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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"
Unfortunately not, he's a long way away and he doesn't travel  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"
Yep there's definitely 1 Lady I’d drop everything for !!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a couple of guys but I've chatted to them too and I like them for their personalities as well as their looks but I'm a one man woman and as my man has claimed me back they will always just be a fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a couple f ladies I like locally and have got chatting to them and hopefully down the line we meet for a coffee 
Using the forums though has let me to desire a few ladies that are the other side of the pond  |
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By *at1Man
over a year ago
bedford |
"There are a couple of guys but I've chatted to them too and I like them for their personalities as well as their looks but I'm a one man woman and as my man has claimed me back they will always just be a fantasy"
You can still enjoy them instead of fantasizing about them in this lifestyle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There are a couple of guys but I've chatted to them too and I like them for their personalities as well as their looks but I'm a one man woman and as my man has claimed me back they will always just be a fantasy
You can still enjoy them instead of fantasizing about them in this lifestyle "
Some people choose not to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a few on here that I fancy and are close enough to meet up with  "
i know and am sorry you can't have my body its being saved for medical science |
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"There are a couple of guys but I've chatted to them too and I like them for their personalities as well as their looks but I'm a one man woman and as my man has claimed me back they will always just be a fantasy"
always good to have a little fantasy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A combination of distance and the fact I want to meet more than they do counts against me"
Do you think that the apparent high ratio of men to women is a factor too? ie men have to really stand out and impress above the many on here. |
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"A combination of distance and the fact I want to meet more than they do counts against me
Do you think that the apparent high ratio of men to women is a factor too? ie men have to really stand out and impress above the many on here. "
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"A combination of distance and the fact I want to meet more than they do counts against me
Do you think that the apparent high ratio of men to women is a factor too? ie men have to really stand out and impress above the many on here. "
Not necessarily, but it depends.
With some women I probably wouldn’t have a chance if I was the last bloke on earth and the continuation of the species depended on it. But that’s fine - give those women a miss  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A combination of distance and the fact I want to meet more than they do counts against me
Do you think that the apparent high ratio of men to women is a factor too? ie men have to really stand out and impress above the many on here.
Not necessarily, but it depends.
With some women I probably wouldn’t have a chance if I was the last bloke on earth and the continuation of the species depended on it. But that’s fine - give those women a miss "
Yeah, just keep on keeping on |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"
There are a couple of girls, not really local that I think are awesome, but content to just smile at their posts and look at their pics.
When I find a female in couple I really like, I’m pretty tenacious, love a challenge, although it’s not very often that hard. Must be amazing being a single guy on here ? |
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"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area
There are a couple of girls, not really local that I think are awesome, but content to just smile at their posts and look at their pics.
When I find a female in couple I really like, I’m pretty tenacious, love a challenge, although it’s not very often that hard. Must be amazing being a single guy on here ? "
it’s not good at all been single on here |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"No crushes, but there are couple of people I'd like to say hi to at a social event "
About sums it up for me - while there are people I can get an "idea" of fancying through chatting, until you meet in person you can't truly *know* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"
Yes. Just a couple of miles away. But she only used her profile for a couple of days and has been quiet for a month now. Shame - she has great curves and a great attitude. One day maybe she'll go live again |
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"No crushes, but there are couple of people I'd like to say hi to at a social event
About sums it up for me - while there are people I can get an "idea" of fancying through chatting, until you meet in person you can't truly *know*"
Nothing quite like a meeting in person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep... it’s happened in our case, despite living 15 miles away and never coming across each other’s profile, a random forum post has created some amazing experiences. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"
There isn't any other guy close by that i'm interested in meeting, i've met the guys i was interested in. |
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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago
Deepest darkest Peru |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way "
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event "
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"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way "
A train trip so much quicker than a hike, very much been part of my fab life travelling to what I desire |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree "
Begone fab geography curse!  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse! "
I need to invent a teleportation machine. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse! "
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
I need to invent a teleportation machine. "
I just fly to where I need. Thank goodness for frequent flier points! |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure "
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way "
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is one gentleman on the forums who caught our eye for me but wont name names, ill just admire him from afar though we have exchanged msgs before.
There is also a lady we would love to get our hands on and we have spoken before. Shes very popular and said to give her the heads up next time we are in her area(that one is gonna be worth the wait) how ever long it takes  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity."
It's not the distance so much as the additional time and cost for many. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity."
Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments! |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.
Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not to rub it in or anything but I'm finding that, at the moment, there are too many great options locally to even consider looking further afield
The hassle of being a woman in a large urban area where men outnumber you at least 50:1 "
I know, it's a hard life |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.
Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments! "
Precisely. All these factors make distance a barrier which is often unworkable. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.
Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments! "
Oh absolutely those and cost (as NSA Chick mentioned) are of course factors to be considered - but for the right person can be overcome with some advanced planning and distance doesn't necessarily *have* to be an issue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.
Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments!
Oh absolutely those and cost (as NSA Chick mentioned) are of course factors to be considered - but for the right person can be overcome with some advanced planning and distance doesn't necessarily *have* to be an issue "
I don’t believe it can. Depends on your commitments, responsibilities and priorities. There can be a will but not always a way unfortunately. |
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"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"
Fab for me is a bit like watching TV I constantly flick from one thing to another so little chance of homing in on one person in particular.
I do occasionally see a picture in most fabbed and think "noice" but that's pretty much it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.
Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments!
Oh absolutely those and cost (as NSA Chick mentioned) are of course factors to be considered - but for the right person can be overcome with some advanced planning and distance doesn't necessarily *have* to be an issue
I don’t believe it can. Depends on your commitments, responsibilities and priorities. There can be a will but not always a way unfortunately. "
Sorry. I should add if you are looking for something regular. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.
Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments!
Oh absolutely those and cost (as NSA Chick mentioned) are of course factors to be considered - but for the right person can be overcome with some advanced planning and distance doesn't necessarily *have* to be an issue
I don’t believe it can. Depends on your commitments, responsibilities and priorities. There can be a will but not always a way unfortunately.
Sorry. I should add if you are looking for something regular. "
Of course another factor
All of which gets weighed up into the equation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.
Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments!
Oh absolutely those and cost (as NSA Chick mentioned) are of course factors to be considered - but for the right person can be overcome with some advanced planning and distance doesn't necessarily *have* to be an issue
I don’t believe it can. Depends on your commitments, responsibilities and priorities. There can be a will but not always a way unfortunately.
Sorry. I should add if you are looking for something regular. "
Yeah I agree. The cost of travel and hotel for regular meets is expensive. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
I don't see why distance is a problem these days it’s easy to drive, jump on a train or even a plane for the right person, especially if it’s potential partner, why would you limit yourself to who’s in the local area. It’s more likely you don’t think they are worth the effort. The problem areas for us are SW and the East they are hard to travel to unless we happen to be in Cambridge or Bristol for work, but we often meet couples in Birmingham, Manchester London, Dubai and even India! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity.
Yes. Usually the people who have responsibilities, children, commitments!
Oh absolutely those and cost (as NSA Chick mentioned) are of course factors to be considered - but for the right person can be overcome with some advanced planning and distance doesn't necessarily *have* to be an issue
I don’t believe it can. Depends on your commitments, responsibilities and priorities. There can be a will but not always a way unfortunately.
Sorry. I should add if you are looking for something regular.
Yeah I agree. The cost of travel and hotel for regular meets is expensive. "
It’s not that it’s I don’t have the time. And no I can’t make time. |
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"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
It's a curse? I see it as part of the adventure
I should qualify that by saying I realise how lucky I am living where I do as pretty much the whole of England and Wales in terms of where someone is from, are an option (and two hour drive for me) if we meet half way
I see it as an adventure myself and the travelling bit adds that extra layer of excitement. Unfortunately, for too many people distance is a barrier, not an opportunity."
I think for some people distance is too much of a perceived risk to meet someone new - either they've been stood up before, or are just the kind of people that don't like to take risks. I know that can be overcome somewhat by talking extensively beforehand, but you never truly know until you've met.
Personally, I see it as an adventure...my gut instinct about people hasn't let me down yet, regardless of the distance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't see why distance is a problem these days it’s easy to drive, jump on a train or even a plane for the right person, especially if it’s potential partner, why would you limit yourself to who’s in the local area. It’s more likely you don’t think they are worth the effort. The problem areas for us are SW and the East they are hard to travel to unless we happen to be in Cambridge or Bristol for work, but we often meet couples in Birmingham, Manchester London, Dubai and even India! "
Distance isn't the issue. What some people are pointing out is, its finding the free time and finances to travel often.. Meeting in, let's say London (I'm from Glasgow) will cost me at least £250. I don't have that much spare each month for regular meets.
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.
As a single parent with two young children and a doddery mum, i don’t get the time to myself to schlep across Country just for a cocking. I literally have a few hours to myself two Saturdays a month. I don’t want to waste valuable cocking time travelling. It’s that simple.
The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.
Plus pre booking meets is just pressure. A lot of Hotels charge for cancellations. Kids get sick at inconvenient times. Folk throw their toys out of the pram because “you’re messing them about”.
I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.
And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.
Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.
As a single parent with two young children and a doddery mum, i don’t get the time to myself to schlep across Country just for a cocking. I literally have a few hours to myself two Saturdays a month. I don’t want to waste valuable cocking time travelling. It’s that simple.
The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.
Plus pre booking meets is just pressure. A lot of Hotels charge for cancellations. Kids get sick at inconvenient times. Folk throw their toys out of the pram because “you’re messing them about”.
I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.
And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.
Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk. "
Exactly this! People just don’t get it. If you really liked them you would etc etc! I have a child with special needs. The only ones who can look after her is me and her father! It’s really not that easy for some of us. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.
As a single parent with two young children and a doddery mum, i don’t get the time to myself to schlep across Country just for a cocking. I literally have a few hours to myself two Saturdays a month. I don’t want to waste valuable cocking time travelling. It’s that simple.
The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.
Plus pre booking meets is just pressure. A lot of Hotels charge for cancellations. Kids get sick at inconvenient times. Folk throw their toys out of the pram because “you’re messing them about”.
I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.
And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.
Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk.
Exactly this! People just don’t get it. If you really liked them you would etc etc! I have a child with special needs. The only ones who can look after her is me and her father! It’s really not that easy for some of us. "
Oh I *get* it and my apologies if anything I have said previously seemed somewhat glib or dismissive of those that can't or won't travel - not the intent at all.
We all, as individuals, have our own various things we factor into who/when/where we meet and for some distance and time is a very real part of that |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.
As a single parent with two young children and a doddery mum, i don’t get the time to myself to schlep across Country just for a cocking. I literally have a few hours to myself two Saturdays a month. I don’t want to waste valuable cocking time travelling. It’s that simple.
The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.
Plus pre booking meets is just pressure. A lot of Hotels charge for cancellations. Kids get sick at inconvenient times. Folk throw their toys out of the pram because “you’re messing them about”.
I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.
And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.
Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk. "
Absolutely. People forget that their own circumstances don't apply to everybody, and it's not just that simple |
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"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.
As a single parent with two young children and a doddery mum, i don’t get the time to myself to schlep across Country just for a cocking. I literally have a few hours to myself two Saturdays a month. I don’t want to waste valuable cocking time travelling. It’s that simple.
The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.
Plus pre booking meets is just pressure. A lot of Hotels charge for cancellations. Kids get sick at inconvenient times. Folk throw their toys out of the pram because “you’re messing them about”.
I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.
And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.
Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I read this and I think how lucky some of you are to be able just go off and meet ...
Then I give my head a wobble and know that I wouldn’t want to anyway.
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"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.
As a single parent with two young children and a doddery mum, i don’t get the time to myself to schlep across Country just for a cocking. I literally have a few hours to myself two Saturdays a month. I don’t want to waste valuable cocking time travelling. It’s that simple.
The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.
Plus pre booking meets is just pressure. A lot of Hotels charge for cancellations. Kids get sick at inconvenient times. Folk throw their toys out of the pram because “you’re messing them about”.
I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.
And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.
Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk.
Exactly this! People just don’t get it. If you really liked them you would etc etc! I have a child with special needs. The only ones who can look after her is me and her father! It’s really not that easy for some of us.
Oh I *get* it and my apologies if anything I have said previously seemed somewhat glib or dismissive of those that can't or won't travel - not the intent at all.
We all, as individuals, have our own various things we factor into who/when/where we meet and for some distance and time is a very real part of that "
No don’t be daft. You know me. I don’t take offence. I just see a lot of it. If you really liked them you would, distance is irrelevant for the right person etc etc. Yeah in an ideal world it would be great. Don’t get me wrong I’m not complaining, I’m happy with my life as it is, I’m just saying it’s not that easy for everyone x |
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"Unfortunately distance IS an issue. As is lack of free time.
As a single parent with two young children and a doddery mum, i don’t get the time to myself to schlep across Country just for a cocking. I literally have a few hours to myself two Saturdays a month. I don’t want to waste valuable cocking time travelling. It’s that simple.
The less distance i have to travel, the more time i get to enjoy actually having sex.
Plus pre booking meets is just pressure. A lot of Hotels charge for cancellations. Kids get sick at inconvenient times. Folk throw their toys out of the pram because “you’re messing them about”.
I don’t dump my kids on anyone so i can get to meets. I have a child with ASD who is exceedingly lively and i don’t trust that many people to watch him like a hawk as i do, to ensure his safety.
And planning stuff doesn’t equal pleasure or fun for me. Just unwarranted stress.
Life is not so straight forward for a lot of Fab folk. "
We are so so similar in more ways than one xx |
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"I see the fab geography curse is in full swing. I say "take a hike" to it as I believe that where there's a will there's a way
I’d second that, distance is never a problem for the right person or even a social event
Agree
Begone fab geography curse!
I need to invent a teleportation machine.
I just fly to where I need. Thank goodness for frequent flier points! "
Distance is a cruel, evil bit*h.
I agree with you, thank goodness for frequent flier points.
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To actually answer the OP, there's absolutely nobody currently that I've seen local to me that I'd even consider meeting, never mind have a crush on.
Not really any that I've seen from further afield that I haven't already chatted to either! I have already met my biggest crush though |
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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago
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Not so much a crush but there are a couple of guys I would love to meet but unfortunately they live to far away so no point in even finding out if I'm there type... But I do regularly perve in stealth mode at there pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Once I am back in the UK I usually meet who I want to meet. Same as here, I don't have the patience to waste time on a back burner.
There are definetly people who I'd like to just have a massive kitchen party with. Or just go eat their food and fall asleep on their couch watching TV. |
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By *etite_RosyWoman
over a year ago
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"Who has got a crush on fab that you really want to meet and there in your local area or close to your area"
She was in my area for a few weeks, we finally met. After a few weeks later she came over to Malaga to see me. Absolutely amazing time we have spent together.
Sometimes the distance is just an excuse for someone who really dont want meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Someone that doesn't chat on forums he's on my friends list and way out of my league fucking stunning he is a girl can dream"
Life is too short! Just message him, what's the worst and best that could happen?! I've learned to stop guessing what guys like in a woman based on how they look themselves. People like what they like...x |
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"Someone that doesn't chat on forums he's on my friends list and way out of my league fucking stunning he is a girl can dream
Life is too short! Just message him, what's the worst and best that could happen?! I've learned to stop guessing what guys like in a woman based on how they look themselves. People like what they like...x "
I love your tattoos! |
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