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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself."
That bad? Get yourself on a new guest list!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in."
No, I couldn't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in.
No, I couldn't. "
Yes, you can.
Why can’t you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in.
No, I couldn't.
Yes, you can.
Why can’t you?"
Because in most social situations it's as much as I can do not to just leave. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in.
No, I couldn't.
Yes, you can.
Why can’t you?
Because in most social situations it's as much as I can do not to just leave."
Why? |
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in.
No, I couldn't.
Yes, you can.
Why can’t you?
Because in most social situations it's as much as I can do not to just leave."
That is not an uncommon feeling, my friend, and one that occurs in this household too. Join in with whatever you're comfortable with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in.
No, I couldn't.
Yes, you can.
Why can’t you?
Because in most social situations it's as much as I can do not to just leave."
Well leave then if you’re not enjoying it.
You seem to thrive on negativity.
In all the time I’ve been on here, probably about 6 years, you have constantly been negative about everything.
Why?
It must be so bloody draining for you but I’ve seen no attempt by you to change anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in.
No, I couldn't.
Yes, you can.
Why can’t you?
Because in most social situations it's as much as I can do not to just leave.
That is not an uncommon feeling, my friend, and one that occurs in this household too. Join in with whatever you're comfortable with. "
That's really not good enough, though, is it? Anything than plunging in with both fret is rude, unfriendly and makes people uncomfortable. You're not allowed to be shy or awkward or anxious, that's just being selfish. I've had that in writing. |
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Fab threads are like football, one minute you are so happy, jumping about because people are engaging happily and then VAR rules it out for offside based on half a centimetre of a left toe and it all goes downhill after that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in.
No, I couldn't.
Yes, you can.
Why can’t you?
Because in most social situations it's as much as I can do not to just leave.
Well leave then if you’re not enjoying it.
You seem to thrive on negativity.
In all the time I’ve been on here, probably about 6 years, you have constantly been negative about everything.
Why?
It must be so bloody draining for you but I’ve seen no attempt by you to change anything."
It's called depression. I'm sorry you find my suffering so inconvenient.
I stay because I'm TRYING to do better, but nothing I do is ever good enough. I'm negative because it's all I know. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in.
No, I couldn't.
Yes, you can.
Why can’t you?
Because in most social situations it's as much as I can do not to just leave.
That is not an uncommon feeling, my friend, and one that occurs in this household too. Join in with whatever you're comfortable with.
That's really not good enough, though, is it? Anything than plunging in with both fret is rude, unfriendly and makes people uncomfortable. You're not allowed to be shy or awkward or anxious, that's just being selfish. I've had that in writing."
I've just read your profile and you have stated clearly how you feel sometimes and what you go through. As someone earlier said just do what you are comfortable with, and I add what you can do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Fab threads are like football, one minute you are so happy, jumping about because people are engaging happily and then VAR rules it out for offside based on half a centimetre of a left toe and it all goes downhill after that "
That's humourous! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in.
No, I couldn't.
Yes, you can.
Why can’t you?
Because in most social situations it's as much as I can do not to just leave.
Well leave then if you’re not enjoying it.
You seem to thrive on negativity.
In all the time I’ve been on here, probably about 6 years, you have constantly been negative about everything.
Why?
It must be so bloody draining for you but I’ve seen no attempt by you to change anything.
It's called depression. I'm sorry you find my suffering so inconvenient.
I stay because I'm TRYING to do better, but nothing I do is ever good enough. I'm negative because it's all I know."
Nothing I do is ever good enough - who said that?
The only person who can make you better is yourself.
Nobody is asking for perfection.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in.
No, I couldn't.
Yes, you can.
Why can’t you?
Because in most social situations it's as much as I can do not to just leave.
Well leave then if you’re not enjoying it.
You seem to thrive on negativity.
In all the time I’ve been on here, probably about 6 years, you have constantly been negative about everything.
Why?
It must be so bloody draining for you but I’ve seen no attempt by you to change anything.
It's called depression. I'm sorry you find my suffering so inconvenient.
I stay because I'm TRYING to do better, but nothing I do is ever good enough. I'm negative because it's all I know.
Nothing I do is ever good enough - who said that?
The only person who can make you better is yourself.
Nobody is asking for perfection.
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You, for one, earlier in the thread.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Threads I participate in tend to be like parties - loads of people socialising and enjoying themselves, while I stand in the corner by myself.
You could go and join in.
No, I couldn't.
Yes, you can.
Why can’t you?
Because in most social situations it's as much as I can do not to just leave.
Well leave then if you’re not enjoying it.
You seem to thrive on negativity.
In all the time I’ve been on here, probably about 6 years, you have constantly been negative about everything.
Why?
It must be so bloody draining for you but I’ve seen no attempt by you to change anything.
It's called depression. I'm sorry you find my suffering so inconvenient.
I stay because I'm TRYING to do better, but nothing I do is ever good enough. I'm negative because it's all I know.
Nothing I do is ever good enough - who said that?
The only person who can make you better is yourself.
Nobody is asking for perfection.
You, for one, earlier in the thread.
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Calm down please. |
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