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Men on fab taking rejection to heart
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s funny how some men (boys) abuse women all because she says no. You would think they never knew one gave birth to them.  "
I’ve been on and off here for many years and never have I known it so bad with the insults when you say thanks but no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My favourite was when i first joined and I politely declined a guy, who then decided to tell me that I was an ignorant c**t and up myself, then he blocked me.
Apparently saying no thank you wasn’t what he wanted to hear. Such a delightful man x
Viv x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to pick men that like women, not just love/ lust after them.
I am proactive and get rejected but I handle it.
The same cannot be said for some men, and some women for that matter x |
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By *rctopusMan
over a year ago
Borehamwood |
Women have to pick you, as well as your picking them. I'm perfectlu fine with a deleted message.
However, I have to mention the utterly gorgeous woman in Surbiton who turned me down with the kindest message, proving that she is as lovely as she is beautiful. |
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New to fab and it takes a lot to shock me but wow. The abuse I’ve gotten when being nice and say No Thanks. It’s not a challenge to change my mind or convince me that I actually do want to sub to an utter asshole who clearly doesn’t understand No.
I’m learning to block and delete now but one guy went so far as to set up a new profile to call me a fat jealous *unt and a prick tease. Maybe I should have told him that I wasn’t interested as he was too skinny and his grammar was bad
I’ve gotten less abuse from my teenager.  |
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I've not had many bad messages on here, 99% of rejections have been a polite decline or just a deleted message. But the bad nasty messages I have had have mostly been from women when calling me a freak and why am I on here I should be on the gay site! Doesn't bother me, I just delete and block |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive not even rejected and had abuse simply for what was written on my profile
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Rejection doesn’t bother me ! But people letting me down or wasting my time does |
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"I've not had many bad messages on here, 99% of rejections have been a polite decline or just a deleted message. But the bad nasty messages I have had have mostly been from women when calling me a freak and why am I on here I should be on the gay site! Doesn't bother me, I just delete and block "
Yup - people forget that it isn’t always single males who are the baddies - there are plenty of nasty ladies and couples too - they just don’t get called out as often! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ive not even rejected and had abuse simply for what was written on my profile
Rejection doesn’t bother me ! But people letting me down or wasting my time does"
which is understandable if arrangements have been made |
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By *estivalMan
over a year ago
borehamwood |
"Even as a man on here I find it difficult to hear that guys are so bad mannered.
Would they like their sister, mother, daughter, best female friend spoken to that way???? "
if someone spike to my female mates like that each one of them is more than capable of kicking there bollox in for them  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Even as a man on here I find it difficult to hear that guys are so bad mannered.
Would they like their sister, mother, daughter, best female friend spoken to that way????
if someone spike to my female mates like that each one of them is more than capable of kicking there bollox in for them "
Exactly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t get this anymore as I answer then block. Easiest way. Saves the abuse and you know you’re not interested if you’ve blocked them.
Well you havent blocked me nora  xx  "
As if Baz!! I’ve lots of friends on here too and you know you’re one of them  |
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"I've not had many bad messages on here, 99% of rejections have been a polite decline or just a deleted message. But the bad nasty messages I have had have mostly been from women when calling me a freak and why am I on here I should be on the gay site! Doesn't bother me, I just delete and block
Yup - people forget that it isn’t always single males who are the baddies - there are plenty of nasty ladies and couples too - they just don’t get called out as often! "
There are more males on here and I do think they are a lot worse, even if it's not just to do with rejection, just being c*nts for no reason...and give the nice guys a bad rep! |
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"I don’t get this anymore as I answer then block. Easiest way. Saves the abuse and you know you’re not interested if you’ve blocked them.
Well you havent blocked me nora xx
As if Baz!! I’ve lots of friends on here too and you know you’re one of them "
 its a lovely pleasure nora xx |
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Hey sometimes it a natural reaction, but then u have to grab hold of yrself and remind ur self what this site and scene all about ... it’s only like getting blown out in a pub on a Friday night, it happens ... no one like rejection but it’s the way u handle it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We take a no answer or a delete as not interested and that's fine with us, no need for anyone to pester or abuse anyone but we certainly don't block unless we get abuse or haven't been arsed to read the profile. |
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