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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm always on the look out for big beautiful woman I have since a far back as I can remember loved a good curvy body.. But it's hard getting just the first chat out of them! I've had more luck the old fashioned way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll be honest .... the men on the dating site’s just want the sex anyway ( in my experience )
So, FAB is now my dating site"
And to be fair this is a better dating site anyway, at least everyone knows what everyone is looking for  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Should they not just want to dste you rather than your bodytype.
Saying that I think there are curvy dating sites."
I'm hilarious if I do say so my self haha  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ll be honest .... the men on the dating site’s just want the sex anyway ( in my experience )
So, FAB is now my dating site
And to be fair this is a better dating site anyway, at least everyone knows what everyone is looking for "
Well yes only if it was that easy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ll be honest .... the men on the dating site’s just want the sex anyway ( in my experience )
So, FAB is now my dating site"
And how's that been? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You aren't alone. I'm the same. The ones that do contact, tend to fade off chatting. I spend way more time here!"
Exactly!!! Chat for a few days and I don't know if it's me losing interest or them... Or the conversation turns to sex x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?! "
same for a single male so i no how you feel
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Should they not just want to dste you rather than your bodytype.
Saying that I think there are curvy dating sites.
I'm hilarious if I do say so my self haha "
There ya go... do men want tondate hilarious women... fuck ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?! "
I love a bbw. They are so bubbly and true! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?!
I love a bbw. They are so bubbly and true!"
Ya not like those miserable fake skinny women  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?! "
Love a good shapely woman... you’re in the right place on here just have to see who’s worth your time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You aren't alone. I'm the same. The ones that do contact, tend to fade off chatting. I spend way more time here!"
Those ones aren’t worth wasting your time on and ya genuine folk get the stick cause of the idiots and have to work twice as hard |
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Some of the responses on here make me cringe. 
OP I don’t think there is a right or wrong place to look. There is a great love for BBWs on Fab and also dating sites. Mr right is out there somewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of the responses on here make me cringe.
OP I don’t think there is a right or wrong place to look. There is a great love for BBWs on Fab and also dating sites. Mr right is out there somewhere. "
But let's be honest it's easier for the slimmer ladies on dating sites - and everywhere else.
My weight has always fluctuated and I had a lot more male attention in the real world when I was slimmer.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some of the responses on here make me cringe.
OP I don’t think there is a right or wrong place to look. There is a great love for BBWs on Fab and also dating sites. Mr right is out there somewhere.
But let's be honest it's easier for the slimmer ladies on dating sites - and everywhere else.
My weight has always fluctuated and I had a lot more male attention in the real world when I was slimmer.
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You look pretty good in that basque and out of it, to me |
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"Some of the responses on here make me cringe.
OP I don’t think there is a right or wrong place to look. There is a great love for BBWs on Fab and also dating sites. Mr right is out there somewhere.
But let's be honest it's easier for the slimmer ladies on dating sites - and everywhere else.
My weight has always fluctuated and I had a lot more male attention in the real world when I was slimmer.
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Absolutely I’m not denying that. It’s still true that there’s a lot of love for the larger ladies out there too. |
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I've been trying to date for 2 years.
I try to avoid the sexual talks the intimate ones not the discussion kind and sex because a relationship based on just sex I find doesn't go far.
But trying to find someone who doesn't want to fuck on 1st date is hard.
I don't even fuck for a first fab meet that's social only 2nd yes but not first. Finding a fwb or companion is easier than someone to date I've been on plussized apps and it really is just like here guys asking for pics and wanting video "chats" or one off hookups. I've only stuck with 1 app because it isn't as bad as the rest and I can be completely open about myself on it without idiots asking for pricelists and what not bollocks.
Dating I want to know more about a person if it's going to be an intimate relationship. FWB and playmates I only need specific info and knowing there's a connection, compatible personalities.
Either way though I have less luck finding a date or a compatible playmate
*forever alone* I'm going be the crazy cat lady before I'm 40 I'm sure so I should start writing a list of cat names il need it
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?!
I love a bbw. They are so bubbly and true!"
My butt is bubbly but I'm not sure I am |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been trying to date for 2 years.
I try to avoid the sexual talks the intimate ones not the discussion kind and sex because a relationship based on just sex I find doesn't go far.
But trying to find someone who doesn't want to fuck on 1st date is hard.
I don't even fuck for a first fab meet that's social only 2nd yes but not first. Finding a fwb or companion is easier than someone to date I've been on plussized apps and it really is just like here guys asking for pics and wanting video "chats" or one off hookups. I've only stuck with 1 app because it isn't as bad as the rest and I can be completely open about myself on it without idiots asking for pricelists and what not bollocks.
Dating I want to know more about a person if it's going to be an intimate relationship. FWB and playmates I only need specific info and knowing there's a connection, compatible personalities.
Either way though I have less luck finding a date or a compatible playmate
*forever alone* I'm going be the crazy cat lady before I'm 40 I'm sure so I should start writing a list of cat names il need it
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Ya to be fair I couldnt even get to the end of the post without wanting to fuck |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve done ok on dating sites. My issue is that the last time i was on a dating site at least 3 men who messaged me were men i chatted to on here  and the others just try and steer the convo to sex. I’d rather do all that on here so i can at least perve their cock.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The best advice I can give (although I’m single so probably not the best person to ask!!! Lol)
Is to just enjoy yourself, learn to love yourself then the right man will come along when you least expect it xx  |
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"I've been trying to date for 2 years.
I try to avoid the sexual talks the intimate ones not the discussion kind and sex because a relationship based on just sex I find doesn't go far.
But trying to find someone who doesn't want to fuck on 1st date is hard.
I don't even fuck for a first fab meet that's social only 2nd yes but not first. Finding a fwb or companion is easier than someone to date I've been on plussized apps and it really is just like here guys asking for pics and wanting video "chats" or one off hookups. I've only stuck with 1 app because it isn't as bad as the rest and I can be completely open about myself on it without idiots asking for pricelists and what not bollocks.
Dating I want to know more about a person if it's going to be an intimate relationship. FWB and playmates I only need specific info and knowing there's a connection, compatible personalities.
Either way though I have less luck finding a date or a compatible playmate
*forever alone* I'm going be the crazy cat lady before I'm 40 I'm sure so I should start writing a list of cat names il need it
Ya to be fair I couldnt even get to the end of the post without wanting to fuck"
Did you jizz a bit knowing il have a load of pussies, did the idea of all that pussy stroking finish you off? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been trying to date for 2 years.
I try to avoid the sexual talks the intimate ones not the discussion kind and sex because a relationship based on just sex I find doesn't go far.
But trying to find someone who doesn't want to fuck on 1st date is hard.
I don't even fuck for a first fab meet that's social only 2nd yes but not first. Finding a fwb or companion is easier than someone to date I've been on plussized apps and it really is just like here guys asking for pics and wanting video "chats" or one off hookups. I've only stuck with 1 app because it isn't as bad as the rest and I can be completely open about myself on it without idiots asking for pricelists and what not bollocks.
Dating I want to know more about a person if it's going to be an intimate relationship. FWB and playmates I only need specific info and knowing there's a connection, compatible personalities.
Either way though I have less luck finding a date or a compatible playmate
*forever alone* I'm going be the crazy cat lady before I'm 40 I'm sure so I should start writing a list of cat names il need it
Ya to be fair I couldnt even get to the end of the post without wanting to fuck
Did you jizz a bit knowing il have a load of pussies, did the idea of all that pussy stroking finish you off?"
Jesus you gavd cats? I didnt get that far  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ve done ok on dating sites. My issue is that the last time i was on a dating site at least 3 men who messaged me were men i chatted to on here and the others just try and steer the convo to sex. I’d rather do all that on here so i can at least perve their cock.
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Yeah know what your getting yourself into
Just want to meet someone decent, local,that hopefully hasn't been to jail and got 13 kids to different women...
I do t think it's much to ask personally |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some of the responses on here make me cringe.
OP I don’t think there is a right or wrong place to look. There is a great love for BBWs on Fab and also dating sites. Mr right is out there somewhere.
But let's be honest it's easier for the slimmer ladies on dating sites - and everywhere else.
My weight has always fluctuated and I had a lot more male attention in the real world when I was slimmer.
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Same tbf
It's always your pretty for a big girl or you would look so much better if you list some weight  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some of the responses on here make me cringe.
OP I don’t think there is a right or wrong place to look. There is a great love for BBWs on Fab and also dating sites. Mr right is out there somewhere.
But let's be honest it's easier for the slimmer ladies on dating sites - and everywhere else.
My weight has always fluctuated and I had a lot more male attention in the real world when I was slimmer.
Same tbf
It's always your pretty for a big girl or you would look so much better if you list some weight "
Your stunning hun an I would love to meet up with you |
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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago
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I hate trying to date. At least on here everyone is up front about just wanting sex. On dating apps they woo you and make you feel special then naff off once they've gotten what they want. I'm at peace with being forever single and just getting my jollies when I need to |
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"You can find a date anywhere you just just have to try and get to know someone not just for the looks..my opinon tho."
A lot of the guys on here wouldn't look twice at a BBW in the street.
Quite a few guys see bbws on here as easy targets, an easy lay. Which is why they complain no one meets them because they are quite mistaken.
But it's the same on dating sites they think BBW must be gagging for it.
It's hard finding someone to like you for you and not a quick fuck. |
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Bbws on dating sites often just show their head, and list 'prefer not to say' as their body shape etc.
I like curves, I like to see those curves before deciding to message. And wish people would categorise themselves so they're easier to find.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can find a date anywhere you just just have to try and get to know someone not just for the looks..my opinon tho.
A lot of the guys on here wouldn't look twice at a BBW in the street.
Quite a few guys see bbws on here as easy targets, an easy lay. Which is why they complain no one meets them because they are quite mistaken.
But it's the same on dating sites they think BBW must be gagging for it.
It's hard finding someone to like you for you and not a quick fuck."
im sorry you have meet people like that..talking for myself i respect women no matter the shape or size..but of course i have my preferences i dont fancy skinny women..and to be honest will looks twice to a bbw lady but not more to not look a perve. |
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"You can find a date anywhere you just just have to try and get to know someone not just for the looks..my opinon tho.
A lot of the guys on here wouldn't look twice at a BBW in the street.
Quite a few guys see bbws on here as easy targets, an easy lay. Which is why they complain no one meets them because they are quite mistaken.
But it's the same on dating sites they think BBW must be gagging for it.
It's hard finding someone to like you for you and not a quick fuck.im sorry you have meet people like that..talking for myself i respect women no matter the shape or size..but of course i have my preferences i dont fancy skinny women..and to be honest will looks twice to a bbw lady but not more to not look a perve."
Would you ever ask the woman out for a date? Offer to chat with them in a nightclub?
You'll find more socially acceptable people get offered drinks at the start of the night people chatting up the slender prettier women. Towards the end of the night they offer the less prettier women. I find it hilarious I'm a people watcher I enjoying seeing people's behaviours and interactions. Learning about who they are but it's common behaviour of guys on a night out to try pick up women in this manner.
So all in all its a lot harder to find dates as a plus sized without going to a plus sized event and even then it's usually sexualized than someone actually wanting to get to know you.
It's lovely to see couples because it gives hope one day il find someone who will love me for me. But I've also seen plus sized and slender couple ridiculed people sniping remarks such as why you with them you can do so much better. And I've been there myself had it said to my partner why you with her bullshit. It's a cruel shallow world.
Hearts not parts and love is love. Who cares as long as people are happy right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can find a date anywhere you just just have to try and get to know someone not just for the looks..my opinon tho.
A lot of the guys on here wouldn't look twice at a BBW in the street.
Quite a few guys see bbws on here as easy targets, an easy lay. Which is why they complain no one meets them because they are quite mistaken.
But it's the same on dating sites they think BBW must be gagging for it.
It's hard finding someone to like you for you and not a quick fuck.im sorry you have meet people like that..talking for myself i respect women no matter the shape or size..but of course i have my preferences i dont fancy skinny women..and to be honest will looks twice to a bbw lady but not more to not look a perve.
Would you ever ask the woman out for a date? Offer to chat with them in a nightclub?
You'll find more socially acceptable people get offered drinks at the start of the night people chatting up the slender prettier women. Towards the end of the night they offer the less prettier women. I find it hilarious I'm a people watcher I enjoying seeing people's behaviours and interactions. Learning about who they are but it's common behaviour of guys on a night out to try pick up women in this manner.
So all in all its a lot harder to find dates as a plus sized without going to a plus sized event and even then it's usually sexualized than someone actually wanting to get to know you.
It's lovely to see couples because it gives hope one day il find someone who will love me for me. But I've also seen plus sized and slender couple ridiculed people sniping remarks such as why you with them you can do so much better. And I've been there myself had it said to my partner why you with her bullshit. It's a cruel shallow world.
Hearts not parts and love is love. Who cares as long as people are happy right?"
yeah i would i did and i do..my thing if you can call it that is dinner out i thinks it breacks the ice a nice quiet fancy restaurant .not expecting nothing in return just a good chat itself i think its a great reward. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ll be honest .... the men on the dating site’s just want the sex anyway ( in my experience )
So, FAB is now my dating site"
I found that too
Totally agree. |
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"You can find a date anywhere you just just have to try and get to know someone not just for the looks..my opinon tho.
A lot of the guys on here wouldn't look twice at a BBW in the street.
Quite a few guys see bbws on here as easy targets, an easy lay. Which is why they complain no one meets them because they are quite mistaken.
But it's the same on dating sites they think BBW must be gagging for it.
It's hard finding someone to like you for you and not a quick fuck.im sorry you have meet people like that..talking for myself i respect women no matter the shape or size..but of course i have my preferences i dont fancy skinny women..and to be honest will looks twice to a bbw lady but not more to not look a perve.
Would you ever ask the woman out for a date? Offer to chat with them in a nightclub?
You'll find more socially acceptable people get offered drinks at the start of the night people chatting up the slender prettier women. Towards the end of the night they offer the less prettier women. I find it hilarious I'm a people watcher I enjoying seeing people's behaviours and interactions. Learning about who they are but it's common behaviour of guys on a night out to try pick up women in this manner.
So all in all its a lot harder to find dates as a plus sized without going to a plus sized event and even then it's usually sexualized than someone actually wanting to get to know you.
It's lovely to see couples because it gives hope one day il find someone who will love me for me. But I've also seen plus sized and slender couple ridiculed people sniping remarks such as why you with them you can do so much better. And I've been there myself had it said to my partner why you with her bullshit. It's a cruel shallow world.
Hearts not parts and love is love. Who cares as long as people are happy right?yeah i would i did and i do..my thing if you can call it that is dinner out i thinks it breacks the ice a nice quiet fancy restaurant .not expecting nothing in return just a good chat itself i think its a great reward."
I bid you luck in finding someone, it's a shame genuine people are always so far away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a very patiente person someone will come along .but to be honest women here find me boring so being genuine its fine its who i am but belive me dosnt bring many friends or women because in the end of the day most people go for looks but well everyones free will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fat. Have always been fat and never found this. I even got asked on a date while doing my shopping in Morrisons.
It drives me insane when people blame their size for the reason men don't want them.
Even through fab I've only shagged men who have socialled with me in public and want to do the whole fwb thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm fat. Have always been fat and never found this. I even got asked on a date while doing my shopping in Morrisons.
It drives me insane when people blame their size for the reason men don't want them.
Even through fab I've only shagged men who have socialled with me in public and want to do the whole fwb thing. "
I'm not blaming my size - it's the way I feel about myself- it shows!
I often dont meet people because I worry they will be disappointed.
Low self esteem isn't attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I seek out larger ladies, I've always been more attracted to fuller figures, however no matter how polite and well tailored the message is it's rare I get any replies, much like on here to be honest. It's the age old story women want a good man but always choose the bad boy, maybe I should start sending FAF messages instead |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can tell you right now ladies -
Honestly -
Truthfully -
And respectfully -
You have it very good in the UK and in Europe when it comes to men and what they find attractive and how they treat women of any shape.
It is very different in North America. So count your blessings.
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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago
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They do exist. It’s not all about a certain body type for everyone. They just find you attractive. Thinking about it my long relationships with men , they were athletic or average build. They didn’t ever comment on my weight. They loved me for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm fat. Have always been fat and never found this. I even got asked on a date while doing my shopping in Morrisons.
It drives me insane when people blame their size for the reason men don't want them.
Even through fab I've only shagged men who have socialled with me in public and want to do the whole fwb thing.
I'm not blaming my size - it's the way I feel about myself- it shows!
I often dont meet people because I worry they will be disappointed.
Low self esteem isn't attractive."
I am telling you this I'm totally envious of your body shape it's beautiful. Rock those stunning curves. Learn to love yourself x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve done ok on dating sites. My issue is that the last time i was on a dating site at least 3 men who messaged me were men i chatted to on here and the others just try and steer the convo to sex. I’d rather do all that on here so i can at least perve their cock.
Exactly this lol.
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"I'm fat. Have always been fat and never found this. I even got asked on a date while doing my shopping in Morrisons.
It drives me insane when people blame their size for the reason men don't want them.
Even through fab I've only shagged men who have socialled with me in public and want to do the whole fwb thing. "
Not surprised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm fat. Have always been fat and never found this. I even got asked on a date while doing my shopping in Morrisons.
It drives me insane when people blame their size for the reason men don't want them.
Even through fab I've only shagged men who have socialled with me in public and want to do the whole fwb thing.
Not surprised. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm fat. Have always been fat and never found this. I even got asked on a date while doing my shopping in Morrisons.
It drives me insane when people blame their size for the reason men don't want them.
Even through fab I've only shagged men who have socialled with me in public and want to do the whole fwb thing.
I'm not blaming my size - it's the way I feel about myself- it shows!
I often dont meet people because I worry they will be disappointed.
Low self esteem isn't attractive.
I am telling you this I'm totally envious of your body shape it's beautiful. Rock those stunning curves. Learn to love yourself x"
Aw thankyou Belle - I've always admired you - gorgeous in and out x
I wish I felt the same.
It's difficult to break a habit of a lifetime - even though I no longer go on fad diets and hate my body.
I still dont like it.
It's old now as well as fat 
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"I'm fat. Have always been fat and never found this. I even got asked on a date while doing my shopping in Morrisons.
It drives me insane when people blame their size for the reason men don't want them.
Even through fab I've only shagged men who have socialled with me in public and want to do the whole fwb thing.
I'm not blaming my size - it's the way I feel about myself- it shows!
I often dont meet people because I worry they will be disappointed.
Low self esteem isn't attractive.
I am telling you this I'm totally envious of your body shape it's beautiful. Rock those stunning curves. Learn to love yourself x
Aw thankyou Belle - I've always admired you - gorgeous in and out x
I wish I felt the same.
It's difficult to break a habit of a lifetime - even though I no longer go on fad diets and hate my body.
I still dont like it.
It's old now as well as fat
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But I just looked at one of your pictures and it’s got almost 2000 Fabs 
Maybe you look good, or do you think they’re all for picture composition and lighting? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you look good, or do you think they’re all for picture composition and lighting?"
well at least I know what career path to take now!
I can take flattering pictures of old fat people
We all know a picture means nothing Adam - everyone looks different in the flesh.
They also have my terrible personality to put up with |
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Maybe you look good, or do you think they’re all for picture composition and lighting?
well at least I know what career path to take now!
I can take flattering pictures of old fat people
We all know a picture means nothing Adam - everyone looks different in the flesh.
They also have my terrible personality to put up with "
True, your personality is dreadful. But any woman who’s been on Fab for a while will have the mental trauma so don’t be too hard on yourself |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm fat. Have always been fat and never found this. I even got asked on a date while doing my shopping in Morrisons.
It drives me insane when people blame their size for the reason men don't want them.
Even through fab I've only shagged men who have socialled with me in public and want to do the whole fwb thing. "
Are you trying to say there must be else something wrong with me? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Bbws on dating sites often just show their head, and list 'prefer not to say' as their body shape etc.
I like curves, I like to see those curves before deciding to message. And wish people would categorise themselves so they're easier to find. "
I always make sure there is a full body pic... Just do I'm not catfishing |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?!
I love a bbw. They are so bubbly and true!
Ya not like those miserable fake skinny women "
Those were your words not his. |
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?! "
I've given up on the dating sites, most of the guys on there are on here anyway. Or more pests than on here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?!
I love a bbw. They are so bubbly and true!
Ya not like those miserable fake skinny women
Those were your words not his. "
They were indeed.
I was pointing out the absurdity of catagorising someones personality traits by their body shape.
Prehaps I should have stated it as a straight out comment but I thought it illustrated the point well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can find a date anywhere you just just have to try and get to know someone not just for the looks..my opinon tho.
A lot of the guys on here wouldn't look twice at a BBW in the street.
Quite a few guys see bbws on here as easy targets, an easy lay. Which is why they complain no one meets them because they are quite mistaken.
But it's the same on dating sites they think BBW must be gagging for it.
It's hard finding someone to like you for you and not a quick fuck."
My ex is a plus size model |
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"Some guys, not a lot I admit actually like people for their personality rather than body shape or size.
Lots of men find bbw attractive also. "
So true. I'm an equal opportunities pervert. I like all shapes and all shapes can be sexy. Some people discount larger people, I certainly do not and find sexy bbws very attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll be honest .... the men on the dating site’s just want the sex anyway ( in my experience )
So, FAB is now my dating site"
At least here you know where you stand.....some dating sites are just scammers too.
Good chat and work at it, there are some genuine ones out there for us somewhere x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fat. Have always been fat and never found this. I even got asked on a date while doing my shopping in Morrisons.
It drives me insane when people blame their size for the reason men don't want them.
Even through fab I've only shagged men who have socialled with me in public and want to do the whole fwb thing.
Are you trying to say there must be else something wrong with me? "
I could throw that back at you... Are you saying being big is unattractive?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll be honest .... the men on the dating site’s just want the sex anyway ( in my experience )
So, FAB is now my dating site"
That is right every one want sex no matter what site lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But let's be honest it's easier for the slimmer ladies on dating sites - and everywhere else"
Extend that honesty to the fact that many guys would fuck a bin if it had a vagina. Surely the 6-to-1 ratio works in women's favour irrespective of whether you're "ample" or "curvy"? |
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?! "
Try cuddlyfreeandsingle for chubby chasers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But let's be honest it's easier for the slimmer ladies on dating sites - and everywhere else
Extend that honesty to the fact that many guys would fuck a bin if it had a vagina. Surely the 6-to-1 ratio works in women's favour irrespective of whether you're "ample" or "curvy"? "
True.
But the OP is looking to date not just sex.
Just sex is easy. |
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?! "
I've always been attracted to BBW and I have a number of friends that are the same so they definitely exist lol. I don't think your looking in the wrong places and it's good to be a little picky lol. But there are guys out there that appreciate the beauty of a larger lady 100%. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm fat. Have always been fat and never found this. I even got asked on a date while doing my shopping in Morrisons.
It drives me insane when people blame their size for the reason men don't want them.
Even through fab I've only shagged men who have socialled with me in public and want to do the whole fwb thing.
Are you trying to say there must be else something wrong with me?
I could throw that back at you... Are you saying being big is unattractive?
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But why would I say that as I'm BBW... That makes no sense |
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over a year ago
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"I’ll be honest .... the men on the dating site’s just want the sex anyway ( in my experience )
So, FAB is now my dating siteThat is right every one want sex no matter what site lol."
Amen brother |
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"I’ll be honest .... the men on the dating site’s just want the sex anyway ( in my experience )
So, FAB is now my dating site
And to be fair this is a better dating site anyway, at least everyone knows what everyone is looking for
Well yes only if it was that easy "
Yes, exactly...it *should* be easy, and fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?! "
I always think there is a lack off bbws around, I would have no problems dating one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm on a website where men can specify what women should weigh. They clearly have no concept of what 8 stone looks like.
I don't define myself by my size so don't see it like that. I've just gotten to the point where I think I'm in the not good enough to date but OK to fuck category.
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"I'm on a website where men can specify what women should weigh. They clearly have no concept of what 8 stone looks like.
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Lol. I wonder if thats because loads of women have told them they weigh 8stone.
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?!
Try cuddlyfreeandsingle for chubby chasers "
Is this full of feeders though? Because I don’t need help in that department! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?!
Try cuddlyfreeandsingle for chubby chasers
Is this full of feeders though? Because I don’t need help in that department!"
General fancy bbw more then a skinny woman dont know what it is but find bbw I can chat to more an look for same things as me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can find a date anywhere you just just have to try and get to know someone not just for the looks..my opinon tho.
A lot of the guys on here wouldn't look twice at a BBW in the street.
Quite a few guys see bbws on here as easy targets, an easy lay. Which is why they complain no one meets them because they are quite mistaken.
But it's the same on dating sites they think BBW must be gagging for it.
It's hard finding someone to like you for you and not a quick fuck."
That's exactly what I feel about this site. I've heard so much shit from men about BBW women, that fuck them for their "big asses and tits" /being "easy wet sluts"... But be seen in public with them or admit to seeing them, hell no. How nasty.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Massaged a few woman on thread an off but never giving a chance to show am genuine an no not posting to get sympathy just to show am very much interested in bbw |
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"I’ve done ok on dating sites. My issue is that the last time i was on a dating site at least 3 men who messaged me were men i chatted to on here and the others just try and steer the convo to sex. I’d rather do all that on here so i can at least perve their cock.
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Snap!
I periodically decide to settle down and have a proper relationship like a normal adult.
I sign up to a dating site rather than a hookup site and I rarely struggle in spite of looking like the back end of a bus.
I did notice when I signed up here a couple of men I've met from dating sites.
I can't talk, I've been on the same sites (both dating and hookup) - which sites I log into depends on my mood.
I've had some great dates, and in fairness I'm normally the one steering conversations to sex on the second date (not the first because I'm dead classy). |
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I don't have a lot of experience on other sites but when I have dipped my toe in I have only ever met people in a public place first. I've never felt like someone wasn't happy to be seen with me.
I have plenty of plus sized pals who have found their mate. It's more a case of finding the right chap to date than the right chap for now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"See so many of the guys off here on the dating sites too. X"
I'm on dating sites, ultimately I would like to find someone special, this is more social for me and if someone special comes along then they'll be informed about fab and if they dont like it and they are special it will go simple |
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"I don't have a lot of experience on other sites but when I have dipped my toe in I have only ever met people in a public place first. I've never felt like someone wasn't happy to be seen with me.
I have plenty of plus sized pals who have found their mate. It's more a case of finding the right chap to date than the right chap for now.
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Only ever once did I feel as though someone was embarrassed by me and that was a guy I met on here.
He has contacted me for a follow-up (he's very local) but fuck that shit.
I'd rather stay alone and wank the rest of my life than feel like someone is settling for me because I'm a convenient vagina. |
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over a year ago
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As an ex bbw i now realise many men like bbw but dont like the stigma from society so wont admit to being with one
I find it odd now that im not a secret anymore |
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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm always on the look out for big beautiful woman I have since a far back as I can remember loved a good curvy body.. But it's hard getting just the first chat out of them! I've had more luck the old fashioned way."
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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm always on the look out for big beautiful woman I have since a far back as I can remember loved a good curvy body.. But it's hard getting just the first chat out of them! I've had more luck the old fashioned way."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As an ex bbw i now realise many men like bbw but dont like the stigma from society so wont admit to being with one
I find it odd now that im not a secret anymore"
This!!!!! |
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"Do woman like bbm such as myself or do we make woman feel sick lol, I like to think of myself as rugby player style other would call be a fat ba:;-/(@"
Personally I like a well built chap, I like to feel a man’s weight on top of me, so yes some of us do like it very much  |
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over a year ago
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"Do woman like bbm such as myself or do we make woman feel sick lol, I like to think of myself as rugby player style other would call be a fat ba:;-/(@
Personally I like a well built chap, I like to feel a man’s weight on top of me, so yes some of us do like it very much "
Good to hear |
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"If you found a guy on a dating site and he was against swinging, would you still date him and give up swinging?  "
I had more meets on match . Com than fab they. Come across innocent but that’s not the case |
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"We met on Ti@&$er but we both made it clear from the outset what we were after or we wouldn't be compatible, luckily we both wanted the same thing now we've been here nearly 2 years as a couple "
Fair play his a lucky guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ll be honest .... the men on the dating site’s just want the sex anyway ( in my experience )
So, FAB is now my dating site"
I think it depends what dating sites you are going on if you go on tinder yes then it's not just men who are looking for sex women are at it too but if you go on sites like okcupid or bumble and the user Base is a bit more mature you may find you have a bit more success the the tinders pof and badoo well they just seem full of both sexes wanting fun |
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Yeah know what your getting yourself into
Just want to meet someone decent, local,that hopefully hasn't been to jail and got 13 kids to different women...
I do t think it's much to ask personally "
Its not fair
All the good (normal) girls all live miles away |
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"You can find a date anywhere you just just have to try and get to know someone not just for the looks..my opinon tho.
A lot of the guys on here wouldn't look twice at a BBW in the street.
Quite a few guys see bbws on here as easy targets, an easy lay. Which is why they complain no one meets them because they are quite mistaken.
But it's the same on dating sites they think BBW must be gagging for it.
It's hard finding someone to like you for you and not a quick fuck."
I would look more than twice |
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over a year ago
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"So I always struggle to find men on Normal dating sites that will date a larger lady... Am I looking in the wrong places, do they not exist or am I'm just picky?! "
I find it hard to believe to be honest with you, I’ve always been a big girl fluctuating between 18 and 22 I never struggle to attract or find a man, Maybe it’s how you carry yourself? I’m very confident and embrace my thick body |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can find a date anywhere you just just have to try and get to know someone not just for the looks..my opinon tho.
A lot of the guys on here wouldn't look twice at a BBW in the street.
Quite a few guys see bbws on here as easy targets, an easy lay. Which is why they complain no one meets them because they are quite mistaken.
But it's the same on dating sites they think BBW must be gagging for it.
It's hard finding someone to like you for you and not a quick fuck."
Really? can’t say that something I’ve ever experienced |
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over a year ago
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"Do woman like bbm such as myself or do we make woman feel sick lol, I like to think of myself as rugby player style other would call be a fat ba:;-/(@
Personally I like a well built chap, I like to feel a man’s weight on top of me, so yes some of us do like it very much "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty of guys would prefer to date BBW, they're often the most chatty, fun and genuine."
Many of us fat lasses have often developed a pleasing personality so that we are deemed attractive and worthy of notice.
Thankfully many younger women are breaking out of that mould, people pleasing less as a price they pay for a relationship
My thoughts anyway on the lovely cuddly personality bollox anyway. |
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My ex was a bbw and i wouldnt be against dating another or any body type so long as they truly loved me meant it and didn't just say it as part of there own agenda to rip my heart out and make my life feel meaningless All i want is to be loved and kept by a woman who i love and keep back in equal measure thats all x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I steer clear of those who use the term BBW, i love a woman with curves but these self confessed BBW’s come with a whole heap of attitude more time, particularly on Fab...yeah, i said it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I steer clear of those who use the term BBW, i love a woman with curves but these self confessed BBW’s come with a whole heap of attitude more time, particularly on Fab...yeah, i said it! "
You'll be surprised but I actually agree to a certain extent, despite my username.
I use it just so it is clear from the get go what people are getting. I'm paranoid that on first meets people will be like 'woooah' and disappointed if I wasn't 100% clear about my size.
I'd never use the term in real life or beyond my profile. |
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They do exist. The trouble is trying to find any that are decent. They're difficult to come by sadly.
Plus there is nothing wrong with knowing what you like and dislike. I wouldn't call it picky at all. |
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"I think there is a massive misconception that all men fancy skinny wwomen"
I don’t agree with that, I know many men that fancy bigger women.......but would they date or be seen in public with one? That’s the difference.
I get plenty of attention from men, but almost all the married/taken ones who are safely with the trophy woman & just want a bit on the side. They don’t want to be seen out in public with a plus sized woman. I can’t remember the last time I went on a date with a man, went out for a drink or for a meal. I’m only good enough for sneaking around with, so I don’t entertain them any more. I’m about to invest in a rocking chair & a cat |
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"I think there is a massive misconception that all men fancy skinny wwomen
I don’t agree with that, I know many men that fancy bigger women.......but would they date or be seen in public with one? That’s the difference.
I get plenty of attention from men, but almost all the married/taken ones who are safely with the trophy woman & just want a bit on the side. They don’t want to be seen out in public with a plus sized woman. I can’t remember the last time I went on a date with a man, went out for a drink or for a meal. I’m only good enough for sneaking around with, so I don’t entertain them any more. I’m about to invest in a rocking chair & a cat "
i'd be happy to be seen with you |
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"I’ll be honest .... the men on the dating site’s just want the sex anyway ( in my experience )
So, FAB is now my dating site
And to be fair this is a better dating site anyway, at least everyone knows what everyone is looking for "
Yes 99% of men on fab show off their bodies on cocks without asking... Its great and you get to know their sexual needs directly too. Definitely more efficient on fab than dating sites. Have you put on your status "any man loving bbw message me"? |
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I think its rubbish and excuse. Im 55 and been overweight most of my life ive never struggled to get a boyfriend oor get chatted up. look round society all kinds of people are coupled up. Fat, thin, plain people all kinds ofpeople |
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"The best advice I can give (although I’m single so probably not the best person to ask!!! Lol)
Is to just enjoy yourself, learn to love yourself then the right man will come along when you least expect it xx "
To be honest, this is good advice |
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I think it’s hard to to find a man who actually wants to date. Size, isn’t really a factor, I have single family members and friends, all shapes and sizes, races, with or without children, who find it hard to date. I’ve used BBW sites, plus the other usual ones and 90% of the time I either got a random cock pic sent or they just wanted talk about sex. My block lists we’re long x |
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"I think it’s hard to to find a man who actually wants to date. Size, isn’t really a factor, I have single family members and friends, all shapes and sizes, races, with or without children, who find it hard to date. I’ve used BBW sites, plus the other usual ones and 90% of the time I either got a random cock pic sent or they just wanted talk about sex. My block lists we’re long x"
Wow you look amazing! Gorgeous BBW X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont want to date.
I'm too fat - I prefer eating and Im too fat for anyone to see me naked in real life.
I'd rather just use men for sex "
Yes!!! This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I havent been on a dating site for many years.
I have dated here, it didnt work out.
I adjusted to just occasional liaisons now, I dont think anyone would want to date me, that I would like to date. I always punch above my weight (which is considerable) and they are more interested in sport fishing, than putting me in the keep net. |
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"I havent been on a dating site for many years.
I have dated here, it didnt work out.
I adjusted to just occasional liaisons now, I dont think anyone would want to date me, that I would like to date. I always punch above my weight (which is considerable) and they are more interested in sport fishing, than putting me in the keep net."
If I was a man I’d put you in my keep net! |
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"I havent been on a dating site for many years.
I have dated here, it didnt work out.
I adjusted to just occasional liaisons now, I dont think anyone would want to date me, that I would like to date. I always punch above my weight (which is considerable) and they are more interested in sport fishing, than putting me in the keep net.
If I was a man I’d put you in my keep net! "
Thanks Kitty, I think you are lovely too xx |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ll be honest .... the men on the dating site’s just want the sex anyway ( in my experience )
So, FAB is now my dating site"
Very true, after talking to them for a while, turns out they just want hook ups most of the time. |
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