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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is t, just do things correctly..
Don’t
Contact every woman/couple with scattergun approach
use one line messages- remember you are trying to engage with people
Copy & paste messages, it’s easy to spot
Be crude or disrespectful
Treat it a sex site
Do
Read the profiles fully
When messaging pick out a couple of points in profile showing you’ve read it
If addressing a couple write to both..but not “i’d love to smash your Mrs” or similar
Say a bit about yourself and why you think you have the attributes they are looking for
ALWAYS, ALWAYS be respectful and genuine
Use platform to maybe engage with people local to you & visit local socials and go from there
Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Make it individual. Mention something written in their profile. And never ever ask 'how are you' or 'what are you doing'. If you're messages lack effort and you expect instant results then that's pretty much how we would expect the sex to be. |
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in |
"..how HARD is it for single guys on here?
FIRM answers only please."
TOUGH !!!!
Woman have a nightmare , so many fakers and men who think their goss gifts it makes it hard for the ladies / couples to trust any man !!!   |
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"It’s not difficult. What takes time is sorting the wheat from the chaff. "
Absolutely.
So many guys with no photos - our only dick pics - sending messages like, hi how are you / I'll make you cum etc.
Those who make an effort (and don't whine/slate others) are the ones who reap the reward of their efforts. |
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"It’s not difficult. What takes time is sorting the wheat from the chaff.
Absolutely.
So many guys with no photos - our only dick pics - sending messages like, hi how are you / I'll make you cum etc.
Those who make an effort (and don't whine/slate others) are the ones who reap the reward of their efforts."
You sow what you reap, so OP, plough ahead and play the field. Just don’t get stuck in a rut. |
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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago
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It's really not difficult or rocket science ...have realistic expectations don't think just because you signed up you're entitled to a shag, treat people with respect and don't throw your toys out the pram at the shear audacity of ladies knocking you back ...also your profile is your shop window.. what you put in it says alot about you ..learn to stand out for the right reasons .. I know I'm not a single guy (happily married to sensual temptress and have cpls profile) but I do mostly use the site as a single as we meet alone alot of the time  |
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It's harder if you don't have realistic expectations and don't adjust your approach based on the reality of single male experience here and what you learn. If a guy is inflexible, resistant to adjustment of his approach, he'll become extinct, quicker than the dinosaurs after a mega asteroid hits.
Some people are more likely to be wanted than others and some locations may provide better results, due to the matching availability and desires of others. The average guy will find it tough to start with.
It then all depends on what he's after, his approach and his investment level of smart targeting and interaction.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s hard for guys here purely because of the numbers. It’s why I like to have that bit on my profile to offer some reassurance that this place is not a reflection of real life.
I think if you’re genuinely attractive and get attention in real life then you’ll do well here as well.
A lot of guys think oh you’re looking for a guy aged between 31 and 45, I match that so let’s fuck. It’s like no no, it’s a little bit more than that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It is t, just do things correctly..
Don’t
Contact every woman/couple with scattergun approach
use one line messages- remember you are trying to engage with people
Copy & paste messages, it’s easy to spot
Be crude or disrespectful
Treat it a sex site
Do
Read the profiles fully
When messaging pick out a couple of points in profile showing you’ve read it
If addressing a couple write to both..but not “i’d love to smash your Mrs” or similar
Say a bit about yourself and why you think you have the attributes they are looking for
ALWAYS, ALWAYS be respectful and genuine
Use platform to maybe engage with people local to you & visit local socials and go from there
Good luck "
Well I.Can honestly say that's not all true
I am respectful I do address both if a couple
I am never crude
I have sent one liners only to be told lack of effort so don't bother again
I have read.profiles picked.out bits to start a convo this is.my second time here I was here a year before only got one meet and that was only because it's someone I knew and this time round it's same as.the last time |
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