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Am I the only one who doesn’t get it
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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That they list as straight on their profile but are actually bisexual
Some do it as a means to get round the filters of those that won't meet bisexual men, without realising there are more people who either actively seek bisexual men or are not bothered by it either way, but won't meet people who lie on their profile |
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"What do guys mean when they say they’re Fab straight?"
It means at work and every day normal life they are 100% straight but still cop a cheeky look at guys packages. The. When on fab fab straight means
"Straight until an offer comes in" which is usually a suck and go with a random or glory hole fun .
Basically means
In denial |
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"That they list as straight on their profile but are actually bisexual
Some do it as a means to get round the filters of those that won't meet bisexual men, without realising there are more people who either actively seek bisexual men or are not bothered by it either way, but won't meet people who lie on their profile"
I can see that happening SO...... let's say they get a meet after claiming to be straight.... After sex do they go ....Tad ahhhhhhhhhhh guess what im bi ?
I don't think so.
It's a name calling term. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never understood it myself. I get "straight" men messaging saying they want to meet but their profile says straight and when I ask they say they aren't out which I'd understand to an extent if their face was on their profile. But some do say they don't want to turn off women on the site and that makes me feel weird.  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"N.B. No one calls themselves 'fab straight' it's a term used by finger pointers.
Others say .... oh him he's fab straight."
Yes that's what I was going to say. I don't think I've ever seen someone describe themselves as fab straight, it's normally an accusation thrown from someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It means, to an extent, that some profiles state won’t meet bi men. So present as straight in classification to widen appeal to those fabbers. However, they’re messaging men and TVs looking for some fun with cock & balls 
Some will go apoplectic on forums about noting self as straight and having m2m meets. Personally, I couldn’t care less. Could refer to themselves as a radiator if they wanted.
PS I like radiators. Standing next to heating my bum on. Any radiators here, PM. |
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"Does it matter what it means take them for what they are or not at all  "
Of course it doesn’t matter but I’ve heard it a few times on the forums and was wondering what they meant by it.
Everyone has their own preference and what they do is their business.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get lots of straight men message me on here , that’s why there are more gay and bi men on here than there sister site , you only have to look at some of the straight men’s profile to realise they are not straight , they fuck or get blown by TVs or cds for an example, most are too scared to put bi as it puts of some of the ladies / couples on here |
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I think it really boils down to being greedy.
Wanting their cake and eating it also, without doing some sort of poll or proper investigation into profiles wouldn't mind betting that a large amount are married as well o. Here as a single guy to meet women but also meet guys if it becomes available.
I don't think that's being bisexual I think it's just greedy.
My opinion only no proof and I stand to be corrected if I am totally off the mark. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And yup never usually stated on the profile as fab straight, they are straight with verifications from one on one male meets with something along the lines of taking loads and down his throat, or takes it well. 
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"I think it really boils down to being greedy.
Wanting their cake and eating it also, without doing some sort of poll or proper investigation into profiles wouldn't mind betting that a large amount are married as well o. Here as a single guy to meet women but also meet guys if it becomes available.
I don't think that's being bisexual I think it's just greedy.
My opinion only no proof and I stand to be corrected if I am totally off the mark."
Greedy or desperate.
What we are attracted to is very fluid and largely depends on availability. |
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"I think it really boils down to being greedy.
Wanting their cake and eating it also, without doing some sort of poll or proper investigation into profiles wouldn't mind betting that a large amount are married as well o. Here as a single guy to meet women but also meet guys if it becomes available.
I don't think that's being bisexual I think it's just greedy.
My opinion only no proof and I stand to be corrected if I am totally off the mark.
Greedy or desperate.
What we are attracted to is very fluid and largely depends on availability. "
That's a good point greedy or desperate. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"That they list as straight on their profile but are actually bisexual
Some do it as a means to get round the filters of those that won't meet bisexual men, without realising there are more people who either actively seek bisexual men or are not bothered by it either way, but won't meet people who lie on their profile
I can see that happening SO...... let's say they get a meet after claiming to be straight.... After sex do they go ....Tad ahhhhhhhhhhh guess what im bi ?
I don't think so.
It's a name calling term."
I'm not suggesting otherwise - it's not something I've ever known anyone label themselves as, that would be somewhat of a contradiction |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"What do guys mean when they say they’re Fab straight?
Hahaha I refer to myself as ‘fab straight’ on our profile
Mrs J 
That'll start a war.  "
A nuclear war...at the gay bar gay bar gay bar |
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"N.B. No one calls themselves 'fab straight' it's a term used by finger pointers.
Others say .... oh him he's fab straight."
Agree! I find it such a loaded phrase. People can take a long time to come to terms with their sexuality - some never do - so I think others casting aspersions is unhelpful at best, and potentially harmful. It reminds me of playground sniggering "oh so and so is GAY"...
If people don't want to be explicit about their sexual orientation, that's their choice. Plenty people have parts of themselves they choose not to show on here, or off here for that matter.
Mrs TMN x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think its a turn on if a man admits hes Bi or Bi curious. I am really put off those who feel they need to hide this information x"
I don’t find it a turn on but I don’t see the point in lying. It’s like me saying I’m straight but I love licking pussy. I just don’t get it. Be what you are or what you want to be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thing is not many people would care on her and people want bi males, so if they lie about their sexuality they are making there desired become more unattainable |
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Just the double standard that it's great and sexy for women to be bi, but men being bi makes them less of a man or that they have aids (I kid you not). As it seems loads of profiles say straight guys only or no bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just the double standard that it's great and sexy for women to be bi, but men being bi makes them less of a man or that they have aids (I kid you not). As it seems loads of profiles say straight guys only or no bi. "
Nothing to do with being less of a man or having aids for me! I just don’t find it a turn on. Can’t help it! |
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"I think it really boils down to being greedy.
Wanting their cake and eating it also, without doing some sort of poll or proper investigation into profiles wouldn't mind betting that a large amount are married as well o. Here as a single guy to meet women but also meet guys if it becomes available.
I don't think that's being bisexual I think it's just greedy.
My opinion only no proof and I stand to be corrected if I am totally off the mark."
So, if someone has sex with men and women, that's greedy rather than bisexual? Why do you think that?
Mrs TMN x |
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