Because I'm a strong confident woman and I'm looking for those that are similar. I'm not looking to have to invest time coaxing someone. It may be different if I wasn't already married I might have more patience and be looking for something completely different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?"

Because it puts women off. I they take shyness for weekness and they don't associate shy with dominant men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?

Because it puts women off. I they take shyness for weekness and they don't associate shy with dominant men. "

Not everyone likes dominant men though. I don’t particularly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?

Because it puts women off. I they take shyness for weekness and they don't associate shy with dominant men. "

Are you a dominant man?

And it’ll put some women off. It won’t put others off. All women prefer honesty. At least by giving the heads up you’re shy, they have a warning

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By *itonmyfacebookMan over a year ago

Burton on Trent

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?"

Whilst it was a good old veri I used to have it also stated that I was initially shy. Sadly some women told me that it didn't sound good to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?

Because it puts women off. I they take shyness for weekness and they don't associate shy with dominant men. "

So you think you can lie your way into their knickers? Won't work. They'll pick up on it anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yes.

Why is is a turn off for you

I don't need coaxing when it comes to sex, but I get what you mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?

Because it puts women off. I they take shyness for weekness and they don't associate shy with dominant men.

Are you a dominant man?

And it’ll put some women off. It won’t put others off. All women prefer honesty. At least by giving the heads up you’re shy, they have a warning

It all depends who I'm with and the mood I'm in at the time.

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By *edVelveteenCouple over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?

Because it puts women off. I they take shyness for weekness and they don't associate shy with dominant men. "

I definitely don't associate shyness with dominance and I like to be a little bit dominated in the bedroom.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?

Because it puts women off. I they take shyness for weekness and they don't associate shy with dominant men.

Are you a dominant man?

And it’ll put some women off. It won’t put others off. All women prefer honesty. At least by giving the heads up you’re shy, they have a warning

It all depends who I'm with and the mood I'm in at the time. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?

Whilst it was a good old veri I used to have it also stated that I was initially shy. Sadly some women told me that it didn't sound good to them. "

Gotcha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?

Because it puts women off. I they take shyness for weekness and they don't associate shy with dominant men.

I definitely don't associate shyness with dominance and I like to be a little bit dominated in the bedroom.

Neither do I. I have no interest in being dominated. Especially by guys from fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?

Because it puts women off. I they take shyness for weekness and they don't associate shy with dominant men.

I definitely don't associate shyness with dominance and I like to be a little bit dominated in the bedroom.

Neither do I. I have no interest in being dominated. Especially by guys from fab. "

50 shades of fab domination

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?

Because it puts women off. I they take shyness for weekness and they don't associate shy with dominant men.

So you think you can lie your way into their knickers? Won't work. They'll pick up on it anyway. "

Not lie, just not admit to it in my profile.

Maybe we could still get on.

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By *yx_InannaWoman over a year ago

Burslem

There's being a shy person then there's being a reserved person.

If you are timid and anxious about chatting to people and rarely make the first moves I'd say you're shy

But if you keep yourself closed till you feel trust or connection then I'd say you're reserved.

I'm quite reserved I'm far from shy quite shameless in fact but I have to judge if people will handle my personality or not gauge their reaction to me. I'm like marmite either love me or hate me but more often than not if given time people actually don't think I'm a dick they see reasoning and understanding in who I am. But as folk do they judge on 1st impressions so I'm reserved I learn about them they learn about me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"There's being a shy person then there's being a reserved person.

If you are timid and anxious about chatting to people and rarely make the first moves I'd say you're shy

But if you keep yourself closed till you feel trust or connection then I'd say you're reserved.

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By *aitonelMan over a year ago

Liverpool

Shy is taken too literally quite often. There are different levels of shyness. I can be quite shy in certain situations, other situations I can at times command attention and don't mind being focused.

Nervous can often be mistaken for shyness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

With my job I often have to chat and meet up with women all over the country and its never a problem for me. I never feel shy or nervous (if nervous is the word).

But when it comes to chatting women up, it's a different story.

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By *WillowxWoman over a year ago

Oo err Devon

Shy men don't put me off.. But as I can be a little shy I'm often drawn to more confident men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes & No...not so straight forward for me, some shyness can be attractive/sexy almost, like a woman not knowing her own beauty type shyness, thats pretty hot!

Yes when i just want you to put it on me gurl!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People can be shy in different ways so for me I'm quite shy and nervous meeting good looking people I dont know and I end up waffling shit but get me turned on and I'm not shy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"With my job I often have to chat and meet up with women all over the country and its never a problem for me. I never feel shy or nervous (if nervous is the word).

But when it comes to chatting women up, it's a different story.

Some people are. I’m the same. I am so so confident in my job and in all other walks of life. I can stand up in front of a thousand people and talk no problem at all but meeting someone new for a social I’m so nervous. I put it down to maybe being with the same person for 24 years, I’m just not used to it. It’s only at first though. I’m ok after about 10 minutes but I almost feel sick with nerves sometimes.

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By *a LunaWoman over a year ago

South Wales

Nope, because i’m painfully shy myself.

Although two shy folk trying to have a conversation can be quite painful. I tend to do better with outgoing types as i then don’t feel so self concious.

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By *r easy1981Man over a year ago

leeds

I think everyone is a bit shy at first . Takes a bit to open up

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm a bit shy in reality and nervous to meet new people.

I was going to write it on my profile but after reading a few profiles today I don't think it would be a good idea.

Why don’t you think it would be a good idea to be honest?

Because it puts women off. I they take shyness for weekness and they don't associate shy with dominant men.

Not everyone likes dominant men though. I don’t particularly "

This!

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