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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

with the forums sometimes have negativity on threads.

i have been mooching the past few hours and seen enough negativity that makes me feel like shouting if you aren't happy with the site delete profile

all do you think, well I wont be meeting him/her/them?

but i actually like fab and think they are doing a wonderful job x so thanks to the admins

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By *etillanteWoman  over a year ago

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Well said hun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I love fab its my friend and your right if thay are not happy and feel its not there thing thay should maybe go x we cant always like same things i know but the site is a good one and we are lucky having this.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

ive seen negativity since i first started using em

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"with the forums sometimes have negativity on threads.

i have been mooching the past few hours and seen enough negativity that makes me feel like shouting if you aren't happy with the site delete profile

all do you think, well I wont be meeting him/her/them?

but i actually like fab and think they are doing a wonderful job x so thanks to the admins "

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley

To be fair still laughing at that admin post to the now single man. Said it before special gift to make people laugh and how I laughed real dry sense of hulour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"To be fair still laughing at that admin post to the now single man. Said it before special gift to make people laugh and how I laughed real dry sense of hulour. "

yeah that made me laugh as well a dry sense of humour

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"To be fair still laughing at that admin post to the now single man. Said it before special gift to make people laugh and how I laughed real dry sense of hulour.

yeah that made me laugh as well a dry sense of humour "

Was def a jimmy Carr moment admin should take it on stage

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"To be fair still laughing at that admin post to the now single man. Said it before special gift to make people laugh and how I laughed real dry sense of hulour.

yeah that made me laugh as well a dry sense of humour

Was def a jimmy Carr moment admin should take it on stage "

needs a awaard for def x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"with the forums sometimes have negativity on threads.

i have been mooching the past few hours and seen enough negativity that makes me feel like shouting if you aren't happy with the site delete profile

all do you think, well I wont be meeting him/her/them?

but i actually like fab and think they are doing a wonderful job x so thanks to the admins "

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"To be fair still laughing at that admin post to the now single man. Said it before special gift to make people laugh and how I laughed real dry sense of hulour.

yeah that made me laugh as well a dry sense of humour

Was def a jimmy Carr moment admin should take it on stage

needs a awaard for def x"

Now there's a thought a fab awards night

The award for the best admin help goes too.....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Do you not think that to a degree negagtivity is built into us Brits ?

1 thread about bad customer service - 45 posts in the first 2 hours of being posted

1 thread about good customer service - 8 posts in the same time

We are too quick to mention the things that don't go in our favour, yet those that do are not given any special treatment.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham

Oh bloody do one OP!!!!!!!!

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By *etillanteWoman  over a year ago

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"Do you not think that to a degree negagtivity is built into us Brits ?

1 thread about bad customer service - 45 posts in the first 2 hours of being posted

1 thread about good customer service - 8 posts in the same time

We are too quick to mention the things that don't go in our favour, yet those that do are not given any special treatment."

So true, it has always been said if you do a good job maybe one or two will hear about it. A bad, every mother and her son will.

By the way Good answer Bussy

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh bloody do one OP!!!!!!!! "

erm so u arent staying with me at the next bbw

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"Oh bloody do one OP!!!!!!!!

erm so u arent staying with me at the next bbw "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Oh bloody do one OP!!!!!!!!

erm so u arent staying with me at the next bbw

"

well then biatch shut up

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By *aceytopWoman  over a year ago

from a town near you

if you get a group of people together you will always have some negativity its human nature.

i for one love the forums,when i was off work for 7 weeks they kept me sane with the banter and humour,and i thanked everybody.

it doesnt matter that we dont all agree all the time,we couldnt possibly,but thats why we all keep coming back for more,and most of the time its good to hear other peoples view on things

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By *aceytopWoman  over a year ago

from a town near you

ps and it can be hilarious

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple  over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"Oh bloody do one OP!!!!!!!! "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

there does seem to be a lot of negativity around lately on here to be fair..

I know..lets all have fun instead..

cali

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple  over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"if you get a group of people together you will always have some negativity its human nature.

i for one love the forums,when i was off work for 7 weeks they kept me sane with the banter and humour,and i thanked everybody.

it doesnt matter that we dont all agree all the time,we couldnt possibly,but thats why we all keep coming back for more,and most of the time its good to hear other peoples view on things "

Some people dont feel so, banter is good, so is logic...some would rather just block you, wer not offended by anyone that blocks us, it clears the way for the easy going swingers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"there does seem to be a lot of negativity around lately on here to be fair..

I know..lets all have fun instead..

cali "

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"there does seem to be a lot of negativity around lately on here to be fair..

I know..lets all have fun instead..

cali "

I have been thinking people been getting on well in forums some are missing but thats life . xx

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple  over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"there does seem to be a lot of negativity around lately on here to be fair..

I know..lets all have fun instead..

cali "

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By *am sampsonMan  over a year ago

cwmbran


"Do you not think that to a degree negagtivity is built into us Brits ?

1 thread about bad customer service - 45 posts in the first 2 hours of being posted

1 thread about good customer service - 8 posts in the same time

We are too quick to mention the things that don't go in our favour, yet those that do are not given any special treatment."

Probably in proportion to people's experiences

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"there does seem to be a lot of negativity around lately on here to be fair..

I know..lets all have fun instead..

cali "

sorry miss im not allowed fun

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"with the forums sometimes have negativity on threads.

i have been mooching the past few hours and seen enough negativity that makes me feel like shouting if you aren't happy with the site delete profile

all do you think, well I wont be meeting him/her/them?

but i actually like fab and think they are doing a wonderful job x so thanks to the admins "

are you paid by commision, hourly rate or just in sexual favours ?

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By *umourCouple  over a year ago

Rushden

No question, the whole site is a good site, but negativity is part of that. Everyone has bad days and I have seen some really nice posters get arsey about things. There is one thread going at the moment about Mods, it is not (for the most part) negative, just looking for answers..

Looks like the OP is saying that rather than try to resolve issues, people should shut up or leave! That people who have had something bad happen, shouldn't tell others about them! When was the last time a guy walked into a pub and said "Hi guys, my car is running just as it should be, anyone want a pint?" lol

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple  over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"No question, the whole site is a good site, but negativity is part of that. Everyone has bad days and I have seen some really nice posters get arsey about things. There is one thread going at the moment about Mods, it is not (for the most part) negative, just looking for answers..

Looks like the OP is saying that rather than try to resolve issues, people should shut up or leave! That people who have had something bad happen, shouldn't tell others about them! When was the last time a guy walked into a pub and said "Hi guys, my car is running just as it should be, anyone want a pint?" lol "

Hear hear! Some just like to air their lives in public, just look at the chat shows on tv, hmmmmmmm, sounds a lil like chat rooms....doesnt? Difference of opinion will always be there, its a swing site, lets swing.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"with the forums sometimes have negativity on threads.

i have been mooching the past few hours and seen enough negativity that makes me feel like shouting if you aren't happy with the site delete profile

all do you think, well I wont be meeting him/her/them?

but i actually like fab and think they are doing a wonderful job x so thanks to the admins "

must be a malfunction with your computer I can see all pics in glorious colour (cept the cardboard cutouts).

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By *ovedupstillCouple  over a year ago

mullinwire

i think its sometimes good to have a moan about something you really like, otherwise you start taking it for granted.

why argue with your OH if you didnt love them?

its because you have opinions and want them to be heard, thats all.

all is good once the rant is over

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By *issbehaveCouple  over a year ago

wrexham


"there does seem to be a lot of negativity around lately on here to be fair..

I know..lets all have fun instead..

cali "

It's the weather!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No question, the whole site is a good site, but negativity is part of that. Everyone has bad days and I have seen some really nice posters get arsey about things. There is one thread going at the moment about Mods, it is not (for the most part) negative, just looking for answers..

Looks like the OP is saying that rather than try to resolve issues, people should shut up or leave! That people who have had something bad happen, shouldn't tell others about them! When was the last time a guy walked into a pub and said "Hi guys, my car is running just as it should be, anyone want a pint?" lol "

The op (me) wasn't saying or meaning that but some are always negative and not just some of the time!

Surely if the site u was on made u feel like above, Why be on here!

Sure we all have off days but some have more than most.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think its time for a fabs love in who fancies going into one of the chatrooms and having a giggle its been a while be good to touch base.

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"No question, the whole site is a good site, but negativity is part of that. Everyone has bad days and I have seen some really nice posters get arsey about things. There is one thread going at the moment about Mods, it is not (for the most part) negative, just looking for answers..

Looks like the OP is saying that rather than try to resolve issues, people should shut up or leave! That people who have had something bad happen, shouldn't tell others about them! When was the last time a guy walked into a pub and said "Hi guys, my car is running just as it should be, anyone want a pint?" lol

The op (me) wasn't saying or meaning that but some are always negative and not just some of the time!

Surely if the site u was on made u feel like above, Why be on here!

Sure we all have off days but some have more than most. "

Jacq's

There's no pleasing some

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple  over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"I think its time for a fabs love in who fancies going into one of the chatrooms and having a giggle its been a while be good to touch base."

Hang on, just check ur face pics lol, i mean really, i know we all like to see a nice look in someone but how many people are actually THAT gross? Pics are rarely accurate. Wer considering having stage lighting in our porch and employing a couple makeup artists so the Hollywood/Photoshoppers look the same when they arrive....quick....hire a mercedes and park it on the drive! False bullshit and so so American!

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


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Some people dont feel so, banter is good, so is logic...some would rather just block you, wer not offended by anyone "

Anyone in particular you are thinking of

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By *ezebelWoman  over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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Hang on, just check ur face pics lol, i mean really, i know we all like to see a nice look in someone but how many people are actually THAT gross? Pics are rarely accurate.

"

Hope Im misreading that...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Hang on, just check ur face pics lol, i mean really, i know we all like to see a nice look in someone but how many people are actually THAT gross? Pics are rarely accurate.

Hope Im misreading that..."

Quickly removes profile picture that resembles Brad Pitt.......

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By *ucsparkMan  over a year ago

dudley


"

Hang on, just check ur face pics lol, i mean really, i know we all like to see a nice look in someone but how many people are actually THAT gross? Pics are rarely accurate.

Hope Im misreading that..."

Me too or is it a bad taste joke

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By *ezebelWoman  over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

Hang on, just check ur face pics lol, i mean really, i know we all like to see a nice look in someone but how many people are actually THAT gross? Pics are rarely accurate.

Hope Im misreading that...

Quickly removes profile picture that resembles Brad Pitt....... "

Sorry it was the inclusion of someones elses post before that response that I was referring to....

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think its time for a fabs love in who fancies going into one of the chatrooms and having a giggle its been a while be good to touch base.

Hang on, just check ur face pics lol, i mean really, i know we all like to see a nice look in someone but how many people are actually THAT gross? Pics are rarely accurate. Wer considering having stage lighting in our porch and employing a couple makeup artists so the Hollywood/Photoshoppers look the same when they arrive....quick....hire a mercedes and park it on the drive! False bullshit and so so American! "

nah been in there all day

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By *uvi n Jolly RogCouple  over a year ago

West Somerset... Near Butlins


"

Hang on, just check ur face pics lol, i mean really, i know we all like to see a nice look in someone but how many people are actually THAT gross? Pics are rarely accurate.

Hope Im misreading that...

Me too or is it a bad taste joke "

Not meant as an insult in anyway, its true, whats the first thing ur asked for, assuming its not just the random friend invite on contacting someone? You message someone with a nice intro, they either delete it or ignore you, but....if you challenge why....oh oh...all guns blazing....personally we think someone who cant even acknowledge someone is a complete £$&%&%*%^.

One fem yesterday....Nice Intro....reply....u gt pics en....yes she was welsh lol

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By *ushroom7Man  over a year ago

Bradford

Negativity comes in more disguises than you would believe. More rife than you can sheikh a stick at.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"

Negativity comes in more disguises than you would believe. More rife than you can sheikh a stick at.

"

fucking hell mushy u swallowed a dictatory x

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"

Negativity comes in more disguises than you would believe. More rife than you can sheikh a stick at.

fucking hell mushy u swallowed a dictatory x"

Just wait til it emerges the other side...;-)

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By *ushroom7Man  over a year ago

Bradford


"

Negativity comes in more disguises than you would believe. More rife than you can sheikh a stick at.

fucking hell mushy u swallowed a dictatory x"

Maybe so. The abacus was a bit out though.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

you can't please everyone all of the time... i'm not entirely happy with the whole site and the way its run but i'm here because its a means to an end and a good way to keep in contact with people i have met from off the site...

people have a right to air their concerns to the admins and the admin have a right to ignore those concerns if they so choose... thats the wonderful world of the internet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

i dont care who i please long as i please the main person ME

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

and i was joking

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By *phroditeWoman  over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"and i was joking "
I bet there were quite a few blokes salivating at the thought of watching you please yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"and i was joking I bet there were quite a few blokes salivating at the thought of watching you please yourself "

usually on cam when there dicks are in the hands and they are telling me i am the best thing since sliced bread

see i took one for the team just not in real life

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By *umourCouple  over a year ago

Rushden


"No question, the whole site is a good site, but negativity is part of that. Everyone has bad days and I have seen some really nice posters get arsey about things. There is one thread going at the moment about Mods, it is not (for the most part) negative, just looking for answers..

Looks like the OP is saying that rather than try to resolve issues, people should shut up or leave! That people who have had something bad happen, shouldn't tell others about them! When was the last time a guy walked into a pub and said "Hi guys, my car is running just as it should be, anyone want a pint?" lol

The op (me) wasn't saying or meaning that but some are always negative and not just some of the time!

Surely if the site u was on made u feel like above, Why be on here!

Sure we all have off days but some have more than most.

Jacq's

There's no pleasing some"

_ucspark... What do you mean by that? I just stated an opinion and point of view. Not very becoming trying to get into someones pants in that way!

Jacq's

Yeah, you are right, some really do seem to have off days on a regular basis. lol I have off days too and sometimes I can get a bit arsey!, but I hope it's not more often than not!

Perhaps some just spend too much time on here and it has becaome "normal"! Therefore they act as they would in normal life, instead of it being something special..

Forgive me if I miss-understood your OP.. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No question, the whole site is a good site, but negativity is part of that. Everyone has bad days and I have seen some really nice posters get arsey about things. There is one thread going at the moment about Mods, it is not (for the most part) negative, just looking for answers..

Looks like the OP is saying that rather than try to resolve issues, people should shut up or leave! That people who have had something bad happen, shouldn't tell others about them! When was the last time a guy walked into a pub and said "Hi guys, my car is running just as it should be, anyone want a pint?" lol

The op (me) wasn't saying or meaning that but some are always negative and not just some of the time!

Surely if the site u was on made u feel like above, Why be on here!

Sure we all have off days but some have more than most.

Jacq's

There's no pleasing some

_ucspark... What do you mean by that? I just stated an opinion and point of view. Not very becoming trying to get into someones pants in that way!

Jacq's

Yeah, you are right, some really do seem to have off days on a regular basis. lol I have off days too and sometimes I can get a bit arsey!, but I hope it's not more often than not!

Perhaps some just spend too much time on here and it has becaome "normal"! Therefore they act as they would in normal life, instead of it being something special..

Forgive me if I miss-understood your OP.. x"

no you read it right and understood me way to go !!!!!!!

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By *emmefataleWoman  over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Huge turn off

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