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over a year ago
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"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?
Or would you not bother? "
Don't do hard to get ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?
Or would you not bother? "
Id not bother and move on 
I have a short attention span and dont like games. ( unless its me playing them)
cali |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?
Or would you not bother? "
Is it part of a role play ?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It was just random question that came into my head whilst driving
you surf and use forum while driving ?"
No it came to my head whilst driving and then I posted it when I got home. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was just random question that came into my head whilst driving
you surf and use forum while driving ?"
not sure i played hard to get but i have not been attracted to asian guys befoe oreo so had i don't meet asian guys on my profile which he didn't ignore but he was friendly a friend from here said i would like him as a person and the rest is history  xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?
Or would you not bother? "
I wouldn't bother its a swinging site not blind date and only insecure people ask you to prove you want them! Bin em. |
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I sometimes ask newbies to verify their pics before I'll chat to them. But I don't consider that to be playing hard to get, simply that I know how many set up a profile, have a good look around and chat, then disappear never to be seen again...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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with the female to male ratio.. wouldnt surprise me if some females were up themselves a little and decided to play the 'well why should i meet you/what makes YOU different from the rest of the guys on here' card |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?
Or would you not bother?
Id not bother and move on
I have a short attention span and dont like games. ( unless its me playing them)
cali "
depends how you like the game played teasing and pushing on pressure can be fun and so errotic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps the person just like the whole game side of it. Carrot and stick type thing. They probably have no intention of meeting you deep down but get a thrill from you chasing them.
Ask them a date they are free to meet and if the excuses still come then move on!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"with the female to male ratio.. wouldnt surprise me if some females were up themselves a little and decided to play the 'well why should i meet you/what makes YOU different from the rest of the guys on here' card"
this i understand but most men can be the same as well as the couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps the person just like the whole game side of it. Carrot and stick type thing. They probably have no intention of meeting you deep down but get a thrill from you chasing them.
Ask them a date they are free to meet and if the excuses still come then move on!!! "
date lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps the person just like the whole game side of it. Carrot and stick type thing. They probably have no intention of meeting you deep down but get a thrill from you chasing them.
Ask them a date they are free to meet and if the excuses still come then move on!!!
date lmao"
a date jesus nooooooo that involves a coffee and a maybe lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps the person just like the whole game side of it. Carrot and stick type thing. They probably have no intention of meeting you deep down but get a thrill from you chasing them.
Ask them a date they are free to meet and if the excuses still come then move on!!!
date lmao
a date jesus nooooooo that involves a coffee and a maybe lol "
erm coffee and a call me maybe is a date
fuck all wrong with a coffee  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"with the female to male ratio.. wouldnt surprise me if some females were up themselves a little and decided to play the 'well why should i meet you/what makes YOU different from the rest of the guys on here' card"
The person u refer to sounds like someone looking for a relationship rather than a right good rodgering i dunno i think these fake swingers are ruining the site aint there date sites for such soul mate searchers. why they gotta make me out to be the liar all the time they cost me a fortune having to have me car tyres replaced from slashing them ..when all ive been is honest from the start |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The person u refer to sounds like someone looking for a relationship rather than a right good rodgering i dunno i think these fake swingers are ruining the site aint there date sites for such soul mate searchers. why they gotta make me out to be the liar all the time they cost me a fortune having to have me car tyres replaced from slashing them ..when all ive been is honest from the start "
i have had people outside my work declaring love and forever when i told them it was NSA sex nothing more.
yet im happy with nsa sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"with the female to male ratio.. wouldnt surprise me if some females were up themselves a little and decided to play the 'well why should i meet you/what makes YOU different from the rest of the guys on here' card
The person u refer to sounds like someone looking for a relationship rather than a right good rodgering i dunno i think these fake swingers are ruining the site aint there date sites for such soul mate searchers. why they gotta make me out to be the liar all the time they cost me a fortune having to have me car tyres replaced from slashing them ..when all ive been is honest from the start "
 what? i wasn't referring to anyone specific just making a presumption about how some women might use the site to select the best man for them. Its not even a negative thing |
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"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?
Or would you not bother? "
depends....do you really want them enough to jump through hoops like a circus dog?
What are they offering to do to show you how much they want you?
surely if you want each other badly enough silly games would not be needed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So the general consensus would be tell them to jog on and move on to the next.
depends as how much u like her and want to rattle her bones "
guess its up to the individual and if you enjoy the thrill of the chase.. just make sure your not going to be dangled on a thread, teased and left disappointed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?
Or would you not bother? Hard to get is a waste of time....delete block n move on "
sometimes timings dont allow it. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Id like to know how the op would prove that he wanted someone...  "
Having thought about it, I don't think I would be forced into proving it. I know I'm a nice guy and therefore it would be their loss. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends upon the nature in which the statement is made. If it was part of a role play scenario, I'd have no problem with it whatsoever, provided I had the time, sex is best with variety. If however it was a serious real life statement then I would hand them some jogging bottoms and point them in a direction other than the one I was standing...
I think some do treat this site as a dating site, but there's more women who do this than men as women generally are more often hard-wired to think "monogamous relationship". Any man who joined this site looking for dates would be rather foolish considering if he joined a relationship site instead the odds would be tipped the other way in his favour?... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i am a very definate person when it comes to meeting
'yes' is ok
'no' is ok
'hmmm i'm not really too sure' doesn't compute and the conversation would end there
i don't do chasing, irregardless of how much i like the look of someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The time I have available to play is very limited, so I most probably would have to give it a miss. Whilst I love the build up to a meet, flirting, messaging etc, to have to play games or jump through hoops doesnt appeal in the slightest! In fact I'd find it quite demeaning. |
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"i am a very definate person when it comes to meeting
'yes' is ok
'no' is ok
'hmmm i'm not really too sure' doesn't compute and the conversation would end there
i don't do chasing, irregardless of how much i like the look of someone"
You chased me up the escalator at a certain store |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i am a very definate person when it comes to meeting
'yes' is ok
'no' is ok
'hmmm i'm not really too sure' doesn't compute and the conversation would end there
i don't do chasing, irregardless of how much i like the look of someone
You chased me up the escalator at a certain store "
but was i chasing you or was it just the smell of the freshly baked scones ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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okok let's put this to bed.
The forum thread was aimed at me no I havent took offence as was some harmless fun
I'm no cock teaser or looking for love (god forbid)
He knows when our schedules alinge we are gonna meet and FUCK and he knows its a defente not a maybe.
Yes its a swingers site for sex hence why I'm here I'm not looking for dates or love like some are!!!
So the OP name the date your free.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"he wanted to know and i think i made it clear so end of this thread  "
Whats the point of publicly airing a disagreement which is clearly between 2 specific parties,just discuss between yourselves, our point of views wont make any difference!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"he wanted to know and i think i made it clear so end of this thread Whats the point of publicly airing a disagreement which is clearly between 2 specific parties,just discuss between yourselves, our point of views wont make any difference!!"
its just good to see how other people would deal with a similar situation. Just a talking point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"he wanted to know and i think i made it clear so end of this thread Whats the point of publicly airing a disagreement which is clearly between 2 specific parties,just discuss between yourselves, our point of views wont make any difference!!"
wasn't a disagreement at all was a joke thread in a way and it was taken out on context. theres been no slating or slagging anyone off or no naming and shaming.
it was a how would u means could mean anything. Have you thought i actually could be cocksure and wrong that it was aimed at me and i could have assumed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thought cute and letsbe were annoyingly seeing each other and taking a break from swinging, if he's meeting other people, then does that mean I can seduce the crap out of Sassy and give her what I've ony dreamed of xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought cute and letsbe were annoyingly seeing each other and taking a break from swinging, if he's meeting other people, then does that mean I can seduce the crap out of Sassy and give her what I've ony dreamed of xxx"
it was news to me, but if he's meeting others then why not lol |
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"If someone on here was playing hard to get, and told you to prove you really wanted them how would you do it?
Or would you not bother? "
Hard to get ??
Someone said no to you?
Are we becoming a little stalkery ?
Take NO the first time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like to play games with people.
A no means no from me, not a may be if you can prove to me that you are worth my while etc., and I usually block at the same time to prevent future contacts.
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