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By *reya73 OP Woman over a year ago

Whitley Bay

...what is it? Go on, Say it out loud for the universe to hear..

A regular nsa lover

Polyamorous

Partner in crime

Partner for life

Hugs

Intimacy

To be accepted

Freedom

To be happy with yourself

Gratification

?????? Other

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By *ark ph0enixWoman over a year ago

Teesside

Spoons!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll take a few off your list

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By *reya73 OP Woman over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"I’ll take a few off your list "

Name them! X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Someone who loves me as much as I love them.

Happy ever after with lots of memories to be made.

I'm a hopeless romantic so I want to be swept off my feet.

I'm also realistic so don't believe I'll ever find it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To be happy with myself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Football pub curry shag

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By *reya73 OP Woman over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"To be happy with myself"

Never stop striving for it! X

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

A group of friends, one on one, club buddies, friends who are platonic too. Who know each other or not, ideally a bit of both.

Open honest communication with clear boundaries, no head games or ego trips.

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By *reya73 OP Woman over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"Someone who loves me as much as I love them.

Happy ever after with lots of memories to be made.

I'm a hopeless romantic so I want to be swept off my feet.

I'm also realistic so don't believe I'll ever find it. "

It might find you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Regular NSA lover and intimacy

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By *ily WhiteWoman over a year ago

I don't have an ideal scenario, nor would I want one...I believe that hoping for a specific outcome will only lead to disappointment.

I prefer to just meet new people and let things progress (or not) naturally.

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By *reya73 OP Woman over a year ago

Whitley Bay

"I don't have an ideal scenario, nor would I want one...I believe that hoping for a specific outcome will only lead to disappointment.

I prefer to just meet new people and let things progress (or not) naturally."

Aye, Theres a fine line between declaring your hearts desires and limiting them with expectation x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Spoons!

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I’ll take that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Getting six number's on lotto and then retiring in Spain.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A friend for occasional companionship

I don’t think I’m ever going to be ready for a full blown relationship , but I’d like someone to put me first for a change.

There you go universe / sort me out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meeting someone who can make a proper cup of tea

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By *ighland gentlemanMan over a year ago

Ardgay

A lady with a bit of kink who wants their boundaries pushed.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Happy with myself, accepted, intimacy, maybe even a life partner.

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS over a year ago

London

Full salary pension.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...what is it? Go on, Say it out loud for the universe to hear..

A regular nsa lover

Polyamorous

Partner in crime

Partner for life

Hugs

Intimacy

To be accepted

Freedom

To be happy with yourself

Gratification

?????? Other

"
an interior designer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Meeting someone who can make a proper cup of tea"

I’ll add someone who can make a good coffee

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Regular,private nsa without drama

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By *naswingdressWoman over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I don't have an ideal scenario, nor would I want one...I believe that hoping for a specific outcome will only lead to disappointment.

I prefer to just meet new people and let things progress (or not) naturally."

I largely agree, although I think my answer is vague enough that it covers similar ground.

I'm definitely not doing the relationship thing again though. I'm going to be a crazy cat lady. Except I prefer dogs, and I'm allegedly sane.

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Some of the above, not all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A friend for occasional companionship

I don’t think I’m ever going to be ready for a full blown relationship , but I’d like someone to put me first for a change.

There you go universe / sort me out

Give your head a wobble

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By *uicy jonesMan over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Cuddle fuck buddy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cuddle fuck buddy

Ahhh I’ll add this too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Meeting someone who can make a proper cup of tea

I’ll add someone who can make a good coffee "

I'm pretty good at both.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman over a year ago

On a mooch

Someone I click with, laugh with, relaxed around. No set agenda just go with the flow

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I am living my ideal already.

A variety of poly nsa relationships that afford equal amounts of intimacy and space, with oodles of communication.

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By *uicy jonesMan over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"Cuddle fuck buddy

Ahhh I’ll add this too "

It's the best

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am living my ideal already.

A variety of poly nsa relationships that afford equal amounts of intimacy and space, with oodles of communication. "

I want this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

K and I together, K with a regular and local girlfriend, both of up swinging away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And an ability to proof-read would be pretty ideal too...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What I've got - my beast

but without the issues that have caused us to take a break in the past. So full trust. Good communication. Openness. And time and finances to enable us to spend time with each other despite the distance we live apart

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd probably say all except the top one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The universe already knows

Maybe one day....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can I just have a fit lady to sit on my face and read Greek mythology to me

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By *etite_RosyWoman over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

"Can I just have a fit lady to sit on my face and read Greek mythology to me

Maybe ask nicely. I bet there are lots of them here

Good luck!

PS I prefer crime, horrors and thriller books

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By *etite_RosyWoman over a year ago

Now in MALAGA (SPAIN)

"...what is it? Go on, Say it out loud for the universe to hear..

A regular nsa lover

Polyamorous

Partner in crime

Partner for life

Hugs

Intimacy

To be accepted

Freedom

To be happy with yourself

Gratification

?????? Other

I just want my baby healthy. All above already have it. Thank you

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

In a nutshell...fun and friendship (albeit with a twist) - no complications, no commitments other than to showing mutual respect and consideration - being able to laugh, be relaxed, be on the same wavelength, see where the flow takes us and enjoy any time spent together...

...perfect scenario for me

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By *luebell888Woman over a year ago

Glasgowish

Freedom

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By *orthern StarsCouple over a year ago

Durham

I have my ideal...my Mr. Just need more free time to indulge in some quality time together.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A Dom of my own, whose able to meet a couple of times a month and enjoys messages and good communication x

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