome, family by appointment only" it seems to do the trick

I have one over the door so people know what to expect if they are brave enough to venture further. It says ‘A tidy house is the sign of a wasted life’. "

My lifes a write off then

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No. I'm never too curious about other people's houses.

If I like someone I like them. Have to say that if their home was dirty i'd probably not want to visit but untidy is okay.

My nightmare is when you visit someone's house and they want to show you around.

Or others that want to show you their stuff and tell you where they got it....... like ...... oh tony and i got this bull in Barcelona .... cost a fortune to ship. etc etc etc "

yeah I know what you mean

Peoples houses have no bearing on how I feel about them - I used to have a friend that was a hoarder

I tried to help her - but it was impossible!

And long stories about furniture coming from a Hessian sack from Outer Mongolia are a yawn fest.

Most of my furniture is donated or from IKEA

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman  over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Nobody comes to my house except very close family and occasionally friends if I've had enough notice. It's not only my safe space, but my kids' safe space too.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don’t like workmates coming into my space for some strange reason. But friends and family mostly have an open door policy they can stay whenever they want or just come round. I also host fab wise. I just don’t like work people knowing my business.

I know what you mean.

I dont like to be involved socially with people at work either - to be honest I don't like most of them so I wouldn't invite them over anyway

This "

Infact im kinda the same workmates have never been round. All my mates know my house is always open and i love having a house full. I hate being in there alone, well tbh i just hate being on my own anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"No. I'm never too curious about other people's houses.

If I like someone I like them. Have to say that if their home was dirty i'd probably not want to visit but untidy is okay.

My nightmare is when you visit someone's house and they want to show you around.

Or others that want to show you their stuff and tell you where they got it....... like ...... oh tony and i got this bull in Barcelona .... cost a fortune to ship. etc etc etc

yeah I know what you mean

Peoples houses have no bearing on how I feel about them - I used to have a friend that was a hoarder

I tried to help her - but it was impossible!

And long stories about furniture coming from a Hessian sack from Outer Mongolia are a yawn fest.

Most of my furniture is donated or from IKEA "

All of my furniture (except my mattress) is all from second hand shops. Good causes and giving back as it were

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan  over a year ago

Seen in far off places

Modern / contemporary and extremely minimalist - I can't be living in clutter.

A few pieces of artwork are displayed.

Cleverly designed lighting creates the perfect ambience dependent on the time of day / time of year etc.

The kitchen is very much the centre piece of my home and is where most of the living takes place...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have plaque that reads, "friends welcome, family by appointment only" it seems to do the trick "

I know someone who has one that says...

Welcome to our home, please don't write in the dust

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have plaque that reads, "friends welcome, family by appointment only" it seems to do the trick

I know someone who has one that says...

Welcome to our home, please don't write in the dust

"

I like that.

I also have one above my wall mounted bottle opener that reads "in alcohols defense, I've done some pretty dumb stuff when I'm sober too".

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By *ools and the brainCouple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Are you curious how other people live?

What their tastes are, how clean and tidy they are etc ..

Do you like to invite friends into your home or do you like to keep your space your own?

I'm nosey "

Mrs wouldn't entertain until I decorated dinning room and hall stairs and landing.

Now it's front room and bedroom incorporating new carpets in both.

Me thinks she's using sex as a bargaining chip

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

I love looking at peoples decor. Interesting photos or ornaments, what books they read, music they listen to etc.

I’m quite nosey like that.

I like homely quirky cosy homes, not into sparse show homes personally.

I don’t invite anyone around here as it’s not my home. It’s not decorated in my style and it doesn’t have my choice of furnishings.

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By *uxomBoobs195Woman  over a year ago

Rotherham

I like nosying other peoples houses and decors on social media, but my house is mine, my sons and the pooches safe place. Our little bubble filled with his noisey toys, lotts of blankets and photos and lotts of love.

Its messsy at times, the sofa has yogurt marks and the kitchen only stays tidy for moments. But its our little bubble

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We have a draw bridge

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hate having people in my house. It actually annoys me when some one knocks my door

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do like playing hostess, but my house is small and I have young children so it is very 'lived in'. I do wonder what others houses are like though especially their comfy places

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By *rAitchMan  over a year ago

Diagonally Parked in a Parallel Universe

I always keep my place clean and tidy, but at the end of the hallway is a short flight of stairs to nowhere (used to connect to the house next door) and that is my 'loft space'. In my lounge there is only one piece of furniture that was bought new, a footstool someone bought me when I moved here. Both sofas were donated, my sideboard and book case were my great-grandmother's wedding presents bought in 1924 and I have a side table and a coffee table I bought in charity shops.

Friends and family are welcome whenever they want, and can walk in without knocking. They know where the kettle is.

I don't invite work colleagues, though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I grew up in a very open house. People were always welcome, my home is very much the same. Love having friends and family over. Also love having parties etc

My brother has a key and will happily go round even if I'm not there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love looking at other people’s houses. I would say my friends are always welcome but it’s my sons safe place and sometimes they don’t want others in there. My house is far from a show home, it’s clean but gets untidy, but it’s our home. X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'm always inviting people over but I don't like it when people just drop in.

I'm in the process of doing it up but I think it's me. There are a lot of personal things around but I don't like clutter.

I want people to feel that they can kick off their shoes and put their feet up and feel comfortable in my house.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don’t like workmates coming into my space for some strange reason. But friends and family mostly have an open door policy they can stay whenever they want or just come round. I also host fab wise. I just don’t like work people knowing my business.

I know what you mean.

I dont like to be involved socially with people at work either - to be honest I don't like most of them so I wouldn't invite them over anyway

"

This . I'm getting more sociable but I really don't want to spend my spare time with them. I host fab friends coming round for girly nights though quite often

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By *reat me rightWoman  over a year ago

Rotherham

Rarely get visitors (cant cope with folk that "were just in the area"). Have a small child a dog and no sense of smell. Am constantly cleaning as, if anyone were to visit, I'd hate for anyone to think the place smelt. Have learned to shut the door to Princess room as I know, no matter how much I ask it's never tidy.

I'm happy in my space and, although I do have a lot of "tut" it's usually tidy.

I do accommodate (on the rare times a meet pans out) but have found that a meet only cares about my bedroom, undies and toys!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I love looking at peoples decor. Interesting photos or ornaments, what books they read, music they listen to etc.

I’m quite nosey like that.

I like homely quirky cosy homes, not into sparse show homes personally.

I don’t invite anyone around here as it’s not my home. It’s not decorated in my style and it doesn’t have my choice of furnishings. "

I prefer homely and quirky too - I moved 8 weeks ago and my flat looks empty

I like plants and stuff that's personal to me.

I wish I had more time on my hands to decorate!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Modern / contemporary and extremely minimalist - I can't be living in clutter.

A few pieces of artwork are displayed.

Cleverly designed lighting creates the perfect ambience dependent on the time of day / time of year etc.

The kitchen is very much the centre piece of my home and is where most of the living takes place..."

I think a lot of men like the minimal show home look.

My ex always wanted to know why I "needed" accessories for the home

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not really. My home is my sanctuary, all others stay out. I think similarly about other people's homes.

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds


" ive rebuilt the house and raised the whole ceiling from 2.5m to almost 3meter, "

This sounds a very expensive and time consuming thing to do.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman  over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Modern / contemporary and extremely minimalist - I can't be living in clutter.

A few pieces of artwork are displayed.

Cleverly designed lighting creates the perfect ambience dependent on the time of day / time of year etc.

The kitchen is very much the centre piece of my home and is where most of the living takes place..."

Your mum's amazing - when do you move out ?

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I hate having people in my house. It actually annoys me when some one knocks my door "

That's like me, if the doorbell rings I'm like "ugh who the hell is this"

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By *itty9899Man  over a year ago

Craggy Island


"Are you curious how other people live?

What their tastes are, how clean and tidy they are etc ..

Do you like to invite friends into your home or do you like to keep your space your own?

I'm nosey "

We all need our private space and our home is the one we all have close to us, but if you happen to find yourself in mine please remove your shoes and always use a coaster for your drinks, but I try not to be to pedantic with my house guest.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I hate having people in my house. It actually annoys me when some one knocks my door

That's like me, if the doorbell rings I'm like "ugh who the hell is this" "

I don’t like when people just turn up. Fine if I know they’re coming.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Everyone is welcome at my house, in fact the amount of times friends just turn up is fun, they even come round and cook so it’s win win for me haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"My friends just let themselves in and put the kettle on "

Love to be your friend then going off your hot photos

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By *luebell888Woman  over a year ago

Glasgowish

My home is my personal space where i would rather be alone. Nobody really visits anyway which is the way i like it. Im a strange creature.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We have a draw bridge "

Realy Cool as !

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By *abs..Woman  over a year ago

..

My home is my sanctuary and I’m not comfortable with most people just popping in.

My immediate family can be here always if they wanted, I would love that. Close friends are welcome but they all know to just give me a call first

I don’t mix work and home so that’s never an issue for me.

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By *eeleyWoman  over a year ago

Dudley

I don't like people coming to my house, I get uncomfortable. That also applies to friends and family, I'm just not great with people being in my space.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Mine's a shit hole. Come if you want but bring food and decorating supplies!

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mine's a shit hole. Come if you want but bring food and decorating supplies!

P"

Or washing up skills

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mine's a shit hole. Come if you want but bring food and decorating supplies!

P

Or washing up skills

Fuzz"

and gardening equipment in the summer

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mine's a shit hole. Come if you want but bring food and decorating supplies!

P

Or washing up skills

Fuzz

and gardening equipment in the summer

P"

There's no way I'm trimming your bush......far too much hard work

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mine's a shit hole. Come if you want but bring food and decorating supplies!

P

Or washing up skills

Fuzz

and gardening equipment in the summer

P

There's no way I'm trimming your bush......far too much hard work

Fuzz"

Need industrial equipment!

P

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By *amescoupleCouple  over a year ago

north walsham

We tend to keep our home our safe haven. Safe for everyone else lol.

2 teenage girls, both working full time and an elderly German shepherd that’s sheds enough fur to fill a bin bag daily and dislikes strangers, means we are not really super comfortable with people coming around at the moment.

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By *uriousscouserWoman  over a year ago

Wirral

I grew up in a very open house; family and friends letting themselves in, kids we were fostering coming and going. It was noisy and hectic and warm and messy.

I think how I live now may be a direct result of growing up in such chaos. I dont like people in my space - not family, not friends, not lovers.

I will host dinners but it's a relief to see people go, and I will trade my solitude for sex, but I won't even answer the buzzer if I'm not expecting anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I grew up in a very open house; family and friends letting themselves in, kids we were fostering coming and going. It was noisy and hectic and warm and messy.

I think how I live now may be a direct result of growing up in such chaos. I dont like people in my space - not family, not friends, not lovers.

I will host dinners but it's a relief to see people go, and I will trade my solitude for sex, but I won't even answer the buzzer if I'm not expecting anyone."

My intercom volume is switched off, so if they dont have my phone number I wouldn't even know they're here

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mine's a shit hole. Come if you want but bring food and decorating supplies!

P

Or washing up skills

Fuzz

and gardening equipment in the summer

P

There's no way I'm trimming your bush......far too much hard work

Fuzz

Need industrial equipment!

P"

Like one of those petrol strimmers the council use?

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mine's a shit hole. Come if you want but bring food and decorating supplies!

P

Or washing up skills

Fuzz

and gardening equipment in the summer

P

There's no way I'm trimming your bush......far too much hard work

Fuzz

Need industrial equipment!

P

Like one of those petrol strimmers the council use?

Fuzz"

Twice the size and horsepower

P

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Mine's a shit hole. Come if you want but bring food and decorating supplies!

P

Or washing up skills

Fuzz

and gardening equipment in the summer

P

There's no way I'm trimming your bush......far too much hard work

Fuzz

Need industrial equipment!

P

Like one of those petrol strimmers the council use?

Fuzz

Twice the size and horsepower

P"

Fuzz

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By *iamondCougarWoman  over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Are you curious how other people live?

What their tastes are, how clean and tidy they are etc ..

Do you like to invite friends into your home or do you like to keep your space your own?

I'm nosey "

How my friends live is their affair, I don’t judge other people’s homes. I love having friends over but I enjoy my ME space

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I grew up in a very open house; family and friends letting themselves in, kids we were fostering coming and going. It was noisy and hectic and warm and messy.

I think how I live now may be a direct result of growing up in such chaos. I dont like people in my space - not family, not friends, not lovers.

I will host dinners but it's a relief to see people go, and I will trade my solitude for sex, but I won't even answer the buzzer if I'm not expecting anyone."

some of this is exactly how I feel.

I grew up in a chaotic messy home where the back door was always open for family and friends.

Neighbors were always knocking at the door and I was never alone growing up until I shut myself in my room as a teenager.

I continued to live in an open house as a young adult with my partner and we used to have people drop over daily - pre mobile phone days.

I would cook and entertain and love all of it.

As I'm getting older the more I want my space to be mine and clean and tidy.

No mess, no other people, kids, animals or people knocking at the door unexpectedly.

( Grinch Face )

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

My house is open and filled with kids, friends, family and assorted pets. Its also only properly clean on a sunday when it is visitor free day

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

.

I'm curious as to how others live, not because I want to judge negatively but because I wonder about the sort of home they have, how tidy etc.

I love hosting dinner parties, over December we have an open door policy and I always have festive fare to serve them, I don't mind people calling around if in the area for tea/a catch up. I do get a bit exhausted though - if my siblings come and stay the day after they've left I feel drained. So I do like my space but I also like having a fairly open house to friends and family.

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By * and M lookingCouple  over a year ago

Worcester

Its amazing how some people live.

We go into hundreds of homes every year and are often stunned by what we encounter.

For us though, our home and our Fab life are two completely separate entities.

Never the two shall meet.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We like having friends over and do accomodate fab meets (when comfortable with them). If they don't like our decor - they don't have to come. We're not curious about other people's indoors.

Mrs

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By *ily WhiteWoman  over a year ago

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I don't like people dropping round uninvited...there are only a few people that I would be happy to see if they did that.

I never judge somebody by where they live..big houses and fancy material possessions don't impress me, in fact they put me off if accompanied by an air of superiority.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don’t like workmates coming into my space for some strange reason. But friends and family mostly have an open door policy they can stay whenever they want or just come round. I also host fab wise. I just don’t like work people knowing my business.

I know what you mean.

I dont like to be involved socially with people at work either - to be honest I don't like most of them so I wouldn't invite them over anyway

"

I move to a new team three months ago. I invited them over a couple of times - they looked horrified lol

I'm not inviting them them again

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By *ady LickWoman  over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

My friends and family are welcome anytime so long as they let me know they're coming!

I've recently decorated downstairs so have been quite proud to show it off

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By *affron40Woman  over a year ago

manchester

I’m the one whose house people drop into and I love it. It’s always a little chaotic, but people take me as they find me. Had a houseful all weekend and it’s been ace x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I have a hobby of looking on Rightmove at houses that I can't afford!

I like getting ideas for my house......ideas that I'll probably never use

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By *ottielayWoman  over a year ago

by the bay


"I have a hobby of looking on Rightmove at houses that I can't afford!

I like getting ideas for my house......ideas that I'll probably never use "

I do this

Always looking for the perfect house

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I have a hobby of looking on Rightmove at houses that I can't afford!

I like getting ideas for my house......ideas that I'll probably never use

I do this

Always looking for the perfect house "

I do this too - even though I moved 8 weeks ago

I love my flat - but I feel like its naked and doesnt represent me.

That takes money and time I don't have.

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By *ottielayWoman  over a year ago

by the bay


"I have a hobby of looking on Rightmove at houses that I can't afford!

I like getting ideas for my house......ideas that I'll probably never use

I do this

Always looking for the perfect house

I do this too - even though I moved 8 weeks ago

I love my flat - but I feel like its naked and doesnt represent me.

That takes money and time I don't have."

You’ll get there

Bit by bit x

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By *az080378Woman  over a year ago

Cromer


"I hate having people in my house. It actually annoys me when some one knocks my door "

Absolutely this.....

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

We’re quite nosey and like to host dinner parties, unfortunately right now it’s not easy. We usually go for older properties or cottages with beams, log burners but right now have a very modern place which is large and practical but not very sexy

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By *arkus1812Man  over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands


"I’m the one whose house people drop into and I love it. It’s always a little chaotic, but people take me as they find me. Had a houseful all weekend and it’s been ace x "

Likewise for me,Fab meets welcome, Only restriction is No Smoking.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I have a hobby of looking on Rightmove at houses that I can't afford!

I like getting ideas for my house......ideas that I'll probably never use

I do this

Always looking for the perfect house

I do this too - even though I moved 8 weeks ago

I love my flat - but I feel like its naked and doesnt represent me.

That takes money and time I don't have.

You’ll get there

Bit by bit x"

Lottie is right. You will get there. A few pictures. Your choice of paint and it will start to reflect you

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By * and M lookingCouple  over a year ago

Worcester

Mrs M is a Rightmove viewer also.

There aren't many days where I will come home to be asked what I think of this one.

That said we are looking for our retirement property.

Local to where we are currently, character, so barn or cottage with access to local amenities etc.

Hard to find but we are in no rush so the right one will pop up before I am ready to hang up my workboots.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I found a nice one yesterday on Rightmove by a river. Probably about ten times what I could afford but it's lovely and a great location.....but the decor is awful

That cheered me up

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I found a nice one yesterday on Rightmove by a river. Probably about ten times what I could afford but it's lovely and a great location.....but the decor is awful

That cheered me up "

Haha yeah - I love my new flat it's in a conservation area blahh blah but it lacks all the character the rest of the houses on the street have.

I saw a beautiful ancient house down the road on Rightmove and the decor is AWFUL!

And the beams and small windows make it look pokey

Small pleasures

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By *uicy jonesMan  over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in


"Are you curious how other people live?

What their tastes are, how clean and tidy they are etc ..

Do you like to invite friends into your home or do you like to keep your space your own?

I'm nosey "

Not really people live all different lives and All have different ways , I would

Never beside anybody's house for the way they live !!! So I'm not really that nosy on how people do you live Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are you curious how other people live?

What their tastes are, how clean and tidy they are etc ..

Do you like to invite friends into your home or do you like to keep your space your own?

I'm nosey "

no

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I found a nice one yesterday on Rightmove by a river. Probably about ten times what I could afford but it's lovely and a great location.....but the decor is awful

That cheered me up

Haha yeah - I love my new flat it's in a conservation area blahh blah but it lacks all the character the rest of the houses on the street have.

I saw a beautiful ancient house down the road on Rightmove and the decor is AWFUL!

And the beams and small windows make it look pokey

Small pleasures "

Money can't buy you taste....well my taste anyway

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Selective on whom I invite home. Usually one off meets no I will book a hotel along the road

Friends yes and some family.

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